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| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast Eps 103 & 104: Bridgerton and Meghan & Harry vs. The Royal Family Discussion ThreadLove the episode. I signed up for a subscription on patreon. Thank you for all your hard work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 31 | Boring/completely ordinary men thinking they know more than you when you're an expert.Oh my GOD, that would be intolerable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 10 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!Amazing day, I hope this continues for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:08 AM |
| 173 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!Nope, mine was wonderful. I am away working a disaster contract (I’m an RN) and he sent me a bunch of small, sentimental gifts that I can have here and take home with me, calling every day, making sure I am as well taken care of as he can possibly manage from far away. I’m everything that incels and red pillers try to speak against - older, fiercely independent with very high standards for the people I choose to bring into my life - and yet somehow I found a guy who actually cares about making m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Love a good roast.Baby, we got 40 year old men living the exact same way, and have kids too! 🙅🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 13 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseYes, my gross ex boyfriend tried that with me. He had a car that was well taken care of that was gifted to him by his mother, and from there on he neglected it until it sat on the street in an inoperable state due to his neglect. He ask his mother for money to fix it TWICE, and he spent that money on weed. Then he flat out asked me if he could start driving my car to his cushy office job on my nights off from work. I said absolutely not. I don’t trust someone to operate my car when they smoke we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:32 PM |
| 23 | I can't believe how much she got downvoted so much for thisAnna Gunn personally received a lot of hateful messages from men during breaking bad. Oh, I’m sorry, is the stay at home mom who married a high school chemistry teacher supposed to just flip and become Carmela Soprano? Like...how incredibly stupid are these people. Husband of 20 years flips and becomes a drug kingpin/murderer and because wife doesn’t mindlessly agree, she’s the asshole? Also, this is a fictional TV character, she is an actress. This is not real, but what is real is the hundreds … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:19 AM |
| 35 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Same here. I was thinking I wanted to peer into a sub to see how toxic it was. Turns out I have been well on my way toward FDS without knowing of this sub’s existence. Instantly hooked and reading the handbook had me nodding in agreement from start to finish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 16 | This almost makes me want to redownload dating apps to do the same!Literally the best way to filter out the people that I immediately would not want to date and they get rid of it? I decided a few weeks ago I was done with apps, and this just reinforces my decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 97 | Another day, another cautionary tale in the relationships sub.Good lord you hit the nail right on the head. My boyfriend from years ago described himself as a “feminist” on our first date. Fast forward a few years and we were arguing about house chores. He snapped and said that I’m controlling for asking him to clean up after himself and said the chores are women’s work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:43 AM |
| 7 | TRIGGER WARNING: PLEASE RE-CONSIDER DATING APPS!!! WITH COVID , ETC MEN ARE GETTING INCREASINGLY DESPERATE AND DATING APPS OFFER LAX VETTING AND ZERO PROTECTION FOR THIER BAIT-US!!!!!I am done with dating apps. I would literally rather die alone than go back to dating apps. My only regret is that I didn’t come to this conclusion years ago. It’s really been nothing but a parade of disappointment. Fuckboys who act like they have their shit together in their profile, only to find out they live with their mothers and play video games all day. Guys with DUIs, drug and drinking problems. Men with horrific hygiene issues showing up to dates like I’m supposed to enjoy their presence… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | I cut contact with the “friends” I had in common with my sociopath ex. They were all LVM and LVW. It feels lonely but I will riseBeen there honey, these are not your friends. If you are looking to make new friends I would suggest bumble BFF 👯♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:12 PM |
| 44 | Derrick is such a male FDS supporter! 🙌 #realitycheck #straightfactsHe’s the LVM slayer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:07 PM |
| 7 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)“I’m actually a feminist.” Sure you are 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 40 | BoundariesK, well I’m just gonna flow tf up outta here. Peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Middle aged guys and their awful jokesdAD jOkEs...LolZ!!!! 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Stay away from Portland. There's nothing for you there.It's always something super gross that you wish you could teleport back to 5 minutes ago, when you were not aware of it's existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Stay away from Portland. There's nothing for you there.My fave is when they don't even use the phrase Ethically Non-Monogamous, they just put ENM in their profiles because thy know that the vast majority of women are completely turned off but this, so they bank on making an emotional or sexual connection before some girl thinks to ask, ok hey, what does ENM mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:14 PM |
| 109 | Girl slides in dm and drives hours to go meet a guy she saw on tik tok . I hate how women “shooting their shot” is becoming popular & normalized on social media. Ladies lesson to be learned is to never chase a man! We unfortunately know how this will end😶She's so fine, why is she wasting her gas money on this no car having man baby? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Imagine being told to hush while in labour. I’m actually speechless!I'd love to read the entire article. Women realizing their partners are shitty humans and they can do better is my life fuel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:05 PM |
