TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

littleladyluv Archive

View 0 posts and 47 comments by littleladyluv on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
7

100%! Feminists and those types of women have destroyed the world way more than men ever have! They have destroyed the dating scene and marriage, for other women. They have destroyed the work place, for other women (women always worked anyway, before the suffrage movement). They have destroyed families, for other women. Men have 90% of the time, protected all of that! Sure we needed laws for better protections for women, but it went too far once birth control got introduced and women stopped bei…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 09:58 PM
7

Thank you! Hopefully!! And I hope you find a good man soon 🩷
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 02:19 PM
48

I envy them too. I’ll be 39 tomorrow. I actually did everything the traditional way, have always been feminine and submissive, and still didn’t find my husband(yet). So it’s not fool proof no matter what. Most of the career women I know, ended up with families a long time ago. The irony is a bit painful. I’m in a relationship now for almost a year and it’s promising and I’m happy, but you never know! I’ve had so many failed attempts at love that I don’t feel like I can fully exhale and relax abo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 03:43 AM
3

We’re coming up on a year relationship, and yes, he’s dominant. 85 ish percent of the time, I feel steady, peaceful and respectful of his authority. I trust him to look after me since he already does. I trust his decisions and if I feel resistance, I tell him why and we figure it out. I trust him to be there because he’s consistent. I can depend on him. I’m well provided for. his responsibility for me just keeps increasing over time, which increases my submission. It literally makes me want to g…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 08:20 PM
1

It makes no sense because most dads out there never wanted kids, yet here they are lol. My dad is one of those men. He has 6 kids and didn’t even want 1! He does love us, but it’s complicated.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 06:38 PM
1

Yes lots of confusion! Anyone who figures this out young, has a massive massive head start in life! Good on you! I feel proud 🥰. You will definitely have the life you want! All the best 💗.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/25 06:26 PM
1

I do have a masculine man ☺️. Found him online. But him taking more and more control has been a work in progress. The level of opening my heart I have to do has been very confronting. So it’s nothing is ever fixed just cause you find a masculine man 😭. We always have work to do in opening our capacity for love. I met men almost through osmosis in my 20’s lol. I don’t think anyone under 25 should be using apps if they can help it! Stay strong in your instincts and don’t let anyone gaslight you ou…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 06:17 PM
0

Hi OP! I’m much older than you but I am and always was similar as you. I’m not into large age gaps personally. 15 ish years is my limit. But there’s nothing wrong with a larger gap. The only women I’ve known into larger age gaps were Latinas or Slavic women. But it’s not unheard of from all American women either! You are strongly in tune with your instincts and that is healthier than most people. We live in a society that gaslights this healthy need or calls it “kink” 🙄. I absolutely love sittin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/25 06:43 PM
2

Yes! Exactly! I feel happy it resonates for you ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 11:02 PM
11

I’m in my late 30’s and I am having the complete opposite experience of what red pill says women over 35 should be experiencing. No wall, and I’m in a relationship with a traditional masculine man now. I’m sure there’s a wall somewhere but it doesn’t happen to feminine women who take care of their body and mind, who respect and submit to quality men and have any domestic skills. I know older women than me who found amazing, masculine men who were in their 50’s when they met their man!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 05:15 PM
13

Agree! I know a few young girls in my life (though I’m friends with women of all ages), and they ask me about aging quite a bit. They’re shocked I’m way older than them. I don’t even have grays yet and I’m in my late 30’s. So they ask. I basically say what you said above. But the big thing I say is: very rarely drinking alcohol (like once a year rare), and never any soda. My kryptonite is sugar, but I crave it less and less the more I eat protein. Obviously no smoking. The other thing is: it’s p…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/25 11:49 PM
1

Lmao! Yep, it’s always something like that! Last week I forgot perfume 😭. I felt so naked without it! It sounds like you’re on a good track so just gotta stay in faith! Does he stock up on food you like? That’s some options. Anything that makes cleaning and laundry easier. Toiletries are good to keep there too. Hair styling tools, etc. those are not fun to carry around.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/24 06:05 PM
2

I’m chuckling because for real, these are my problems and worries too 😂. I forget something every time too and it gives me horrible anxiety every time. Just adds to the unsettled feelings. Which is why he’s slowly getting me set up with necessary items in his house 🤔. That’s a very valid fear that your man would suggest less time together but in all reality, I don’t know a man who’d want to do down grade time with his woman. But definitely express that you fear him suggesting that too. Gotta hav…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/24 01:27 AM
5

