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Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:59 AM
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See now i WANT to be this secretive and vauge but i am the kind of person who panics when people ask me things. Now lets say i have a full fake background. Tell them a fake name (my middle name probably), be vauge about where i work/what I do, etc etc. Lets say things are looking good after a few dates and you’re feeling comfortable. Do you tell them like OK so my name is really XYZ and i do XYZ. Wouldn’t they look at me like I have three heads and think i’m crazy? I just dont know if this would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:47 AM
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So many things. So many. I get ptsd flashbacks from my old gym. The turf area was right in the middle of everything, there was no place to really sit and stretch privately without being gawked at in some shape or form
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:20 PM
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Like black mirror!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:43 PM
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I use the eliptical machine at the gym and I wipe down the handles after use. But the handles you know are long and round and the best way to clean them quick is to wrap your hand around with the wipe and clean it that way. But no. The men look at that and immediately think HAND JOB. I now clean the handles with the wipe in my hand, and i wipe down each side of the handle, never wrapping my hand around it, if that makes any sense Stupid. Fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:41 PM
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This was really helpful to get me in check, thank you so much. The crush has since then faded and i practically forget what he looks like, which is good and bad. There are a looooooot of cute men in my building (it’s a large complex) and i am trying not to date from here but i know i’m weak :( ive been so desperate in the past so i’m trying really hard to focus on the guidance from this sub to break me out of that. It’s a tough cycle, but at least i KNOW i had that problem and i’m trying to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:34 PM
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Thank you!! It’s been a while and i needed a refresher apparently. It’s already helping me change my mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:42 PM
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Sisters. Please talk me down. I have a CRUSH and I FUCKING HATE IT. I moved to a new building and was taking my groceries into the elevator, but i had four heavy huge bags. There was a nice looking guy in front of me who held the door open to the elevator thingy. So we got in. I said something along the lines of “oh i just moved here, still trying to figure out the grocery situation” and we had a bit of small talk. My bags were falling down, my hair was in my face, and he asked if I needed some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:18 AM
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Oh gosh I didn’t even think about that, I’m disappointed in myself that I didn’t even consider that even after the fact. I should know better. Well, at least I know now another reason to never do something stupid like that again. The guy coulda been a serial killer for all I knew and I just served it on a hot platter ready for the taking. You know, getting older is scary and sad but at least you are wiser and have learned from your mistakes. The older I get the more thankful I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:12 AM
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Yeah I could agree with you, I have never really thought of it that way honestly but you make a very valid point! Thank you, I at least know better for next time :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:16 AM
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Lmao missing out??? You’re exactly right. You’re missing out on feeling like shit the day after, while they screwed you until they got off (of course you didn’t) and decided they were done, buying the morning after pill if they took off protection without you knowing, multiple doctors visits thinking you could have an STD, and shit self worth. Who’s the real winner here? YOU are. Don’t listen to everyone else. You are gaining EVERYTHING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:44 PM
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I am no joke saving this comment as a note in my phone so I can reflect back on it when I’m feeling down about a man. And you made me lose it at “they will literally fuck a rotten cantaloupe” HAHAHAHAHAH wheezing Just from reading two of your comments you are incredibly funny, intelligent and friendly. I KNOW you’re a good catch, best believe that! You know those robes with the feathers on the sleeves and the bottom? That look like you opened the door to the police asking where your dead husband…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:37 PM
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BLESS YOU. I feel for you so hard, I got teary eyed reading this. I’ve been there too to a certain extent. Delivering Uber pussy. Wondering what was wrong with me that I wasn’t girlfriend material, that there were prettier woman than me, that maybe if I was more elegant or smart or dressed better or was more wealthy, you know the whole feedback loop of hell. You’re not alone in this though, a lot of us have been through similar experiences, but you know what, we LEARN. We become more RESILIENT. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:05 PM
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Yup! I think he was 31. But in all fairness, I lived in a major large city at the time and rent is unbelieveably high for a good area. But you’re absolutely right. And yes, he lived his fantasy that night. That piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:35 PM
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I’m sorry you’ve experienced it too :( but ya know what, I think going through it once is enough to teach you to never do it again. Just use it as a life lesson. We’re all supposed to make mistakes in life to learn from them, and that’s maturity. So you know what, pat yourself on the back, you’ve matured from the experience, and that’s what matters (as long as you were safe)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:20 PM
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Yup. I was young and stupid. In my head, “come over my house for dinner” meant “this guy must be serious about me!” Boy was I wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:04 PM
