littlebabycheeses Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The new poster campaign on campus Can you clarify what you mean when you say that the law should reflect that? Should rape crimes be prosecuted less severely, in your view? Just curious.	/r/MensRights	23/08/12 12:41 PM
14	Does anyone else here find this disgusting? Wow, I can't believe how many upvotes this has. This is seriously one of the most defeatist, horrible sentiments I've ever seen on this subreddit, which is saying something. Please listen to Gavmeister123...	/r/MensRights	29/05/12 06:29 PM
3	Jezebel: Stealing a man's sperm is ok, as long as no women are harmed in the process. I really can't see where it says this either. The writer clearly feels that the practice is bizarre and indicative of someone being unstable. She doesn't believe that the events the OP wrote about took place, but I don't see where she thinks that if they did take place, that the woman in the story was in the right?	/r/MensRights	05/04/12 12:06 PM
2	When my friend said this to me, I thought she was joking. She was completely serious. I read somewhere that they play loud music, and often make it louder as the night goes on, because if it's too difficult to carry on a conversation, people end up doing less talking and more drinking. I'm not sure how provable this is, but we've all been there - in a bar whose music is too loud, and you're tired of bellowing at your friends to be heard, so you just suck down a drink instead. The drink runs out, so you get another. And another. Makes sense. Totally irrelevant, but interesting.	/r/MensRights	23/03/12 06:14 PM
2	Male birth control pill FINALLY makes progress at University of Kansas. In a few years men might have an effective, non-surgical, non-hormonal, non-permanent means to protect themselves and their partners from unwanted pregnancies. I feel like this might be a common reaction. There were many women with horrible side effects from early pills (although I think I heard the male pill wouldn't be hormonal?) Still, my mother was one of the women whose blood clotted on early pills. Really scary stuff.	/r/MensRights	11/03/12 10:43 PM
1	I think it's pretty relevant It didn't seem to be something he was particularly concerned about (me being foreign). But surely if he was obsessed with how "bad" being uncut was, he would have gone for American women because there was less likelihood that they'd have been with an uncut guy? I actually don't know if he knew about how uncommon it was overseas before we started dating. It seemed to be something he figured out about six months into our relationship, and then started freaking out about. It was indeed sad and he w…	/r/MensRights	15/12/11 10:57 AM
6	I think it's pretty relevant See my comment above - my ex boyfriend was convinced that being un-cut was disgusting (he was American). It baffles non-Americans like myself, and makes me sad.	/r/MensRights	14/12/11 01:57 PM
10	I think it's pretty relevant I definitely do a "WTF 0_o" when I see comments like that girl's (in the thread) expressing that she'd have a seriously negative reaction. I live in the UK. But I used to live in the US. My boyfriend of 5 years while I lived there had a serious problem with the un-cut. To the extent that, when he found out that I had dated a British guy when I was 17, he went into obsession mode about whether the guy was cut, and whether I'd had sex with an un-cut guy. Not being American and never having had the…	/r/MensRights	14/12/11 01:55 PM
0	I escaped child support by fleeing out of the states. I think it took a while for my boyfriend to come to terms with the idea that I was as dedicated to the idea of not getting pregnant as he was. His ex was all about babies, so even though he knew what I wanted in life, there was this underlying assumption that I wasn't for real. Or, not assumption... it was almost subconscious, I think. Why? Because there are too many girls out there who are planning it. Guys tell each other stories about their girlfriends putting pressure on them, because it hap…	/r/MensRights	12/10/11 05:45 PM
1	Register-her.com hitting the mark - listing false rape accusers at top of Google returns Sorry, read this after asking my previous question. Cheers.	/r/MensRights	09/09/11 01:37 PM
3	Register-her.com hitting the mark - listing false rape accusers at top of Google returns I was just wondering what the verification process of guilt is? Purely out of curiosity. I completely agree that false rape claims are an absolute abomination. However, falsely accusing someone of a false rape allegation seems counterproductive to the end goal. That is, how much research will take place in the submission moderation process and what channels will you use for that research?	/r/MensRights	09/09/11 01:35 PM
4	Register-her.com hitting the mark - listing false rape accusers at top of Google returns I had this response as well. It doesn't strike me as a good idea, when fighting the wrongs of guilty-until-proven-innocent and of accusations ruining people's lives, to engage in the exact same behaviour. I want to know what proof the site requires before adding a woman to its registry. I realise many women won't give men the same time of day before labelling him, but this would be taken a lot more seriously if they took the higher ground. Does anyone remember RipOffReport? They engaged in some …	/r/MensRights	09/09/11 01:27 PM
