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Texting is kind of hit or miss with people. If she's not interested in you, she will not make the effort to really text that much. If you want to see it through, I'd suggest asking her out. It's best to talk in person. Be casual about it, just ask her if she'd like to join you. In my experience, being direct will reveal whether or not she's interested, and therefore you no longer have to waste your time. She'll say yes, no, or make up an excuse. Once the offer for the date is out there and she s…
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:11 AM
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This is a great answer. People have their secret struggles, and relationships are all about unravelling the protective layers that we cover ourselves with to hide our fears and insecurities. This is /r/seduction, I'm not confusing the intention of people in this sub with those of people looking for relationships... but if we start at the point where we recognize that every human being has parts of them that they don't want to show, then we can connect with them more directly than trying to compe…
/r/seduction09/06/15 05:27 PM
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So my response is a bit late, but I'm going to keep it simple. Go over to her place, sit and watch movie, and don't initiate sex. Rather, initiate contact and eventual kissing. If you go into it thinking 'sex' rather than first developing the comfort necessary to even get there, you'll overthink yourself into a rut. Sure, you're both there for sex, but you don't go from movie to sex with a stranger, not unless you're paying for it or if you show up at her door and she's wearing nothing. Making o…
/r/seduction08/12/14 04:31 PM
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While I agree with your sentiment, it'd be nice to not get my hopes up when I get the number, and this is a decent way of finding out. If she says yes to the false number, I'd simply let it go and move on from there without having to embarass myself later.
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:52 PM
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If you're not interested in making an effort to better your approach and overall self confidence, I don't know what you and those who upvoted you are doing in /r/seduction. If you want to feel bad about yourself go lament with those sad bastards over in /r/theredpill. On the other hand, if you want to learn how actual self-improvement and confidence building can help you meet and attract women, stop with these moronic, self-defeating comments and start actually making a difference in your own li…
/r/seduction29/08/14 09:49 PM
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Very well said.
/r/seduction03/07/14 01:16 PM
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Maybe her boyfriend is a great guy and she's not much of a girlfriend, eh? You have to ask yourself if you want to be the guy with whom she cheats, if you want that drama, and if you want that kind of BS in your life? Do you care that she's a potential cheater? Is this the kind of woman you want to be physically involved with? Do you want to be the person that she potentially uses in order to find a cheap and childish way out of her own relationship?
/r/seduction03/07/14 12:01 PM
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I dunno, I think he took a risk by buying the ticket, but OP was just being a good guy. Any normal guy who has any kind of positive expectation from a date would go ahead and buy the ticket, granting the girl the benefit of the doubt that she is in fact running a bit late. I bet he would have not asked for the money back if she would have shown a bit of reciprocation and spent 5 minutes conversing with him like he was more than a means to her ends (seeing the movie). Him going ahead and asking f…
/r/seduction04/06/14 06:09 PM
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I completely agree with the first part, but disagree with the last few sentences. I think by asking for his money he sent her a clear message that he recognized her little free-movie ruse and wasn't going to go along with it passively. By doing so, he's saying This was a date where we're supposed to be on equal footing, I compromised with by going along with the movie idea, but I'm not going to play into your game and pay for you. We're not going to build a rapport by sitting quietly in a theate…
/r/seduction04/06/14 06:04 PM
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Society places expectations on you as a male. To expect a man to pay for a date is as much of a gender stereotype as any. If you wanted to pay and felt good about it, then yeah, pay, good on you. If you felt like she played a bit of a game with you, coming up with an excuse to avoid drinks with you before hand (though unverifiable, I'm suspicious of the excuse of being kept late at work), and flat out say no to you after the date (when she could have made up for being late), then she clearly was…
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:49 PM
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You're an idiot, but we love you. Good on ya bro:)
/r/seduction30/05/14 03:21 PM
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Don't be afraid to walk away, there will be more girls out there. Respect women, but first and foremost respect yourself. Be a geek, be a nerd, play sports, read books, workout and train, run, cycle, travel, and do all of those things with pride and an effort - never abandon your passions in order to appear a certain way for someone else. Be the best version of you that you can be in order to be happy first, then girls will come.