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So ashamed of how pickme I used to be on dating apps. One time I went on a second or third date with this guy, wound up going to his house since he invited me over and he said he’d cook dinner for us. Lovely, right? That’s what I thought. He cooked us risotto. It was fucking delicious. I was thoroughly enjoying it. Then he got underneath the table. I thought to myself oh maybe he dropped something???? Yeah no. He went underneath the table to eat me out. WHILE I WAS EATING. And you know what? All…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:42 PM
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You are right, better late than never!!! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:14 PM
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Ugh I can definitely relate. I haven’t dealt with cheating (yet, lol) but I’ve certainly been put through the ringer by a lot of LVM. It’s made me so hardened that I don’t know if I’ll ever to be able to really open up to someone again. I wish I could have a stern talking to myself 5 years ago so I wouldn’t be blind to the things I was about to go through. I’ve grown a lot since, and I’m trying to have a positive take that all that experience has made me more aware of the red flags and really ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:07 PM
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Totally feel like they project onto you whenever they’re doing something they shouldn’t be doing! I’m sorry you went through something similar. We gotta stick together. Hugs to you too, and may we never repeat the same mistakes again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:51 PM
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I understand why he broke up with me, we really weren’t the best match and the only thing holding us together was sex. I had a lot of anxiety at the time too. But I do wish he would have maybe dumped me before Valentine’s Day instead of straight after. That hurt. I felt used. Especially because I knew something was up when he grabbed his phone from the coffee table and put it in his pocket to just go into the kitchen. He didn’t want me seeing a text or something come in, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:44 PM
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This one guy I dated (we were boyfriend and girlfriend), his birthday was in January and I invited him over to my apartment, made him homemade chicken parmasean, homemade chocolate birthday cake, got all dolled up, and bought his birthday present which was four of those like schematics for drums, because he loved to play the drums. I got them framed so he could hang them in his new room once he moved. February valentines day came. Well I showed up to his apartment in a winter coat and a whole re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:06 PM
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Wow, that’s perfect! Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:24 PM
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Let’s say you have been seeing a guy maybe 2-3 months, and he opens up one day and you are stuck listening to this guys trauma and him going on and on about it. What’s the best way to get out of this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:59 PM
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I.... could not have said it better myself. I’m mentally applauding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:06 AM
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Present!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:38 PM
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Right! He can start paying her GYN bills from now on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:37 PM
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I.... oh my. Wow. I’m kind of speechless at that. Thank GOD you got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:49 PM
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I just left a comment above but I swear to god my ex gave me yeast infections basically every month. It was like my body was physically rejecting him telling me to GTFO and even then I didn’t listen. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:42 PM
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Wait me too... that was the bullet that did it for me. The sheer amount of DOCTOR APPOINTMENTS, Monistats, sleepless itchy nights, LITERAL GARLIC CLOVES SHOVED UP MY HOO-HAA...... god damn. I was a fucking idiot. And all for dick that wasn’t even that good. (Please excuse my profanity)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:41 PM
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Please drop the book title when you get a chance later!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:26 PM
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Wait until you read the one about the lady who was turned on by letting maggots breed in her hoo-ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:12 AM
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Right because then you have photographic evidence... muahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:13 PM
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Omg this is kind of genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:16 PM
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I’m just too awkward to not notice the bill. I need something else like an activity to do such as applying my lipstick with a compact (which wouldn’t happen bc I’d go to the bathroom), or something like that. Because what are you supposed to do, stars at your plate and not notice the waiter come over, the guy pick up the check, go in his wallet to grab his card? I just couldn’t stare off into the distance like that and pretend not to notice the whole bill fiasco
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:44 AM
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This is big daddy energy right here. I need to adopt some of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:03 PM
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Around New Years is always one of them, isn’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:02 PM
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This is EXCELLENT advice. I’m going to do this when I get back out there. Reminds me of this one guy I dated who told me I would be “next level hot” if I just worked on toning my legs more. The fuck??? So I scolded him back and said I LOVED my legs exactly how they are. He was offended that I stood up for myself. Asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:12 PM
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I need a little more help on the whole “not noticing the bill thing”. Do you avoid eye contact with the bill like an ex in the grocery store?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:06 PM
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