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They have a couple of kitchen tips books that are freaking fantastic. Could not recommend them highly enough!
/r/RedPillWives19/06/20 04:26 PM
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As everyone else here has said, you need to break up with your current boyfriend. A good test of quality I've found is to ask yourself, "would I be proud if my son turned out exactly like him?" If the answer is no, then you need to move on. You're feeling guilty because you are cheating, imagine it if the position was reversed. It could be much worse and I don't necessarily blame you, but you're going to have to own up to it to feel completely absolved.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 08:36 PM
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Ditto!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:51 AM
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Congrats on the incoming munchkin! (I'm presuming the nightgown was for you)
/r/RedPillWives01/02/20 11:35 PM
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Playful Promises has some cute stuff
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 03:38 AM
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I love the look of Aerie but they don't carry bras in my size.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 03:26 AM
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I just saw that you have ADHD, as do I and therefore I get that it's that much more important to have a clean space. A messy external contributes to a messy internal. It's not that it's just untidy, it's taking up space in your brain which in my experience feels suffocating. Other than his family history, what do you think the root cause of the clutter bug habits? Is he from a scarcity 'I might need this one day' mind set, wanting to recycle/ not waste things, or does he just like collecting thi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 06:05 PM
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He doesn't sound super respectful of you or your child. However a trick I use to keep myself organized and tidy is to have friends over about once every other week.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 02:26 AM
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I have a question if you don't mind. It always seems jump from two to three was a larger decision than going from three to four. Do you think that was accurate for your family? One of my good friends was one of four and her mom always said that she barely noticed the added work load when the baby came along. The chaos levels were about the same.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 05:36 PM
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A rebound relationship or hooking up with someone? Probably not the smartest idea. Going out and flirting a bit? Absolutely go for it! Then spend some time focusing on you. And like everyone else said get him out of your life ASAP.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 07:29 PM
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It can take several tries to find the right therapist, when I moved it took five to find someone that I jelled with.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 07:24 PM
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When something doesn't feel quite right, take a picture of the room. For some reason seeing it on a screen highlights different things than you see in person and can help identify blind spots.
/r/RedPillWives23/10/19 12:54 AM
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Would a used bookstore possibly have a copy? It could be worth calling around.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 03:03 AM
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Nun mode is more about completely focusing on yourself, and not dating until you get yourself squared away.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 01:43 AM
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There is always the option of getting a roommate. It will help keep the costs of living in the city down and keep OP from moving into a place with guy until they are actually ready.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 05:49 PM
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If you think you might ever want to go that route, start documenting your back pain with your doctor now. Call your insurance company to determine the exact requirements, having the knowledge will allow you to make an informed decision. I had a reduction surgery two years ago and paid for it out of pocket. (Ended up being about 5k in an area with average cost of living) However, because my body has to be weird, they were unable to take out the original planned amount of tissue. In the end I only…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 05:41 PM
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Absolutely go check them out! Wearing the correct size bra alone can do wonders! It can make you look a few pounds lighter immediately; having the girls up and in their correct place removes some of the visual weight from your waist. Don't be freaked out or dismiss it if you end up with a cup size that is larger than what you think you should be. Most women aren't wearing the right size and Victoria Secret tends to push women into whatever sister size they carry in stock. Last time I went in and…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 05:26 PM
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Tricks to give the illusion of an hourglass figure / balance out a full bust Peplum tops Highwaisted A-line skirts Belted dresses Avoid sleeves that hit directly inline with the fullest part of your bust Horizontal stripes on your bottom half Avoid turtlenecks at all costs
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:49 PM
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High necklines can be counterintuitive, it can make you appear more busty because there's a visually uninterrupted space. Medium height v shape necklines tend to work the best for my frame. (32H)
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:37 PM
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I would agree with everything that you've said, except with the Victoria Secret part. She'd be better off spending some time reading up over at /r/ABraThatFits and/or going to a specialty lingerie store.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 04:19 PM
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Like many others here have mentioned, it has to do more with an individuals general coloring than their hair color. I look terrible as a blonde; my dark eyebrows and freckles would look out of place with any shade of blonde. Also look at her photos, the blonde has significantly more dimension and highlights, whereas the brunette looks more flat. The only way to correctly do a study like this is to have incredibly similar photos/ poses at the same age.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 01:49 PM
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Me too!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 01:09 AM
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Depending on what we're doing for the day - Silk robe if I just woke up and fixing coffee before getting ready for the day - Athleisure if I'm doing chores around the house, normally I wouldn't but he loves the way I look in leggings and slouchy tanks - Cotton sundresses if we're having a lazy day and don't need to move around - Cute boxer shorts and tank top if snuggling on the couch
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 01:10 PM
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Watching porn together might be a way to shake things up. If you see something that gets you excited you could say something like "oh that looks like it feels amazing."
