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| 1 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinitygroovy cake soup frame different books fly strong insurance brave This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:21 AM |
| – | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyThe women on that app are just the female versions of y'all- angry that they aren't getting whatever it was they wanted out of their interactions with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women moreVibes brother. Its all vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:49 PM |
| – | Love and sex is not a rightLove and sex, or at the very least, companionship and intimacy, are human needs that people suffer without. That being said, no one is required to provide you with either of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexOh fuck, you're one of those dudes. Yeah brother, this conversation is done; have a great life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexIf the experience these guys really want is losing their virginity at 21 to a 2/10 femcel in your military training class that you didn't want to fuck, and who you later found out premeditated getting you blackout drunk and then fucking you while mostly sober, (selfishly taking away one of the potentially coolest moments in your life), and showing you how unexciting and downright pedestrian sex can actually be.... well hey man, they can HAVE that experience. Maybe it will make them better too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexOh okay. Well that's like, your opinion man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexWhat a lovely life you live brother, may it stay as charmed as you have described. I will stick to the one I have. I have suffered and I have also soared. I love my wife and wouldn't take back a single moment. Buf if I could help anyone else on here avoid pain or inflicting it, I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexRelationships are not easy. If you feel they should be, you are setting yourself up for failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexYes, you are making others pay your bill, even if you try not to. At the end of the day, literally every human being is full of shit- but what makes us different is how much shit you are full of, how much of that shit you recognize as shit, and how willing you are to admit it. I am very full of shit, but I recognize it, I do my best to admit to most of it, and I try not to get it on anyone else, a la "making them pay the bill." If you think you are not making anyone pay the bill, you need to loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sex1) What is the deal with people on this subreddit and thinking they are too good to pay emotional bills? Like I told the other dude who is talking to me, you are constantly paying other peoples emotional bills, whether you are aware of it or not. Men and women. Shit, even older animals. Adult life is just paying emotional bills. Even you are making other pay emotional bills for what others have done to you or for you, whether you realize it or not. 2) People have always been fucked up, they just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexBrother, you are constantly paying the bill- for every person you are around, whether they tell you or not. Paying the bill of someone elses trangressions is jus part of the human experience. If you can't do that, just go live in a cabin in the woods. And you had to work and sacrifice at least a decade of your life for that ? Nah, about years. Thing was, I was an immature shit, getting over a heartbreak from someone else when I met her. I paid her bill; she paid mine. Her hurts ended up being wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexEvery memes I see on the social medias right now are about how : Men will see [insert an embodiment of women's redflags] and say "she will ruin my life but I will go with her". Yes. An internet cartoon. Traditionally a very nuanced form of media to communicate ideas. /s it's probably a bad idea to date an alt girl with apparent daddy issues that most certainly consume substance, yet they still do it because they wanna get freaky with her. Worked for me? I don't know what to tell you. I grew up i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexPeople will treat you however you allow them to. If you do not value yourself, why in God's name would they treat you as valuable? People have an innate sense at picking up on the self-worth of others. Some of us (male or female) sense that and try to pick them up; others will sense that and push you down further. You act like men can't also come into a new relationship, making their new partner pay for the transgressions of old relationships. Everyone has the capacity to do this, the mature one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexGod Damn Grandpa, go take a nap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexThat's no secret for men, we can also see the ones who are toxic, Neat, you and your boys can. Most dudes, no. they don't blame anyone, they just end the relationship here, they don't rant about "how played with they were". Again, maybe you know some insanely well adjusted men, but again, no. Most dudes get their heart broken by a bad one, and then decide all women are the devil for some period of time and behave like a little shit. Wisdom is earned from pain. If you can't have that in your curr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexact as the bandaid Brother, if that's how you want to see yourself then you are wrong. You are not a bandaid, you are the "wow, she finally started making good decisions." The dudes who get that shit right away either rolled a nat. 20 in the physicality department or the rich family department, and they rarely, if ever, appreciate it. So many men are caught up wanting to fuck girls when they are young and dumb and inexperienced and do dumb shit. Those "best years" you keep hearing about between … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexWant to know a secret? Women also know who amongst their peers are also toxic harpies, because when its just them, they behave monstrously- especially the pretty ones. Guess what? Dudes will still try to fuck them, even if the plain girl tells you "she's mean and she'll make you miserable." It's almost like both sides know who the predators among them are, but until enough weiners and vaginas have been burned on the hot stove of shitty people, no one wants to hear said advice. Chicks do it. Dude… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexWelcome to being a neurodivergent or atypical male in the modern Western World. I lost my virginity at 21 (not for lack of trying), and by 25 had had PIV intercourse with a grand total of 3 people. As it stands, I am 35 and have had sex with 4 different people, which doesn't upset me because I am not someone who has the bandwidth to woo multitudes of women- I know that about myself now. Before you start questioning my advice-giving qualifications, know that the 3rd person I had sex with way back… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Misogynist young adults get more sexI hope you're handling that okay, and if you aren't, well, that's understandable. It sounds like you've been through a lot man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexFucking A. How did he take you getting diagnosed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexDid you come from a family where mental illness was looked down upon or did you have parents who didn't want to stigmatize you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Misogynist young adults get more sexDamn man, I'm sorry they treat you like that. How long have you been diagnosed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexa. Do they tell you give off a creep vibe? b. Are you neurodivergent and struggle to mask, even in non-sexual/romantic situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Misogynist young adults get more sexAre you saying that women continue to misread you as you get older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:41 AM |
| -6 | Misogynist young adults get more sexYeah, maybe at like age 28. The only creeps a teenage girl is spotting are the obvious ones or, sadly, the dudes who just kind of "look like" creeps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:32 AM |
| -5 | Misogynist young adults get more sexWomen. Women. Women? Look, there are women who are wise beyond their years, but most young women, quite frankly, suck at discerning between narcissistic arrogance and male confidence that should make them feel safe and secure. Why? Because they're young and inexperienced and they haven't burned themselves on the hot stove enough times. Y'all talk about 20 year old women like they are cougars in the 40's. No shit they pick bad dudes, the do not know better yet. No shit many of y'all pick the Mani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 01:27 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doA lot of y'all are hung up on "I work out and that's not doing anything for me." Yes, because working out is the male equivalent of dressing up for other men. Most women want you to be physically fit, which is not at all the same as "jacked/strong as fuck." My face is average at best on the attractiveness scale, and at that time, my social skills were mediocre. But I did try to put a little more effort into my appearance in an effort to feel better about myself. This was all it took. When I met … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:44 PM |
| 0 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationYou've uhh... never had fantasies or flashes of another sexual partner or a fantasy while having sex? Maybe I'm just trying an ADHD guy with a brain that struggles to stay on task- yes, even that one- but something tells me we all do that. OP if you don't, good on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Probably because the people who were initially calling out J.K. Rowling and Henry Cavill were Leftists and Progressives, not Centrist Liberals. Centrist Liberals jumped on the bandwagon when it appeared that supporting such a cause would make them seem like the good guys, which what Liberals want more than anything except financial security and control. Right now, many Liberals think the money is on the right, so they are backtracking from their positions in the 2010s to get that conservative mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.Men have been conditioned to believe their looks are all that matter.... My man. By who? By men. It's a buy and sell system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 03:24 PM |
| 7 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThis. In the Western World, it is easier for our elites to control us if we are divided. They know where you are when the need you, like a tool, and they know that you aren't gathering and plotting against them somewhere. Additionally, our commercial interests know lonely people spend more money, so they also do what they can to coerce loneliness. Despite having so much open land, gathering is disincentized. People in the west, as a group, are disconnected from nature, disconnected from their co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:06 PM |
| 3 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSI'm gonna go out on a limb and guess you're in Eastern Europe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:56 PM |
| 11 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThe nuclear family was only successful in our heyday, because of a very specific set of circumstances that artificially inflated our industrial base. The rest of our competition was literally in ruins and we were the only game in town. Our economy at the time, which was Demand-side economics, had boomed during WWII when everyone was getting government contracts because it was floated on a massive river of petroleum products. "We were happy once doing it this way" is based on an inflated reality.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThey gonna hate you for saying it, but you're not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.I think that the age 25 is an average of when the frontal lobe stops developing and not a hard number. There are no absolutes in medicine and biology, only averages. Either way, the argument is built around maturity and the fact that a lot of times, people who have not reached that "developed frontal lobe" level of maturity that is usually present in the later twenties do not know their self worth. They (males and females) are willing to be taken advantage of, even when they do not want to, beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | The female orgasm is a mythI would put it on par with the amount of men who also take forever to climax. It seems like a 1/4 of men are "marathon runners" when it comes to orgasms, yet they get very little attention or flak. I would imagine it can be hell to have sex with a person who takes forever to nut, male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe there is such a thing as "Toxic Masculinty"Everything exists on a range or a spectrum. There is positive masculinity, and there is toxic masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexI mean, do you have an issue with the concept of delayed gratification? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexIf you feel like you are stuck, not getting the true rights and privileges of "being a man" for the foreseeable future of your life, it will having nothing to do with how women treat you, and everything to do with your own lack of emotional maturity and low emotional IQ. Fortunately for you, both can be corrected with time and effort. Best of luck man; I hope you are able to make your life better without hurting anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexDude, I blame woman, single, not women, plural, for hurting my feelings when I was a younger man. A woman is a single human being with their own motivations and bullshit. I can be pissed at a woman and have been at many. Women are just a group, and I don't blame groups for my problems. I'm not going after every man in the universe for feeling hurt. I'm focused on you, u/According-Tea-3014 for your biases. There is a saying that women usually do not dress for men, they dress for other women. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexTrust. She does not trust you yet. Guy A, she only trusts to getting a dicking from him because she knows he is probably a walking boner. Guy B, she is hoping is not a walking boner because she is hoping he is boyfriend material. Boyfriend material does not walk out on you after getting some, however, most women have been tricked by the walking boners of the world into thinking they were boyfriend material. Then they got their feelings crushed after the dude pulled a fast one on her. So now, if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexI'm trying to figure out if you have poor experiences with rejection from women or no experiences with rejection with women. Reason being, if you have a lot of experience with rejection with women, or poor relationship experiences with women, then... Well there is a saying in some parts of the South that says, "maybe your picker is broken." Maybe you keep going after toxic or damaged women and you are incurring negative experiences that shape your worldview as a result. If this is the case, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexMy guy, I am trying to see what kind of intuition you feel that you have. Trying to get you to take responsibility for your own instincts and biases, and you keep circling the argument back onto "it's the ladies fault." WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR YOURSELF IN ALL THIS BEYOND COMPLAINING? Where are you taking accountability in this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexI can make snap judgements too, but I also have the ability to determine my own biases and call them out internally. That's just a part of maturity and being a decent person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexDo you feel you are unintuitive as a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexPeople are far more intuitive than you may feel. Do you feel like you are unintuitive as a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexI have nice facial features that look like they were cobbled asymetrically on my face like a blind child with a Mr. Potato Head. My spouse first noticed me "because you actually put effort into doing your hair, and none of the other guys around you did." Literally- pomade and comb. 2 minutes. Seen from across a 100 yard lawn. Here I am. My spouse had better looking dudes in the past before me. My spouse had way fucking worse looking dudes in the past before me. She picked me for my hair. 10 year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexYou do realize that human beings are largely irrational and seem to behave in a fashion almost designed to be contrary to logic, right? Yes, if I applied to the worst base attributes of the most emotionally stunted, toxic woman I could find to all women, it would make all of them sound like insufferable children. People can be drawn to all manner of conventional and nonconventional attributes in a person, physical or not- there are literally no set rules that determine what a person will find va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexOkay, then what is it called when a woman feels drawn to someone's non physical attributes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexYou are rating attractiveness solely based on the aesthetics of his body and how he carries himself in social situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:28 AM |
| -1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexBrother, why do you care about what other cookies Guy A is getting if you are also getting cookies? Shit, guy A is only getting Pillsbury sugar cookies, and here you are getting the fully loaded ones from scratch. Who GIVES A FUCK about the other guy getting a cookie back in the day? I read the book The Game 15 years ago and it was right then and it's right now about one major piece of Pick Up Artistry and the resulting redpill/purplepill/blackpill that came from it- the entire program has more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexBecause guy A is only getting the hoe stuff and is not getting all of the other abilities. Based on how you are coming at this, it seems like you value the hoe stuff as higher than the other stuff. I know from experience that the hoe stuff doesn't make you breakfast in the morning. The hoe stuff doesn't text your Mom happy birthday. The hoe stuff doesn't make you a Spotify Playlist. The hoe stuff doesn't remember your favorite drink order at the coffee shop, or remind you to take a coat to work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:16 AM |
| -1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexYou are basing women on a binary. Perhaps she values the hoe stuff she can provide as lower than the emotional support she would bring to the table as "girlfriend material." "I am trying to see if you are worth me equipping all of my other abilities beyond the hoe stuff, because I value them as of more worth. If you are only here for hoe stuff, then you are not boyfriend material. And if you are boyfriend material, then I would like you to make me feel like girlfriend material by not pressuring … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:02 AM |
| -1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for Sex"If I am going to stop doing hoe stuff, I need a man who is not going to expect me to do that hoe stuff." And for most younger (or older, depending on how long it takes them to learn the lesson) women who haven't really worked out how to communicate their expectations well, there is one surefire way to determine the above sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:52 AM |
| -1 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexI mean it sounds like a shit-test. "I think you are husband material, i.e., I want to see if you prove me wrong by abandoning me when I do not allow you to utilize my body for your physical pleasure." This is usually the kind of thing women do after learning from having sex too soon with a dickhead who used them for their body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:31 AM |
| -3 | Most Women Are Not Making “Husband Material” Men Work Harder for SexWhen you ask him why he didn't do the same for you he responds that he thought his ex was "sexy" and that he impulsively spoils sexy girls, but because you are "cute" and not "sexy" his spending on you is more intentional and authentic. if someone is dumb enough to say some silly shit like this to their new GF, they deserve the bullshit train that will rapidly run you over afterward. Never comment on a woman's natural looks unless you have something positive to say; never mention another woman's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:29 AM |
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