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Just have fun and be playful. Since you do bjj together play fight/grapple as a way to get physical. Go for a kiss after some playful grappling or other normal physical escalation. There’s a great post about the escalation ladder. Basically touch her hand, arm, lightly at first. Then you can touch her leg, face, hair. Then go for a kiss on the cheek or her hand. Then go for a full kiss. Then kiss her body and start taking clothes off. The goal is to have a steady increase in physical escalation.…
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:17 PM
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Not a lot but it depends on where you go. Obviously a big city like Bangkok has more women in general so it’s easier to find one. The one I stayed with was one of the hottest I matched with. I matched with a ton of 7/10 and 8/10 but only a few 9/10. Obesity isn’t a problem there so most women are skinny. Also I second what the other person said about party hostels. They are also a great place to meet other travelers who are mostly looking to have fun.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:28 AM
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It’s true. I used tinder and almost every right swipe was a match. I’m not even joking, I got over 100 matches in 3 days, while that would normally take 3 months in America for me. Im decently attractive but I felt like a hot woman in New York. I ended up hooking up with a 9/10 model. Then I stayed with her for a few days while she showed me around Bangkok. It was an awesome experience 10/10 recommend
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:37 PM
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I spent 3 months backpacking across Europe and slept with women from several different countries. I never really bothered with tinder. I even paid for gold but rarely used it as I didn’t have time or didn’t need it. Stay at hostels. My favorite hostel was Hostel One, they have locations throughout but the best are in London, Barcelona, Madrid, Budapest, and Prague. Always stay at the most popular hostel with a bar in whichever city you’re staying. Most of the women I hooked up with I met at the …
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:30 AM
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You missed your window of opportunity. You fingered her at the park? Escalating past kissing before you get back to your place is a big no no. Her anti slut defense kicks in since she knows exactly what you want, sex. You need to keep a bit of mystery and she needs to be able to say “it just happened”. Sounds like you did everything right until you escalated too far. Don’t finger a girl unless you plan to fuck her then and there.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:22 PM
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Did it ask to share it with a friend? I just put my own number and texted it to myself to get access
/r/seduction19/05/21 01:42 PM
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I’m curious, did you always have women on the side or is that something you introduced to the marriage/relationship later on? I love your philosophy and that’s how I’m trying to live my life. But I’m struggling to find someone that’s ok with me seeing other people. I’m also young so I have plenty to learn.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 11:05 PM
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You should focus on having fun during a date and incorporate some game throughout the date. Looks should have no factor on your game besides the first time you meet someone. If you’re attractive enough for them, then they’ll meet you again, simple as that. Focusing on your personal strengths is a good thing. If it gives you confidence and works for you then continue doing it.
/r/seduction25/04/21 01:20 AM
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Now that you say this I remember it from the game. I’m definitely going to try this if possible.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:42 AM
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That’s a great point. It’s pretty much out of my control so it’ll happen if they want to. I’ve been in a few three ways and that’s how they’ve all been. Spur of the moment and they initiated. I guess it’s just luck then. I think I’ve planted the seed enough so it’s up to them. Thank you
/r/askTRP28/02/21 06:36 AM
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Your list is shorter, sweeter, and slimpler. I like it. Honestly this is most of my game, get her in person then just escalate. I’ve found what you talk about doesn’t really matter much. Physical escalation is king
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 12:41 AM
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This is the best comment I’ve ever read. I’ve been feeling stuck lately and I feel like this advice will help me get back on my path.
/r/seduction11/01/21 05:09 AM
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Wow this really hit close to home for me. I just got into my first serious relationship a few weeks ago after being casual for the past couple years. My mindset has changed a lot from being a player with 10 different woman I could call at once. Now I look for something more than just sex. A deeper connection feels so much better than just getting your rocks off. I’ve had a few girlfriends over the past years but I always got bored and broke things off after a few months. How do you go about prev…
/r/seduction14/10/20 03:33 PM
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My biggest problem is lesson 3, having an attractive lifestyle. I just graduated college where I had a very attractive lifestyle. Constant parties, traveling the world, tons of friends, plenty of free time to do fun things. I got an engineering degree and now I have a 6 figure job. But I’m working 50-60 hrs a week, I moved to a rural location where it’s much harder to meet women, and after work I’m exhausted and don’t want to workout or meet women. How do I build a passive income? I’ve looked in…
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:44 AM
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I like this different take on what being redpilled means. This message resonates a lot more with me as I want to be a leader and role model in my family and community. Instead of the old selfish red pill narrative of using women.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 04:36 PM
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That’s not terrible advice but how do I take action to stop being a “cunt”
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:14 PM
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Fantastic guide. This is perfect for me as I’m exactly who you describe. Great in social situations but I never cold approach outside of social events. I see beautiful women everyday that I think about approaching but don’t because I think it would be weird. It’s time to take control and start cold approaching everywhere and anywhere. Thanks for the guide and motivation
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 03:19 AM
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This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been focusing way too much on the 20% and it hasn’t led to any fulfillment and it’s caused problems. Having a n count in the hundreds is cool but it doesn’t create fulfillment and it’s actually a turn off for most girls now. It’s turned me into a borderline sex addict. I’ve just gotten into trp a few months ago but I’ve been in the PUA community for a few years. I’ve been focusing on PUA too much and while it’s sharpened my seduction skills greatly it’…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 02:32 AM
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Thank you for this man. This is exactly what I needed to hear. As someone on the same journey and doing well myself. This information is invaluable as I use it myself everyday.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 01:29 AM
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