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 04:02 PM
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I agree, I think there has been way too much of a focus on having both parents in the work place. There shouldn't be shame if you deviate from how the 'standard' family works. What gets me the most is when people say they can't afford to have only one parent working. If one parent stays home there is a reduction in income, but there's also a reduction in expenses. Having a SAHP removes child care costs, reduces transportation and wardrobe expenses, decreased food budget with less reliance on pre…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 03:46 PM
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One of my favorite self care activities is to tend to my plants. Getting my hands in the dirt is wholly soothing. It also gives me the boost of finishing a task.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 03:32 PM
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My boyfriend is very rough on his 'play clothes' so I am always mending and patching them. His friends are amazed because they can't tell they have been worked on unless they are right up next to it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 01:08 AM
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Recipes please! As an almost law school grad I have a few suggestions: Meal Prep like a mo fo. Seriously plan out two or three weeks at a time. Look up bento box lunches on Pinterest for both him and yourself Crock pots / insta pots are a life saver, as are homemade pre made meals Double cook, tasty leftovers are still well appreciated. Ask him to cook one night a week Treat school like a 9 to 5 job, it'll make it easier to balance the rest of your life. During finals or super stressful periods,…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 12:58 AM
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Not to nitpick, but it's "toe the line." I'm only commenting because you said English was your third language (kudos for that!) and homophones can be tricky!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 07:20 PM
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Your mother sounds awesome! She's what we all should aspire to when it comes to having fun and aging gracefully. And Santa should be better behaved or he'll end up on the naught list.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 01:30 PM
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PUPPY!!!! Look at her little toes and nose!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 06:04 PM
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There is always one who will try ….
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 03:24 AM
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I like them but they've gotten a bit preachy and sjw lately.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 02:43 AM
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I want to give you the biggest hug. All of this sounds like it is coming from an older sister!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 12:35 AM
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No, it is not deceptive at all. Long term depression, which is what it sounds like you are dealing with, is a medical condition. This is similar to many other medical conditions, some of which leave external marks. I have cystic acne that leaves scars, would it be deceptive if I used lasers to resurface my skin? While it was a dark period of your life it shouldn't define you. Fourteen year olds are in an emotional volatile situation even without the added complication of depression. It is import…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:11 PM
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If he is in the Navy there are going to be plenty of times in the future where he will be gone. Even if he is stationed on land and not on a ship, he will have continued training and other instances where he won't be by you. This is just a reality of military life, and you really need to consider if that's what you are ok with. Not trying to scare you, more of making sure you're going into this with eyes open. With regards to him being your whole world, I am presuming that you are being a little…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 07:47 PM
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I can't wait till they develop a blood test that can tell you which birth control will work best for each of our bodies!
/r/RedPillWives17/02/19 03:49 AM
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IIRC When my best friend was contemplating Nexplanon and her doctor brought up the same concerns. The doctor had some patients who had bad reactions to Nexplanon, so she strongly recommends each patient try NuvaRing for six months. Apparently they are the same type of hormone in similar ratios, so the theory is if you are ok with the NuvaRing then the Nexplanon will be fine.
/r/RedPillWives17/02/19 01:04 AM
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What would be the things men are generally looking for a woman to bring to the table? I understand this is a humor page, but I am curious as to what would be viewed favorably?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/19 02:57 PM
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I am a young woman who watches it with friends specifically for the phoniness and cringe factor. We play bingo with cringe categories and create brackets fantasy football style.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/19 03:51 PM
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Any alternatives to microfiber? They feel weird against my skin and I can't stand using them.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 07:00 PM
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Do you buy three of the same pair or coordinating ones?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 05:46 PM
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If I read the post correctly, at the beginning it seemed like they were both on the maybe page about kids. Since then, he has come to the conclusion that he doesn't want kids and she has come to the realization that she does want them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 03:52 AM
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Would you be happy to raise a son who was *exactly* like him? Would that child make you proud? If not, you need to run and run fast.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 08:21 PM
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Kind of. If it was up to him I'd wear jeans, flannels and boots or sundresses and cowboy boots in the summer. Neither of which are incredibly practical for every day. I usually pick out a few things I like and have him make the final call.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 02:49 AM
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Stumbled upon a book by Cooks Illustrated that has all sorts of kitchen tips and tricks that are super useful. Still reading / skimming but so far it seems like a winner.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 02:40 AM
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We're long distance right now which super sucks. Him to me: He got me a jar of blackberry jam. There's an older woman who lives across the street from him who preserves/ cans a bunch of stuff. He was helping her move boxes of jars and offhandedly mentioned that blackberry was my favorite. She insisted on giving him a few jars. Me to him: He doesn't know this yet, but I'm in the middle of putting together a care package to send to him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 02:37 AM
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Tar pit of misery is the best description I have ever heard!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 02:20 AM
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Try on a bunch of different brands to find what fits your body. It's going to take some time. The petite department is going to be your friend. Same with a good tailor. Cardigans and sweaters are always too big or too long. My mom swears by Ann Taylor petite cardigans, they fit her perfectly. (She's 5'3" 140 - 150) She prefers V Neck Shirts are always migrating out of the waistbands and making my upper half look like a balloon. Shirt Body suits are a good way to prevent this. Alternatively shirt…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/18 05:28 PM