1	I had unsafe sex with a woman who claimed to be completely infertile... We've all done things we shouldn't have given better judgement, but I am constantly stunned that people don't think about disease when they have unsafe sex with someone, whether they claim to be infertile or not. I'm a girl - I wouldn't give a shit if the guy told me he was firing nothing but blanks. There are things that can happen if you have unprotected sex that have nothing to do with getting knocked up! It's like - "well, she *can't get pregnant, so we're good to go!" Surely we're better ed…	/r/MensRights	08/09/11 11:41 AM
4	I am fucking tired of being perceived as a pervert for being attracted to women and their bodies What if the girl's doing something where she has to wear whatever she's wearing? Going for a run when it's warm, swim practice (assuming you're also at the pool), etc? I find the "cover yourself" likely to fall down if it's very hot too... I'm all for people not wandering around starkers, what counts as comfortable, conservative and sensible when it's horribly hot out?	/r/MensRights	21/08/11 06:33 PM
0	I am fucking tired of being perceived as a pervert for being attracted to women and their bodies Yes, I always make sure to wear conservative, well-covering clothes, even when it's very hot outside, if I don't want comments about my body. I'd rather put up with the heat and the sweat and the discomfort than the cat calls or being followed. Only succumbed to heat stroke once so far this summer, but it's been a very good choice not to wear shorts, skirts or t-shirts anymore. You just have to remember not to go outside for very long when it's very hot, and to keep very hydrated. Huh.	/r/MensRights	21/08/11 06:23 PM
1	It's people like this... In all seriousness, don't people use browsers now that tell them when they spell things incorrectly? I guess some people still really don't care. That said, I have no idea if IE shows misspelt words. That might explain some things.	/r/MensRights	07/08/11 09:57 PM
3	Did you mean women's rights? What altmehere said. There have been quite a few instances of "Did you mean?" causing offense, including non-American spellings throwing up "errors" and funny examples, such as the girl / grill one. See also: Google Suggest. I think there's a whole website of these, but I forget its name. It's the fault of an algorithm, not of politics. Google deals in patterns. In the vast majority of cases, Google does not want to solve problems in a human way, with tweaks of opinion and subjectiveness. They w…	/r/MensRights	30/07/11 11:32 PM
1	Men's Rights, I'm with you. So is my Fiancée. Well, we haven't seen each other in a long time, and haven't spoken much either. By the time we'd agreed to split, we both had this attitude of sad acceptance. The main discussions we had after I left were about settling up finances, mainly because some of "my half" of the money from the sale of my car was going to be left with him to pay taxes, since we'd always filed as a couple (I moved overseas). Like I said, it was very mathematical. All that was very painful and unpleasant, but it wasn't h…	/r/MensRights	30/07/11 02:42 PM
4	"For decades, women have been inundated with unrealistic, thin images in magazines, movies, ads and other media outlets. And now, men are also feeling the pressure for physical perfection, surrounded by unattainable images of muscular physiques, six-pack abs, bulging biceps and lean bodies." What I find is that when you say this in a female forum (I have) you get succinctly downvoted or shouted down for saying that many people don't want to change, and that you're forcing something on them. And all I was trying to do was point out how fitting fitness and diet into your life is indeed obtainable, if a commitment. What Faryshta said though is probably part of the point - that some people feel they have to do it in order to be worthy. But shit, I sure as hell don't. Ready for the gym a…	/r/MensRights	30/07/11 09:08 AM
1	Men's Rights, I'm with you. So is my Fiancée. That's a very good point. I'm torn on whether I'm for or against doing it again, because now I'm with someone who I love more and better than I did my ex... but it's not necessary, is it? I do like to joke that divorcees can make the best boy/girlfriends because some of us are, after what we've been through, solely interested in being happy, and we realise that things like marriage are not necessary to achieving that. I look around sometimes at women I know who are desperate to get married and t…	/r/MensRights	30/07/11 08:56 AM
2	Men's Rights, I'm with you. So is my Fiancée. Err, I was the wife :)	/r/MensRights	30/07/11 08:50 AM
1	Men's Rights, I'm with you. So is my Fiancée. I don't understand people who fuck each other over when they get married. I don't understand deliberate antagonism in most divorces. I understand anger if a spouse has cheated or abused, but when you've grown apart and you still end up with daggers drawn? I do not understand. I got divorced when I was younger (not much younger, I'm still in my 20s). My ex and I came to the depressing, unpleasant realisation that we no longer loved each other. We would have made each other's lives hell if we'd re…	/r/MensRights	29/07/11 09:05 PM
5	Best response I've ever seen to the old "men need to grow up" complaint. Could not agree more. I sometimes sit around and think, "I guess, since we're 30 (average age of my friends put together) that this is adulthood. Well this is much more fun than I imagined." If it weren't for the goofy, "childish" things we do, we'd have way less fun. I am in a relationship in order to have fun, amongst other things, not to sit around being whatever version of adults we thought we'd be when we were little.	/r/MensRights	27/07/11 01:23 PM