littleprincesrose Archive

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13	Research Paper claims: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Seems to explain / describe hypergamy (and a few other dating phenomena). The 2nd sounds like walkaway wife syndrome. Men often seem to want a status quo in relationships and hope issues go away if they ignore it. The woman keeps hoping for a while that he will change, then eventually realizes it won’t, gives up and leaves. And the paper equals “in love” with not leaving. In a “traditional” dynamic men have more opportunity to distance themselves from an unhappy relationship without breaking up- either by burying themselves into work, or just going home ignoring the f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 12:17 AM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? I was about 9-10 when social media had its first pages. I had a photo on one of those and a stranger, 40ish man wrote an message that I looked cute on it. At that time I didn’t think much of it but mentioned it to my parents and they freaked out, my dad wrote back an e-mail that he didn’t let me read but I assume it was not nice. About 10 when I was on some play site where we had characters and could chat and I talked to a guy who claimed to be 20 and he asked me to be in a “relationship” and ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 10:59 AM
7	To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why? Well, I’m one of the short girls and i can’t understand this approach. I have found tall guys attractive, but also had crushes on average guys as well. Interestingly, the short guys i knew were the first to mention how short i was or make fun of my height. That’s a quick way to lose sympathy. It takes two to tango and if the tall guys made the first step and i liked them, what was i supposed to do, send them away? People have preferences and some have the opportunity to choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 02:38 PM
2	"I suck with women because I get high math grades" has got to be the stupidest cop out in the history of PPD I think it’s entirely possible. Tool usage is also an important way to describe intelligence and learning. One component is whether the tools are combined to solve a problem, or not, and whether it’s used with intentionality or in a trial-error way. Another is whether they teach each other- if one solved a problem, do they show others how to do it, or everyone has to figure it out on their own? The first part was based on my studies, the second is my speculation. Now with more developed communic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 07:17 AM
3	"I suck with women because I get high math grades" has got to be the stupidest cop out in the history of PPD Language should be a quite good proof that communicating with others helped our development as a species. But if you want an actual hypothesis, Robin Dunbar has the social brain hypothesis- he argues that human intelligence evolved to make humans succesful in complex social groups. In evolutionary psychology, mind reading theory is one of the hottest topic. It’s the ability to assume others have mental states, intents, feelings, thoughts, and being able to understand and reflect to those- it’s o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 12:12 AM
1	Waist circumference statistics suggest that women might be significantly fatter than men Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 02:08 PM
1	Waist circumference statistics suggest that women might be significantly fatter than men So it is possible that my waist is almost closer to my chest than my belly button? Because I do have a curve (which I use for measurement to track progress) that’s the narrowest part on my upper body, but it’s halfway between my breast and belly button. I always wondered if my measurements are off and I should just use the tape at belly button level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 01:59 PM
2	Why are most guys overweight if they're already struggling with women. Do they simply not realize the benefits or is it due to popular "wisdom" that looks don't matter? I think OP isn’t talking about shredded, just a healthy (or somewhat muscular than healthy) frame. Which can be earned without all of the things you listed. And carrying 100-200 lbs of fat is also not the natural state of humans. Eating all day, consistently more than what you body needs, consuming food that is ultra proccessed, drowning in sugar and fat, plus moving way less than our ancestors did on a typical day is also not the natural state of humans. That’s why we have an obesity epidemic a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 01:12 PM
21	Waist circumference statistics suggest that women might be significantly fatter than men Where did you get the idea that women don’t typically store fat around their waist? Where you gain first depends on genetics, and waist is not less typical than hips or thighs. While it’s true than men tend to grow beer guts first, there is a big variety in women’s body types, and that’s an important factor in fat distribution. Have you not heard about the different body shapes in women (or, observed it)? Apple shaped women’s literal description is that they tend to gain weight on the stomach ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 12:26 PM
3	A lot of issues brought up on this sub aren’t gender-specific, and tend to be people-specific in actuality I will never forget the thread where OP and several other posters tried to explain that if they explicitly claim they’re looking for a relationship, somehow it’s the girl’s fault for taking it at face value and being upset after being used for a ONS. It’s one thing to use vague definitons (which happens a lot in the sub), but when someone tries to tell that words mean something different than what 95% of the population thinks it means, that’s a new level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/20 05:06 PM
