livn4summr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	I feel like I don’t deserve a life like this Amwell is an app that can allow you to conveniently and cheaply video chat with a doctor who can at least help refer you to the right specialty.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/23 01:53 PM
-2	I need serious advice, I am the girl that men date before they get into a serious relationship You're meeting people who're already enmeshed socially, and people are still animals: you have something (him), which prompts the other woman to finally act and make her move because she wants what you have. Guys LOVE to feel wanted, and our generation is real big on FOMO motivation. Try the online scene, go outside of the socially confined groups. Just be careful and safe! (Google voice # not mobile #, bring a friend to meet him with you, who's your ride home, etc.) Internet weird is something …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/23 09:15 PM
1	How to gracefully deal with future faking? That does sound good. I'm guessing you're much more attractive than anyone he's ever met, and he doesn't know how to act.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/23 02:34 PM
2	How to gracefully deal with future faking? Woman of your "origin" meaning Asian, Eastern European, African? (I am trying to understand better.) Is this the product of some marriage agency's love tour or something similar?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/23 01:47 PM
6	How to gracefully deal with future faking? Precisely. He's a guy from another country and culture. I'm guessing he doesn't speak your language, yet (If he does, that's a good green flag). Explain to him that this presumptuous behavior is rather unsettling, and you want to take it slow. He probably wants to sweep you off your feet, and that's sweet. However, changing continents is a big ask! How long were you communicating beforehand, again?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/23 01:27 PM
6	How to gracefully deal with future faking? You're right to feel put off by such behavior. He's probably overcompensating for uncertainty and trying too hard to demonstrate surety, confidence, devotion etc... But the fact is: us guys are dense! You have to hit us on the head with your perspective, and throw subtlety out of the window. THEN we'll catch on.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/23 12:49 PM
3	Has anyone had doubts and thought someone was lying when they said I love you? Does the person seem highly impulsive, or show a lack of empathy? Do their words often bely their expressions and vice versa? Basically, if you get the feeling that they could believe their own version of reality (off their rocker) then they shouldn't be counted on to be totally sincere, even if they're consistent.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/23 12:54 AM
3	Am I dating out of my league? If your search is broad enough, you'll be found soon enough. Think of relocation opportunities like an AWACs giving you a radar feed far beyond your own sphere. If you're restricting to one spot, it's a pool. Not many fish in pools. Now, the OCEAN on the other hand...For example: HVM like their families, and their families tend to like them. If they're into you for the long haul, they bring you home to their tribe. If you're not down for that, it presents a challenge.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/23 02:35 AM
3	Boyfriend makes me cringe Many guys his age have been raised in a manner that insists they behave submissively, and not take charge. This attitude is reinforcement for other negative behaviors, such as the poor impulse control mentioned by OP. This behavior can (and likely will) change over time until it is entirely eliminated. From a guy who used to be young and shiftless before the military: You give him a direction, an objective, a STANDARD, and he'll work his ass off to meet it. Or he won't and he'll lose you. The ki…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/23 03:11 AM
1	Seeking advice or words of encouragement You're doing great! They're doing their own thing, maybe a little less great than you... But you don't NEED to go waste money on overpriced alcohol and loud/bad music. You and your man can have your own fun at home with your own music at 5% of the cost of going out, and that doesn't take babysitting cost into account.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/23 05:31 AM
6	Will plastic surgery harm my chances to find someone instead of help? Go for it: Firstly, guys like pretty ladies. Second, you'll have confidence. The confidence is key!	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/23 05:12 AM
1	Trauma, high libido, insecurity question Is he on any medications? Those can seriously impact libido, and if that's the case: porn may be all that gets him going. Conversely: is depression a possible culprit? -That's also a mood-killer!	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/22 06:05 AM