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I was thinking about it more and sort of realized it's much more tied to feelings of security. People who are confident in their partner's decision making are not needy in the same way that someone who is personally insecure might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:32 AM
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He's got his own life to live? Texting, calling, communicating all the time is a pain in the ass. Being at home and having someone ask about what you are doing all the time is also extremely annoying. unwavering attention sounds shitty. I want unwavering loyalty and respect. It's pretty easy to over-do it on the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:35 PM
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This has a very simple rebuttal: Aint nobody got time fo dat shit. Normal women look to the man as their rock so to speak but I would definitely not qualify normal emotional support as needy. Needy chicks require management. No guy wants to be a middle manager at home. Being daddy in the bedroom is cool, but being daddy all the time sucks. Your definition of needy could be more refined, would probably get better responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:30 PM
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"Be a nice person, "Just be yourself" only go for LTRs, casual sex is bad, Don't be a shallow hoe make sure you really like the person before having sex with them, never settle a guy who cares about looks is shallow, you should find a guy who likes you just for who you are, you should keep on being nice and find a guy who doesn't care if you're fat". Find a beta wimp to treat you like a princess. Sounds pretty god damn real to me for a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 11:44 PM
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Reading body language really well, anticipating people's desires and needs, great at developing acumen, knowing when to keep your mouth closed, etc. Someone skilled in the art of people. So they would be great in business, seduction and romance (consistent seduction to maintain the butterflies in an LTR).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 11:36 PM
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Long boarding through the neighborhood to a friends bday party, having a few drinks, fun people, socializing and finishing with a romantic pass by the lake on the way home sounds like something he would be describing. That was a date I took my gf on a while back. It was awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 10:34 PM
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Similarly, a high value woman isn't going to value a LTR partner for his "emotional support" she can get that met from other guys too. A guy who really connects with her and is able to communicate with body language, anticipate reactions really well and generally understand the mindset of the woman is irreplaceable. Not all emotional support is the same just like not all sex is awesome AF. Men with great soft skills are really the diamonds women should be looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 10:20 PM
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Everyone has their own schedules but choreplay should be aimed at making sexytimes more easily available than before, not just to "make her happy" because it certainly won't impress. She expected it to get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:30 PM
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Men will revert to juvenile and immature habits when there is someone to clean up after them (be it a wife, mother, or girlfriend) You mean they were juvenile all along and let it back out when they knew they had you. Your BF got Complacent. Let off the gas pedal a bit. Lazy. Men and women do the same shit in different ways. Men and women who truly matured at their core do not "revert" back into some teenage childishness because they got married to their "soul mate". Also, why would anyone want …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:16 PM
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She could always just lower her cleanliness standards. She's stressing herself out with having such strict requirements. Ever wonder why bachelors are so relaxed? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:14 PM
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No one enjoys favors done out of duty in any area of life. Its not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:10 PM
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Its called Choreplay, and multiple articles on both sides of the gender debate say it doesnt work. They're doing it wrong, you clean the house before your wife gets home so there's plenty of time for hot sex before bed. Most guys miss that last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:10 PM
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I always just wanted my future wife to work part time. Full time work is for people whose ultimate goal is earning money not raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:09 PM
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I like your attitude. I always tell my gf that we are teammates, lovers and partners in crime! Guess we'll see how it goes when shit really hits the fan in life eventually like it always does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:28 AM
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I guess it's possible that she meant "Let him be the leader when it makes sense for him to be" but that's pretty vague and probably what most people do anyway. My impression is that she had something more specific in mind, but I'm puzzled as to what that is. This explanation makes the most sense. Occam's razor? I find people tend to take too much of what people write here at strict face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:20 AM
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Guess the point is that I do no understand how other redditors make the assumption that people are 100% serious about stuff all the time and really mean extreme things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:19 AM
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It all depends on the people and the context. Lots of idiots hang out with other idiots. But definitely in general if a guy can make women comfortable around him (as in follow his lead and relax) then he will be winning for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:12 AM
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Just keep in mind those types of "debates" really can bring up some ugly things that get too true. Too true is when people really start to get hostile. Also when the truth finally emerges. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:06 AM
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Phd in a very difficult scientific field + very wealthy Mega low odds that he really has a high EQ. Someone with great social skills would understand how everyone responds to similar strategies in varying forms. STEM stubjects really suck the sensual side out of you. I fight it everyday. Also, remember that getting a Phd requires many years of staying academia. He probably also cannot wield any kind of manly tools or anything either. Most likely a wimp. Im generalizing but damn if it aint true m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:05 AM
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we do things for each other at a pretty even rate; guess we're both the leader then. When it comes down to hard choices you will know who the leader is. It's the person who makes the hard choices, does the stressful tasks and takes the metaphorical beating when necessary. AKA taking one for the team, relationship version.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:57 AM
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What reasonable person would assume that lead-follow dynamic would be 24/7? All of the concepts and principles discussed here should come with a disclaimer: "Only as much or as often as is relevant to your own life"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:55 AM
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coquettish Awesome vocab word, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:53 AM
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It's the emotional intelligence and relaxed demeanor that separate weirdos from cool guys. Women feel safe will cool guys because of the confident and relaxed attitude that they exude. Lame guys can never fake that part. It's just so obvious when you have enough social skills to pick up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:44 AM
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Depends on the distribution, but for Gaussian there is little chance of anything outside of 3 std dev
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:39 AM
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Most accurate description of why these men can pull so hard. People who have never seen the Alpha guy "behind the scenes" don't really get that the men spend similar amounts of time and energy as women looking good. You mirin' brah? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 03:06 PM
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It's unpleasant NOT Hostile. One hurts fee fees and the other is real violence and aggression with specific intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:43 PM
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9/10 is a lot closer to 3 sigma than 4. Much better chance :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:42 PM
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mango or gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:36 PM
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he's going to actually put his seduction skills to work which is not the case for women I completely disagree. People who want the top tier or anything have to try for it. You ever seen thirsty hoes all fighting to get a piece of celebs? Extreme example yeah but really women will try extremely hard when they have their mind made up about the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:12 PM
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Awesome post, I completely agree. Understanding men and women as teammates in a relationship is part of what helps me work really well with my own life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 10:02 PM
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If we assume that a good looking guy with awesome seduction skills is equivalent in objective SMV as a hot girl, then we can conclude that the difficulty is the same. Most guys are just way behind and have never been on a level playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:24 PM
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You can't rise above your biology? Then you're too weak for me to marry. Savage. Great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:50 PM
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Bore some blazing booty is my favorite! lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:47 PM
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Men with good seduction skills can easily turn women on. It just takes a more specialized skill set than being physically hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:44 PM
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All the sane people know that every single TRP concept is not limited to women haha Soplisism is strong with the idiots of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:43 PM
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but by all means chat me up I love to talk The secret to cold approaching right here. You can't sexualize the conversation until the girl is feelin it. Rookie mistake if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:47 PM