3	Were men told that being nice would get them laid? If so, by who? In my experience, “personality will overpower looks” is not a message explicitly guys get. Girls also hear that if they are smart and nice and nurturing they will get their happily ever after even if they’re not attractive. I was the ugly duckling girl growing up- chubby, flat greasy hair, pimples from age 10, awkward clothes, glasses, braces both on my teeth and due to scoliosis. And you know what my parents told me? That young guys go after the ‘easy’ and pretty girls now, but they’ll want the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/20 03:21 PM
5	"Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners." Do you agree with this? You’re right. Effort is not required, because most expect that you should naturally have the great figure, flawless skin, pretty hair, pretty face, be hairless etc etc. And if you dont, then you also are invisible or get the insults, if you try to change, you’re unnatural. Have you heard all the ‘she was beautiful but didn’t know it’ tropes? Where the protagonist is a 10/10 who never did anything to reach that and is completely unaware of her attractiveness,while people keep falling for her. As …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/20 06:07 AM
1	If women disdain the majority of men and do not want to have a relationship or sex with them why do they care if those same men use sex bots or sex dolls if they don’t even want them?! Sorry but a blog site that refers to the people they are writing about as ‘slut feminists’ does not sound like the height of credibility. I’ll correct myself: I loosely quoted the opinions I saw at many places, as the general attitude. Some sites did a very poor reporting on the study, framing it in a way that the effect was comparable. I did not read the paper itself but I dont neccessarily agree with the conclusion- I believe the guidelines were different when the female pill came out. I also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/20 02:06 PM
1	If women disdain the majority of men and do not want to have a relationship or sex with them why do they care if those same men use sex bots or sex dolls if they don’t even want them?! When did feminists argue against male birth control?? If anything, what I see mentioned as an issue is that the burden of long-term contraception (which usually comes with a series of side effects) falls on the women. When the trial of some male pill was stopped, the most common talking point was that the fact that they deemed the side effects (that were similar to what women experience) too dangerous while it’s acceptable with the pill for women, is a sign of some double standard in medicine, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/20 01:43 PM
1	For all the women that blame men because they were supposedly “used” and for men to understand the real reason why they blame us. Jesus fuck. Salad is relationship in this context burger is sex but it’s not the point. One person says they want a relationship, the other says they too (I guess, because otherwise they wouldn’t feel used if it turns out to be casual) but they want sex too before it’s official. Person one takes the sex and no longer wants the relationship. The point is, if I say I want X, then you rightfully assume I do want X and not Y. And if I take Y and no longer want X, it’s confusing. If you’re on a datin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/20 11:33 AM
3	For all the women that blame men because they were supposedly “used” and for men to understand the real reason why they blame us. Okay, but then you dont say you’re JUST looking for a quick snack and get mad if I offer you an apple, and not a full dinner with it. You can be looking for NSA and relationship at the same time, but if you only mention the relationship yet still have flings you’re dishonest. A different analogy. We order food. You ask me what I want- I say I’m not very hungry, I JUST want a salad. So you assume all i want is a salad, order it for me and a burger and salad for yourself, because you’re indeed hun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/20 10:35 AM
1	For all the women that blame men because they were supposedly “used” and for men to understand the real reason why they blame us. How exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/20 10:06 AM
8	For all the women that blame men because they were supposedly “used” and for men to understand the real reason why they blame us. The hell? If you say you’re looking for a relationship, it translates to ‘I’m not interested in something casual’, therefore, you arent looking for NSA sex, if you talk to someone you consider them a potential partner. So how is the women at fault if she takes what he says at face value, and if he says he wants something serious, talks to her and hangs out with her she assumes he wants to be with her? Sure, no one is entitled to anything but words have meaning and if you lead people on you’re st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/20 09:06 AM
5	Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man. The cause of discomfort is not neccessarily men, it’s the situation. I’m introverted and have mild social anxiety, and can’t fake a conversation for too long if I’m not feeling it. So I either connect with someone and we won’t shut up for hours and have a really good time, or I end up being awkward and just want to remove myself immediately. So in order to even go out and spend time with people, I’m trying to make adjustments that make me feel more comfortable and i can relax and be myself, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 04:15 PM