It really IS tiring living out of a bag. And very unsettling. Feels like you don’t have a home. I know this experience well and am currently living it again, with some small differences than your situation. Hoping this is the last time I go through this cycle! I would just start with gently expressing how unsettling it is for you, to live out of a bag and how you don’t know what to do, and vulnerably ask for help. You’re already talking about marriage. Not much else you can do at this point, oth…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/24 01:02 AM
3

Unfortunately, problems came up that were dealbreakers for marriage around those timelines, so either I got dumped, or I walked away. Men who are serious about marriage either end it fast or move it fast, and they behave like husbands So I can be free to show up as the wife I want to be. That’s been my experience at every age.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 01:03 AM
9

For me: 6 months to a year tops. When I was younger, my Max was 2 years (with the exception of my first which was a good amount longer). None of my relationships lasted all that long cause I date for marriage. My marriage is meant to last more than 2 years, not a relationship with no ring.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 12:14 AM
6

Isn’t 4B a hair type? wtf I’m so confused 🤣. Just over here living my very conservative bubble.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/24 07:47 PM
2

Are you conveniently ignoring the part where I said “to care for”? Submission is a choice. If a man stops taking his responsibility of owning his woman’s body seriously, she is free to leave. Only the best kind of man deserves for a woman to fully submit her mind body and soul to him because it’s a huge responsibility. So nice try on making me into some mental case.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 09:11 PM
3

It’s true. So I’m fine with it. My body is his, to care for. People take care of what’s theirs. So what’s the problem?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 07:55 PM
1

Oh dear..I’ve heard it’s anti social there. Is it that way even in mutual interest groups? I live in the US and this was almost 20 years ago. I’m so surprised people under 30 need dating apps. Even when I started using them in my mid 20’s, I met most of my dates offline.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/24 12:37 AM
3

At 18, I can’t imagine why you’d need dating apps. Your dating pool is almost everyone. I met men through “osmosis” at that age. It’s a joke sort of lol. I would basically walk out my door and men of all ages were after me. Attractive, responsible, masculine men. I say this because this will be your experience too and I was not very attractive at 18. I say if by around 22 or so, you’re not meeting men through means suggested here, online dating may be worth a try!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/24 04:12 PM
2

Yep, Natures way of tricking a man into getting us pregnant 😈😂🥰.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/24 05:17 PM
3

100%!
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 06:55 PM
11

The ability to be teachable, moldable, be feminine, submissive and have foundational domestic skills and the eagerness to develop more of it. Ensuring you’re healthy enough to have babies (at any childbearing age) is also part of what we bring to the table. The rest of domestic skills can be developed in the relationship. It’s hard to fully develop all the domestic skills you need, if you’re still having to work full time. After work, we need to be socializing and taking care of our bodies and m…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 04:28 PM
2

Yay! I feel happy it helps ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 12:37 AM
14

The line is: He went from directing you to be in charge of meals. Which is masculine leading. to now telling you to be in charge of him. Which is him absolving masculine responsibility to himself and offloading it to you. It is not a woman’s job to be in charge of a man’s autonomy. It is a man’s role to direct his woman on how he wants his relationship and home run by her though. It is her role to fulfill that without needing to be reminded all the time. Hope that makes sense ☺️.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 04:32 PM
2

It definitely makes ME happy and cuddly and lovey 🥰😂. Cream pies are the best pies! 😈🤭
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 03:57 AM
21

I’m team, have kids as soon as physically and financially feasible. But even if finances aren’t perfect, it doesn’t matter. It’ll work itself out. There’s never a “good time” to have kids. If you wait for the perfect time, you’ll never have them. I wish I met a man at 24 who was eager to have kids. Nobody when I was that age was ready, even with dating older, and I would’ve loved that so much. Get your body ready so you can minimize the risk of birth defects and pregnancy challenges (he should b…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 07:27 PM
7

I can’t imagine my husband not being there with me in it. Like someone else said, it’s his baby too and he deserves to be there. I want a natural birth anyways and I want my man’s support, and a doula there. That’s it. I even have a girl friend in mind who has doula training, and I don’t even have a man yet. I just hope whoever I marry lets me have her there. It’s one of (if not the) the most bonding experiences you could ever go through with your spouse. I envy mothers who have happy marriages …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 01:50 AM
11

Absolutely they do. I don’t tell anyone any relationship problems. I also tend to like a lot more control from a man, than my friends do so they’d think I’m being abused anyways 🤣. But It’s none of their business and they also give terrible advice..even married women do too. Other women is why men are so controlling and possessive of their relationships. They know what their woman’s girlfriends are saying and seeding their ears with. Many times, all they have to see is a man ordering food for th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/24 04:05 PM
1

100%. My kids will know this and accept it hopefully (be grown by then hopefully too). My heartbreak better kill me if I were to outlive my husband because I also wouldn’t be able to take it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 11:55 PM
1