| 103 | have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying)Reductress in general is an awesome website, hilarious 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | “You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself.”Love her so so dearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Stoicism and AudibleAaah, I’ve read the daily stoic and meditations, and I’m so sad that in the past year I’ve really slipped away from exercising stoicism. Thank you for helping me remember! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 6 | When your ex messages you on Google docsHi, my ex has been sending me payment requests on Venmo for $.02 just so he can message me. So...you may have THAT to look forward to 🤮 The whole maneuver is trash, but I find it highly symbolic that he’s asking me for $.02 instead of paying me, like a online manifestation of him draining me slowly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Don't fall for a Fauxpology or a Self-made Victim: "I'm Sorry it Came Off That Way," "I guess I'm the Bad Guy Once Again"Telling a stone-cold lie and then getting caught = “I didn’t explain myself properly because I was so anxious” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:38 AM |
| 20 | Does anyone notice this happens to them a lot?A guy that I recently ended things with has been jumping from insta, to messenger, to text, and finally to freaking Venmo when I blocked him on all social media to send me comments trying to rewrite the reason why we broke up and accuse me of...get this...weaponizing his words and actions against him 🤡 I’ve never been one to look for super hot men because I am pretty average looking myself, but from the above mentioned behavior, I’m sure you can guess how attractive he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:41 AM |
| 7 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?Yes, almost every single one of them. I've definitely been with guys who were absolutely terrible in bed and i felt like I needed to fake it for their benefit when I was younger, but after about the age of 25 I started telling people what I like. And I make it 100% known that if someone doesn't like to give oral sex, we are not compatible and should split, because I only barely want to have a man orbiting my world, and if he says he doesn't like to give oral sex, he makes the decision to dump hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 9 | The jig is up!I’m thinking it was abuse. He broke up with his last long term gf two years ago and kept making comments about how awful she was to him, and how she used him to pay half her rent (um excuse me, but don’t people usually split rent when they live together?). Constant comments about his ex. Then he would try to appeal to my pickme side (spoiler: that side of me is long gone) by telling me that I’m the first person that he’s ever liked going down on, every other girlfriend he’s had needed to essenti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 3 | If you haven’t already, I urge you to watch the movie “The Glorias” about feminist icon Gloria Steinem. Kween shit all the way through 👏🏼Ugh, loved this. I honestly would love an FDS watchlist of movies and TV shows with characters that display FDS characteristics, maybe we could have viewing parties 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Katherine Ryan 👑 She probably lurks FDS, I just know itI watched this thanks to your post and it was incredible 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:27 AM |
| 2 | The jig is up!Unfortunately there was a website called Don’t Date Him Girl, that was set up for exactly this reason, unfortunately they were sued for defamation, so we just gotta be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:12 AM |
| 152 | The jig is up!When I broke up with the most recent guy I was seeing, he texted me and asked if someone had contacted me to warn me about him. I said no, the reason why we are no longer together has everything to do with your actions and lies, but it’s good to know that you are so shady that you’re worried about someone from your past warning me about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 13 | He Broke Up With Me for Not Going 50/50 - A LessonHe will, however, have a salty comment ready for when you do find a man that’s on your level. My thoughts are good riddance, you stuck by your principles like a boss ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:31 PM |
| 20 | "You get one chance to act right, and that's being generous." Thank you FDSYes! It all felt so gross. He kept repeating over and over how much he would love to have kids with me, and teach them how to play guitar, and painting a picture of family life. All I saw in my head was the pure hell of having to raise a total man baby who put a kid’s emotional needs behind his need to have attention and manipulate. When we broke up he told me that his ex gf really messed him up, and that he now has a police record because they got into a physical altercation and according to hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 33 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Over $20? That's some pathetic shit right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 161 | "You get one chance to act right, and that's being generous." Thank you FDSYes, this right here. I was dating a guy for a few months, and for the first two months he was on his best behavior. I noticed that as I started to spend more time with him and have him over to spend the night, his mask started to slip. He broached the issue of having children completely out of nowhere when I was absolutely not ready to have the talk yet, and the way he brought it up was "You don't want kids, do you?" Completely out of the blue. I told him that I was considering it, he started t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 19 | Anyone want a Scrote Remote(TM)?Hilarious, I love it! In reality though I find men who need to be told how to handle every little event in a relationship so taxing. They know how to get to level 57 on a multiplayer first person shooter, and spend 10 hours a day farting on their couch and playing video games, but you can't figure out something fun for us to do on the weekend? Um, no. I'll be saving those batteries for something that give me actual pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 10 | The Audacity of some scroteaWelcome to scrote logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Half the thread is them talking about how its not forever, and the other half is talking about how this is bliss until you get neck cramps and your ass goes numb 🙄I love that this picture calls him out for being a selfish turd that doesn’t even consider where his girl or his friends can sit if they ever come over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Half the thread is them talking about how its not forever, and the other half is talking about how this is bliss until you get neck cramps and your ass goes numb 🙄This is it - the don’t understand why living like total garbage makes them feel bad. Then we need to come in and fix their shitty lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:44 AM |
