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| 2 | Better in the end?Careful of love bombing. If the relationship feels "too good to be true" then it probably is. Women often employ this tactic to convince men to provide them resources or get married. Not saying this is the situation with your relationship, just sharing it as a heads up type of thing to watch out for. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Better in the end?I have a high income and a pretty high net worth for my age. Never married. Just had hookups, friends with benefits and the occasional long-term relationships. I just come here to help other men get out of the mistakes they've made (getting married). I don't want kids and have a vasectomy (highly recommend it!) I'm convinced that the maximum amount of happiness a man can get is by simply staying single forever and just getting what you can get through dating. Always keep one foot on the exit and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Is it really over or could we get back togetherShe will just use him for money and never love him again. If he continues down this path he has destined himself for a life as what amounts to as basically a slave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it really over or could we get back togetherWas going to write a response but this post summarized what I was going to say perfectly. 💯💯💯facts | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Damn! This rabhdlamán gealtach is the one! I will indeed commit all my energy and resources to her!I read on other parts of the internet where men share their stories. The absolute wort stories I've heard are from men who married women with serious mental illness issues. Bi polar being one of them. These men are totally destroyed down to the core and I mean literally experiencing psychological trauma because these mental ill women are often master manipulations and will use every trick in the book to manipulate their victims. Often times these women are also sociopathic and have NO emotion at… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/21 07:41 AM |
| 5 | Advise neededYup but my guess is once he retakes control of the finances, the wife will initiate WWIII and he will have to divorce her regardless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 06:19 AM |
| 4 | Advise neededAlso remember if you file for divorce, absolutely under no circumstances move out. Make sure you record everything as they will likely file false DV allegations against you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 04:43 AM |
| 11 | Advise neededIn this situation, there is only upside to leaving and no downside. Why do I say this? Because right now 100% of your money more or less is being stolen by your wife/MIL. You want to know why the MIL doesn't spend any of the money? Because when she passes your wife will inherit that money but guess what? Inheritances are exempt from the 50/50 asset split - your wife likely knows this. I wouldn't be surprised at all if your wife was pulling out cash and giving it to the MIL to put into that accou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Why women divorce men…What's the logic in that situation? How much is each of your incomes??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Why women divorce men…If woman earns more then in theory you could get 50% of her income if you properly allocate it to something like a house, investments and so on. Then again, this also is probably wishful thinking because your average woman is not the frugal investor type. They're the "I'm a queen and want to live like a queen" type. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Why women divorce men…Exactly this. We need to educate all young men on the dangers of marriage, family courts and so on and how it is biased. The vast majority of men enter the world on the bottom rung of the ladder since they can't date younger women and 18 Y/O women are going for older guys by a few years at least. So every young 18 Y/O man is basically frustrated with women in general. That's when we plant the seed in their head. For men who do get married, always marry your financial equal and make sure to take … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:34 AM |
| 5 | She breaks up our family yet wants us to act like a family ?🤣🤣 KING SHIT FOR SURE 😂😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | She breaks up our family yet wants us to act like a family ?I'm always amazed at how many men are completely clueless to this fact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:26 AM |
| 7 | She breaks up our family yet wants us to act like a family ?They just want to implement a dual-mating strategy where they get the top tier men for sex but at the same time keep lower-tier men to provide them financial resources, free labor, free validation and so on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | She breaks up our family yet wants us to act like a family ?It is because of the entitlement attitude, men putting them on a pedestal and simps giving them resources with minimal effort on their part. This is the end result. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Stupid schoolgirl seeks supplementary shlong. Soon she'll stray streets, still sorrily searching sparks.You can pair bond in friend with benefits. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/21 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Stupid schoolgirl seeks supplementary shlong. Soon she'll stray streets, still sorrily searching sparks.Correct but the reality is entering into a relationship or marriage will not guarantee you sex either. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 17 | Stupid schoolgirl seeks supplementary shlong. Soon she'll stray streets, still sorrily searching sparks.Exactly but for us, it is to our benefit. In the past, sex was mostly reserved for men in relationships/married because birth control was not so advanced and abortion was very risky. Now the whole game has changed. You can get sex easily outside of relationships/marriage. Get a vasectomy and enjoy the good times! Hump and dump is the way to go! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 30 | Stupid schoolgirl seeks supplementary shlong. Soon she'll stray streets, still sorrily searching sparks.Exactly this. More men need to wise up that marriage is simply about the money and these days the courts are so biased in favor of women that marriage is almost like a scam that is enforced by the court system. Do no get married unless you're okay with being financially destitute in your old age. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/11/21 09:29 AM |