/r/seduction29/05/14 12:05 PM
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I had a similar experience with a girl in my early 20s. Fell madly in love super fast, and before I knew it I was being physically and emotionally abused by this woman that I 'loved'. She cut herself, threatened me, would demonstrate crazy bi-polar behaviour, cheated on me constantly behind my back while lying to my face, and made me miserable for many years. The only thing you can do is to completely cut her out of your life. She threatens to commit suicide? Don't respond. She calls you names a…
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:31 PM
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This is a good start. 'I ended up having a really great night either way. If you want to hang out let me know,' and just leave it at that without paying any attention to it. Also, cool down the flirtation with her, it will let her know that if she wants a chance with you she's going to have to get her shit together. When a woman treats a guy poorly or with disrespect, doesn't apologize, and acts flippant, she certainly won't treat him better if he acts like nothing happened.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:05 PM
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^ best answer. One need not spend tons of money to get laid, and much less so in order to develop an ongoing relationship. If you tell her and she drops you she's officially done you a favor, unless high-priced escort wannabes are your thing.
/r/seduction16/03/14 07:06 PM
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A witty comeback won't make your hands bigger, you've got to be comfortable with yourself. Precisely, especially not pre-meditated combacks, because you'll just end up looking for reasons to use them, likely subconsciously directing the conversation towards your own insecurities. Fuck it, some men have bitch tits, some men have chicken legs, some men have no hair, some men have hairy backs, etc. Own your imperfections.
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:37 PM
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Sometimes a little cold water to the face is all we need. Become the man you want to be, women will come later.
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:17 PM
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You're probably not clinically depressed and don't need therapy. Sounds like you just need to figure out who you are, find things that you're passionate about, develop your personality and character by pushing yourself beyond your limits. Forget about women for now. Take up a new hobby, set a new goal that you never thought yourself capable of achieving, go out and live your life. You're 21, women your age kind of suck either way. Don't feel sorry for yourself, stop complaining and take control …
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:33 PM
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If you find yourself in bed with them again, inch your way closer to him physically, and then look at him in the eyes, and when you do, go for it and kiss him. If you want something, go for it. If he responds, then enjoy whatever comes of it (but be safe), and if he's not into it, respect that shit and move on with your life to the next encounter. Don't hold on to 'failure', there's no such thing, you can't make someone give you what you want. But don't expect people to just open up to you if yo…
/r/seduction25/11/13 04:00 PM
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This is an excellent way of looking at personal development and confidence building through a completely different POV. 'I am awesome not because I am somehow entitled to that status, but because of how I live, how I treat myself, and how I look at life as an adventure in personal development.' If you can't enjoy going out on adventures or cooking amazing meals for yourself, how can you expect to enjoy doing those things with someone else? The ability to be happy and find meaning for one's self …
/r/seduction16/11/13 08:13 PM
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Have a conversation with her, 'I understand that at the time we were different people, and looking back with regret won't change anything. That being said, that was then, now is now, and I've moved on'.
/r/seduction14/11/13 01:49 PM
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I was just going to say, 'how would you approach girls?' You wouldn't, because there wouldn't be any.
/r/seduction31/10/13 12:47 PM
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OP, this is one of the best responses. Don't pull away completely after the kiss, just kind of hover a bit with your forehead lightly pressed against hers, and make brief eye contact while smiling. Then go in for another.
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:36 PM
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You got it.
/r/seduction12/09/13 09:19 PM
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Exactly, and it's the number one thing that we try to focus on in /r/seduction... bettering one's self for the sake of being confident and happy. Actually picking up and getting laid and seducing can only come after that first step has been achieved.
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:15 PM
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Just because a stereotype is dated does not mean that the stereotype isn't true. If this logic follows, then you're the stereotype of an ignorant 19 year old frat boy wannabe who fears being associated with less alpha men, a concern that stems from his own mistrust in his sexuality. So in order to overcome this, he calls others gayboys and uses other homophobic slurs while acting overly macho, in a misguided and utterly futile attempt to hide his own questioning of his sexuality, or at least, ma…
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:25 PM
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If you project confidence and take care of yourself, you can be attractive no matter what your self-perceived failings.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:44 PM
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No. That's bullshit. Using homophobic slurs may not mean that you're homophic per se, but it shows your disregard for homosexuality and your association of less than alpha men as being gay. I know gay men that are alpha as fuck, and I know straight men whose wives are the leaders in their marriage. It's a false association and dated stereotype, time to grow up.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:44 PM
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You give good advice, just drop the stupid 'gayboy' shit, it's ignorant and takes away from you overall argument.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:41 PM
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^ this is a good answer.