2	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? It’s interesting because giving out social media (if you’re active on it) means that they learn a lot more personal information than a phone number would provide. But somehow it’s still more accepted, maybe because now you can also screen them? Or because people can find out your name anyway and stalk the page, so giving it voluntarily doesn’t make much difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 03:51 PM
1	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? I think there is a difference between being active on these sites or not having an account at all. No presence at all does sound a bit odd, only having a few posts and occasionally checking is not weird at all. I wouldn’t neccessarily care for other SM, but where I live (Europe, central/eastern) Facebook and FB messenger is the most popular form of online communication. Even if you dont share anything and dont care to look at other people’s lives, you kind of need it. For example at university w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 03:15 PM
8	Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man. I (22F) actually agree with this. And when the topic came up, my friends were also on the opinion that the ideal first date is coffee/tea or drinks. Its a more laid-back environment, with less interruptions, and also someone offering to spend so much while you dont know whether you like the person does sound uncomfortable, and it makes harder to back off if the other person already invested a lot. Maybe this has something to do with the fact that we’re at university where most people are on a ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 02:44 PM
1	Redpillers who don’t want to settle down until their 40s: Won’t the best women be married or single moms by then? Yeah, it can be interpreted that way but I think the way it was phrased is more projection. There is a big portion of people who rather stay in a dysfunctional relationship, or jump from one bad to another because they are too afraid to be single. Of course these issues won’t be solved by a few motivational quotes but it’s more about the situations when the relationship is dead or toxic, not neccessarily about the honeymoon phase wearing off or someone not being 100% perfect. But, of course some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 11:39 AM
3	The reason so many women think men have out of control egos Let me put this quote here: “confidence is not ‘they will like me’, confidence is ‘I’ll be fine if they dont’”. I think there lies the difference between confident and too egoistic. A person with high ego expects everyone to like them, cater to them etc, and gets upset if they aren’t shown the admiration they want. It might seem as confident at first, but after a while they become very exhausting to be around. This ego often superficially masks deep insecurities, they demand the attention becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/19 11:42 PM
3	A contradiction: The more I seem to think 'like a woman', the less friendzone makes sense. That’s it. It people show you who they are, and what they want, believe them. If your crush tells you they aren’t interested, or keep dating other people and not you, it’s a pretty good indication that you’re not what they are looking for. You have no obligation to stay and watch, if it’s hurting you, the best is to remove yourself from the situation. But if you stay around and keep hoping that somehow they are going to change their minds, convincing yourself that you know them better than they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 12:42 PM
0	Short women don't deserve tall men Isn't rejecting everyone over a certain height would be "heightist" too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 09:46 PM
2	The hyper-focus on online dating/looks by men on reddit is because they are socially anxious , bad at flirting/game/socializing and have small social circles with mostly men. As OP pointed out, where are the attractive or average women in this group? You’re working under the assumption that every person finds the same things attractive. While there are some people who are considered attractive by many, the majority of people does not belong in this category. People come with different tastes, someone can be the ideal partner for one, and just meh for another. And even if there is an objective way to measure attractiveness, there will be people of the group who develo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/19 09:37 AM
4	Study finds facially unattractive adolescents lose social popularity when they act aggressively, but facially attractive ones do not lose popularity when they do it Just mentioning, if the rating was done by students who knew the participants, it can skew the data. It’s pretty hard to objectively rate someone you like/dislike, so the more popular participants could have gotten higher scores for attractiveness because more people like them, and they also get away with that behaviour due to popularity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 12:32 PM
11	So I was on r/unpopularopinion and saw this post I think it’s rather individual characters and not male-female. I had to argue with men that just because there is someone paid to clean up after you, it doesn’t mean you can leave a huge mess behind (like piles of dirty dishes), others are the first to volunteer to clean up and are very considerate. Same with women, some see where they can help and do it in an instant, others wait for it to be taken care of. I work with people and in the overwhelming majority of my interactions, most people are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 01:51 PM
