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/r/askTRP18/12/17 12:33 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:13 AM
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Thanks man I appreciate the advice
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:03 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate the advice
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:47 AM
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I agree but I'm not beta. She refers to me for everything. Seeks validation from me constantly. Always says she hates disappointing me plus I get laid all the time, bjs or whatever I want. No beta bucks gets that, none.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:02 AM
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Very true that
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:47 AM
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You obvs didn't read the post. I got upset cause I was wasted. Never happened before.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:44 AM
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You telling me you've never fucked up with a girl before?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:32 AM
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No, that doesn't bother me. It's her house. I'll just move somewhere else. Who the fuck cares it's just a place to live
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:31 AM
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Hahaha good thing your opinion matters for shit around here then
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:19 AM
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That's a dumb new red pill guy mentality. I'm the guy whose been fucking her for years no problem. Just because you drop frame, albeit in a bad way, doesn't make you a beta bucks you nonce.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:29 AM
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No shit, but there is no decent looking girl that hasn't had that happen in my experience. LTR's are a game of probabilities. A girl that ticks every single box is a unicorn and they don't exist
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:18 AM
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Damn I've fucked this royally. Everything was going so great.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:07 AM
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Even after not seeing this guy for 5 years?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 01:59 AM
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Yeah not living together is a stupid rule in here it's never bothered me. I thought no way she would say yes to that. I just assumed I was too alpha to ever be left. Then my frame crumbled. Had I not been completely drunk this would never have happened. Oh no she didn't play me with sex. I just said that I'm not sure what I'm going to do here. How is that all good again?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 01:56 AM
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It wasn't a dig but that kind of misinformation can be detrimental to newer members. To think one or two drops in frame will result in their partners losing all faith in them completely. There will be times everyone falters but if your overall game is strong you will come out on top. Learn from the mistakes and grow.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 01:29 PM
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No your problem was you were a pussy whipped little provider for years and years and once the business started failing there was nothing left for her. It had nothing to do with one moment in time it has to do with a long list of behaviours that slowly eroded her sexual desire for you
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 07:33 PM
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I disagree to a certain extent. My gf started to think I was a robot. So I opened up a little and she loves it. It doesn't mean dumping all your shit in her. It means being able to communicate and showing that you face challenges as well but you always overcome them. If you turn into a soft mopey rag and you are done. It's all about being honest yet maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 06:39 AM
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All I read in that entire post was "limiting beliefs". You are what you truly think you are and I guarantee you won't ever be greater than that
/r/askTRP09/07/17 06:18 AM
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Yeah agreed. My partner has said she always wants to get married. I've always said I didn't but it's something she really wants to have in her life. I went and saw a good lawyer about it and under the right circumstances it could be done. The flip side of this is she knows I really don't like the idea. She gave alternatives such as an indefinite engagement. It's much the same really. Federal law here, not America, allows me to protect my assets before marriage. Then comes kids. I want them mysel…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:51 PM
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Thanks for the reply. You are exactly right here. I over thought it and text her later " you know what I had a think about it I have no problem with you going away just make sure you enjoy yourself :-)" and the response. She has decided she's not even going to go anymore. Doesn't feel like it and it's too hard. She had a work Christmas party the other day and I learnt my lesson. She said she would be drinking and coming home not too late. I simply said "make sure you have fun, stay out as late a…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:35 AM
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But I was invited however I'll be away working. It turns out she said this afternoon she probably can't be bothered going anyway. It was a shit test, a rare one from her. I failed it miserably, a rare one from me
/r/askTRP12/12/16 09:49 AM
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Yeah I never stress when she does he own thing. We both like our own space and she can be trusted. I'm over reacting here. I should have seen that.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 08:20 AM
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I've never been worried before. I think I'm just pissed she went without me. She knows the score. Any misbehaving and she's gone but she's never given me a reason to doubt her, ever.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 07:57 AM