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:42 PM
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For me, it's a definite 'no'. I lost my own virginity to another virgin, and that was something pretty special at the time because we cared a lot for one another. I've had the opportunity on several occasions since, and I've never taken them, simply because I know the emotional impact that this has on the girl, which is one I refuse to be responsible for. It might be different for everyone... just listen to your inner voice that tells you whether it's right or wrong, or, whether you even care.
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:41 PM
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Yes they certainly are. Emotional manipulation goes both ways.
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:58 PM
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Thank you for putting it much better than in my own attempt above.
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:47 PM
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Me too, man. Not even once.
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:19 PM
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"If you find someone like that, go ahead and anticipate that she'll want a drink and grab two when you're up at the fridge." Definitely.
/r/seduction19/06/13 02:21 PM
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This is relative. My best friend just went through a divorce because he didn't walk away sooner. She ended up twisting him and controlling his every action, making him feel like he was constantly walking on eggshells or through a minefield. Walking away isn't running away, it's knowing when a woman is not worth your time, and understanding that staying/trying to fix things will only result in the beating of a dead horse.
/r/seduction19/06/13 02:10 PM
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Look her in the eyes, stand straight, smile broadly and flirt lightheartedly. That's how I do it.
/r/seduction14/06/13 11:46 PM
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When I was younger, like, between the age of 19 and 23, it was in my head, and I would project my lack of confidence outward. This would have a direct effect with women. Then, one morning I realized I was smart, educated, and funny, and that I didn't need to be tall to project confidence, everything changed after that. However, I still got treated differently for being short. That being said, the last 3 girls I've dated (some seriously), have been taller than me by an inch or two. It's more of a…
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:12 PM
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I'm 5'7, not the tallest dude in the world, but I've always been athletic and fit (I'm 29, I look about 24). Over the past 6 months I've been running less and lifting more, my physique has changed considerably, and my body definition has taken on a more rugged, masculine look. I've found that it helps me assert myself as a male in social situations, kind of making up for my height deficit. As a skinnier, leaner type of athlete, my height was always what killed me with women. I consider myself re…
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:43 PM
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Hence learn to walk away from bad situations. I agree, sometimes you strike out at bat, and that's more than okay, that's just life.
/r/seduction03/06/13 07:22 PM
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That's all awesome stuff, man. You sound like a very well-rounded person, and yet I still can understand why you might blame your facial structure on your seeming inability to pick up. Keep in mind, good looking people have trouble picking up too, though, just read through this thread and you'll see several examples. Maybe you're missing something, maybe it's not your looks, maybe it's because you project your own lack of confidence in your looks onto others, or maybe you care too much about wha…
/r/seduction03/06/13 07:14 PM
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What are your strengths? What makes you happy to be you?
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:54 PM
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When you say you feel inferior to other guys, that's based on what personal characteristics of your own? Where do you feel you are lacking? But perhaps more importantly, why do you feel like you have to compare yourself to others in the first place? The only person you should be in competition with is yesterday's version of you, trying to be better today in ways that you know will make you happy.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:40 PM
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Agreed. You're doing it right, you're working hard, and you're maximizing on your own life and potential. You are by no means at fault for expecting the same out of any potential partner. I'm 29 years old, I have a master's degree that I worked hard to get, I've lived in 5 different countries and speak 3 languages, I work out 5 days a week, I love to read and write, and I find the time to be a lazy sonofabitch that goes on Netflix binges and sleeps in on the week ends. I like who I am, I work ha…
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:20 PM
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Changing? Why should anyone change, and who said anything about change? It's not about becoming someone different, but maximizing who you are by taking advantage of your strengths and potential. You don't just find a girl without having goals, ambitions, and a sense of purpose.
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:51 PM
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First question: How old are you?
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:29 PM
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I think this is a good description. I might add that vulnerability also means being in touch with your weaknesses, while projecting your strengths. I have certain life experiences that were incredibly traumatic, I talk about them very rarely, but I hint to them as sources of learned lessons and growth. I tell them that someday, when the time is right, I'll share those stories. You can't reveal all your layers right away, you have to reserve the right to keep private information about yourself to…
/r/seduction03/06/13 02:09 PM
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I'd like to add: /r/fitness /r/running These two subreddits are invaluable at bolstering self-confidence through physical fitness.
/r/seduction03/06/13 01:10 PM
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Good, your life is in your hands, make the most out of it.
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:37 PM
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"Fuck that. Do what you can with what you have." - Exactly
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:22 PM
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Because of the attitude you've adopted that has already given up on being that guy. You're not born that guy, at least 99% of us are not. You become that guy by living, by learning, by growing and opening yourself up to life and the world around you. You become that guy by taking care of your mind, your body, and your appearance. Take pride in what you wear, in how you stand and comport yourself. All human beings are in the ongoing process of becoming, so start becoming the person you want and w…
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:19 PM
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Use that sense of humor for good, not self-deprecation.
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:13 PM
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This is precisely the bullshit perspective that needs to stop. What good does it serve to ask such asinine questions? You're not making yourself better for them, you're making yourself better for YOU. You have to want to better yourself to make your life a good place, a happy place, one that you're proud of being in. There are TONS of women out there who do the same thing, who focus on their education, their health, their wellbeing. They are the seemingly untouchable ones, the women that you loo…
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:12 PM
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What the fuck is going on in this subreddit? I come in here and I see a bunch of extremely negative and pessimistic attitudes popping up. Typical comments that shouldn't even be acknowledged like 'Rule#1 be attractive' and 'Oh woe is me why can't I be the one they want?' Have we not learned anything here? I think that anyone who subscribes to this subreddit has to immediately shed any sense of self-pity that they might have about themselves. If you can't see that you're the problem in this game,…
/r/seduction03/06/13 11:58 AM
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hahah dude, I'm crossing my fingers for you and the threesome. A few years ago I was just coming out of a really rough breakup and damaging relationship, I wanted to date but I was nowhere near ready for another girlfriend. I ended up dating several different girls, some at the same time, and for each one I was upfront about my intentions from the start. I basically told them that I wasn't ready for any emotional connection, that I didn't want commitment, and that they shouldn't get attached. I …
/r/seduction04/04/13 07:07 PM
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'Women want what other women want'. I think there's a lot of truth to this, and from within the seduction parlance, it's all about defining your own personal value by not appearing needy or too desperate to please.
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:51 PM
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I really enjoyed this story. Bro, you gambled on instinct and it paid off in dividends, color me impressed. When I read that you were going to bring the friend-girl along immediately I understood the reasoning behind it, but it was when you disarmed those two other girls by turning the whole 'bringing a friend along is either cool or its rude, there can't be double standards' that's when I knew you were really in control. Not to simplify it too much, but I honestly think that the fact that you h…
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:14 PM
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Honestly I think it depends on the person you are trying to attract in the first place. If you want a monogamous relationship with a guy but are targeting the wrong kind of man, then the tips and 'strategies' suggested here will not work at keeping him around. They will work for attracting him in the first place and potentially reeling him in, however. I think that it's more difficult for a gay man to find a monogamous partner than just a sex partner, and I'm basing this on the amount of difficu…
/r/seduction04/04/13 02:27 PM
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haha yes, those do tend to make the best stories. Unfortunately we can't all be James Bond, so we have to be a little bit more 'studied' in our approach on a day to day basis. I personally don't like flirting loudly at social gatherings, preferring rather to 'isolate' women for engaging, yet light-hearted, conversation, which is what makes this article more applicable to a wider audience, I think.
/r/seduction03/04/13 06:49 PM
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lol, you and me both friend.
/r/seduction25/03/13 06:29 PM
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What's interesting about this post is that I've actually had a girl do this to me recently. We met over POF and had a date, I ended up in her room a little tipsy with her moving in on me, but before we could kiss I suddenly had this realization that I was not at all into this girl in any way. I just simply was not attracted to her at all, even though I'd given myself a chance to see if there was any chemistry. So I thanked her for the evening and left. The next week was comprised of her messagin…
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:05 PM
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I'd use this if I knew the girl well enough and we were in a 'teasing' each other phase. I wouldn't do it to a girl who I've just met and who is mature, she'd see right through the lame attempt at seeming cool. If a girl did this to me and I wasn't really that interested (yet) or we'd just met, my response would be 'yeah, and now I'm not thinking about you'.
/r/seduction25/03/13 01:56 PM
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haha, I'm mentally high-fiving your husband right now.
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:02 AM
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Haha they were very attractive, but also a little stalkerish. I had to give them credit for their very effective methods. I kind of let out a guffah when I realized who those friend invites were, and I just laughed it off. They seemed harmless enough, no crazy twitchy eyes or anything.