3	men are in denial Domestic violence is quite a tricky issue. What do we have to study it? We have the official stats, but that excludes all the cases that didn’t make it to the legal system. We can study people who are already in a program after committing DV, and it’s pretty useful to see what traits they share, what similarities or differences have, but again that’s a very limited part of the population. And we have questionnaires that could be used on the general population, usually decades old and here is the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 12:35 PM
2	If male sexuality is predatory, do females enjoy being the prey? It seems like you think of dating as a chase, while it’s a dance. Maybe the male takes the first steps more often, but a woman who is interested in you will also step towards you, give green flags that it’s ok to come closer etc. Your post kinda implies that women being the prey, some resistance is part of the package. That may have been the case with older generations but it’s less and less common now. Most women will let the men know if they like them, or when it’s time to move things further.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 02:55 PM
1	I think women should offer a paternity test to the father of their child without being asked. Because if you try to prove your innocence in something you weren’t even accused of, it does sound sneaky; it indicates guilt. Several people tried to explain this in this thread, with examples, but you seem to ignore it. If you’re really innocent, you won’t assume others think you did something (unless they indicate their distrust earlier), and you have anything to prove/explain. If your partner suddenly said ‘Hey babe I definitely did not cheat on you! You can trust me, I even took and STD tes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 11:56 AM
4	The bar on male physical attractiveness is set so high. Why do women rate most men as physically unattractive? Also a looot depends on the quality of said pictures. Someone hot can look quite bad if the angle/lighting sucks, while below average people can appear more attractive on a photo taken by someone who knows what they’re doing. I haven’t used Tinder for years now but when I was single it was full of dudes who posted pictures where I could barely figure out how they look like, group pics only, selfies that look like the ones you accidentally make while trying to open your camera etc. Girls spend a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 06:58 PM
5	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. It does sound condescending, they subtly criticize the place you work at, and thus your choices. It’s like people trying to ‘flirt’ by insulting friends or significant other, or telling a girl they didn’t assume they could be pretty and intelligent at the same time; its not a compliment, it’s a half insult. I’m at university and my schedule makes it impossible to be committed to anything more serious than shitty student jobs, but I gotta earn money somehow until I’m qualified to work on the fiel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 10:41 PM
2	When it comes to dating, who are more entitled: Men or Women? No it’s not entitlement, it’s basic compatibility. Being in a relationship where your partner isn’t attracted to you and doesn’t share your core values sounds miserable as hell. Hopefully you find the supply for your demand and Everyone is happy. I think it becomes problematic when you expect the whole word to bend to your ideals, and label Everyone who has different goals, aspirations etc as wrong, flawed and so on (example: it’s completely valid to be family-centered, and if you find a partner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 12:48 PM
3	Have you ever been unwilling/unable to improve for a current partner, but applied those improvements they recommended in your next relationship? This. I tried to help out friends so many times, for a while i was upset when they ignored all the advice i gave them, then came back venting when things Indeed turned out badly again. But you can’t make others change, as cruel as it Sounds it’s only on them- and it usually requires a crisis, or rock bottom to realize they really can’t continue things the same way if they want any improvement. Humans are lazy asses, we want the most reward for the lowest effort. If you get away with shitty choic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/19 10:48 AM
9	CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat". Less time cooking? Lol. I'm on 1200 cal and I spend way more time and money on food than before. If I want to make sure it's not full of sugar or drowning in oil, I have to prepare and measure it myself. While I didn't pay attention I grabbed just whatever, now it takes planning. I can't afford to guesstimate because the error could easily hijack the 3-400 deficit I try to maintain, so I measure and log everything to the last gram. Also you guys act like we don't have to care about macros and mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/19 10:18 PM
1	Sexually liberated women will make bad wives To your 5th point: if someone shows you who they are, believe them. That’s the most common mistake people make in relationships; hoping they can change the other person. If someone says they dont want children, or marriage, and you want it, you’re wasting your time with them. If someone doesn’t want to be exclusive (or a relationship at all) and you keep around hoping you will change their mind, it’s on you and you are hurting yourself. I have been in this position, hoping i can make someone fal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/19 12:17 PM