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You are looking for a unicorn and we all know they don't exist. Past behaviour, although this sub sometimes suggests it, is not indicative of future behaviour. It just leads to a higher probability of future personality traits. My LTR has slept with more men than I am happy with (not a massive amount low 30's), but all her other qualities are on point. So there is potential for disaster but I see it as a lower risk.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:29 PM
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This. So much this. I wouldn't put it as trained I'd say held to high expectations. You set those expectation and help her get there. If she can't or won't, she's got to go.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 11:35 AM
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No worries hope you enjoy it bud
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:55 AM
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To reiterate your point My LTR hated that I hate feminism. She saw it as an attack on herself, her kind if you will. For if you hate feminism you hate women. She's a very rational person most days so I thought what the hell and explained it to her. In the space of 20 minutes she completely understood the other side to the spectrum and now when the topic comes up. She doesn't mention it all.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 09:42 PM
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Jim Stoppani's 6 weeks to shred. If you follow it to a t and you aren't shredded by the end I'd be highly surprised. It's a pretty intense 6 weeks though.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:43 PM
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This made me chuckle. Such a child
/r/askTRP02/09/16 09:55 AM
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Get him to read "no more mr nice guy" and "the married man sex life primer" tell him you want him to regain himself. If he doesn't then all hope is probably lost. Probably the married man sex life primer first I'd say.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 11:29 AM
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Yeah i agree but her actions are fucking with me. She was cold for 5 days. Then when she picked me up from the airport she was wearing all sexy clothes, had done my shopping for me and we fucked like animals. Next day cold again, that night lots of tears and I love you's when I called her on her shit. Last night all cutesy again and cuddly. She is never like this, who knows
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:38 AM
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Nah I work away a lot sometimes. She finds it very difficult. Everything is good now that I'm home again except she has been throwing these statements up there. I told her to leave if she wanted to leave, she said she didn't want that.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:15 AM
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Which is fine she's just comfort testing then. It's what I was thinking. I didn't think they were shit tests. I guess I haven't given her much attention lately. It hasn't been a focus.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:13 AM
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Laugh, laugh at the ridiculousness of the situation. My LTR is emotional some days. I smile and laugh when she starts crying now. I know the game and I'm not going to let it play me.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 01:55 AM
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I trained my LTR. She hated most things and was a terrible lay back when she was a plate. She was a total prude. Now, last night after FaceTime sex she says she needs to work or her dirty talk with me. She doesn't think she is up to standard. Just baby steps. A little extra here, a little extra there. I told her there were things I wanted out of sex and if I didn't get them with her then I'd get them elsewhere. She is now pretty great in bed. Just have fun with it. Play around get her used to th…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:45 PM
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It's not a full time job but I am aiming to make it one within 2-3 more years to replace my 200k a year wage. Which is progressing well at this point. So I'm relatively successful.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 08:53 PM
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I read articles all over the Internet. I like a more diverse range of ideas. But a good read is the psychology of trading by Brett Steenbarger. Obviously study a good strategy but then remember that's only a small part of being successful. PSYCHOLOGY and RISK MANAGEMENT are a must. I trade forex so I read a lot on fxempire.com dailyfx.com and fxstreet.com
/r/askTRP15/07/16 08:56 AM
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Learn to accept failing as just a part of doing business. Learn to learn from failing until you fail less. Read up on psychology of trading. No one ever does and it is vital.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 08:28 AM
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Don't pay for anything PERIOD. Everything should be half, always. I make 4 times what my LTR makes and she pays half of everything. Sometimes she jokes about how I should pay more because I earn more. Shut that down hard. The few times I did try to pay for things she would normally go halves in she got mad and insisted she pay half. That's why she is a potential keeper. Exception is birthday presents, Christmas etc, however I never spend more on her then she does on mine. Again she insists on it
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:14 AM
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My LTR pays half of everything. Whilst we don't live together she pays half of all meals, travel, fuel etc. Anything we do together right down to getting coffee we split 50/50. She actually insists on it and it's one of the reasons why I was happy to have an LTR with her. Oh and in case you were wondering, I make 4 times as much as her. She is dating you for you. Once you let her assume that she is entitled to something you've earned, you're moving into beta category.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:20 AM
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It's amazing to know that with the right woman with the right attitude life is so much simpler. I'll never ever settle for anyone again. They meet my expectations or they walk.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 09:55 PM
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Read "the married man sex life primer" it's fantastic for LTR's.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:55 AM
