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NO WAY the above two reasons would fly as an excuse for me getting another girls number while im in a 1.5 year relationship with a girl. its a two way street, miss Really, your argument is completely irrelevant to the issue at hand. Regardless of whether or not I would be okay with these reasons as excuses to get other girls' numbers, the fact is not changed that I have given out my number for the (completely innocent) reasons I mentioned, and my boyfriend may have rolled his eyes and shook his …
/r/seduction18/07/11 06:24 AM
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I'm a little late here... but I just want to say that I'm a girl, and I've done this. The main reasons, in my experience, are the following: We had a really good, deep conversation and the guy is involved in similar things so I see him as a potential friend (most of my friends are guys anyway). Sometimes, it's a lot easier to just give a guy your number than sit there for 10 minutes trying to be nice and let him down gently. You can always ignore the call later. As for (2.), yes, I know, it's no…
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:47 PM
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Okay, I fixed/reworded my original post to clarify some points. What do you think about it now?
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:19 PM
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If you've spent any time on seddit I think you'll see most guys here are looking for relationships. Be that as it may, "seduction" is looked at differently by guys vs. girls (even guys who are looking for relationships vs. girls who are looking for relationships). I'd say that, in general, the emphasis for men is more on having sex and then thinking about the future, while women tend to focus on the relationship potential and have sex as a part of that. (And that's what I meant by my previous st…
/r/seduction17/07/11 04:54 PM
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I personally prefer the description, "methods in which to improve your inner self so as to make yourself more attractive to women". Great, that's exactly what I was talking about. Women use make-up to make themselves more attractive to guys, guys use seduction to make themselves more attractive to women. That's an oversimplification. Make-up may help women with the initial approach (or help them to BE approached), but I would hope it would take a little more than just make-up to close the deal. …
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:33 PM
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If you haven't had the best luck with the ladies, it's almost certainly not due to just one thing like that. I mean, I think you have to look at more than just your size - the rest of your look, your confidence level, your life issues, your seduction skills. Oh, also, are you healthy and active? Because if you're overweight but you're working out and trying to eat right, then that's good. On the other hand, if you're overweight and sit around and play video games and eat cheeseburgers and drink …
/r/seduction16/07/11 07:45 AM
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I feel your pain like you don't even know. Sometimes you can do all the hardest parts perfectly, and then just get screwed in the end by something that seems so minor and ridiculous. Don't get down about it - just think, hey, it worked once. Now I can do it again. Chance of success = very high. Finally, walk faster. No, seriously. Many girls I've talked to have expressed distaste for how slow most guys walk. It's a personal pet peeve of mine, tbh. When you walk slow, it makes you appear lazy and…
/r/seduction16/07/11 07:31 AM
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I thought all of the alpha responses were funny/charming/disarming except for this one: "Can you buy me a drink/do this for me/hold this?" ALPHA RESPONSES: "I think you have me confused with every other guy you've ever met." Obviously, it depends on the situation and how the question is asked, but I, at least, would be quite a bit put off by this response. Some responses that I've heard that I thought worked well were: Why, what will I get in exchange? I'll buy you a drink if you buy me a drink.…
/r/seduction16/07/11 07:14 AM
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Women don't use make-up to pick up guys - they use seduction to pick up guys. (Make-up is only a tool used to get past guys' "initial attraction test" - since men generally can tend to be a lot more superficial than women in this regard.) So why is seduction often considered "creepy and conniving" for guys, but not for girls? The DIFFERENCE, I think, is that girls generally don't try to completely change their personalities or deceive their mark just to get in his pants, with no intention of any…
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:51 AM
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Yeah, I agree with all that you said, pretty much. I'd think yay until she followed up with, "I want to have someone that I can be good friends with, do things with...." Then I'd think, "Oh, crap." I hope you'd SAY that (out loud), and explain your point of view on the subject... but that's what you meant, I'm sure... Right? Right? You can try to fix it. If you're really adept, you might be able to get the sex back. OR you can go to any bar/club/coffee house/classroom/public place, find another …
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:42 AM
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It's really, really difficult for a woman to have a happy, comfortable, purely sexual relationship with someone, even if they want to. And it's just not naturally the first thing a girl is thinking of when she meets a guy. And there almost always has to be something more than mere physical attraction for her to be interested in sex. For me, if you're hot and interested, but then you say something that shows that you lack basic intelligence or social graces, then I'm going to be immediately turne…
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:33 AM
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Haha, you're welcome. Like I said, it struck a chord since I've been there, done that many times. Honestly, it might be too late for a kickass summer fling even if that's truly all you want. Guys tend to get this mental block once they start thinking (even erroneously) that the girl wants something more (and they don't) - especially if you're being overly friendly or wanting to hang out a lot. Let's see... if it was me, I'd give it a few days or a week of radio silence, then text him late one ev…
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:21 AM
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Moreover, what constitutes the boundaries of those other labels I mentioned in the title. The boundaries are usually defined by the involved parties. For instance, you can be dating casually or exclusively depending on what you both decide. The same goes for "seeing each other." "Strictly banging" can also be either exclusive or open (although the former is rare). "Hooking up" means whatever you mean when you say it. Like someone else commented, some people use it to just mean hanging out and ta…
/r/seduction16/07/11 05:43 AM
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I want to have someone that I can be good friends with, do things with (go to lunch, get coffee, etc), and also have hot ravenous sex, but have no responsibilities or tie downs. I am pretty new to this - do most guys not like that? Um, no, they don't. Unless they want a relationship. Because that's what you just described. Generally, when you meet a guy, you can either start a great friendship (go to lunch, get coffee, etc.) or start a purely sexual fling (have hot ravenous sex and no responsibi…
/r/seduction16/07/11 05:33 AM
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Your post really struck a chord with me because I've gone through this exact (like, this could be almost be a post I made) same situation roughly half a dozen times - each time being surprised/hurt/confused when things turned out the way they did until I figured out what was going on. See, the whole friends-with-benefits deal ends up being very different for women than it is for men. Here are some of the things I learned along the way about the differences in how women and men view the same situ…
/r/seduction16/07/11 05:26 AM
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