/r/seduction08/02/13 12:56 AM
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Do you mind giving me a link to the other thread? I'd be curious to see what the comments are. edit never mind, I just realized you were talking about the previous thread which I mention in the title. I'll go find it :)
/r/seduction08/02/13 12:43 AM
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A few times, yes. THe last time it happened we fell madly in love, traveled together like crazy, had the most intense and amazing sex of my entire life, and ended up having to break up due to her moving back to France from India, where we'd met and lived together. She was amazing, a wonderful career dancer, a smile and laugh that would lighten the mood of an entire room, a laisse-faire attitude about life but with a passion for her art and adventure. I was smitten, we both were. She approached m…
/r/seduction08/02/13 12:21 AM
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That's a great summary at the end there, exactly what I was trying to say.
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:30 PM
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See, you just made me laugh, and that right there is indicative of your personality. I don't need someone to talk rocket science with, I want someone who I can communicate with. That means when we are lying in bed, we can start talking about anything and just get one another, which inevitably would lead to thoughts of how awesome the other person is, which would then lead to hot, passionate, love fueled sex. Plus, if you're hot, then that's just a bonus! Don't count yourself out for nothing, and…
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:29 PM
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Chance and luck? It's hard to say, really. I could ask the same, where do guys like me meet interesting and passionate young women like yourself? I go to the gym 5 days a week, after work. On week ends you can find me in a cafe enjoying a latte, reading the news on my ipad, or writing. You'd also find me in a hostel in Morocco or Vietnam, we're the solo traveling guys who came to travel alone but who would love to have a nice girl approach us on the beach or in some run-down yet famous cafe for …
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:20 PM
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I was surprised as well. I go to the gym to work out, never with the intention to meet girls. One night I'm there doing my thing by the dumbbell rack when a pair of young girls come into the gym. The Cardio machines are near the dumbbells, and I can see them when facing the mirror. They stopped by the treadmills and look at me and did that thing where they sideways glanced while pretending not to talk about me. I paid no attention, continued doing my sets. Not long after they were done on the tr…
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:00 PM
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Looks are important for initial encounters, but no one should ever have to rely on them to attract the opposite sex. There was a post in /r/seduction not long ago about a slightly less attractive and larger girl making her 4 hot skinny girlfriends look like crap. She did this by showing a lot of great personality, was sociable and laughed and smiled a lot. That's what really works with older men (well, for me anyways). I do like a girl who is fit though, because I want a partner who enjoys fitne…
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:52 PM
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Okay, let me explain in a bit more detail what I meant. So, I just moved back to my home town after 12 years of being away. Since I left, I've done a BA and an MA, I've lived abroad numerous times, and I've accumulated quite a bit of life experience along the way. When I returned home, it was hard to find people my age, because most of them are married/have kids or a variation of the two. Younger girls have approached me, and while I don't discount their intelligence, charisma, and capacity to s…
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:23 PM
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Exactly, it's not about living/experiencing vs reading/studying, it's about doing what has to be done in order to survive or maintain dominance. I'm not 100% in agreement with this, especially in regards to seduction, because then you reduce yourself to a manipulative 'realist' who will achieve his goals at the expense of integrity.
/r/seduction15/01/13 04:54 PM
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go to party, pretend there's a game with assignments going on, pinch butts, escape with girl before she finds out why she never got an assignment, feel creepy, still got laid.
