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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017On the topic of whether she will put in effort for relationship as I work to improve SMV... Right now I see no effort from her at all. It's almost impossible for me to envision her behavior changing 12 months from now. This ends up fucking me up a lot because of weak frame and neediness. Part of me is strongly feeling like it's in my best interest to end the relationship NOW while continuing to work on myself. The stress and anxiety of being around her is not good for me. But then I will have to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017Catch and release seems like the right move here. Can't develop abundance mentality without proving to myself that I can attract women without trouble. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017God damn good question. Blue pill idealism alongside a delusion that I can rebuild attraction/tingles and save the marriage. FML | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/17 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017Background: Career beta, 30, married for 3 years, no kids, no mortgage, wife gave ILYBINILWY in Feb and intends to leave marriage eventually. Dead bedroom and I suspect emotional affair. The good My frame at the beginning of last week was the best it has been in a while. Gone was the awkward energy and anxiety in the morning. I was jovial and lighthearted in a way I haven't been since I can remember. Joking and teasing wife in mornings and evenings felt easy and kept mood positive. Work and fina… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2017Thank you. This is solid advice. When it comes to the emotional cheating, at least she admitted to it rather than try to hide it. I've already started looking into 1BR apartment situations and divorce attorneys. Mentally preparing myself for this possibility helps a ton. Per Rollo's Reconstruction IV, I am working to internalize that the marriage I had is dead. Maybe it never was what I thought it was in the first place. In any case, this is now about my journey. If she wants to be a part of it … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2017what do you mean, is she a serial cheater or are you just obsessing over reading her girl to girl notes on how chad is so hot? When I asked her about developing feelings for anyone (see below), she said she'd had two crushes in a row that lasted a few weeks each. was her admission based on you telling her you read her gmail or did she just offer this up? I didn't tell her I read chats. We got into a discussion about the relationship and I asked her straight up if she had developed feelings for a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2017Physicality and Health (B+): Continues to go well. Weight floating between 157-161. Could always be a little stronger and a little leaner, but right now I'm fairly happy with where I am. Money and Career (B+): Main update is I'm on a new project at work that energizes me far more than my previous projects. This creates a noticeable improvement in my mood and state. Appearance (B): Starting to improve here. Have started adding new items to my wardrobe the past month and it's been improving my day… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/17 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2017Not physically. But she admitted to developing feelings for a couple of coworkers in the past few months. I actually saw some of her gchats a couple of weeks ago and she told her best friend "i fell in love with a coworker but it's fading away, thank god." I signed out of her email after that because i would easily torture myself if I kept looking. She admitted to her feelings after I asked if she had developed feelings for anyone else amidst our struggles (this was during our last relationship … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 201730, 160lb, 5'9", ~14% BF. Benching 225x3-4 (full ROM and pause). Squatting 225x7 (disc herniations developed in recent years so working back up to heavy weights). Frame and the resulting attractiveness are the top priorities. Sorely lacking in mission and plan, need to hammer out asap. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2017Frame is starting to improve, though considering the starting point was a rickety shack, that's not saying much. Rather than my normal moody reactiveness, I had a few interactions with wife this week where I was in a more confident, playful mood. I've also started to withdraw attention and let her chase a bit, which is producing more positive vibes than usual. I need to figure out how to balance the push-pull properly. Unfortunately, morning anxiety has been plaguing me, especially because the f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/17 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2017This is my very first OYS, so some background: early 30s, married for 5 years, no kids. I grew up without a strong male authority figure in my life, never had anyone teach me how to be a man. I recently read through MMSL, MAP, and NMMNG. Realized that I am a classic Nice Guy and how much this has been affecting my life. Lack of assertiveness is my biggest weakness, reinforced by victim pukes, anxiety, overthinking, and poor leadership. When faced with a hard decision, I'll often hem and haw... f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/17 07:41 PM |
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