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| 42 | How to approach in loud clubs? | litt_up | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 07:23 PM |
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| 2 | Does hanging out with a more attractive guy yield better chances for you to pick up a more attractive girl?The worst thing you can do in this situation is have the mindset that you are the second option. Be the best person you can possibly be and don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 14/06/15 12:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to the bar last night, brought a lesbian home.OP didn't explicitly say he fucked her anyway. @op if you did though, give yourself a pat on the back for changing a woman's sexual orientation within hours | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 09:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] asked out girl at the counter in a food shopHow the fuck.. I couldn't read through that wall of text if you paid me | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 09:36 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to date if OkCupid, Tinder, and Dil Mil have failed me?I always find that interacting with women in person is easier. Through messaging a lot of sarcasm gets lost since they don't really know what your personality is like. You also can't escalate on a physical level, it just complicates the whole interaction. This is why I'll be straightforward on tinder and only use it for hookups every so often. I'd say about 80% of my matches don't want to take it further, but if I were with these same girls in person I could get much better results. Using a sout… | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 09:22 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Approached two different girls, ended in rejectionGood effort, but in general approaching a girl from behind usually ends up badly. Make sure she can see you as you walk up. Also, following her for a couple hundred feet is a bit weird if she noticed you before, take what you want as soon as you see it. 3 second rule my man. Kinda drunk right now but hope that advice helped haha. Keep it up | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 09:12 AM |
| 4 | She liked me, please help!There was no reason for you not to at least try. She was clearly interested, and there was absolutely nothing to lose. Even if she didn't react ideally, it'd be better than sitting there wondering and loathing in regret. Next time just count to 3 and go for it! | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 06:55 AM |
| 52 | What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me?Teasing them and even subtly insulting them shows them that you're not gonna give them value right off the bat. This will drive many women furious to figure out why they're not good enough for you and to seek your validation. Many women base their self-worth on others' perceptions of them, and when every guy is coming up to these girls and complimenting them you'd be a breath of fresh air by denying her of that validation. Edit: just to clarify, this_weirdo_chick pointed out that this is not the… | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I'm holding myself back from approaching girls because there is no finish line?I live about 35 minutes from downtown in my city and I'm still able to get girls to get into a taxi with me. Not as easy as if you lived down the street but definitely manageable. I live alone right now but I've also been able to bring girls back to my parents' place. Usually it's 3am and everyone is asleep so no big deal. | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Seduction around the world, is it easier?Agreed, I'm a fairly good looking guy and I live in Montreal which is likely the best Canadian city for partying, and I rarely get girls coming up to me unless the girl is super drunk. I'll get girls giving me suggestive eyes but usually here they wait for the guys to approach. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 07:08 AM |
| 1 | This is my cheat sheet. Might be beneficial for some of you.There's a distinction between confidence and arrogance, my friend | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 02:44 AM |
| 2 | How do I actually get laid?Cocky bio + a mix of me doing interesting things and shirtless pics(if you're in shape). I open with the mindset that we can have fun and if not it's her loss. I don't place her on a pedestal. The cocky bio works because there's so many options for girls on tinder that you MUST act like that catch and play hard to get after you've hooked their attention | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 05:01 AM |
| 3 | How do I actually get laid?Both to their houses. Usually girls won't invite you to their house when they haven't even met you yet which is why my success rate could be a lot higher. I had to spit some serious texting game to get there lol. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 04:57 AM |
| 10 | How do I actually get laid?I've slept with 2 girls in 2 weeks on Tinder. Could've been more but I can't take them back to my house and that turns many girls off. This was a few months back and before I realized that I should be building emotional connections with women before hopping into bed with them. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 01:52 AM |
| 19 | When to lead vs when to act coolThis. Your time is valuable, don't change your schedule to make room for her if she wouldn't do the same for you. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What is your signature approach at party scene? What do you do or say?I'll usually comment on an accessory or piece of clothing. Something personal is always better. Or if you're alone say that you lost your friend(s) and you're looking for new ones. Or simply "how's your night going?". Doesn't really matter very much. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Animated How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie (Video)attractive behaviour is attractive behaviour. Whether it nets you friends or potential partners is irrelevant in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 11:22 PM |
| 20 | Animated How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie (Video)I don't agree with the part about always agreeing with others and never telling them they're wrong. A good technique to create attraction is to show a girl that you aren't afraid to disagree with her and show your opinion as well as be assertive. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to pass a shit test. The sex was nice afterwards.I see some people hating on OP but they don't know how his relationship is with this girl. I know girls that like to play games and cancel plans just to seem less invested. Good job OP. | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Was this flirting or am I that bad at reading women?I was about to say there wasn't a wrong reaction here, but lo and behold... This would work if it was in a private setting with someone who you knew was somewhat receptive already | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 03:43 PM |