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:33 PM
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This is exactly right. I know what particular kinds of woman prefer as their 'mates', and if I don't fall within that then it's not a matter of not being good enough but simply not falling within a list of requisite categories. In the same way I would not be interested in certain kinds of women, I see no reason to believe that I am somehow out of their reach or 'league', but rather that it comes down to basic compatibility. If there's a girl who falls into my own venn diagram (I loved the use of…
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:07 PM
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I agree with this 100%. There are two outcomes that I can foresee, a) he shrugs and walks away and doesn't care, or b) removing constant booty from the equation gives me a slight wake-up call and in the process of realizing he's missing the sex he realizes he misses her as a person and comes back. Everyone everywhere wants that which they cannot have. But OP, I have to ask. Do you honestly have nothing better to do with your time than to outplay a player? I mean, why do you want to out-douche th…
/r/seduction22/11/12 02:19 PM
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Funny your story reflects my own experiences very accurately. I'm back home now too, after I finished my Masters (which I did abroad) I returned to Canada to work in Montreal on contract. My contract ended in the spring and I had to move to small town Maritimes back with my parents due to my pathetic financial state. I took a job in town working in finance and am making good money and saving up a lot, but I'll be damned if I don't feel completely stuck and itching to break out once again. I've g…
/r/seduction08/11/12 05:06 PM
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I've lived abroad for many years, a year in Japan, half a year in Vietnam, and 2 years in India. I've traveled extensively in between (am even booked for 13 days in Morocco next month whoo!), and I've noticed that the problem with talking about my time abroad with others doesn't come from their being jealous or believing me to brag, but from the simple inefficiency of trying to convey the context within which those stories take place. In other words, people who haven't traveled much, or at all, …
/r/seduction08/11/12 01:02 PM
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She comes from a rich family where she's very much self and money-focused. She's not particularly close to her family, and she's pretty horrible at expressing her thoughts and emotions. I don't think she's depressed. I know she was for a while in the past, but I'm pretty sure she's over that now. I dunno. Confusing.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:55 PM
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It is good that it ended so early, before it might get worse. We'd have great sex, I was one of the first people to make her feel comfortable enough to have orgasms, and yet even when we'd be done she'd push me away and lay in bed like a cold log. I might just want to rest my hand on her stomach for a moment while we enjoy those post-sex moments, but she'd push me away and isolate herself. It's when she started doing this outside of the bedroom once my own feelings began to develop that I starte…
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:48 PM
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Thanks man, been trying to do just that, pull myself up and smack myself around a little by reminding myself of my real worth and self-value. I think I did dodge a bullet, somehow deep down I know and believe this, and I just need the time for those feelings to overcome those of rejection.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:45 PM
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I recently moved back in with my parents after nearly 11 years of being off on my own. I moved back to my hometown to take a pretty good job, and part of that involved my having to temporarily shack up with the folks. I was apprehensive at first, hoping to quickly find my own apartment and place so that I could kick-start a social dating life. However, after a bit of cajoling, I convinced my parents to let me move into their poolhouse, a sizeable and open-concept building in their backyard. Afte…
/r/seduction09/10/12 01:51 PM
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Sure can. Three years ago I moved to India to work towards a Masters degree in International Relations. I stayed in Delhi for two years, did tons of volunteer work on my spare time, and tried desperately to convey the disparities between India and the so called Western world to friends and family back home (not to mention the disparities within India itself). One day I decided that I was going to make a short documentary film about some of the kids I worked with, and this is what came from it: -…
/r/seduction26/09/12 12:50 AM
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A fiction novel, been working on it for the better part of a year now, and I'm on chapter 11 out 12. I'm right up against a wall right now though, trying to figure out how I'm going to solve a rather pressing problem that's facing my main character. Writing is good for my mind, keeps my imagination active and poses interesting problems that require fixing. I did Kung Fu throughout my childhood, but stopped when I went off to Uni. I recently took it up again because I know the teacher and respect…
/r/seduction25/09/12 08:50 PM
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Things I do: running, kung fu, documentary style filmmaking, writing (a book), learning about agriculture (I've recently moved to a small potato farming town for work), photography, lots of experimental cooking. things I want to do: biking (buy a nice road bike), more hiking, promotional filmmaking for corporate and small businesses.
/r/seduction25/09/12 07:10 PM
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/r/seduction05/09/12 04:51 PM
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That's very interesting that you would use the term 'trapped in' in regards to identity. My mother does this more than anyone I know, she limits herself in life in so many different ways, justifying it by saying "I am like this, and therefore unable to do that". I respect her very much, but her logic cannot hold up to a bit of inspection. She cannot eat this food, watch this movie, or go to this place, because she is this kind of person. But identity should not be the limiting factor, closing a …
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:04 PM
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I'd be lying if I said that, as a man, I've never done similar things. Sometimes I've been in a bar, had a few drinks, and struck up a conversation with a girl. I can think of at least two times this has happened, and both times I've gone home happy, knowing I got a number, but woke up completely disinterested and just moved on. It's kind of the same as having gone out on a date with someone, and not calling them back... sometimes you like the prospect of getting to know someone, but get a gut f…
/r/seduction28/08/12 11:45 AM
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One of my favorite things is to break through to random strangers, talk to them for however long, have an amazing, consequence-free conversation, smile, and say that it was nice meeting them - all without asking for their numbers or contact information. I enjoy it because they become one of those 'could have been' moments that I can reflect back upon warmly, and it takes away all of the pressure of having something come out of it and potentially fail (or potentially be awesome). Next time, ask f…
/r/seduction08/08/12 09:22 PM
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