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Guess we can agree then that it takes more than numbers to spot the winners. It's a mentality not something you can put down on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:40 PM
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students were expected to spend freshman and sophomore years covering a wide variety of topics. I understand what you are saying, but I really meant like literally doing projects without being burdened by documentation requirements. Developing systems (in whatever field), iterating, refining and seeing them mostly all the way through, with a focus on the final product instead of a final report of the product. Guess the TL;DR is more tinkering with real world stuff than theory and documentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:38 PM
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Thanks for bringing this up. I have greatly improved my education by pursuing personal projects on the side that apply many of the concepts and techniques from the classes. I even got a great internship specifically because of one project I did in high school. I really think that those students are a symptom of our cultural stance towards college. People feel like they have to go to college and that it's something to just finish. What do you think about college much more being a social status ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:34 PM
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Those guys are GOD only in academia. They own their own little corner of intelligence and education. Put a wrench in their hands and ask them to literally work in the physical world outside of a lab and watch as they are mere mortals like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:31 PM
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Publishing in undergrad is for academic blow hards. Doing more projects that cover a wider variety of topics is of way more use than editing equations in Latex or word. Writing those papers sucks the life out of you even for projects you might like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:29 PM
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They're every bit as smart as men, and because the evidence is so clear thinking otherwise is either pure ignorance or blatant sexism. Maybe, but let's be real most of those men are also fucking idiots. I would feel ashamed to be grouped in with some of the men even just in my classes or college let alone the whole university. I've mostly noticed that the girls were more book smart than street smart. But honestly that also applies to men who are socially reclusive. So whatever I guess it's a dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:27 PM
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My gf doesn't have a degree either and she's 10x smarter and more awesome than most all of the women that I met at college. That covers sororities, artsy chicks, political chicks, business girls, literally everything. I often went out to campus and just actually sought conversations with these women. I was not impressed. Even had some girls flat out say that they weren't very interesting haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:24 PM
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I got an engineering degree too and used to do kids intro to calc finals for money lol. Easy to see what kind of cash cow it is when you can see such differences in "college education" But I also want to comment that there are plenty of people who took diff eqs and are fucking goombas whereas there are business majors who just corporate - ed their way through the degree and make way more cash. I learned that there are dumb people everywhere, and their legitimate personalities and abilities are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:21 PM
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I always feel like UMC types are much more authentic if they have some genuine dirty hands experience. Even if it's just in hobbies, past short term jobs, etc. someone who has literally had their hands in the shit has a different vibe than those without such experience. I think it's something to do with being much more connected with reality. Those people who understand the physical world definitely get more respect from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:14 PM
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I mean sure if that's the one you like. Bottom line is that not everyone will make it. Only a small amount will really thrive. Laws of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 06:02 PM
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Some embrace and dominate the struggle, others fall behind and get crushed by the giant rolling boulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:28 PM
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You're telling me that there i"nothing more alpha" than a guy being a string father figure, yet feminists have been hell bent on destroying any resemblance of male power because reasons. We don't have to agree with anything they say. Men can live their lives however they see fit. You are quick to blame feminists for positions that you claimed they had. AKA complete logical fail. Alpha men will do whatever they want by definition. So yes, many alpha men will build strong families even in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:51 AM
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Same experience here. Just remember that those women are the counterpart to the same dudes in that class. I wouldn't expect too much. Though I would say that there are definitely way more guys who work out and stay good looking in those higher level courses than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 09:08 PM
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There is nothing more alpha, manly and masculine than raising a strong and thriving family. Being a good leader is an essential part of masculinity and disregarding building a strong family is just dumb. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be the patriarch of a thriving family. Most all of your fuckboys have no wehere near the skills to pull off such an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:11 PM
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It's a joke. It's an indication of our society's view that men deserve space and women do not- a clear visual indicator that men feel entitled to the space they need to feel comfortable whereas women try to make themselves as small and unintrusive as possible in public spaces. It really doesn't seem like these "side issues" are really as much of jokes as you may believe. I see a lot of truth to how some feminists feel in them. I wonder what would have stopped women from taking up space when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 12:01 AM
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Always watch actions, the words do not usually carry much weight. People feel less bad acting shitty than admitting they act shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:45 PM
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Know your own value and don't feel bad when you are actually succeeding. Sometimes people have a hard time with success because they have become too comfortable with a shitty life and new things are scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:43 PM
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maybe not mentally ill but extremely insecure. Unbelievable amount of projection to literally break up because of something you were assuming on someone elses behalf. just damn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:42 PM
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A far more important observation is how a girl feels about settling down vs the past. This is it right here. It's not the number, it's how they feel about the number and their motivations for changing their behavior as they got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:59 PM
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Non threatening doesn't always mean disrespect. It just means that since someone knows they are stronger than the non-threatening person, they can get away with whatever and will end up disrespecting them unless the weakling sets some boundaries. Basically what happens to people who are door mats. People dis respect them because the doormat never speaks up about it. It's never usually an instant thing, but as time goes on people will ask for more and more. Eventually it will get to a point that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:55 PM
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Guess INFP gotta harden into stone in order to be cold enough to be considered an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:26 PM
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Just remember most all of the pill sphere stuff is for sperg lords and idiots. Everything is contextual and you have to add your own perspective to the ideas for them to make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:20 PM
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For some people being that alpha you described is just as natural as being beta is to you. Some people work at it for a while and being both alpha and beta come naturally to them, because they spent time learning both sets of behaviors. One isn't better than the other, but without black, white will never have contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:53 PM
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Quit being a follower and decide for yourself if approaching women is right. Approaching women in public was probably one of the most influential formative experiences. If you can't even approach a woman, your career success will also likely flounder. You will be shit at business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:48 PM
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Beta guys are generally pushovers, weak, non threatening, etc. Basically just soft, pussy dudes not worthy of respect. But in real life this feeling really doesn't surface much. It might be kinda bad for me to disrespect my engineer coworkers because they are skinny fat weaklings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:44 PM
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Getting a good job is like pulling a hottie for an LTR. Gotta be on top of your game to get the best. I also literally mean that job hunting is exactly the same process and procedure as getting a date. Just the context is shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:50 AM
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I always thought about those un-earned wages. It really shows the true cost of college. Great table. Thanks for sharing a legit perspective. Though these days an EE with decent grades would start around 80k at a larger company. The problem comes when trying to break through the salary caps. A lot more management and business are required to break that 120-150k ceiling in trades and engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 06:41 AM
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But nothing shows a lack of togetherness more than arguing over who pays the check at the end. Or going to the internet to learn strategies to help one avoid paying the check. That's the point. If there's no money involved this subject will never come up on the first date. It's much easier to argue about it on the second date when you know how each other argue! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:39 PM
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If someone is on enough dates that he thinks paying on dates will seriously dent his bank account This reason was never why I wanted to keep money out of the situation in the beginning. I am sure for someone like you describe, with the specific reason that you listed, what you say may be true. However keeping money out of a first date to me keeps things very relaxed. There is nothing to prove and the who's paying moment never arises. That said, avoiding money to me meant going hiking, out for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:37 PM
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I don't believe the man has to pay. I believe that one of the 2 has to pay for both of them. Dating is a symbolic gesture of 2 people who are considering each other for a relationship and 1 person paying for both (usually the other paying on the next date) shows togetherness. Going dutch shows not togetherness to me so I don't like going dutch. It seems we have reached a difference in opinion. Buying something does not show "togetherness" in my mind. That would come from things like cooking a me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:29 PM
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Were they not saving and budgeting their money? Keeping track of finances well could solve a lot of problems for a lot of people. Not all of course, but damn would it really get a lot of people on the right track.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:22 PM
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We might be assuming different perspectives for the guy. I am assuming he's pretty awesome. At least a 7 SMV and RMV. We want someone who's willing to risk it and invest in a potential relationship and not be afraid that he wasted his money/time/emotional investments. This is part that I do not understand your stance. How can you expect men to do that for you, when you aren't willing to do that for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:21 PM
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People want the best for themselves. They want people who values their time and companionship and doesn't count everything even the price of a cup of $3 coffee. I am honestly wondering, do you believe that the effort men make to move their body to a coffee shop to meet a woman is not equivalent to a woman moving her body to the same coffee shop to meet a guy? THAT is what I was talking about in terms of "time being worth the same". Buying something for another person is something you do once you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:15 PM
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Thanks for the story. Havent seen anyone as crazy as the man you knew, but I am sure more will emerge in the future. TRP does really seem to attract some of the people with the most to work on mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:08 PM
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For the woman, her best strategy is to find someone who values her and doesn't have doubts about her quality. How can anyone NOT have doubts when meeting for the first or second time? You don't know each other yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:59 PM
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If a guy is not willing to invest anything to get to know me, then I'm not going to give him my time. Why is your time worth more than the guy you are meeting? That is some seriously arrogant thinking right there. When I was dating I employed exactly the strategy you say you dislike specifically to avoid women with the mentality you are displaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:56 PM
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Why do you assume that people are always poor? Or that even with tight finances that people are unable to budget?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:24 PM
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But college is the worst place to learn about most things I'd go so far as to say Most of the content in the courses can be found online, for any major. It's the students that are lacking these days mostly, not necessarily the institutions. Though to be honest a lot of college was not about the classes for me. There is a great deal of life learning that can be done in those 4 years away from home (assuming you are not a loser who stays inside all the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:23 PM
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It's the same idea as meeting that "attractiveness threshold". Once you have enough it really doesn't matter so much. Which is what NalkaNalka seemed to be arguing. No shit it matters a LOT when you have no money. But when you have enough to live OK it really doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:21 PM
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Could be positive or negative: Negative: Threat of divorce. Public shaming in the community. etc. Positive: Warm, loving and fun wife. Consistently satisfying and fulfilling relationship. Integrity to one's own commitments. A beautiful family with healthy children. etc. Some people you just can't stop. They will throw away all kinds of great stuff for another dopamine high. Those are the true drug addicts that faked it for long enough to have something to lose. Ultimately cheating is a childish …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:03 PM
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People operate on incentives. Create situations where there are no incentives to cheat and it will not happen. This can be from getting awesome sex, having a fulfilling relationship or redefining the word cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:54 PM
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Nah I think it's not an offensive thing to say anyway. Stand by your opinion and don't let people getting butt hurt stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:52 PM
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Plenty of guys just don't want to offend others or come off as shallow, especially when talking to a woman. Afraid. You're right. Men who are honest and forthright with their desires are what women really want. (assuming the guy meets aesthetic criteria) Also god forbid someone offend a woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:52 PM
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The same thing that is happening to the monetary economy, income inequality. Instead it will be the sexual economy, and pussy inequality. History has shown this is the way, the winners keep on winning and the losers lose more. How far the divide grows is the question, not whether it will be present or come to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:49 PM
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Your friends are cowards. Guys who get good looking women are unashamed of making it known who they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:46 PM
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tons. There are idiots everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:41 PM
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Most women and men don't know how to train and like you said waste their time doing cardio for 4 hours. But actually just curious, do your friends on diets actually know that unless they change their whole lifestyle they will be "dieting" forever? Boggles the mind how some people can't look far enough in the future to see that they are wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:41 PM
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yeah pretty much this. Seems clear he did not show her that he valued their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:54 PM
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I started dating through just hanging out for what I had thought initially were casual encounters but soon developed feelings. So yeah, it was easy. The only time I would expect to have a real serious episode would be if I hypothetically broke up with my girlfriend. Otherwise, we always try to settle things before they ever arise as issues. Part of our relationship covenant is always making your needs clear when you need them. This keeps small issues from piling up to cause resentment or being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:42 PM
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I swam across the ocean and went out to my college campus and approached a ton of girls. The difference was that I didn't usually go all in and try to get pussy. I just wanted to actually talk to the women and see what they are like, really see if I could get to know them. Actually spending time talking to hot girls was definitely the best practice I could have gotten. Also, reading up on body language. It's way more important that words most of the time. I read "What every Body is Saying" by Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:38 PM
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/u/hugmuffin, are you ALWAYS serious when you say things? Perhaps there was some times when you had some silly gripes and vocalized them. Maybe you were mad about something that you couldn't change and said something about it to your friend. People say all kinds of dumb shit every day for all kinds of dumb reasons. If a man genuinely cannot discern whether his woman is serious about a concern or just spouting crap then there are far bigger issues. It's only "stonewalling" if the man KNOWS that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:32 PM
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Yeah I agree but you fail to mention one of the most important qualifiers for that comment. In order to talk out emotional stuff, men need to be fluent in thinking with feelings. It's hard and takes some practice but definitely possible. Guys with too low of an EQ will get absolutely slaughtered trying to "communicate" with their partner. There is no way a couple can talk about feelings if the guy only sees in absolutes. Has or has not happened, using technically correct data and arguments, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:24 PM
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socially stunted Somehow what you described is NOT? a lot of times people will introduce serious concerns in a lighthearted "I don't care either" fashion to gauge the room Without clear intentions you can never expect people to read your mind. Just to be clear, I also think it's bad advice for spergs but for real you made a completely contradictory comparison. Hypothetical women need to be able to make things clear if they want a serious response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:18 PM
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Of course not. But that is not what I am saying. I am saying move to a big city that fits your general style of living and political views. You will be much more likely to find a match there than somewhere you really don't like or mesh with the culture well. Move around and cast the net farther. There are different types of people in different geographic areas. edit: assuming that a relationship is a major priority in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 05:57 PM
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Would you be with someone if there is a good chance the only reason they are with you was because they wanted to get out of their horrible home life? Having to move to get away from a shitty past is completely different than moving to find greener pastures. One is by necessity, the other is purely by choice. I am only advocating for the latter of those. Growing up somewhere that there are few options can give a distorted view of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 05:31 PM
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I would say it mostly depends on geographic location and the average socioeconomic of that location. Move if you feel like the local market is horrible. No one is entitled to being able to find a mate from their own culture or area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 05:02 PM
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You're cute, keep at it! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:12 PM
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My rule with my GF is that if one of us is not interested, then the other isn't interested. Mutual interest needs to be there or the sex will just be robotic and feel like someone is doing you a favor. Sexual compatibility is sometimes not given enough importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:54 PM
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"omg you don't need this many guitars they take up so much space why don't you care more about our relationship?" The words of someone that has no interest in seeing their partner have their own space and do something without them. Good thing that's gone!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:37 PM
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I walk 20,000 steps a day before and after work and during work breaks, and lift weights every day, but because I spend so much time on a chair and in a car driving, it's very hard for me to lose weight. If this isn't working, either you are still consuming too much energy or not expending enough. Maybe some more focused training will help out. Also, doing more cardio exercise can help increase your endurance so you can work out harder. Good luck. I'm sure it will work out if you keep your head …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:30 PM
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Sounds better than what you were describing at first. One shot is better than zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:40 PM
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well no shit, they're basic bitches. but After they've been drinking its shake shack or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:57 PM
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but im sure you know moms and grandmothers with families that reflect your own who likely have sons and grandsons. Like shit, with your preferences they certainly ain't just gonna dhow up unless you go out some of the conservative small towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:56 PM
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it's a bullshit defeatest mentality cooked up by incel losers to make themselves feel better. not RP 2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:52 PM
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I am sure you can think of events, clubs or organizations that happen on your day off or after work, where like-minded people will be gathering. With your type of restrictions, you will HAVE to get out there and look if you want to find someone without waiting forever. Utilize social networks to find unmarried young men in the same types of lifestyles as you. It won't just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:26 PM
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Have you ever met basic bitches? lmao Those chicks are basic all the way to their bones bro. Shake Shack or die. It's too hard to get a good duck face selfie in a fancy ass restaurant with mood lighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:47 PM
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Date better women. Don't hang around golddiggers. Do I really have to explain this? It's really confusing how this is something people don't get. Likely because beggars can't also be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:41 PM
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body language communicates far more information than words ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:26 PM
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Your statements have absolutely no meaning. They are far too broad to draw any kind of conclusions. You need more real data to create a legitimate argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 12:03 AM
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As some others mentioned also, training will do a lot more for your mental health too. Discarding it because of marginal physical benefits means you don't understand what is so appealing to most people about it. Old people who stay active aren't going to gain mass but certainly do enjoy exercising and sports. It's not all about the physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:48 PM
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And neither do you about this guy's training regimen. You are using assumed data that is not factually backed up. Admit that you are not using real information, just stuff that you think makes sense. You aren't fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:47 PM
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Doesnt matter who raised it, you are still 100% rationalizing your behavior. It's painfully obvious that you could be a LOT more honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:46 PM
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It's not about lifting. it's about failure analysis and debriefing to understand why you succeeded or failed. Spouting out "it just didnt work" is NOT understanding why it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:45 PM
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YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:42 PM
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This whole thread reads like you are trying to convince yourself that staying sedentary is A OK and something that you really want to do. I think you're just bullshitting everyone, including yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:40 PM
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So you're probably at least 22-25% BF, got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:36 PM
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Your negative mindset is apparently holding you back from analyzing how, where and WHY lifting apparently did not work for you. Without the ability to actually do this kind of analysis I am not surprised you brought forth some pretty weak arguments about genetics. Leaning on the obvious "duh" parts of the genetics conversation is just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 10:34 PM
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Go somewhere in the world where you have the advantage - "home turf"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:51 PM
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Inflated egos. More attractive women being down to earth and realistic. Women feeling comfortable because you are both in the same league, etc. Plenty of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:26 PM
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I'm sure you can only imagine what would have happened if you weren't there to assist you man haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:22 PM
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Just another one of those general filtering stereotypes for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:21 PM
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lax brah. laaaax. What an awesome sport. Probably winner for most % of athletes that smoke weed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:39 AM
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I am so confused why you are arguing against these double standards. As long as men and women are biologically different double standards will exist. They will not go away until everyone is an asexual blob.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:05 PM
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Also if you look at it like "its a biological thing women get pregnant so they should have their sexuality controlled" then you can also say "it's a biological thing women get pregnant so they get to make the final choice what they do with the pregnancy so men should pay child support despite not having a say" but ironically redpillers would never admit this. You almost had it. I fixed it for you. "it's a biological thing women get pregnant so they get to make the final choice what they do with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:04 PM
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I won't defend those actions like they are highly virtuous, but really i think malicious is too strong of a word. They are not focused, premeditated actions with specific intent to harm someone. It's much more like just letting something happen rather than fix or save it. I'm sure as people get older their view might change on this one but younger people really don't usually have such hard rules of morality or correcting the world so that the "right" things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:56 PM
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Seems like you are looking at it as if the guy were looking for an LTR while also banging girls on tinder - which is definitely not the case. I was thinking about it as more of a low hanging fruit/ opportunistic type of way. If a guy is horny then whatever. Think about it this way. Is a woman who continues to accept expensive gifts from beta orbiters and use them for their money a woman worthy of an LTR to you? This is how women feel about a man who sleeps with women he doesn't respect. It only …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:33 PM
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So hooking up with women on tinder who have their own issues you never had anything to do with makes a man not good LTR material, is often misogynistic, is not good at choosing, is too desperate for pussy, might cheat on his LTR and so on. like what?? You are confusing me. Aside from all the other bs like n count and stuff. I really can't see how you can draw conclusions about a man's morality or character from him being interested in NSA sex with a woman he finds attractive enough for that leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:17 PM
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It's hard to respect anyone who doesn't respect themselves. Doesn't mean men won't sleep with those women who don't respect themselves. Doesn't make the man a predator or anything. Hell the woman could have initiated. There is very little you can glean from men being willing to have sex with women who have little self respect. Where do you think all those raunchy sex fantasies come from? A lot of men are into women not having limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 09:41 PM
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Yeah I gendered it but really dread game works on everyone by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 03:58 PM
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completely agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 01:58 AM
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cheers to that mate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 01:57 AM
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A woman who lost attraction is most likely to become interested again once she realizes that the lump of coal she thought the threw away was actually a diamond ring. Most women have pretty reactive attraction cues. Other women being interested reminds her that you aren't just with her because you can't get someone better - trapped under their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 01:56 AM
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leaving with someone else. I mean that is literally breaking up not dread game haha And I do agree even just withdrawing your attention can be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:59 PM
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You're right I guess it's just a shift of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:58 PM
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Yeah obviously making that clear early on is the best but as far as a after the fact measure withdrawing attention and giving it to other people is pretty much the only play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:57 PM
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Dread is usually only employed after there is a dead bedroom. The with holder of the sex only feels bad because dread game shows that they actually have a lot less power over their partner than they expected. The with holder of the sex is actually the true manipulator, they are weaponizing sex in the relationship to the detriment of their partner. EXACTLY what you are describing dread game as. Dread game is the only way men can regain any power in a relationship where the woman is weaponizing se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:31 PM
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You don't have any goals at all for improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 11:53 PM
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struggling to overcome your every fault I am a proponent of self-actualization. It's not a struggle, it's a process. I live everyday with the intent of learning something new. The only way to improve is to accept your own faults. I am fine with them and am not in a hurry to "fix" my personality. However that doesn't mean I can't have goals for positive improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 11:17 PM
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I can only take your word for what is the truth. I admire being honest to yourself whatever that means for a particular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:48 PM
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Cheers to your preferred lifestyle. We all do things a bit differently. I admire your steadfastness in position though. Always refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:18 PM
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No one is perfect, and to expect your partner not to have faults is unreasonable. Everyone has bad habits of some kind, and you just have to decide whether or not it's a dealbreaker for you. I agree - we are all flawed. What matters to me is seeing effort on the part of both partners to improve and work on their shortcomings. a growth mindset is what I am talking about. Interest in improvement of the self, with the consequence of making someone you love happy. Smaller things like tastes in food …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:17 PM
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I mean whatever works for you. All good. Just seems like a burdensome way to live (mentally that is, always remembering when to lie). Something to think about I guess. But if you're happy then that's what counts and all the haters can fuck off haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:11 PM
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thanks for the thoughtful response!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:00 PM
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You're describing a crazy woman with a man who is afraid of causing friction. two problems there. Flipping the argument to have a negative response all the time is definitely a red flag. And a man who cannot handle saying something unflattering and stand by it is also a red flag. Your hypothetical couple sound absolutely miserable. Also, do women really believe their men when they tell them that their lardass looks good in a dress? I mean like it's obvious or it isn't when they look in the mirro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:59 PM
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he doesn't know it's a lie. if he's at all smart he knows it's a lie. You don't think humans can recognize patterns after 10 years? lmao. Be real with yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:55 PM
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Sounds like you have settled into the routine of lying rather than changing behavior. What is stopping you from working on being early or him being honest about why he is saying when you have to leave? Changing your habits to better suit each other as a team just kind of seems like a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:51 PM
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Interesting perspective. I have always thought that it would be better to be honest and let him know you were not super into it. He could learn something more about your style and give you something that you are really proud of. Is being able to take a non-affirming comment unusual? I've always seen it as a way to get good feedback. Having a solid and trustworthy relationship is definitely not about "promoting good feels" at every turn...sometimes a bit of friction releases stress in the earthqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:44 PM
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If he really liked you back im sure he would be on contact. Just chill until he gets back in the area. Would be annoying to have a girl looking for your attention when you couldnt even really meet her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:19 AM
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I mean or you could call him and actually have a chat instead of texting. It's almost impossible to generate attraction through text. Plus if you have a sexy voice that is a major advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:07 AM
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Not at all. You're still cheating and dishonest. But you can't actually tell a lie until prompted for the truth. Crafting a story and leaving out important details is lying by omission. Because you were prompted for the true story but lied by leaving out information.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 05:34 PM
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The point of RP is to appear as a natural. Act natural and people will believe it. Why disclose information that will make people think of you any differently? It's not lying until someone asks about whether you are RP. Men who have really graduated from that cesspool subreddit will be honest and not be sorry about it. It's the people who are so inexperienced as not to have ever been required to wade through some bullshit to get information that are the problem. They are judgmental and petty abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 05:30 PM
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So, that doesn't mean you're not lying. It also does not mean that you are. Someone has to ask before you can lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 05:10 PM
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I believe that across the board, the double standards work out pretty fairly across the genders. So in the aggregate it's pretty fair, but when looking at specific issues obviously it won't be. If you can find a way to overcome or skirt around the ones that pain you most things will be pretty good. Don't forget about some of the ones that also benefit you. In general people look at these issues with too focused a lens. It can be easy to forget your advantages when you are taking a myopic look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:46 PM
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It takes a lot of WORK. People hate that shit. Only those with true intrinsic motivation will drive themselves to success in the area they are not naturally accustomed. Most people are never going to become even OK in their non-dominant area. Same way right handed people don't become ambidextrous just for funsies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:43 PM
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Probably because their mindset IS masculine. Having an aggressive attitude is hardly conducive to the feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:22 PM
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Escaping societal brainwashing is a burden that is shouldered equally by both genders. Men just have it a bit easier because they can more readily produce testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:19 PM
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thank you for bringing the real definition back. The hamster was always the what if's in her head that are supposed to create unreasonable drama and drive strong emotional responses from objectively rather tame behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:15 PM
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Double standards are a thing, get used to it. They aren't going away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:12 PM
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TRP can't fundamentally change people. They already have to have the skills, mentality and ability within them before they get to TRP to succeed. Incels and virgins are the ones who you should be addressing. There are plenty of shitty women everywhere who love the type of guy who takes TRP too literally and becomes alfalfa. It does work for some people. Just because you and the people you know, PPD, etc. are not interested has no bearing on the chances that women will be interested in TRP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 03:59 AM
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There are lots of people who find themselves interesting. Few who I agree with on that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:24 AM
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Most people are boring. Women aren't any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:18 AM
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Most chicks are boring and used to being passive. What's new? lol I would rather wait for someone who can actually have fun with me than someone I gotta deal with so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 04:52 AM
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I guess I was a dumbass. I felt that the disney princess was pure and couldn't possibly want anything to do with me because she was out of my league so I never pursued anything with her. Fucked yourself there mate. Why not give the nice young woman a chance to swing the hammer at least just once? Ladies first right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:47 AM
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Just makes it easier to find the chicks who are probably DTF. "Hi" is going to be way more of a pain in the ass than "Those abs better be as hard as they look"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:40 AM
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I don't know about this one. I don't disbelieve it, but I just don't have enough info about it either way. It seems women would only rack up a high count to begin with if they enjoyed sex, and I don't see a reason why she would just one day decide to stop enjoying sex. Also, logically, wouldn't a woman with only one partner over a long period of time also lose interest in sex? The more I think about it, the less it seems to be about count. Mental issues maybe? I feel like most of the time women …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:19 AM
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Sounds like you know what the situation is. Awareness is a good start. I always try to think of life as a vacation. If you were vacationing to your home town (assuming it was a new place) what would you do? How would you be living if your current situation was actually you living abroad? The world is an interesting place. Anything only happens because some meat bag moved his fingers around and displaced some atoms. Go move some atoms around and have a bit of fun! Also, thanks for reminding me, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 12:23 AM
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Losers quit. Maybe that is you. You think that lifestyle of yours would make your war hero granddad proud at all? I find it hard to believe you have such heritage and can't find motivation to succeed. Shit, even just motivation not to suck and be the black sheep of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 11:06 PM
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Most men are failures. I would rather be dead than accept failure as the default. Sounds like you got some mental issues to work through dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:12 PM
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LMAO ok, asexual homo sapiens with a victim complex and escapism as a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:24 PM
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Speaking from experience, the whole world changes once a guy reaches that attractiveness threshold. Like when he is good looking AND has some game to back it up. Your average 50-70% attractiveness/game type guy will find it difficult to get casual sex with most anyone except someone they are only semi-attracted to. As in "i guess this is OK, i'm on a dry streak right now" type thinking. After honing some game and getting fit, all it takes is a little peruse on tinder or going out to some festiva…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:10 PM
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Just saw you commenting about being surprised people are OK with longer periods between intercourse. I think it has a lot to do with standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:52 PM
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My social skills are going down the shitter. I guess you should fix that since you aren't a chad. At least if you haven't given up and settled for escapism and being a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:50 PM
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The difference here might just be the depths with which men or women will tolerate in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:48 PM
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90 day rule is whats up. need it at least that often to stay sane!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 07:46 PM
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That is not true, that is the point in making. We choose to live our lives based on what is best for us in the long run. Which does not necessarily discounting older partners. That was my whole point. The age difference does not get in the way of choose[ing] to live our lives based on what is best for us in the long run. Being open to different things is what makes us grow. Discounting someone you like because your friends and family might see it as weird or gross is making decisions based on wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 11:29 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions there. Nothing you mentioned has any bearing on whether men 10 years older are good or bad prospects for dating. In fact I would argue that older men are far better matches for women who are educated and doing well. Older guys usually have enough maturity to appreciate someone with drive to achieve great things. They also have their own money and won't be asking for yours. Getting educated, dating people you find attractive and not settling have zero bearing on…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 09:49 PM
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Social class and appearances drive your actions. bullshit It was mostly related to the idea of choosing things based on other people's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 05:56 PM
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UMC white chicks in a nut shell right here. Social class and appearances drive your actions. Not everyone is so caught up in the bullshit as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:30 PM
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I was just talking about the idea that your mood affects which of your personalities you are. People are not the same all the time. To answer your OP, "just be yourself" means to be the version of yourself that will do the best job. It's purposefully vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 06:58 PM
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Your world view is so warped. Go hang out with some regular people and remind yourself they fuck too. Your parents and family all still fuck. They aren't ALL 10/10. And no, i can guarantee that your whole family isnt "10/10" "models" "from LA"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 05:03 PM
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Think about those snicker bar commercials where the people are being hangry (hungry angry). Theyre not themselves until they get some fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 05:00 PM
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my pronouns are book/books/bookself That made me laugh. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:54 PM
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Big strong guy needs a secret back door in case he said the wrong thing! And big strong women don't? Being vague is just prudent sometimes. Or often times. Being explicit and clear is really only useful when things need to be exact. Whats up with the hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:45 PM
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Your story has been interesting to me because I would not have understood before I got a girlfriend. Though I think people who are fluent in interpersonal communications relating to emotions and feelings (so different than just information exchange) can overlook the ease with which they find the right words to communicate those feelings. Just using words to communicate information is so vastly different than using words to communicate emotions. With emotions the phrasing, tone, facial expression…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:19 PM
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On the other Hand this doesn't explain the difference in major choice between western nations and others. The most likely hypothesis here would be I think that women simply have to go for more lucrative majors like Engineering in India and co. due to economic necessity. More free to choose in the west You're exactly right. It's hilarious how in the places where people are trying their hardest to eliminate these gender choice differences is creating an environment to cultivate them. On the whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 11:06 PM
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Yea its funny but lets be real, coming from a place of power (being hot) makes everything easy to laugh at. Sometimes its hard to empathize with people on the bottom...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 08:39 PM
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Agreeableness is the overwhelmingly relevant trait. Not necessarily masculinity. Check out this lecture by Jordan Peterson on the subject. It helps identify these patterns much more easily. https://youtu.be/yOJR-nEhNMk?t=1235
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 06:57 PM
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Have a watch of this lecture by Jordan Peterson From university of tornoto. It's about agreeableness differences among genders. He analyzes how these differences in agreeableness manifest in people's personalities. There is also a section on how because men are less agreeable, they are more violent. https://youtu.be/yOJR-nEhNMk?t=1235
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 06:54 PM
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Self worth in my mind is derived from confidence, power, stature. I would say that knowing your worth and going after what you believe you deserve is a product of being comfortable with confrontation. People who are afraid will never realize their potential the same way someone with motivation will. There are different levels of how much you value yourself. On the bottom we got people with issues - depression, etc. Then above that we got most people who are totally normal but just not quite moti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 06:32 PM
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You have proven to be an exception to literally everything. lol I think its great that you understand your own worth. Many people sell themselves short. Sometimes even for their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:42 PM
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You always seem to give an interesting perspective so I hope you can give me an interesting answer to my burning question: Do most of the women you know not derive their self worth/ self value from things that they do? Do they fall into the trap of putting physical attributes too highly on a pedestal and neglect more self development skills? (This was always something that really turned me off to most college girls/guys - SO basic!) What about knowing objectively what they are capable of is grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 02:02 PM
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The main problem I have with makeup is when it looks blatantly unnatural, and like touching her face and kissing her will make a big mess. It's a huge turnoff even if it looks good. I want her to seem physically accessible if that makes any sense. Completely agree with this. Makeup can look great but it definitely turns me off from the more intimate face to face moments. Kinda just like grosses me out to smell it on their faces and touch it with my cheeks. Pretty much if I can tell it's too much…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 02:56 AM
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Tall girls sometimes get stigmatized the same way short guys do. Just go for it! maybe you can ask a tall girl about how it feels to be taller than every guy. Perfect conversation topic haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 03:49 PM
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To get over my anxiety with talking to women, I have to talk with as many as possible, AKA treat them the same way I treat guys. Wrong. You have to learn to game them and have fun. Women don't usually like being treated as "one of the guys" in romantic contexts. Also they usually are not looking for more best friends. Have intentions to bring them a smile or something, but for fucks sake you wasted weeks talking to girls you aren't interested in? Keep it short and simple! I always would put abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 03:47 PM
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Seems like the most important lesson for both sides of the shit test debate is that these types of scenarios can happen without intention or malice. Sometimes (like you) women can ask questions that are not exactly phrased the best, but without hidden agendas. At least being aware that men can perceive "innocent" (to you) questions in that manner is important. That said, definitely sounds like a shit test. Guys with enough experience would brush it off with a witty retort, guys with less experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:03 AM
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Yes. It's validating. Doesn't mean I'll reciprocate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:52 PM
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If you're so sure of things why even try to convince people on the internet? This post really just appears like ego padding, so you can tell people they are wrong and feel good about being so smart. Really not sure how this one could be any more clear cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:44 PM
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I agree with you. I have been forgetting people post questions looking for answers and not discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:42 PM
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I guess to me, I see you arguing for a different textbook way to describe a marriage contract, rather than a more qualitative and applicable to real life definition of marriage contract. You cant beat the lawyers with exact definitions, but they are easy to defeat if you venture into the nebulous world of social contracts and obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:35 PM
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Are you denying the existence of social contracts? In life they would appear to be pretty real. Being real under laws doesn't matter if your dealing with an interpersonal relationship. The arrangement is still handled the same way that a legally binding contract might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:31 PM
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Why are you dying to prove marriage is a legal contract? There is no evidence for that and it's a waste of time. Focus on the real parts of this idea and talk about the social contract nature of it. Maybe some stuff that could really be used in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:27 PM
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It's a SOCIAL contract. Not a legal one. Still a contract. Same idea as people not killing each other and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:25 PM
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Is it hard to believe that some ideas are interpreted differently through rigid, logical definitions vs working, realistic, how-does-it-apply-to-my-life definitions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:24 PM
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Marriage is not explicitly and enforceable legal contract per se however there are many advantages to treating as such. Marriage is a SOCIAL CONTRACT that is far different from anything in the legal sense. With such high levels of emotional, financial and time investment, anyone who is leveraging themselves that far would be an idiot not to have at least something that outlines agreed principles and concepts. A marriage covenant if you will. Something with defined common ground that was previous…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:22 PM
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Come on, you're taking the piss on this one. As a lawyer you should know that contracts in the definitive sense are not always written on paper. Marriage is a social contract agreed upon by two people. It very much is a contract, just one without any explicit terms or stated intended outcomes. It is pretty naive to think that such an agreement between people is not representative of a contractual obligation. Hell, it's even enforceable by the state, just like regular ol' other contracts. I belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:18 PM
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/r/pawg all damn day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:43 PM
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Might have something to do with me dropping hints that when I graduate in 6 months anything is on the table. She knows that I am on my own mission and the metaphorical judgement day is coming. Thanks for conversing, you definitely helped me think about things constructively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 11:38 PM
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There is a balance. Being an adult doesn't make you a man. Being a man doesn't make you mature. Just with any spectrum it is easier to gravitate toward and extreme than balance on the peak in the middle. People are lazy. Betas fall down to the adult side. Frat stars and gang bangers go towards the masculine side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 07:42 PM
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6 months haha She seemed pretty aware of the irrationality of the whole thing which was nice, guess handling the emotions is just part of being the rock that holds fast through it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 07:29 PM
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Fair enough, just kinda struck a chord for me. GF invited me over for dinner on valentines then got pretty butt hurt all her friends were getting doted on and stuff, getting taken out, extra special this and that. I told her that I respected her enough to take her seriously. Live by the sword, die by the sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 07:04 PM
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Just like we enjoy women who are aware of their own nature, it can greatly increase your RMV or ability to have plates stick around if you too can be self aware of your own tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 06:19 PM
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I also have a gf and understand what you are saying. But for the love of god... do you not realize how much of a pain in the ass having to decipher all of your feelings, emotional states and desired levels of advice all of the time is? AKA just get it from TRP lingo. It's like women want their man to magically be able to read their mind (which is contradictory to their words) while also wanting their words to carry weight and be taken seriously. Behavior in that vane is why I really think there …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 06:18 PM
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Ultimate confidence until imminent failure, my personal mantra. Confident but not willing to stand by it in the face of legitimate contradictory evidence. Denying reality is a fools errand. People who believe things blindly are brainwashed. They can never be the best because they cannot be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 06:13 PM
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99% of the time women vent to vent not to get advice. They wouldn't be venting about stuff that is so easy to solve if they wanted advice. They would not get annoyed when men offered advice. These are both true, therefore women do not vent to get advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:42 PM
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On first dates or such i'm sure the bar for what is an instant next is much lower. In longer term posts it probably has more to do with one or two specific incidents that break down the woman's the mental idea of her man. The women can rationalize some stuff into their relationship fairy tale but sometimes guys sink to levels that bring out truths women were previously overlooking. I also think this goes both ways across the genders but we're talking about trp for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:40 PM
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Nah, even simpler. They come off as narcissistic and a tyrant because of their insecurity. Since they know they're shit they fall into clingy and smothering behavior. The pussy as bitch part is a cause for the symptom of clingy narcissism and ego protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:35 PM
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Because they are smart enough to know 99% of what we say and think is pretty much bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 09:13 AM
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I cant be the ONLY person on PPD who knows that keyboard warrior is a real phenomenon. Guarantee that is a factor - these guys got egos to protect and promote. Like duh? Plus, going by TBP standards all terps are unsuccessful neckbeards anyway, how many really got the balls to do anything? If people really stopped taking TRP at face value and just even looked one level deeper things would probably be much clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 11:56 PM
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Because TRP is geared towards men, everything is framed in regards to their targets, women. Also a lot of them have a really hard time accepting that they too, can be shitheads. So AWALT definitely goes a bit better for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 10:34 PM
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If you can agree that all people have the capacity to be shitty, commit a crime, key someone's car, spit in their coffee, cheat on their partner, lie about stuff, etc. then you can believe that all women can be like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 10:21 PM
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So if it's cats or sports or a protest it's also not normal? You are being too broad. But yea kinda odd. Though you gotta give it to him for getting some actually legit data. Best data on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 06:12 PM
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Is it really that hard to understand that your approach to this topic has been from a top a high horse with a mighty ego? As if you are talking down to red pillers because you are the messiah who is never wrong? You are acting like a huge dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 03:51 PM
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Regardless of the experience, the basic idea is that you are wrong to judge moral character by appearance due to genetics. But we judge people quite a lot sub conscious and malicious ways anyhow just because humans tend to do that. So I guess it's kind of a wash in the end unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 02:40 AM
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Don't ask the game how to hunt itself, ask the hunter. Fish, fisherman something something. Asking chicks is a waste of fucking time! Real practice will always be more influential than words from anyone anyway. The whole premise is reliant upon men being weak and afraid of confrontation. There are a lot of people who believe bullshit. Many of them also happen to be men. Unfortunately these guys are so complacent that being comfortable is more important than results. There are always idiots every…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 02:37 AM
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They can treat you right and be great even if you aren't attracted to them. Just cause they want a ONS doesn't mean they are a huge asshole with no regard for how his partner feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 02:28 AM
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Birth, but ya know makes you look like a porn star with the stamina. Just get a good run up at it and we're all good. Also having sex really often (more than once a day) makes me way less sensitive than once a week or month. Which makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:16 PM
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I still do feel a strong hatred towards women and men who cut their kids. Read your own OP ffs. You hate my mom? What about my dad? They cut me up good. And yeah, I am less sensitive, even raw. Not like it matters though if you haven't had sex in a whole month. or 3. Or a year. Dating is life dude. Dating is business. It's finding a job. It's befriending people. It's all over your life. Just because people are not women doesn't mean you don't need the same type of skills. Dropping out of the mar…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 03:45 PM
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You're just butt hurt about it. Really not a big deal relative to other life conditions. There are a lot of things that are way more awesome than an uncut wiener.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:27 AM
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Great for me. Still go nearly numb during the sexy times anyway. Even with condoms still was awesome if I wasn't having sex every single day.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:26 AM
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the Red Pill has brought-me into a state of Euphoria, or Zen, or Nirvana So Euphoric. Much Fedora. If you're still butt hurt about circumcision I could safely assume that you have ample energy to go out and approach some chicks. TRP is about helping guide you through a more efficient learning process. There is nothing as orgasmic as you describe here. Revenge fantasies are for the weak minded anyway. Get a hold of yourself dude.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:24 AM