| 13 | Stupid schoolgirl seeks supplementary shlong. Soon she'll stray streets, still sorrily searching sparks.He needs to stop being retarded and just drop the whole relationship idea. Just go with hookups and friends with benefits. He should be out there at the clubs trying to hookup with her friends. Just have fun your entire life and skip the bullshit associated with relationships/marriage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/11/21 09:27 AM |
| 5 | If there’s anything that’s caused more pain and suffering in a man’s heart, it was a woman.Not finding a woman isn't as bad as it is made out to be. It is just some men are very emotionally weak probably due to their upbringing (single parent home, abuse etc.). An emotionally strong man would realize that he is not entitled to a woman in any way and learn to be happy even without a woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | If there’s anything that’s caused more pain and suffering in a man’s heart, it was a woman.You should see the stories where the courts give the child to the mother even though there is documented evidence of child abuse going on (by the mother). Some of these stories actually end up where the mother kills the child! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/21 07:18 PM |
| 6 | If there’s anything that’s caused more pain and suffering in a man’s heart, it was a woman.I've never understood the "take care of my kids" logic. You can take care of your kids outside of marriage as well. If you get your woman pregnant, DO NOT marry her. There is no point to doing it! These men that "do the right thing" often get exploited the most. Men who have a backbone and only do what benefits themselves fare far better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | If there’s anything that’s caused more pain and suffering in a man’s heart, it was a woman.Yeah and this is something which isn't talked about at all. There is a big movement to legalize drugs but not much for sex work. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Women "love" good men... but they are not interested it them when their SMV and MMV is still high.Awesome man. Glad to see you're winning! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 09:16 AM |
| 14 | Women "love" good men... but they are not interested it them when their SMV and MMV is still high.Yup. She is obviously just using you as a beta buxx. That's it. Your only use to her is to provide money and free labor. Other than that, she views you as completely worthless. I see so many guys fall into the exact same trap and it is amazing to see. I tell guys all the time to be extremely careful of what you're presenting to a woman as what you "offer". The only thing you should be offering is your love, respect and kindness (none of this involves money by the way). Never offer any sort of vi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 09:11 AM |
| 37 | Women "love" good men... but they are not interested it them when their SMV and MMV is still high.No kidding. His wife straight up made an example of why men should never get married. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 08:58 AM |
| 6 | So no one then?Likely not masculine enough. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 6 | So no one then?and she if flat out ugly (based on the profile pic) so her odds are 0%. Not even a one in a million chance. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 17 | [36-F] I am a goddess that is looking for a man that will always serve me, rescue me, and take me away to a lake house. Here are my demands…I'm fairly certain if this woman did cowgirl on me, I would literally be crushed to death ☠☠☠ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 11 | [36-F] I am a goddess that is looking for a man that will always serve me, rescue me, and take me away to a lake house. Here are my demands…Very true. Dems to me is just bullshit promises. Republicans keep their word but I agree some of the policies are just misguided. I wish republicans would actually return to being a party of smaller government, lower taxes and so on. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 24 | Women "love" good men... but they are not interested it them when their SMV and MMV is still high.Be thankful you escaped, some men never do. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 02:24 AM |
| 58 | Women "love" good men... but they are not interested it them when their SMV and MMV is still high.Always remember: Channing Tantum (that magic mike stripper guy)....divorced. Brad pitt (often rated as the "sexiest" man alive).....divorced TWICE. If they can't keep up a commitment, don't even think you stand a chance. Hump + dump and never commit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | (29M) -Every conversation with my spouse (28F) removes the life out of me, & makes my heart race.. I’m completely tired of financially supporting this woman. We have no kids, no assets, nothing together. I feel bad because she’s jobless, but I am literally killing my self everyday in this marriage.She needs to go back to the streets. Just divorce, pay the price and move on. You'll be thankful you did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 05:12 AM |
| 8 | Ex wife 32f left me 39m 2 years ago, now she wants me back. We have a 9yrs old kid together. I still ice her but I am confused. What should I do?I looked at his post history and I completely agree with you. I've noticed that for certain men, they're like mentally fucked. It doesn't matter how bad their wife/exwife/gf treats them, they always come crawling back to her. Do take note that these same men are the men that will write out 10+ paragraphs of solid text in their posts. It just shows how mentally connected they are to their abusers. It really reminds me of women that even though their bf/husband is physically beating them, they nev… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 16 | Ex wife 32f left me 39m 2 years ago, now she wants me back. We have a 9yrs old kid together. I still ice her but I am confused. What should I do?Some men were born to plow. That's all they know, plow, plow, plow. They plow until the day they die and everyday they plow they just think "Wow, how wonderful it is to be a plow horse". When master comes around, they get so excited to see her! The plow horse never stops to think that maybe there is somethin better beyond the fence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 03:38 AM |
