littlejimbofroglegs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Well… I’m fucked. Sounds like her side dude didn't work out 😕	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/25 06:28 PM
3	Tough day today. Guess this is the ebbs and flows. Hard news incoming bud: You'll likely have to deal with her on the regular due to the kids. Stuff always needs sorting. Full silence between the two of you will only hurt the children, there's always something that needs discussing, and not doing so can make things harder on everybody. Believe me, I tried, and not dealing with her regularly was my biggest wish. Two years later (and almost fully healed) things are becoming easier. I let go of the anger for my kid. If something comes up involving …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 03:31 AM
1	She doesn’t want to leave and still loves me. Its making me question things. How do I stick to my guns? I'm inclined to follow the pack here and tell you to run, but it seems you're not fully committed to leaving and mostly worried about what your family and friends will think. It sounds like you'd stay if she changed her ways. That likely won't happen long term so consider this version of her permanent. Nobody's perfect and the idea there's less bs with the next one could be a false idea too. You just have to consider all of this before cutting it off for good I guess, it's a lot to think about..…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/25 04:58 AM
1	Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex? Do what it takes to cope during the bridge period. You're leaving one life to start another. Try not to rush things or feel discouraged, if you want something it will happen eventually. Take some time to yourself in the meantime, it's beneficial to your journey. Don't feel bad about the porn, you gotta do what you gotta do right now. Just don't make it a lifelong fap fest and you'll see porn helped you through some hard times! Lol No harm imo Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/25 03:08 PM
3	Got cheated on, feel like a simp. Absolutely 100% right there with ya, almost completely word for word. After a year of the same I had to just suck it up and do what's best for me and my kid. I can hate her internally but also move on like she means nothing now. The no sex part was difficult, I gotta admit, but it dwindles. After a while she became disgusting in my eyes and I had no interest in revisting the mess she made. It's not worth it. Plenty of women out there. I finally took the usual advice of going to the gym, making g…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 06:00 PM
2	Getting back put there sucks Yea women have it so much easier. The sad truth is most guys will fornicate with just about anything if it has the right sized hole. Being divorced after 40 and looking to date is a barren wasteland of absolutely zero lovin' for a man. It's like you feel on top of the world being the proud husband/father with a beautiful family in a home full of life and constant energy, then in a snap you find yourself living in a filthy one bedroom apartment, sitting alone in the dark watching "World's Dumbest…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/24 02:29 AM
2	When The Marriage Wasn’t Bad and You Can’t Hate… I had the same side effects, the most bizarre wtf type of nightmares every night.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/23 11:26 PM
1	I miss my family Yea same here man. I can't stand this empty house, where we used to wake up every day, tell each other "I love you", get our daughter on the bus and have coffee together. Spent every moment outside work together. Our lives were completely intertwined into one. My stbxw is super hot too, and sadly a mentally ill sex addict. It kills me knowing she's just randomly screwing horny dudes without a care in the world, after she was my love for over a decade. I've learned to let those thoughts go. Dwell…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 10:20 PM