Agreed. Precisely why I have job skills. Nobody wants to face the idea that their spouse could die before them. Me, I’m selfish and want to die before the man I will marry. But seeing as men are always older than me, I’ve accepted it might not be that way. I need to be able to handle things and have these very uncomfortable conversations before a proposal for marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 10:58 PM
17

Beautiful 😍. That’s what having faith in a man does. It’s so hard to do, but so worth it. If he’s never let you down, he deserves grace when life happens.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 11:11 PM
15

Because people go into marriages now, immaturely thinking it’s going to magically make them happy. That’s literally not what marriage is for. It’s for growth and facing and confronting yourself through all the stages of life with another person. It’s painful and hard (no pun intended 😆). It is constant growing pains. I’m not married myself. I just know this from my own relationships and the growing pains I’ve gone through on my own. It’s why I believe most people need premarital counseling or cl…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/24 05:39 PM
2

It sounds like what you’re perceiving as financial troubles is stirring up some feelings of fear somewhere? That’s a great conversation to have with him. You’re still in your lane this way. You’re not emasculating him this way too. You give him a chance to problem solve your fears. If he decides he needs some contributions, that’s when he can say so. But whatever it is, he will have a solution to your fears and it may not be to contribute. It may be a better budget or as he told you already, pos…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 04:09 PM
11

As long as you’re not using him as an emotional Toilet (sorry just a funny phrase I’ve heard before 🤣), you can totally share how you’re feeling, even if it’s negative. I would just stay unattached to having him fix anything or comfort in any way. He’ll likely want to anyways. But he has to want to on his own. I hope that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 05:19 PM
-15

Oof yeah..big ick 🤢
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 06:45 AM
5

Thank you for validating this! Really feel appreciation ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 08:09 PM
13

Trust me: a masculine man doesn’t want anything other than your love, receptivity and appreciation and respect. Even on his bday and Christmas. Unless he’s expressed his a gift person, he likely won’t want anything and will actually hate receiving gifts. Most my ex’s were like this. For the exes that hated gifts, I would get a special dessert or treat they liked if I couldn’t bake. Also, a bj. But that shouldn’t be just a bday gift. Men are easy. We overthink it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 07:52 PM
2

I don’t use books. I use my creativity since it’s fun for me 😃. There’s stores that have organizers, plus tons of them on Amazon. I have a place for every little Thing I have. When I moved into my apartment, I scouted around where I can put storage and organizers, and then bought what I needed accordingly, and got to work setting it up. This to me, is the first step. Scout the area you’re working with and brainstorm how to organize. The next biggest thing for me, is I am always throwing things o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 04:53 PM
1

It was wholesome. His pastor is a patriotic man (he’s actually facebook famous 😂) and I really enjoyed what he has to say. But luckily, nothing was forced onto me about it. We only went to Chruch in person a few times and he was very casual about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 08:55 PM
2

I get that. It makes sense. I try to stay open to Possibilities. My ex’s were always the spiritual leaders for me. But only my last ex was part of a church (I’m secular Jewish). We just watched his pastors sermons online mostly or he would send them to me if I was traveling. It was all led by him, and sometimes his dad would encourage us. If the relationship wasn’t so toxic, it would’ve been a great way to build the emotional intimacy and connection I needed. It’s helped me know what I need goin…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 08:48 PM
4

No. But I do believe a man needs to be grounded into a higher power to lead me and our family best. It can be more of a spiritual thing than anything. I’m not a fan of organized religion though. Seems To cause more harm than good.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 08:09 PM
1

You chose him as your leader. Submission is how you show you him you are choosing him every day. You will be able to submit to him when you learn to have faith in him and when you learn to respectfully share your feelings if his leadership harms you in any way so he can correct it. After 12 years, you already know he loves you and would never intentionally harm you. You don’t need therapy. You need to push through your fears and lean into your man. It’s ok if you’re scared and vulnerable. He’ll …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 02:28 PM
9

That goes back to what I said: if you take care of yourself, which I do, it’ll be ok. Dating was a lot worse for me at 25, but in different ways, than it is now. Men are much clearer in their pursuit with me and so I waste a lot less time.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 06:17 PM
54

I’m 37 and men are still wanting to meet me. If you take care of yourself, you won’t be filtered out.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 03:45 AM
57

Single right now but it’s a very bonding experience to submit to a man. Every time I start to feel Submissive to a man, I start to feel an attachment forming 😭. So I have to be careful who I submit to. But yes, It’s the natural way between men and women so of course it creates that. I firmly believe people who believe in 50/50 modern relationships just have intimacy issues because it literally blocks it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 11:43 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter