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| 44 | silence | mental health | live_edge_biped | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/24 11:11 PM |
| 27 | manipulating identity | General | live_edge_biped | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 03:42 PM |
| 23 | the reactionary nature of activism | discussion | live_edge_biped | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 10:52 AM |
| 22 | silence and work | mental health | live_edge_biped | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 11:19 PM |
| 16 | leaving | general | live_edge_biped | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/10/24 01:46 PM |
| 14 | manipulating identity | discussion | live_edge_biped | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/26 12:18 PM |
| 12 | silence and work | general | live_edge_biped | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/09/24 09:02 PM |
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| 2 | Introducing Male Collab: For male voices that need to be hearddo you have a link? id love to participate. so much seems to happen on discord, and i just cant keep track of anything there. i find it endlessly frustrating. i suppose thats me outing my age lol | /r/MensRights | 27/07/26 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Knapsack of privilegesvery fine satire! i first read the invisible knapsack at a workshop. im thinking that i may print this without the first 2 paragraphs, so i can watch and see how far they make it before realizing whats up. i may adjust the order. this is a good tool, and a great idea. thank you for the work! | /r/MensRights | 27/07/26 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Introducing Male Collab: For male voices that need to be heardfantastic work! ive seen so many subs propose this type of project, its great to see the safe-from-reddit space come into existence. truly awesome! | /r/MensRights | 26/07/26 03:38 PM |
| 14 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...i think i figured it out. you are the author at 'make men emotional again,' often posting at menslib. ive read you for a while now(although i usually cant make it more than a couple paragraphs), and i genuinely appreciate the growth. that growth is illustrated by the comment above. i used to be a feminist, activist, etc, so i get that process. however your work has been liberal trash for most of the time ive looked, and the very title of your site 'make men emotional again' betrays the orientati… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/26 09:05 PM |
| 11 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...ill include my second edit to my original reply below this, and reply to this comment here. misandry and misogyny are literally 2 sides to the same coin. you want to weigh whether or not one is worse, just like the rest of the identitarian movement. to make a hierarchy of who is more victimized based on identity categories. your use of the word disproportionate indicates you havent yet learned the lesson. misandry only exists in peoples heads? its not systemic? what the fuck, man? have you ever … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/26 09:02 PM |
| 5 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...yeah i was looking, and made my own connections. didnt even notice the feminist flair, thanks for pointing it out. for real, hard to imagine someone coming like that as anything but a troll. ill make another comment with my own observations. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/26 08:14 PM |
| 5 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...real talk. it is an issue that disproportionally affects men, but is a symptom of a broader issue. namely the exploitation of workers. trying to address it as an identity issue is failed from the get. a million little laws protecting a million identity specific issues will never get passed. but if we realize the meaning of solidarity across identity, perhaps these issues can be meaningfully addressed in a way that protects the health of male stoneworkers, female nursing assistants, and everyone … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/26 04:14 PM |
| 8 | Is The Empathy Gap Book by William Collins good?i cannot recommend william collins work highly enough. it is absolutely worth your time, and whatever struggle you may have with the language or ideas. it is a deep, complex book which will challenge you. his work is superior to anything else ive read regarding mens issues, not even in the same region. the empathy gap is a fantastic book if what you are looking for is a comprehensive overview of mens issues, well sourced, and written clearly. it has an emphasis on the uk, but is not limited to t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/26 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Trying to create a local Men's groupwhile i havent organized a public mens group, so i cant speak to that specifically, i have organized many free public groups and events. and this got away from me a bit, sorry :-) i reply to your questions first, then ramble. for locations, its hard cuz american public spaces have been gutted. any diner style cafe, coffeeshop. bars and liquor stores. public toilets. normal parks and skate parks. light posts and bus stations. under and over passes. bike trails. pedestrian shopping areas. communit… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/26 07:29 AM |
| 1 | manipulating identitythank you so much, i genuinely appreciate it. since its been blocked from the 3 other subs i posted it at, im a bit limited for feedback. can i ask if there is anything in particular you find striking? | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 10:31 PM |