5	Why was there so much backlash for women over how she wants to treat her husband? You can apply the same logic to men though. If he lives alone he would have to do 100% of the housework himself, so why does splitting chores become such a burden in a relationship? At the end of the day, he has to do less than in single times. And if gf/wife works (and why would you choose someone who doesn’t unless they are looking after children?), her income boosts his spending power too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/19 09:17 PM
2	Q4ALL: What is your number one deal breaker? Compensating their own insecurities by messing with the other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/19 11:00 AM
0	Q4ALL: why do some men on PPD claim that women cannot or do not enjoy sex? I think part of the reason is that, at especially a young age, you dont really know what it takes until you experience it. Now female orgasm is more openly talked about but at the beginning, it can be a lot of trial and error, and what works for one may not for someone else. So it’s possible that those girls couldn’t really help out because they wasn’t sure what they were supposed to feel, or how to achieve it, not because they didn’t want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/19 12:49 PM
7	A Woman's Attitude Towards Casual Sex Plays Major Role In Sex Within Her Committed Relationship Sex is a vital part of relationships, I agree. I think the attitude the comment is about is the ‘your virginity is the greatest gift you can give someone’ kind of special, where that mindset actually treats sex as a gift/favour of some kind, and not a mutual bonding experience/fun activity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 10:26 PM
3	It's Risker For Men to Have Sex than For Women to Have Sex I think in a long-term relationship, a plan in case of an unplanned pregnancy should be discussed. Sure, it might be different when you are there and it’s still not an easy choice, But it’s important to know where your partner stands before something happens. I told my boyfriend at the beginning that I’m not going to continue a pregnancy in case BC fails. We agreed that we really dont want children and we are mindful of birth control to avoid a pregnancy happening in the foreseeable future, but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/19 07:50 AM
1	It's Risker For Men to Have Sex than For Women to Have Sex She has a choice but it comes with a serious price. That’s why they have the power to decide- you couldn’t force someone to endure discomfort and pain for months, then go through a painful experience when it effects your body 0% and theirs 100%. One puts up with it if that’s their choice, but it could be torture when it isn’t. Also after the child is born it’s 18 years of responsibility- she can get financial help sure, but her life, options etc will be altered forever. She will have to be there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/19 07:30 AM
4	It's Risker For Men to Have Sex than For Women to Have Sex It’s amazing that we have access to birth control, I find it very important for every sexually active adult to use a long-term, reliable method. But there is just too many side effects that are overlooked and we are expected to just put up with it. In my experience, doctors prescribe the pill like candy but they dont bother to do a blood work or any kind of follow up to check its effect on the body. I Still find being on hormonal birth control, for me personally is better than not (awfully irreg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/19 07:17 AM
1	What women mean when they say things like "sex would ruin our friendship"? Why friendship and sex are mutually exclusive? Every relationship has a context and different boundaries. A non-sexual relationship cannot be turned into a sexual one unless both parties feel mutual attraction- but when there is that chemistry, it can be felt from the beginning. And if things turn sexual the dynamics change - some people mentioned before, things get weird and you risk losing that friendship if you start dating or hook up with other people- it’s almost guaranteed that someone gets hurt. It might work if Everyone involved is c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/19 06:53 PM
9	What women mean when they say things like "sex would ruin our friendship"? Why friendship and sex are mutually exclusive? Yeah absolutely. Also, there are different standards for friends and for a potential significant other. I dont care how many times a week my friends get blackout drunk, or how much stupid/impulsive decisions they make, but I’d be more upset if my significant other lead a life some of them do. I have guy friends whose relationship History would make me unable to trust them romantically, even if I was attracted to them. There are friends who are fun to hang out with time to time, or catch up regul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/19 06:30 PM
2	CMV: Men want to be providers more than women want them to be Plenty of feminist women have children and childfree women are not neccessarily feminists. Yes, there are people (men and women, though) who dont like being around children and/or dont want to raise one. It’s a visceral feeling, and does not have much to do with societal views. No one should bring babies to the world who doesn’t genuinly want them though, so I dont think that’s a problem or a decision that could be criticized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 01:43 PM
