littles_secret Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Another date ruined because I keep going to boring conversation on the first date. Yay! I’m glad I could help :)	/r/seduction	10/02/22 07:12 AM
–	Another date ruined because I keep going to boring conversation on the first date. If I did this every date I’d literally get to my date, do it, catch my self, and laugh. I’d laugh when I could tell we both found it boring and say “I really do have a personality but for some reason I keep asking these cliche questions and I just can’t help myself” well smiling. When I openly acknowledge that and laugh about it it makes it light hearted for both people and let’s them know this isn’t the real you	/r/seduction	10/02/22 06:34 AM
1	Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone? I don’t think the fact that you’re logical has anything to do with the fact you can’t emotionally connect to someone. The fact you can’t emotionally connect and feel has a much deeper meaning. You don’t just smart your way out of feeling. Trying to think your way out of feeling is actually an unhealthy coping mechanism that’s usually caused by negligent or abusive parenting where emotional needs weren’t met from a very young age and have nothing to do with you being logical. You only have a low …	/r/seduction	08/02/22 10:49 PM
30	I feel like this abundance of sex is not what I wanted I think asking yourself what need casual sex is fulfilling if it’s not just to finish or enjoy it. It sounds like what you may want is intimacy not physical gratification. I’d say look into becoming legitimate friends with decent bonds with the people you want to regularly hook up with. REAL friends with a sprinkle of benefits. I’ve had super deep bonds with fwb without dating them and they’re the best hookups over any relationship I’ve ever had. You may find what you’re looking for if you chang…	/r/seduction	07/02/22 08:15 AM
–	Self improving but still no results with women, now what? Don’t just work on some artificial, surface-level, over exaggerated resume, it’s about your personality too. Your emotional maturity and your communication, sympathy, empathy, and interpersonal skills. It’s obvious from the first conversation with someone. When they say work on yourself they don’t mean find more trivial trophies, they mean work on your brain. Everyone could use character development. The fact you said “well I worked on myself, now what?” is the problem. True gems and valuable pe…	/r/seduction	04/02/22 11:36 AM
30	Should I give her a hearing she deserves? Being the bigger person is horse shit for “let them walk over you and proceed to let them take zero accountability.” Let her speak her peace but tell her exactly how you feel and that’s not ok with you. My favorite line to use on people like that is “Are you under the impression I allow everyone in my life to treat me that way or are you asking me to make an exception for you?” Knocks em dead every time. If they respond with aggression it shows you they haven’t changed or become genuinely regret…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 02:33 PM
14	How do I know they want to be approached I don’t think he meant it in that way. I think he was just trying to get him over his fear of rejection of assuming she immediately doesn’t want him. More like “it doesn’t matter what YOU think she thinks”	/r/seduction	30/10/21 09:38 AM
34	How do I know they want to be approached This doesn’t sound cringey at all. You’re walking up to a complete stranger. They don’t OWE you their time, energy, or absolutely anything. You aren’t entitled to someone’s time or attention just because you walk up to them. It’s sweet that they’d ask if they can have some of your time because it shows that they respect your time and what you wish to do with it and it shows that you’re being conscious and courteous of that when you ask to have some of their time but also saying “real quick” puts…	/r/seduction	30/10/21 06:40 AM