| 34 | Girl blatantly on dating site for foodie calls... Line up your wallets boys!and I'd imagine is full of tats head to toe. Notice she is all covered up. Gotta play that tradcon role to get those serious guys on match. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/11/21 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Yet another example of her past coming back to bite her tushy. Because her past doesn't matter, right gentlemen 🙃 | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenAbsolutely correct. I even asked her right before the break up why she withheld sex for so long. Her response: I didn't want you to think I was a slut. It just shows the dual-mating strategy that women employ. In hindsight, yes I was absolutely lucky to get away. Had she started fucking me on day one, I would have probably married her! Back then I was super horny and desperate as most 18 years are lol Shortly after this situation I basically went red pill and would listen to Tom Leykis on the ra… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/11/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | No longer wanting to be in this anymore.At this point, I think you're clinging on to something that will never happen. Just move on buddy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 08:15 PM |
| 7 | [49-F] About me: I like this, I like that, I want this… About you: You should be this, that, have this, have thatMe: So tell me about yourself? College degree? Job? How much money do you make? How much assets have you saved up in your ripe age of 49? Her: 😅 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/11/21 07:39 PM |
| 8 | Yet another example of her past coming back to bite her tushy. Because her past doesn't matter, right gentlemen 🙃 | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenAbsolutely the truth. This was basically the story of my dating in the early 20s. I would always end up with these abused women. Most of them were sexually abused apparently. The first woman I dated was 18 told me stories about how she would suck and fuck random dudes that she had just met at college. Keep in mind, she was probably doing this when I was dating her and I was the typical nice guy. So what did I get for being the nice guy boyfriend? No sex or blowjobs AT ALL for months. It was only… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/11/21 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Yet another example of her past coming back to bite her tushy. Because her past doesn't matter, right gentlemen 🙃 | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenThey've already abused domestic violence allegations to the point where it has no meaning anymore. If someone says they're a "victim of domestic violence" I just assume they're trying to get some sympathy points. The word rape is having the same meaning. It has no meaning at all anymore. Also for those who are going to get triggered by this comment. Remember, the only people to blame are those who make FALSE domestic violence claims. Point your rage at those people. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/11/21 08:41 AM |
| 17 | Wicked wife witholds warmth - wetness for womanizers, unwelcomeness for winsome and well-rounded whoeverReading posts like this always cracks me up because I know this is the final stage for all those blue pilled men that constantly lecture men about how they need to "treat women right"....which of course always revolves around putting women on a pedestal and sacrificing your own needs to prioritize her needs. The rules always hold true. Sexual attraction CANNOT BE NEGOCIATED. Either it is there or it isn't. If she isn't fucking you on the first date, there is no sexual attraction there and she mo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/11/21 08:33 AM |
| 3 | On the edge of divorce and can use experienced opinions."I wanted to help the kids" In other words, the law of no good deeds goes unpunished continues to hold true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 08:22 AM |
| 8 | No longer wanting to be in this anymore.Dude married a female and the female wanted to be a man lol. Most likely OP isn't gay so of course he doesn't want to be married to a man but then again.....OP didn't leave so maybe OP is gay. I am not sure actually. I think it has more to do with psychological abuse that OP is suffering from. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Sock Day hit yesterday!She will come back, I'm sure because the reality is you gave her a standard of living she could never get. Now she has to carry her own weight going forward and that's going to be one hell of a journey, let me tell you. She will learn the reality of the dating pool. As men get older, they become wiser to the games that women play and learn to avoid it. If you really want to piss her off for the fun of it. Try to find some young very attractive woman and get her to take some photos with you. Then… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Sock Day hit yesterday!Exactly this and men are tricked into doing this from day one. Just look at how men are treated when they're just dating around and never commit. You get attacked and told you aren't a "real man". In reality, any man who puts himself, his money, his happiness, his sexuality first gets ridiculed....meanwhile women have been doing this from the very beginning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Sock Day hit yesterday!Exactly this. Men don't realize how deep jealously runs in women's psychology. If you think about it from the beginning, women are hard wired to compete with other women to attract the most suitable male. Remember, women are all about becoming desirable to men and having the men approach. It is rarely the other way around. When they see other women getting better men or men they want, they simply cannot handle it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | The telltale sign of leftovers: mega-jealous of married and engaged friends.How dare you question our almighty shitlord like that! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 26 | On the edge of divorce and can use experienced opinions.You married a gold digger obviously and things will NOT get better. You need to file for divorce. The longer you stay married the worse the "marriage penalty" will be in the end. Be thankful you are only 6 years in. With 6 years, you'll have to pay alimony for a certain amount of time but most likely it will not be lifetime. Same with child support but you would have to pay that regardless. The other guy was smart by just bailing and paying the child support instead of getting married. The big p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 10 | Redditor explains why he avoids single moms of young children.Uncle Sam is the last remaining simp unfortunately 😒 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/21 06:29 PM |