| 3 | It just gets worse with time and I don't know what I should doits a hard road, brother. i used to spend time with cancer patients, and i know treatments gotten better, but its still gonna be tough. people are often afraid of the visually obviously sick, partly because it reminds them of things that they work very hard to ignore. a small part of that can be understood through terror management theory. that discernment around how people treat you, and other men, should be something you trust. not the particular part about men being treated this way or that, … | /r/MensRights | 24/05/26 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Participants needed📚link is broken | /r/MensRights | 07/05/26 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Do male victims really have no online space where they can truly talk about their experiences?male survivor forums and 1 in 6 group chats | /r/MensRights | 21/04/26 01:57 AM |
| 3 | "62 million men participating in an online Rape Academy" or "95.1% of men admit to having forced a woman to have sex" are hoaxes, but they're not the only ones and none of the women involved have been held accountable (as they like to say) for spreading any of them. Here's a list:this is fantastic, what an outstanding resource! thank you so much for taking the time to compile it! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/26 12:52 AM |
| 2 | In 2011 feminist launched hoax that 300,000 girls in the US, average age 13, were enslaved for sex (implying millions of pedophile rapists). What is happening today is not new.thank you! | /r/MensRights | 21/04/26 12:41 AM |
| 2 | In 2011 feminist launched hoax that 300,000 girls in the US, average age 13, were enslaved for sex (implying millions of pedophile rapists). What is happening today is not new.thank you! | /r/MensRights | 21/04/26 12:41 AM |
| 13 | In 2011 feminist launched hoax that 300,000 girls in the US, average age 13, were enslaved for sex (implying millions of pedophile rapists). What is happening today is not new.do you have a source for 95.1% canadian men? thanks, a quick search left me dry. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If feminists truly cared about abuse and r*pe victims they wouldn't be silencing male victims and excusing female abusersthis comment is very timely, insightful and important, and i hope the readers come to see that. part of it is a succinct and clear way of communicating the idea 'often how things begin is how they continue and end. be attentive to beginnings' in our own mens movement. perhaps we can learn the lesson from feminism. i see too much 'mens' and not enough 'humans' in the mra world. as understandable as it is, this will lead mras to the same place as feminism, i fear. when the issues men face are fina… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/26 07:12 AM |
| 1 | 31-minute video from the YouTube channel "Masculinity is Good" (run by a female therapist): "Toxic Masculinity Scale (Exposing Bias Against Men in Research Literature)"where did you find a link to this channel, OP? this is the kind of media we need to lift up and emphasize, using reason and science to counter misinformation. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | 31-minute video from the YouTube channel "Masculinity is Good" (run by a female therapist): "Toxic Masculinity Scale (Exposing Bias Against Men in Research Literature)"for real, this is a good channel. i got some good laughs from 'the evolutionary function of dad jokes'. definitely worth watching. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/26 01:55 AM |
| 2 | "Injustice and Sex Offences": in a thoughtful but detailed post, men's advocate Dr Rick Bradford highlights some of the issues facing men in the UK in this area, with lots of quotes and references to back up the points made. Long but interesting. I will post a few extracts in the comments.another great article by dr. bradford. just a summary of current legal conditions regarding sexual violence, but written with the usual discipline and rigor that dr. bradford approaches his work with. nothing in here is particularly new to me, some of the cases i dont recall reading about before but they are nothing surprising. however, it is an excellent overview and timeline, and it is dr. bradfords work, so it cannot be recommended highly enough. i am most interested in why others think dr. b… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/26 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Being a man is a constant onslaught and I'm getting really tired.doesnt it? and its almost the same response as feminism to that criticism, lol. i used to be a feminist, but life as a man proved that to be a false path, and ive been very sad to see the mens movement falling into the same trap when some participants are aware of the trap. the drug of being told you are a victim is real. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/26 11:50 PM |
