livenoworelse Archive

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3	A bit of a vent I think what you said is accurate for some. I happened to be in a similar boat. I do realize now that there’s more work I need to do on myself in order to get through those situations. It’s true, if you’re not in a safe place then there’s less of a chance that you’ll be fully authentic. I’ve heard it said that authenticity may decrease when there is a threat to the loss of relationship. So if you perceive that being truthful might cause the end of the relationship then that’s perceptions and whe…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 09:28 PM
8	I don’t think I want to live in this world… I'm on the precipice of a divorce. 20+ Years. I've been diving into many many books and counseling and learning so much about myself and probably what I've done wrong and right. I've realized a lot that authenticity and belonging go hand in hand. At least for me. I struggled being 100% honest in my feelings because of the fear of dislike or fear of abandonment. And that sometimes people try to force it and it just doesn't work. I had hopes that things would get better for years and years. But re…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/23 07:05 PM