| 47 | Fancy female finds that the factory floor failed to furnish her fate with felicityYou can tell that by the words "I more confident and a better communicator" aka "I have a demand list and will insist on this list until I get my way". No thanks. Hard pass. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 125 | Fancy female finds that the factory floor failed to furnish her fate with felicityAmazing how many 35+ women I've seen "trying to start a family". Lady, your eggs are all dried up and the rest of the remaining eggs will simply produce downs child. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 17 | Redditor explains why he avoids single moms of young children.Exactly why spend your money to fix someone else's problems when you can spend your money to live like a king? YES. I do need 50 pairs of high-end nike sneakers, a luxury sports car and a big ass mansion with a pool in the backyard. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 23 | Redditor explains why he avoids single moms of young children.Exactly because women are starting to realize that more and more men are checking out of the bullshit and now they're trying to find someone to fix their problems. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 47 | Redditor explains why he avoids single moms of young children.If someone says "this is what a real man does". Do the opposite. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Want to Rant. I Fucking Hate This BitchBe extremely careful dealing with any woman when she starts making obvious false allegations against you (abuse of any kind). She might be being coached by a lawyer and might be recording you as well. If she is doing stuff to intentionally trigger you, that's a pretty good sign that she might be trying to pull a fast one on you. If the marriage is going down fast, best to bail at the first sign of it. (she says she doesn't love you, says she wants a divorce, you aren't happy in the relationship,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/21 01:20 AM |
| 10 | I want out!Solid advice. I think you can do a credit freeze with the credit bureaus. That should in theory block all new lines of credit from being approved. Also once she gets served, start recording ALL conversations and get your phone setup to record everything. Once she goes to a lawyer, the lawyer will start coaching her on how to file false DV claims. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 18 | My neighbor has wanted to go on a bike ride with meMany guys think being a "good" husband means being a doormat for their wife. So they literally become a slave to her voluntarily. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/21 10:59 PM |
| 19 | Is there a series or movie similar to Netflix's "maid" that portrays a female abuser?Yes. Forest Gump. The female abuser is Jenny. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiC4UVWXNnw | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/21 06:30 AM |
| 6 | There aren't enough college educated men to go around for all the college educated women. Who is the victim here? The women. The men they want to date know they are in high demand and exercising their options and these college educated women are mad. Where are all the good college educated men?Yeah same here. My strategy was always to get their Facebook and try to hookup through that. In my young 20s and college years I would do beta stuff (of course, it never gets you laid doing stuff like that) so I accumulated a lot of female "friends" that I was trying to bang but had no luck with so it is interesting to see where these women actually end up. Seen it all these days. Women cycling through boyfriend after boyfriend. Single moms complaining. Seems like every year the desperation gets… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/21 11:43 PM |
| 7 | There aren't enough college educated men to go around for all the college educated women. Who is the victim here? The women. The men they want to date know they are in high demand and exercising their options and these college educated women are mad. Where are all the good college educated men?Exactly, it does kind of have a bittersweet ending to it seeing these old hags panicking in their 30s as their eggs dry up. "BUT I WANTED KIDS" lmao | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 15 | There aren't enough college educated men to go around for all the college educated women. Who is the victim here? The women. The men they want to date know they are in high demand and exercising their options and these college educated women are mad. Where are all the good college educated men?Exact same experience. I almost see it like a race. You're busting your ass to train for the race, putting in the hours, training etc. - alone. Then you finally run the race and get in 1st place to get the trophy and cash prizes. Then suddenly as you're leaving the race these women are waiting to congratulate you and shower you with attention. They don't look for men who might have potential. They wait at the finish line so it is zero risk for them. I just say fuck the right the hell off and I'l… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 36 | There aren't enough college educated men to go around for all the college educated women. Who is the victim here? The women. The men they want to date know they are in high demand and exercising their options and these college educated women are mad. Where are all the good college educated men?I am a STEM grad and I remember there was many women in the lower level classes. Of course these women would flaunt around "I'm going to be an engineer" blah blah non-sense. Once you start hitting the math intensive classes, the amount of women left drops exponentially. For the final classes that are required to graduate, it is 98% men and the other 2% women are like all asian women or women who look like they've never seen more than 15 minutes of sun in their entire life. Many people don't real… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/21 06:46 PM |
