littlemiddlemissy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. I guess I’m not as good at sorting through my thoughts, so I end up feeling frustrated that someone is trying to play the arguing game with me and I just want to be nice and talk to my Reddit friends. :) I don’t like the fighting part.	/r/seduction	03/11/21 10:03 PM
5	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Yeah, I get that. I don’t actually know why she’s here and she is being unfair to you. Calling you a “mansplainer” while “womansplaining” is gaslighting. Sometimes I think I should stay out of convos like this on Reddit, but her philosophy on women not being able to make choices regarding their sexuality is condescending and sex-shaming. Makes me mad.	/r/seduction	03/11/21 09:44 PM
2	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Hahahahaha WATCH IT BUD. 😝 there’s also plenty of rational women out here!	/r/seduction	03/11/21 09:05 PM
2	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Agree to disagree. I have plenty of friends who don’t want relationships. Consent is key, though!	/r/seduction	03/11/21 08:03 PM
7	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Not sure, but that doesn’t change the fact that he is seeking casual hook-ups with women who are seeking casual hook-ups. May not be your thing, and that’s fine 🙂	/r/seduction	03/11/21 07:56 PM
7	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Well, they are adult women (this sub sometimes doesn’t give us enough credit to take care of ourselves) looking for the same thing he’s looking for. Doesn’t sound messy - sounds like fun. Perhaps this is similar to a situation you have experienced that DID end up messy, so you’re reading into it? There are lots of people who view sex as a fun activity that doesn’t have to be tied to romantic love. Especially for people like me who are aromantic. There’s a lot of nuance out in the world when it c…	/r/seduction	03/11/21 07:49 PM
2	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. I have a similar mentality, but I still deal with a lot of romeos and juliets. Does it ever backfire on ya?	/r/seduction	03/11/21 07:03 PM
1	I think people here have been forgetting what the purpose of this subreddit is I love your thoughts here. I think the moral superiority and prudishness of a lot of resistors is kind of strange.	/r/seduction	03/11/21 07:01 PM
8	Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Aww, I disagree. Maybe for monogamous relationship-seeking women, but there’s plenty of other women who are happy to have friends with benefits or a short fling, but aren’t interested in dating either. He sounds straightforward and honest with his intentions, PLUS has a life that’s different and interesting.	/r/seduction	03/11/21 06:56 PM
2	How to get over flaccid insecurity It sounds like you’re trying to maybe arouse your body while your brain is feeling anxious instead? Do you feel horny during it? Or are you worried about what she will think?	/r/seduction	02/11/21 01:57 AM
1	How to gain confidence? I feel like you’re right - suggestion a direct jump from where you’re currently at to directly approaching strangers is not helpful. The thing about this whole subreddit that makes me want to chime in as a woman is that there are SO MANY different types of people out there, and giving feedback may be helpful from the perspective of a “conventionally attractive” yet shy woman. No matter how charming and handsome and smooth someone is, there is practically nothing that can make me feel comfortable…	/r/seduction	16/09/21 05:17 PM
2	Attraction without chemistry? Ahh, I got it. I think it's a bummer that FWB isn't a more acceptable friendship style, because there's usually some underlying worry that someone will catch feelings. In reality, it's really nice to be comfortable enough to hang out and be silly while also cuddling or hooking up or however far that line goes naturally, and not having the expectations of becoming romantic. Sometimes the friendship and physical chemistry is there and the romance factor isn't! I know it's kind of a scary subject t…	/r/seduction	18/08/21 01:02 AM
2	Attraction without chemistry? Well there's a difference between sexual chemistry and romantic chemistry. Is it a FWB-type crush or a romantic crush? Sounds like the former to me. Could be a fun friend to play with and not necessarily date, if that's something he is open to?	/r/seduction	17/08/21 05:14 AM
3	You guys are way too easy on yourselves Sure, but curling 5 pounds daily is healthier by far than giving up. I'm old school, though, and think people respond better to kindness than insults.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 07:26 PM
6	You guys are way too easy on yourselves Oof - majorly disagree with you. Confidence IS built. Every time you try something you're afraid of and the worst case scenario doesn't come true (or if it does and you survive!) it gets easier. Idk, maybe that's just my opinion, but bashing shy guys who are making an effort doesn't seem like you're really even trying to help?	/r/seduction	31/07/21 06:47 PM
1	What does the "push pull" method mean and how do I put it into practice? gasps 🤭	/r/seduction	29/03/21 08:36 PM
1	Be Honest: You actually don't want most of these women to be a part of your life. I'm so intrigued by your comments and have been reading through them. I definitely agree with both of these. At least personally, I pick up on little cues that make me feel, idk, almost like prey. There's a huge safety element at play. Maybe there's also a bit of a personality preference that some guys on here are running into? Just a though, but if you're looking for help with seduction, it could be that you are more of a quiet or shy guy. Even just from watching "nerds" in movies - they usuall…	/r/seduction	29/03/21 08:33 PM
1	What does the "push pull" method mean and how do I put it into practice? :) It's people like you who keep things running smoothly. Happy to convict myself - I plead guilty!	/r/seduction	29/03/21 08:18 PM
2	What does the "push pull" method mean and how do I put it into practice? To be fair, I did admit that I didn't know the real answer! I can admit it when I'm called out for being a little Hermione Granger know-it-all, though. Wouldn't be the first time lol. I did just want to help, though - not trying to confuse anybody.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 08:04 PM
1	What does the "push pull" method mean and how do I put it into practice? Heyyy don't laugh at me 😘	/r/seduction	29/03/21 07:10 PM
2	What does the "push pull" method mean and how do I put it into practice? Hi!! Idk if there's an official answer, but here's what I think. Pretend we are on a date, okay? I like ice cream, so let's go get some. PUSH Goal: make your heart race, make you feel flustered and maybe even slightly shocked. Methods: I'm small, bubbly, and am more in the "adorable" category than sexy. So for me, being directly sexual can have this effect. Also, playfully teasing can work here too. I love to play up innocence, so that might mean accidentally letting my ice cream drip onto my ch…	/r/seduction	29/03/21 06:41 PM