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But is it her attractiveness alone that causes the hard on?' It has nothing to do with any specific girl. The promise of pussy, any pussy wrapped in a tolerable package is what makes guys turned on. It almost feels the same between women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 05:50 PM
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I agree with your assessment. Though it really is important to understand the human tendencies in these situations because does manifest in reality. If anything I would take it as good reason to keep dating your spouse - you want to make every other "offer" look awful compared to what they have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 07:01 PM
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I was interested in hearing your response to /u/disposable_pants. You never answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:49 PM
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At the very least we could probably all agree that going out for lighter exercise is important for health. Getting your heart rate up and moving around is crucial to combat aging. Even just going for walks vs not will improve your quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:35 PM
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You keep framing the idea of lifting as something to do for other people. If you are not interested in doing it for yourself along with a defeating attitude, of course you will not succeed. But don't pretend like it will never work just because you don't believe the math works out. You could be very toned and fit if you really wanted. You just don't want to put in the work for it. Also, women may not notice with your clothes on, but they will definitely notice in the bedroom. You want repeat cus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:33 PM
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I dunno, maybe I've been hanging out in pillosphere/gender dynamics circles for too long but "hit the gym" is usually the default advice for men who claim to struggle. To be completely clear, "hit the gym" is NOT "go lift". Most people's idea of a workout is not a workout or going to give them the aesthetic that lifting weights/resistance training does. Just going to the gym does not mean anything. Pedaling an elliptical is almost a waste of time and that's what many people consider a "workout".…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:27 PM
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That will never work. It requires going outside and talking to real people. LOL we agreed the whole time and I couldn't even tell. Full PPD mode is unweildy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 12:33 AM
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I'm saying that regardless of any legitimate biological differences, people's choice will override them most all of the time. Why not focus on how or why people choose their interests instead of focus on a smaller factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:39 PM
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I really believe that you are over-thinking this one. Perhaps men tend to perform better on those metric you listed in reality because they actually like those subjects. Being interested is a huge motivator for success. Most women have little to no interest in spatial reasoning or very structured, rigid logic. People gravitate towards what comes naturally to them. Apparently men are more naturally inclined towards intellectual logic and reasoning where women are more inclined towards emotional l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:18 PM
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Because of the way that those legal advantages interact with society and social norms, they carry a societal expectation of independence. Like many other posters have said, women want to be treated the same as men sometimes, but not all the time and only in certain situations, etc. This causes friction when women want what men have but still to be treated like a woman. Example: Woman wants to be respected and admired as a C-level exec. She will have to be more aggressive and direct to compete wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:02 PM
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Even the self sufficient ones want a provider. A provider of tingles. A provider of comfort. A provider of butterflies and excitement. A provider of affection and commitment. A provider of protection and shelter. A provider of stability in rough times. Money is absolutely not necessary for a man to provide for his girlfriend. Men who cannot provide the previously mentioned traits try to make up for it with money. Money will never be the same as genuine masculinity and the emotions women feel alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:53 PM
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thin on the ground. Really not sure what you mean here. They are not hard to find if you are looking. Many women will just work with what you offer them. Should you approach the date as a mutual experience I am sure many women would not mind splitting. If the man approaches the date as a more gentlemanly type, the girl will probably expect him to pay. Setting your expectations and boundaries up front is the key to finding women who are also interested in contributing financially to a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:50 PM
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I mean I am definitely not advocating fast food as a great date spot. I usually go for hiking or something. The last time I took a girl to a fast food place was after we went to a rock climbing gym for our first date (went dutch). Went for some fried chicken and Texas toast at Cane's after (also went dutch). It was great. We're dating now. But yeah I agree that as a stand alone activity it sucks. In context it can be totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:48 PM
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for a serious LTR, a fast food date tells her that her date isn't looking for the same thing that she is. For someone who just wants to casually date, then they would be fine, because they're on the same page. I don't even think this is true. What about things like courthouse weddings? Is the man not invested enough to throw a big event? Perhaps there are types of people who are much more comfortable being in a relaxed setting with their date. Maybe even just prefer a low key experience because …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 07:10 PM
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Not if you dont let things slide to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 07:06 PM
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You must have friends who date women who hide behind social norms for free shit. Why then do your friends (who I assume are smart) still deal with such behavior? Why not find someone who likes to contribute equally? If they are not actively interested in changing it then they should stop complaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:59 PM
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it never exists in the first place when you screen for self sufficient women. When TRP mentions that you cannot be happy in a relationship if you are not happy alone, that also needs to be applied to women who you want to date. A woman who does not have her shit together and a job is certainly not going to improve your quality of life as one who does and is willing to split costs with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:57 PM
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The answer is incredibly simple. For women, 18yo can date 18-28 For men, 18 yo can really only get 18-20. Young women basically turn their noses up an young men. They have no money, less status, etc. Much harder to compete. I used to have to lie and say I was 23 instead of 19 or 20 so that I was not immediately turned down for being too young (assuming attraction otherwise). Young women have many more options and as such CAN make it appear that all of the "average" men the posters here know are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 08:59 PM
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Chads are the only ones who score puss. Dicks shorter than 8 inches cant make a girl come. etc. Unrealistic standards of what it takes to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 06:25 PM
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For the love of god please keep pushing back against the narrative of women being bad engineers. It supports and encourages lazy women (diversity points) and men (privilege). Fuck the lazy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 06:38 AM
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the vaginal contractions hands down my favorite part. Maybe it's just the legitimate desire. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 06:30 AM
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first clit, then PIV, not at the same time. Usually makes for way more fun if you get them off once before the sexy times. Still happens even if I don't make her go from the clit first. I also meant that even if guys cant get PIV to make them O, they could at least bring up orgasm per session numbers by giving clit orgasms. But most don't so numbers are probably skewed down from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 05:12 PM
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dismiss him by default. Definitely did a lot of lying about my age at 19 and 20. Women really are discriminatory about young men's age unless they are rich or particularly good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 04:56 PM
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Haha no way dude i'm just a little above average just over 6. You have a really stereotypical view of reality. It's kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 04:42 PM
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still be sexually available. You make it sound like most wives are not also getting hot sex with their husband. Would women NOT be looking forward to sex with someone they find extremely attractive as a stress release? A good orgasm can really help you keep your sanity sometimes. Unless you are implying that most women do not see sex with their spouse as s fun relaxation activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 05:33 AM
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-- is there some reason you believe there is such a connection? Inability to see anything from some perspective besides their own. Gotta love PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 05:19 AM
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Yeah and having to deal with that is a right pain in the fucking ass. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:56 AM
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25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse. 25% is NOT a small number. Most certainly more than enough to dispute the "myth" you claim it to be. Also so many guys don't spend the effort to give a clit orgasm is bringing down the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:08 PM
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PIV is enough to cause orgasms This is not a myth. It can and absolutely does. I make my girlfriend come vaginally through intercourse basically every time. We have awesome chemistry. Who told you that wasn't possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 06:03 PM
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savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 05:50 PM
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