lizmvr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	My husband hit on a 19 year old when he was 39, makes me feel uneasy. F25 with M42. I think they're already married, and they have a child together. She calls him her husband. Regardless of the age gap at this point, I think they both need to work together because there are kids involved. OP doesn't say he's cheating currently or that she actually thinks he did at any point. She does say that she feels insecure, and that his dating history keeps popping up in her mind. I don't think it's wise to encourage her to leave when he doesn't seem to be doing anything wrong at this time…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/23 03:32 AM
3	Advice/Thoughts: Travel and Life Experiences with Boyfriend Before Marriage I have a job as well and could work remote while on travel. I have worked remotely for over 12 years, including work travel, and I can honestly tell you that working while traveling is not easy. I know others in the replies have mentioned other couples that are traveling together, but I doubt those couples are actually maintaining jobs they had before they started traveling during their travels. Budgeting and planning beforehand are also ways to work out problems and identify your own goals befo…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/22 02:58 PM
22	Caught him on a dating app again so I think it's really over now At dinner he was talking about a trip he wanted to book for us in the summer and I would love to go because I do enjoy his company and I've had a lot of new experiences with him. You have to realize that this is not healthy. There's already a large age gap, and you seem to both be using each other, but not building a good relationship with shared goals. You're only going to have lower self-esteem by staying in this situation. He doesn't respect you, and you don't seem to be respecting yourself r…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/22 01:20 PM
3	Pregnant and feeling less support than I currently need. How to handle in a loving way? I have said multiple times that I’d love for him to make me dinner sometime (heck, even once!), and he said that if I don’t feel like cooking he could pick up takeout. It’s as if he outright refuses to pitch in with certain things, and it boggles my mind. Him picking up takeout is him providing dinner--he's literally offering to "pitch in" and you're invalidating it. Just because he gets dinner on the table in a different way doesn't make his way wrong. This type of issue is going to come up a l…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/22 04:40 PM
51	HVW after my boyfriend emotionally mature HVM don’t want just the prettiest youngest girl, they want the woman they connect to who makes them a better man. Please, OP, listen to this ^ He stopped speaking to a girl that cheated on him. She's not competition. She already proved to him that a life with her would certainly not be perfect. He can't have a perfect life with a cheater, and he's not an idiot, right? He is choosing you, who can be loyal, like you say he is. You and he obviously have more values in common. Sto…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/21 08:46 PM
21	Suggestions for a feminine, unplugged, mentally easy way to unwind? I don't know about Good Housekeeping, but I like Southern Living magazine. It mostly features decorating and cooking. Just this past weekend, I caught up on some back issues to relax--it was great!	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/21 06:43 AM
6	Social Media Insecurities This "insecurity" is warranted, though. You shouldn't ignore the consequential feeling of an action that is disrespectful toward you. If he was the most attentive and respectful man, but you were still feeling insecure, that would be a different thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/02/21 05:01 PM
6	Social Media Insecurities You have a sort of solution. He’s not changing his actions, though; he’s still disrespecting you and your relationship. You’re just giving him a pass by unfollowing him so you don’t see it. I think you should tell him that his actions of liking other women’s photos bothers you because it’s an outward display that shows you and others that he has interests in women other than you, and that’s not respectful of you and the relationship the two of you have.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/02/21 01:44 PM
17	Social Media Insecurities Your thoughts on him liking provocative photos on Instagram are not stupid. I have felt the same way about exes in my past. It’s not that he’s just passively noticing beauty—he’s taking an action that these other women, the general public, and most importantly, you, can witness. It’s disturbing and disrespectful to you and your relationship. You’re not controlling him by pointing this out. He should realize that his actions are not just in his head—he’s making them public and a mature respectful…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/02/21 01:19 PM
16	Marriage after abortion? “I really don't want to do this” Then please don’t do it. No one can predict the future perfectly, and there is a chance resentment will grow in both of you. (Even though he might not feel ready for fatherhood, he might also come to see an abortion as a rejection of him in the death of the his child.) There is also the likelihood that it will be difficult in many ways, but I tend to think that is true of parenting for those of any age. Talk to your husband and please make sure he understands you…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 04:17 AM
9	How to handle “work wife” Agreed, and I think if other relationships have been adversely affected by the work wife, this one’s likely to not be different.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/20 12:32 AM
9	What do you wear on a date during spring/summer? If you go with the Option 1 top, I'd say the short pink skirt. If you go with the Option 2 skirt, I'd say either the short sleeved top or the one with the cold shoulders. I feel like you need to not be so covered up in either outfit. You don't have to show everything, but a long skirt with long sleeves for the summer seems like you're trying to hide.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/20 01:42 AM
1	What is your opinion on using coloured contact lenses and hair extensions? I am not against either of these things. I actually had someone tell me that, after dating me for a few months, he couldn't get past my thin hair. I do have really thin hair and have gotten extensions at various times over the years to make it fuller. I've never worn colored contact lenses, but I do wear corrective contact lenses. Generally, I'm not opposed to doing things to make myself look better, but I wouldn't ever plan for cosmetic surgery as I feel going under anesthesia isn't worth the r…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/20 07:37 PM