| 2 | I 20M was falsely accused of sexual assault at 18. I just can’t do this anymore I really need helpyes, i am aware of different types of meditation, safer and less safe in different situations. the article i linked emphasizes interaction with depression and anxiety, more common issues than dissociation, and why i linked that specific article. negative consequences of meditation can take many forms, and i often read or hear people suggesting that it is always a good thing. this is why i commented, especially regarding someone who may be in actual crisis. a random meditation picked up off the i… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | I 20M was falsely accused of sexual assault at 18. I just can’t do this anymore I really need helpi agree with the majority of the above, but i would be cautious with meditation. there can be negative consequences to seated meditation that many advocates dont know about, including but not limited to increased risk of dissociation. especially with the internet, it is possible to begin a practice with a technique one is not prepared for. i would suggest that yoga, taichi, and other embodied activities such as martial arts, dancing and especially swimming are all safer ways to begin cultivating… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | I made a song for all men to represent our struggle and bring awarenessfantastic tune, brother. thanks for the heart you put into it, you touched mine <3 | /r/MensRights | 05/11/25 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Anyone know some good, powerful wise books on Masculinity?what a great book! i second the rec :-) | /r/MensRights | 24/10/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do.. I am gonna break some day.im not good at the fancy stuff, and i dont have the palate, my gf makes fun of me all the time about it. i just make what tastes good to me, and shes a terrible cook so she eats it and gives me a hard time lol. then i mod the recipe a bit, and in a few weeks, again. im working on falafel now, easy to freeze in the little discs and fry only what we want, and i keep hummus in the freezer so its all ready :-) if you gonna go for it, start simple. chocolate chip cookies, bluebery muffins, something … | /r/MensRights | 25/09/25 07:35 PM |
| 5 | I don't know what to do.. I am gonna break some day.the line between darkness and light runs through everyones heart, my friend. you are not alone in that. nor are you alone in the breath to breath struggle to choose the light. when i read your words and see your picture, i see a brother. a brother i may worry for, because i see his struggle. not a brother i worry for because i fear what he does to others. someone i do not have to worry is a callous predator, because a callous predator would not be having this struggle. you are already doing many… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/25 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Remembering the Black Panther Party. Is it time for a revival?lol church is hard, took me going to the south to get there. i had no choice. im sure theres someone around. when i was in my early 20s in the rural midwest, i ended up at the senior center because i liked to play bridge. i ended up learning all about the history of the area, including where the hobos would throw the bundles of communist newspapers out the boxcar for the locals to pick up, a guy who ran those papers as a kid, and a bunch of other 70 and 80 year old lefties. because i liked cards… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/25 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Remembering the Black Panther Party. Is it time for a revival?some unsolicited advice- you might think about participating in a variety of groups in your area before trying to form your own. not only will you make contacts and learn about peoples frustrations, but you will also get a sense of what organizational structures are good for what purposes, and find what it is that you see to be done. good luck! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/25 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Remembering the Black Panther Party. Is it time for a revival?like any large organization, there were different opinions within the panthers. here is fred hampton, murdered at 21 by the fbi and chicago police because he was organizing a militant rainbow coalition between different races. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3mungAFfoc i think the modern 'left' could do well to listen to fred hampton, listen to the people he listened to, and building power by serving like the panthers tried to do. the panthers had problems, made serious mistakes, and were heavi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/25 04:48 PM |
| 8 | The lack of social support, victim blaming, and pure ignorance towards me because I’m a man is soul crushingim so sorry this happened to you. not just the actual SV, but the responses from your family. it sounds like it was rough, and still you have come through it able to speak. a testament to your character, and that of your 2 friends. the challenges men face regarding SV and mental health exist on multiple levels, and you have just faced the interpersonal level. the challenges are just different with the law or the medical industry. i dont wish to dissuade you from seeking support, but if you do, t… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 04:31 PM |