1	Q4Women: Do most men disgust you, or make you feel uncomfortable? Entirely depends on the person/group, not the gender. Loud, ‘dudebro’ types make me uncomfortable, but I’m generally a little anxious around strangers. Creepy men trigger disgust but that’s really just a minority. Most guys I meet daily are good company though, I like being around them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 12:49 PM
1	Women are picky, and it’s a good thing. They should be. Interesting because the studies I found about this suggest that there is a connection, but different variables play a role- household income, the neighbourhood they live in, parental behavior and attention. The children who see abuse at home are more likely to engage in criminal behavior later- so no, again, marriage isn't about tingles but it's sure as hell about mutual respect and healthy boundaries, and if one of the parents fail to provide that, it hurts the child to be exposed to that. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/19 08:40 PM
1	Women are picky, and it’s a good thing. They should be. The kid is better off with divorced parents than growing up in an abusive home, or being raised by parents who obviously resent each other, fight all the time etc. When they are damaged, it’s not the divorce itself, but the parents being unable to act like adults and cooperate; which happens if they stay together too. I said that since the unhappy couples are more likely to break up/divorce, we can assume that the couples who stay together do that because the relationship is likely functional. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/19 08:12 PM
1	Women are picky, and it’s a good thing. They should be. Romantic love is a relatively new thing to marry for, so is freedom of choice. Marriage used to be a monetary union, overlooked by the church. Wealth married wealth, title married title (or later, a wealth married title), the parents chose who was acceptable for their financial range- it had not much to do with attraction. Marriage in the ruling class was based on political interests. Sure, if you aren’t becoming an outcast for divorce, the rate will rise. Single moms are better of alone than wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/19 06:50 PM
4	Why do women have such a hard time admitting thier advantages over men? Reading comprehension?? Staying home comfortably was not an option for people who weren’t rich. I dont think it was an option for poorer American women, too. They didn’t start to work outside the home because they were bored, they did because they had to. And again childcare is not where all the work stopped- work unpaid domestic work all day, living dependent on someone or earning something and making your own decisions - the latter is more appealing for a lot of people, but you do you. Also, l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 06:45 AM
4	Why do women have such a hard time admitting thier advantages over men? What do you think women did before offices, sit at home all day? Maybe if they belonged to middle class or upper, they did have an easily life, but that meant their husbands also had more comfortable tasks. The majority of people who weren’t that rich worked their ass off, regardless of gender. Womens work might have been physically less demanding, but their duties didn’t stop at childcare and housekeeping, they typically cared for the livestock and do field work. After industrial revolution the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 06:12 AM
4	Getting married young doesn't work anymore because women want to be "young, wild and free" There is quality strategy and quantity strategy. We can expect to live quite long, so we dont need to rush, we can focus on education etc, so adolescence become longer. There are very different expectations towards children now vs then; 100 years ago they had to be more independent, older girls wer expected to take care of younger siblings, keep house as teens, and boys were expected to do hard manual labor, or were sent to boarding schools away from the parents way before 18, which is not as co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/19 01:45 PM
6	Why do some men (and more-vocally,a lot of RP men) sh*t on the looks of 30+ year old women? Especially that they forget that young girls not neccessarily want to date someone 10-20 years older than them. I understand that some do find it attractive, but most of the people I know prefer someone in the +5 age range. I personally found 20s guys who hit on my very cringey, we usually joked around that if they had to hit on highschool girls, they didn’t stand a change with someone appropriate of their age. I dont want to be mean but it often seems like wishful thinking. Some girls like olde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 04:31 PM
2	Why do some men (and more-vocally,a lot of RP men) sh*t on the looks of 30+ year old women? Sex for humans isn’t just about reproduction. Most mammals only copulate when the female ovulates (oestrus cycle), and it has visible signs (bottom becoming red, different behaviors etc), while with us there is no obvious signs of the fertile days. If it was really just about reproduction, we wouldn’t have sex except for the few fertile days/cycle. Now the purpose of being sexually available all the time can be debated, some say it’s for bonding, others claim it’s women trying to make men involv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 04:15 PM
2	How many men would actually be willing to be in a relationship with women who are virgins in their mid/late twenties? If you have nothing to compare it to, you definitely can’t tell. You feel if it’s good or nah, but if you’ve never experienced better, it’s easy to think that’s just how your body works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 03:34 PM