| 4 | I noticed today how powerful a good smell is.I have Versace Eros and it smells great. Women seem to love it but I don't put an awful lot (1 spray on chest, 1 spray on wrists) so usually they'll notice it when we're up close and personal which I don't mind. | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 12:32 PM |
| 9 | Guy Picks Up Arabic Girl in Front of her FatherTranslation: As soon as the mother arrived she said "who's this guy" and she replied "tell him that I came with you guys and I can't go with him. He wants to get to know me. Tell him you're my mother". The mother replies "no" lol. Then later when he asks for the number she tells her mother "I don't want to give him my number". A lot of pressure on her with her whole family around so still impressive, especially handling the father and maintaining your frame. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 09:17 PM |
| 2 | At 51 am I too old to try and meet 36 year old women?It's not "hiding his age" so much as "trying to look more attractive." | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 07:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Approached at fucking McDonalds.Great story, but "Je nais se pas quand" actually means "I don't know when". Judging by the time and the amount of homeless people I'm assuming you were at the mcdonalds on Atwater in downtown montreal? Great place to meet women imo. I was there last Saturday and two girls walked up to our group and started flirting with us quite blatantly | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 04:21 AM |
| 7 | Dick is too Shy?This isn't a bad idea. Theoretically, the girl should want you even more after pulling a move like this and showing her you're not desperate. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Alcohol-fueled college romp, questionable f-close.Drunk seduction works better for me | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 06:13 AM |
| 3 | A technique I used to get a girl to kiss ME for a K-close in a night club. Thought I'd shareNow it's his friend's turn. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?This is what OP needs to hear. Spot on. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 04:40 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Easy exchange of number and K-close technique in bar/party settingsAgreed. A lot of people say just go in for the kiss but I personally like to lead into it somehow. Sometimes I'll comment on her being a bad kisser, and she'll start saying how she's definitely a good kisser so I'll say "I don't believe you" with a grin and go in for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 03:43 PM |
| 5 | how big of a factor is sleep?Fucking huge. If I don't sleep well, I'm so off rhythm and out of state. I feel like I'm a couple of seconds late on every reaction. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 06:53 PM |
| 6 | I went for it80% might be overkill | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 12:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close second time we meet, then unsure of where I stand upon the next time around...Don't lie, Dick | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 03:15 AM |
| 5 | CONVERSATION, one of the main reasons I've always been afraid to go on an actual date is because the thought of conversation terrifies me!!! Any help or advice?By any chance did you happen to work in sales at a ford dealership? | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to be DominantPerhaps I'm not as level-headed as you guys here or Tyler, but I think he handled it perfectly. I personally don't have the patience for that shit and if someone randomly calls me a "cunt" it's probably ending in a fight. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 06:22 AM |
| 0 | What books are helpful for game? I enjoy reading them.I wish I could down vote you more than once. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How can I look more approachable?Index finger confused: not sure whether to upvote or not | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately.skin tone I think you mean vocal tone? | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 12:22 AM |
| 0 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately.I think it has some good points. Calm, confident easy going guy who has his own things going on and doesn't get too clingy or place too much value on any one woman has women swarming around him | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 12:18 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with HPV?Last 3 times I had sex I went raw. After reading this post I've made my decision. I went out and bought a pack of condoms and will learn to love them. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Accidental embarrassing textInb4 follow up story where you two bangout | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 09:55 PM |
| 15 | I work with the developmentally disabled, and one of my residents is the greatest wingman that ever fucking lived.Wait... A disease that grants you "an unusually cheerful demeanor and ease with strangers"? Sounds like most of seddit's goals. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 06:34 AM |
| 5 | A Facebook Gem about "Nice Guys"Looks don't matter as much as you think they do. Unless you're hideous or disfigured, there's many many factors that are more important. On that note, usually "nice guys" will just agree with anything a girl says, have no boundaries and are often indecisive; this is what leads girls to not be attracted to them. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 06:30 AM |