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LTRs are not plates. My LTR used to be a plate. After many months she became an LTR. She tried some major shit test at the start. It lasted all of 10 minutes. I told her to either quit being manipulative or get out of my house and don't come back. She stayed and changed her attitude. The issue is if you have been failing shit tests she will be used to being dominant. So you need to start creating boundaries, standing your ground and MAINTAINING FRAME when the drama inevitably starts. No shouting…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:10 AM
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Dude handle your shit. Don't justify yourself to him by showing him a picture. Give him the middle finger and move on with your life.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:58 AM
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Cheers for the advice ya'll
/r/askTRP01/03/16 05:38 AM
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Haha I've been called many things but never autistic. You are correct of course about the change. You spend so much time and energy being the guy (alpha) you want to be. Now that I've LTR'd a plate I'm worried I'll relapse into that damn beta pussy I was before.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 05:34 AM
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Just do, don't think. How you view your sexual circumstances is shrouded by the way you're letting your anxieties dictate your thought process. Practice makes perfect. Just keep trying. The first time you will probably cum in 30 seconds. Who cares. Because your going to fuck that girl again and again and again. But the 3rd or 4th time you'll be fucking her for a long while and then start getting creative ;) Don't take pills or drink too much (one or two is ok if you are really nervous) otherwise…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 06:53 AM
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Enjoy life doing what YOU want to do
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:41 AM
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Whilst I agree with the sentiment. This is actually a comfort test. However the same still applies. The technique will work either way.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 11:07 PM
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Leave immediately. No contact. Nothing. She's a slutty little slut and if you forgive this nonsense then it's only going to escalate.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 04:43 AM
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Have you actually read it properly? It tells you in there. The incidental allows you to get away with the overt. So it is step by step incidental -> overt. Work through the levels. Use as a guide only, it's not a strict mantra. You can usually feel it out after a while.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:28 PM
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It is that one. It's not very complex at all. Just work on getting better at stages. My only advice is the sooner you start to escalate the easier the escalation will be.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:38 PM
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You escalate early to ensure it ends the way it did. If you don't set the tone of the interaction she may believe that you just want to be friend. Escalate from the start. The first minute you meet. Hug your date on arrival or at least kiss on the cheek. Then very subtly continue the escalation. Don't overdo it. There is an escalation guide here somewhere. Overseas game is easy. It's great for overcoming fear and working on your game. But when you get back home that's when the real test begins.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:38 PM
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Honestly a red pill man doesn't need to give a why. Of course you can if you wish. However if you wish, a red pill man tells her the truth because that's what he is about. He doesn't need to lie because he doesn't care what the negative reaction might be. I'm breaking up with you because i want to be single. Grow a pair and be a man. That's why we are here. Every time you face these things yourself you are one step closer to being red pill.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:31 PM
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Leave it alone. Drop a few subtle hints if you feel it necessary. I tried to help out my best friend who is on a long road to misery. Crazy fat girlfriend who controls his life. He wouldn't hear it. We almost had a falling out over it. You cant help him, he can only help himself.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:25 PM
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This is terrible advice. If she says she loves you back you're fucked.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:36 PM
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That was her system to stop me from having sex with her until she was "ready". Long pubic hair. What part of disgusting don't you get?
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:33 PM
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Just lay it down hard. I'm not interested. Get the fuck out of my place. I had this dr come over months ago. Got into my bed, got naked and and she had not shaved her downstairs. It was a Forrest. She then told me we couldn't have sex. Me: yeah that's cool, it's probably best if you leave. Her: what? Me: go home. Her: hahaha.... Oh you're serious? Me: yeah just pull the door closed on the way out. Her: im not leaving Me: seriously, get the fuck out. She left She still texted me the next day. I t…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 01:39 PM
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Maintaining frame is about being 100% you. Not letting anything change or impact that. If I'm not happy about something she does I mention it. What I don't do is get mad, yell, etc. It's simply I don't like such and such and I want you to stop doing it. If you say nothing, ignore it, she will just keep on doing it. Why would I put up with that?
/r/askMRP19/12/15 01:48 AM
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Thanks man. Appreciate the input. You're right it was a moment of self reflection. I need to make a few adjustments along the way.
/r/askMRP19/12/15 01:45 AM
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Yeah you are right. I need to just chill a little and not expect everything is her trying to take control. Cheers
/r/askMRP19/12/15 01:42 AM
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Thanks. This is great advice. Exactly what I needed to hear. Some beta will not hurt too much.
