lizlollie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Boyfriend bought a home and I need advice Don't do this! If you MUST, then get some kind of contract so you have renter rights. Why hasn't he proposed? What's keeping him from taking several thousand dollars from you and then dumping you, leaving you in the lurch? Personally, i wouldn't move in unless you had a wedding date and the venue paid for and the announcements sent. But that's a personal decision. I have had friends be financially abused in relationships and this sounds like it.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/21 04:25 PM
9	Vetting vs Testing Also, one of my personal standards is that I don't ever want to feel suspicious of my SO cheating. If he makes me feel like that even a little, then it doesn't measure up to my standard and I'd move on.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/21 08:28 PM
21	Vetting vs Testing I haven't thought about this for very long, bet eh what the heck. Vetting: I think vetting is like measuring someone. Your ruler is your standards. In the same way you would a put a ruler up to an object to get data, you would use your standards and measure your potential SO to vet him (get data). Ex. One of your standards is that they must treat others with respect and politeness, yet with clear boundaries (in other words that they are not spineless nor rude). To "measure" or vet him, you would…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/21 08:23 PM