| 4 | I realize a lot of people are turned off by RSD but it has changed my life.Ov course m8 | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 05:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR][K-close] "Looks aren't enough" - how to react to this response?How the fuck did I miss this one | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] How do you handle a 5+ girl rotation? Experienced guys only pleaseSometimes I'll bring up something I thought the girl I'm with told me in the past and she'll be like "uhh.. I never said that" and I'll have to make some excuse about having bad memory problems lol. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 08:47 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Going clubbing alone is a good way to practice not giving a shit about rejection, and meet homophobesAfter that a guy started dancing with me, which I had no problem with. He kissed me on the cheek, I kissed him back, then he started subtly nuzzling my neck. At that point I realised I was maybe leading him on so I stopped. http://img.pandawhale.com/post-29155-Blink-182-WHAT-THE-FUCK-gif-Im-YEwO.gif | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women while staying soberEverything in moderation. Personally, I feel that 2-3 drinks loosens me up a bit but at the same time I like to challenge myself every other weekend and try gaming sober. After warming up a bit it feels the same, and the bonus is no damn whiskey dick. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 06:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Sticky Note OpenerAm I the only one that feels like this is too much effort and might make you come off as a try hard? | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 12:18 AM |
| 5 | [FR] I posted yesterday, about being nervous about a huge frat party. This was my night...dis college prolly got dem English classes | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you introduce yourself to an already established group of friends?Introduce yourself to all of them. Give attention to all of them equally and always start the conversation. Eventually they'll see that you're a fun guy and they'll be lining up to talk to you. | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 02:03 AM |
| 1 | To the PhDs here - how was your college/campus experience?The fact that you are considering taking your degree in Montreal means it doesn't really matter what school or field you're in. There isn't a huge campus life at any university there, except arguably McGill but even then everybody goes out downtown to party. You are bound to find beautiful women anywhere you go downtown so don't worry about it too much. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 07:10 PM |
| 0 | [FR] SOOO unexpected - K-close and almost F-closeNo offence but it sounds like you've got huge insecurities. You probably come off as a desperate beta to most girls. I hope you didn't message her asking why she didn't sleep with you? That implies you're not confident enough to think that it has nothing to do with you. Stick around here more and start focusing on self improvement and accepting yourself for who you are. Glad you had a good night though. | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is more important, a car or your own place?Having sex back at your place > car sex. Just make sure it's not too far from all the action. | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 09:24 PM |
| 1 | One Tip that gets me killer eye contact and smileWhat if I've got a bad lazy eye? And eye contact is the most important thing... | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Why Approaching is Like Mortal Kombat.This is awesome advice. I do great on weekends, literally the most social guy in the group most if not all of the time. Problem is, I subconsciously configure my brain to think that fridays and saturdays are the only times to be social. For example, earlier today as I was walking from my car to my building carrying water, a girl passes in front of me, looks at me for a second then quickly looks away. Didn't even catch eye contact, whatever. Thought she wasn't interested since she looked away so … | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I want to stop drinkingI'd rather get a drink than a Pepsi. Get a water, especially if you're not drinking due to health concerns. | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 04:19 AM |
| 2 | RSD free tour - Has anybody been/is anybody going?What are the major differences between these free events and the $500 ones? | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 02:42 AM |
| 1 | LR: The Foxy ModelShe wouldn't agree to meet you again? Meaning you didn't please her well enough in bed, or am I missing something? | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 04:20 AM |
| 7 | any of you bald? Has it affected your game?The title of this thread should be changed to "any of you have insecurities?" | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Going out to bars/clubs alone?Montreal actually. The amount of beautiful, well dressed women is unbelievable. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Going out to bars/clubs alone?Canada. It's 18 in most provinces. Actually, most of the world has a legal drinking age of 18 or lower | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 04:48 PM |
| 7 | How to Meet (and Fuck) Girls on Public TransportDid you even read the article? | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Starting a relatively small school (5k undergrad) next week. How do I game the first week but at the same time avoid being known as the creepy pick up guy?Focus less on picking up girls and more on socializing. Talk to guys too, just keep building a social circle within the first few weeks as this is the time when people don't really know anyone. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 09:39 PM |
| 2 | While traveling, language barrier is really destroying my game, what can I do?That's your problem right there. It doesn't really matter what you say, it's how you say it. You can simply look at a girl and with the proper eye contact and body language she'll be attracted to you. Watch this video about physical escalation: http://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 09:38 PM |
| 3 | While traveling, language barrier is really destroying my game, what can I do?The language barrier is perfect for a guy with bad conversation skills. You can just laugh with them, have good eye contact and body language, slowly initiate kino and they'll get the message. What you say isn't anywhere near as important as how you say it. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Starting a relatively small school (5k undergrad) next week. How do I game the first week but at the same time avoid being known as the creepy pick up guy?Be natural and social. Stop using canned lines and focus on letting everything flow out comfortably and natural. You won't be known as the creepy pick up guy, you'll be known as the sociable friendly guy everybody wants to be friends with. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 08:12 PM |
| 2 | MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket..Solid power turn around by saying "stay out of trouble". It's almost like you're stripping away her power as a police officer and treating her like a child. | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 12:40 AM |
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