/r/askMRP18/12/15 09:43 PM
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If she doesn't want to talk about it fine. If she does, ask her what she is going to do about it. It's her problem, it's not your job to fix it. Never get on the habit of trying to solve her bad moods for her. My gf knows not to be in a mood around me. If she is I just ignore her (read a book or whatever) and she always apologises later.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:01 PM
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I'm leaving in 30 minutes, whoever is late buys the first round ;-)
/r/askTRP06/12/15 04:54 PM
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Cheers guys I bought the ebook and checked out that blog.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:33 AM
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Read NO MORE MR NICE GUY by Robert Glover. It's a free downloadable PDF. It talks about doing things for yourself and not what/how other people perceive you. There are a lot of great chapters about self development and growth. However I don't agree with some of the LTR advice, it is mostly a good read. On another point, people come to the red pill for many reasons. A main one is to be better woman and have control over their interactions with them. If this is truly not one of your goals then ach…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:49 PM
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Totally agree. A simple "I didn't say they where good moves" with a killer grin would be the winner IMO
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:06 PM
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They can't be responsible because they haven't heard or been exposed to anything else. How can someone be blamed for not understanding concepts that they haven't been taught or exposed too?? The anti man (feminist) movement has been a slow progressive beast. Sure some individuals and individuals movements are to blame but the vast majority are just sheep who don't see the wolf. Yes, society is made up of women and men but as above, apportioning blame is not how you will solve the problem. Teachi…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 09:06 PM
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You can't be mad at blue pill men who have been conditioned by society. It isn't their fault, neither is it women's fault for letting the hamster run wild. It's the way society has made them. Just be thankful we can see the truth for what it is and hope more men follow suit.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:30 PM
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Of course I care. I'm not going to attempt a LTR with a chick who thinks she can put my balls in a jar. But as I already said she pays her own way, every time. More often than not she pays more and buys me things and I don't reciprocate. She knows I've got plates and she knows I can go out and get women when I want as well. I am clearly alpha in her eyes. There is no quality about her apart from lots of partners that would make me not want to date her. It's just this and I don't know if it's a d…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:25 PM
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Reading this has put me further into a predicament I stumbled into the other night. Met a girl, let's call her Jane, a few months back through a mutual friend. Went out, really hit it off, but she came across as a bit of a prude. She was so friendly, polite, well mannered and not bad on the eyes at all (HB8). She insists on paying her own way and always insists on buying me things. All the people that I know who know Jane say she is amazing. So anyways we hooked up after 3 dates. The time in bet…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:09 PM
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It really depends where you live. Some countries have excellent employment and salaries for university graduates. The same goes for certain fields in certain countries. I've never understood people who don't look at the job market before deciding on a career. It's great having a degree in something you enjoy or are good at, however if you can't get work or you work 70 hours a week for a pittance will you really be happy? Most 1st world governments have the information you would require. I work i…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:05 PM
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Statistics in Australia show that 30% of all domestic violence is against men. I'm glad the feminists (the equality warriors) have recognised this issue.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:38 PM
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Haha clearly you didn't read the post. Do you really have nothing better to do with your time then trying to troll individuals on reddit?? You sad fuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:08 PM
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Haha probably not. But thats more to do with hard work and dedication. If I was putting in the hours and only making 34k I'd be disappointed in myself for not better managing my life. I enjoy being able to buy the things I want, when I want. My hard work gets me there and if it wasn't I'd find a way it could. In saying that though, I understand that some people perhaps put a lot of time into non profits and volunteer work. I'm not one of those individuals. If your happy making 34k and are using …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 03:18 AM
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I couldn't agree with you more. I make a lot of money but being wealthy will not increase your self worth if you are lacking in other area's (woman, healthy friendships, achieving goals etc.). I'd honestly say I'd rather make 100k a year and be happy with my life and the path I'm working on than the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:54 PM
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Agreed. I make more money than 97% of the population and I didn't even go to college. A clear path and hard work will trump any other advice in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:08 PM
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Now explain what having a left leaning political ideology has to do with being red pill?? The correct answer here is nothing
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:48 PM
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