| 1 | More wholesome content....my Leveled Up, LVM-FREE LIFE.I read through the al-anon book and listened to a lot of al-anon podcasts a few years ago after breaking up with my lvm alcoholic, emotionally manipulative garbage ex bf. After we split up he spread lies to his family about why we broke up, and I had his enabling family calling me to argue with me. It was hell, and the only thing that kept me sane was diving into Al-Anon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 7 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.“Claiming to be smarter than everyone while underachieving at everything” Triggered, girl ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 46 | Just a reminder this is a representative from the other 50% of the world population. God bless the woman who got away from this creep.Omg good catch. This is absolutely disgusting. Hey guy? What you’re actually looking for, but too cheap to pay for is a maid service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | "How dArE you lead me on??"I broke up with a guy I was seeing a few days ago and he suggested that I lead him on by being nice and affectionate to him the day before I broke up with him. Like... I just held your hand yesterday so now that I’m explaining why we’re not a good fit my decision is totally invalid. Yeah cuz that is exactly how that works | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 138 | Truth. We are not responsible for fixing or changing men!Reminder to male lurkers who are frustrated that they can’t meet a woman who wants to be with them: you need to come correct from day 1 and onward or else we’ll cut you off without hesitation. Women are living good out there, setting themselves up with a good life. If you’re trash, you don’t belong in a woman’s life. Disrupt her peaceful life, and before you know it, you’re in the rear view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 26 | Breonna Taylor, another promising young woman tragically lost because of LVMMy heart absolutely breaks over this woman’s life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 5 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.I had to move to a big city with a lot of high wage earners that went to college. Before this I lived in a smaller “city” of about 200k people and dating was a nightmare, but after I moved I have actually met higher quality people. It’s not reasonable for everyone to just uproot and move but if the option is there, and you want to take the chance I would say do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:17 AM |
| 5 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.I’ll never forget the audacity of my ex, who was gifted a perfectly well running vehicle by his mother, then spent a year neglecting the car until it was undrivable, until finally it was abandoned on the street in front of my apartment. We lived in a city with excellent transit, but he complained when he asked, while completely stoned, to borrow my car. He told me he was disappointed I didn’t “ have his back,” and frequently made comments that it must be good to have a well functioning vehicle. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020totally, it's kind of gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Yeah the funny thing is how aggressively he's wanting to be in a relationship with me. It sucks because when we were just in dating and going out mode I was having a lot of fun. Now that he's gunning for a relationship it's becoming a huge bummer and inconvenience for me. I guess my summer fling is over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020He has free sex from you and he didn't have to do much to get it. I'm sorry, but you're very wrong in your assumption of what's going on here. I didn't sleep with him until we've been dating for 2 months, and the sex was on my terms. I'm not necessarily pursuing a committed relationship with him. I was asking about his "I totally want to do your dishes, oops I didn't, tee-hee" maneuver. In the grand scheme of things, if a person's presence in my life doesn't serve me, they're gone. But in the pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | This poor woman 😭 RUNEven a 50/50 meisha omg this is honestly the phrase of the day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 21 | Blocking gets much easier the more you do it. When you start blocking, instead of engaging, at the first sign of disrespect, it starts to feel goodI've noticed that once I built my life up to a level where I genuinely enjoy it, and became proud of my achievements, I developed a hair trigger for blocking people who threaten my peaceful world. I've walked away from the last few relationships I was in and it left my partners absolutely shook, because I seem like a genuinely happy and put together person. I am happy, and that came through hard work and dedication, I got to my happy cloud, and I don't want your lack of effort in your own life d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Honestly, I am just gathering momentum for breaking it off with him tomorrow. For this and a few other reasons, he just seems very unaware of how to be a partner to someone he really wants to lock it down with. And I totally agree, this feels like a shit test. Perhaps he is in such a rush to lock it down because he's tired of putting so much effort into courting me, and there are many unmet expectations for me to look forward to if I decide to stay with him. He's about to find out how little I t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I've read the FDS handbook, and I have sex with people when I consider it appropriate. He is asking me for commitment, not the other way around. I understand and respect FDS handbook, this is not a scenario that is addressed in the handbook. I do think it was rather silly of him to make such a production about doing dishes for me, and then end up not doing them. It honestly would have been better if he didn't say anything in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I am seeing a guy, he really likes me and is pressing me to make it official with him, I'm kind of on the fence about him because while we are having a lot of fun getting to know each other, I am starting to see reasons why he and I will not work out. But I'm also kind of perplexed by this behavior: A few days ago we were at my place and I was getting ready to go to work after spending a few days with him. We had a lot of fun going out on little road trips, lot of sex, it was really nice. Then h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Was he hiding a bald spot? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.Any shit ass loser can log into their alt account and give themselves gold. What a turd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to fuck a guy with grey hair.Saige or Raine. Or Raine-Sage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | I- have men always been this dirty or is it an uprise of unhygienic guysOh HELL no! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:44 AM |
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