| – | leavingthank you, friend. i have a few photos, and i made videos of my garden this past season, in all of its various blooms. i am also bringing one bottle of my 'yard wine' made of grapes, currants, gooseberries, raspberries, elderberries, strawberries and plums :-) im on the road now, and i have 3 weeks of travel before i get to the new place. ill be visiting friends and family, so it should be a good time. its hard, and good, and so many other things. thanks so much for your message, and your kindne… | /r/MenSupportMen | 04/11/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | the reactionary nature of activismregarding the polyamory thing, i have met one group that wasnt destructive, so ill assume you have that kind of moral and ethical integrity and self awareness. thanks for not taking it personally, that in itself says something about you. i have definitely read some real feminist self criticism, but its been at least 6 years. it was old material, like between 1900 and 1930, and was marxist. also eastern european iirc. i dont know the women even considered themselves feminist. i read the bridge ca… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/10/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | the reactionary nature of activismi dont have the familial memory, but i have my personal memory and history, and as ive been studying SV and DV the last years ive also been reflecting on my activist world experiences. in observing and reflecting on these patterns, ive come to a slightly different conclusion. perhaps its because i dont have the long familial memory, or havent delved into the history and theory the way it sounds like you have. what ive observed is that the individuals who have hijacked moments of possibility, whe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/10/24 11:50 AM |
| 5 | the reactionary nature of activismi agree that it is a problem, that someone being critical of feminism, or the false narrative of SV, or any other mens issue gets labeled an mra. however, i would say that the problem is the identitarian orientation. by naming the individual an mra, they get put into an identitarian box which may have very little to do with their positions, behavior or activities. this enables the individual to be dismissed without being listened to. it is a dehumanizing process, and it is the exact same process… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 11:54 PM |
| 9 | the reactionary nature of activismiirc, in some of the recent research into sexual violence, the number of men reporting being victims of SV changed significantly after the men were informed that 'made-to-penetrate' was a type of SV. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 11:43 PM |
| 7 | the reactionary nature of activismi think this is a false dichotomy. some people are so consumed with day to day survival,for whatever reason, that they cannot imagine a future. they are not part of the problem. they are, in fact, one part of the process that will get us towards solutions. how do we build a movement, right now, capable of fighting for a future worth living, if it does not improve our lives, right now? how do we inspire the strength, courage and fortitude to win the struggles right now without a vision of the fut… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 11:40 PM |
| 4 | the reactionary nature of activismnah, this is my mistake in communicating if that is the interpretation. part of the reason i posted, i gotta work these thoughts out. and get comfortable with internet communication. i used to do activism, be a lefty, etc, now i think all that stuff is pretty broken. if im criticizing identitarianism as an orientation, one thing that ive started to say when people ask me if im a mens rights activist is 'no, if anything i am a human rights activist. not interested in picking a team'. although thi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 09:47 PM |
| 8 | How are you keeping your chin up today?i joined a couple online mens sv survivor groups in the last week. ill be moving very far away soon, and im building the support structure for that change. its intimidating because i have a very difficult time with digital communication, but i know i need to learn, and i need to talk about what happened. so im trying. although it is frightening, i know that i will be leaving here, where it all happened, where i dont have the constant barrage of memory, where i wont run into people on the street,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Relationship with Body Image and Infidelityi cant know your issues with body image, someone who hides behind their beard and hoodies is probably not qualified to opine on such lol. but my experience of shame is that it is always more complex than one thing. perhaps you are letting yourself experience shame regarding body image, although it is present in other places as well. this may be part of the relation to infidelity. i find myself reproducing the shame in myself in a variety of ways totally unrelated to the sources. im so used to th… | /r/MenSupportMen | 14/09/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Need help finding research resourcesmy go to beginning for any research on mens issues is http://empathygap.uk/ by a man named william collins. hes written a couple of books i have also read. unfortunate that its not https, but whatever. i have found his research to be impeccable. i mean that in the best sense, that he does not misrepresent sources conclusions or methodological weaknesses. i disagree with his personal conclusions sometimes, but the research quality is impeccable, to the point where i no longer feel compelled to ve… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/09/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Book recommendations?im surprised not to see william collins referenced here. hes definitely conservative, but i find his work extraordinary. he is always the first place i look when beginning to research a new topic regarding men or boys. his website, http://empathygap.uk/ is a treasure trove of academic research regarding boys and men. i have never failed to find useful points of departure for my own study. i have read 2 of his books, the empathy gap and the destructivists, and i found both to be as well researche… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/24 06:31 PM |
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