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That is so stinking sweet!!! I had something similar happen a few weeks ago, but from a different person. We went to visit his family for a few days. His father and I are both early birds and enjoyed our coffee together before everyone else was up. He said "Mr. littlepearlisland is the happiest and most balanced that I have ever seen since he met you. I am so thankful that you've come into our family's life." Made my heart melt.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/18 05:19 PM
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You would be judged if you stayed in contact with a toxic family, it would show lack of being able to draw boundaries. Congrats on everything that you have done so far!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 12:51 AM
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The hardest part will be sticking to your guns if you do walk.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 11:06 PM
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A few small plants would also help make it feel homey.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 01:44 AM
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Using a cuticle oil or balm will help with the skin around the nail.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 01:36 AM
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Burt's Bees cuticle balm is literally the best thing ever. I keep a tin in my nail polish box, one in a desk drawer and one in my night stand. It does wonders for my cuticles. Night and day difference.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 01:32 AM
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While there are many reasons why I love him, the first one that popped into my head is the uncanny ability to make me laugh. He has said that hearing me laugh brings him such joy and makes him feel almost giddy. Doing something silly is a surefire way to reset my mood, so he does it especially when I'm anxious or upset. Knowing he is that in tune with my emotions melts my heart.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 01:09 AM
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How old are you? How old is he? Is there a plan to end up in the same location? If so, is there a time frame? Do you have a plan in place to vet like nobody's business? (because it's easy to hide flaws from a distance) The fact that it has only been five months and there's already a strain on the relationship would concern me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 08:29 PM
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Part of organizing the house is getting rid of stuff you don't need. Less stuff in the house = less stuff to clean.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 08:13 PM
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Not nuts at all! It will help to shift how you view it. Instead of a challenge, look at it as a learning experience. Life will always be hectic and busy, learning the skill of carving out time for each other will benefit your relationship in the long run. Have fun with it, treat it like a chance to begin 'dating' each other again. Plan silly cute dates and have him pick you up and drop you off at the end of the night. Realistically you're looking about 100 days. You can do anything for that amou…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/18 02:51 PM
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Ohhhh what's on the menu?
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 04:33 PM
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I'm in the same boat! If you want an accountability buddy I'd be down.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 04:32 PM
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That actually made me laugh out loud! That's why my grandmother and I talk about quilting and sewing projects so much, that and baking. Nobody can complain against a pecan pie!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 03:47 PM
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We are incredibly lucky. (Though really it'll be more like 2 in town full time, 2 part time.) Seeing how some of my friends who grew up in a more extended family situation, I would much rather have everyone around. Those kids seem to adjust to changes better.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 03:30 PM
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Seconded!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 03:17 PM
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Fellow law student here (3L). Look into legal fields that are slightly more flexible/ less court room time. Governmental agencies, in house positions, and remote contract work could be two great options. I met my boyfriend early in 2L and we have both fallen head over heels. We both went into it knowing marriage and kids were the end goal. I disclosed I was not full time stay at home mom material, and that I'd like to work full time I until we have kids and then switch to part-time or remote. We…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 01:35 PM
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Try a bento box. I found my bf will eat more fruits/ veggies if they are in a single container with multiple compartments, as opposed to having a bag for everything. Kind of like a grown up lunchable.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 11:15 PM
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Ohh! Go check out Trashy Diva in the quarter. If you like the vintage look they are super comfy and cute. (Not necessarily Goth Grunge but they have classic styles and solid colors) No Fleas Market on Magazine often has cute stuff, and they normally have a cat in the shop!I've found the consignment shops in Lakeview and the North Shore to be better in terms of quality of clothing. My question is how on earth do you stay cool here? I have yet to master looking cute while not sweating horrendously…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 11:10 PM
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YAY!!! Congratulations!!! Thanks for giving this 2L motivation to getting back to studying!
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 05:15 PM
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It might seem silly but having a code word for having a crappy day might be a good way to let him know without having to go into all the details. My mother and I did this when I was in high school and needed to deal with teenage angst on my own. On those days she would just give me a hug and let me do my own thing, because she knew I could work it out but didn't need extra stress from her.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 04:50 PM
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September 2017 Health: Drink 100 oz of water a day (goal is 25 out of 30 days) Social: New friend date, once per week. (1st attempt she had to rain check because of personal issues, will be rescheduled) Relationship: Take love languages quiz with boyfriend to better understand how to love on him. And vice versa. School: Do readings before class. (Law student so this is a big one, goal is 12 out of 15 days) Home: Finish putting apartment together (mini steps are written out but too long for this)…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 04:19 PM
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I'm new to RPW but I think it would be wise for you to map out what your 'dream' life would look like at 35 - 40 and work backwards. If you want to marry a college educated man then you should put yourself in a path to meet one. If this is what you want then I would recommend looking at a two year school in the same town as a major four year university. That way you are benefiting from lower tuition costs and can get an AA while still being around college men. Though I would look towards seniors…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 09:58 PM
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