| 17 | There aren't enough college educated men to go around for all the college educated women. Who is the victim here? The women. The men they want to date know they are in high demand and exercising their options and these college educated women are mad. Where are all the good college educated men?Exactly this. When I was younger (18), I was working a crap service-level job at a popular amusement park. Many of my co-workers were going to college but the majority of the women were studying obviously useless majors with low career prospects. I ended up graduating and going on to start my career at 50k/year with excellent career progression. I'm now in my early 30s, making good money and a solid investment portfolio. I look on my facebook and some of these women are still working at that sam… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/21 06:18 PM |
| 23 | Intellectual property?Encrypt the code and upload it to an anonymous account online. Use TOR. keep username/password top secret. Modify the code to produce shit results. Enjoy your trading algorithm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 06:49 AM |
| 7 | I Decided Not to Get Married (to her) ...Absolutely. I tell men all the time. Marriage is about money. If you think anything other than that, you've been deceived. So if I ask you why you want to get married and your answer is anything other than "She's fucking rich, man!"....then don't get married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 3 | I Decided Not to Get Married (to her) ...Ultimatums don't sound too bad, until you realize they're a threat. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7D20tahgOA | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Finally done!Congrats. Don't get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 01:09 AM |
| 10 | Why is my wife locking our bedroom door?Just get out as fast as possible I can tell you that much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 9 | Good man doesn't want to be a backup plan.You get hobbies and real friends. Stop going to women for affection/love. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/11/21 07:42 PM |
| 17 | This is what they mean by a "good man". This is what society expects of you. Stuff like this comes off as funny cause the underlining truth behind it.That's the fucking look when the prison guard tells you to "stand up straight" so they can take your mug shot..... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 12 | Saw this in another sub. Looks like people are starting to wake up.Because they aren't really men's rights activists lol it is similar to love bombing where the woman will just tell you whatever you want to gain your trust. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/11/21 06:49 AM |
| 29 | Good man doesn't want to be a backup plan.Simple game theory here. If you're not the chad/tyrone, simply don't play the game. Remember, the age old rule of thumb. If you're the chad/tyrone, she will ignore all your red flags because tingles. If you're not her type then here comes the myriad of "standards" that you need to jump over. Sex and intimacy is withheld and used as a manipulation tool. Chad and Tyrone gets no-strings attached sex. If she isn't trying to jump into bed with you quickly, just fold your hand and move on. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 118 | Saw this in another sub. Looks like people are starting to wake up.More women will utilize the dual-mating strategy (alpha fuxx - betabuxx). My guess is the manipulation games will increase 1000x as these women try to proclaim that they're "not like that". If you're in the betabuxx category, take the red pill and hop out the back door 😎👍 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Wife told me not to come home.. whats my optionsThat would help significantly then if it happens. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Wife told me not to come home.. whats my optionsThe problem with the recording is my understanding is that evidence which is illegally collected is not admissible in court. So if domestic violence occurs then it is simply her words vs his unless some 3rd party heard it/saw it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Wife asked for Divorce today. Where do I get started?At this point, there is nothing you can do other than file immediately and get a lawyer. The other big thing to do is basically do whatever to get her to be reasonable through the divorce proceedings. If she goes nuts on you, the whole process can be much much worse as in more legal fees because of her unreasonableness. If you've been having WWIII style arguments, stop immediately. Tell her whatever she wants to hear to make her happy. At this point your #1 priority is protecting your share of t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 06:04 AM |
| 2 | I am not married but this sub has scared me enough to never get married.dumbass simp lmao | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/21 07:05 PM |
| 4 | I am not married but this sub has scared me enough to never get married.Women who want to get married will always pressure the man. That's why men need to be willing and able to walk away when the time is right. A promise ring is okay if you're basically willing to manipulate her on false promises but ethically speaking, it is not ethical. I would walk away when she starts getting really crazy at you with her demands for an engagement ring. Don't bother with a promise ring. Most men I see getting screwed the most are the ones that are doormats and always want to mak… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | I am not married but this sub has scared me enough to never get married.Yes you are in the honeymoon phase. Enjoy it. Just remember that women treat men the best when you are withholding what they want from you. Spending some money on dates and some gifts is nothing compared to what happens in divorce court where the court is literally seizing your assets and income to transfer it to her. The rule of thumb with marriage has always been this: a woman who makes more than you. (1.25x your income at least) a woman who owns the same amount of assets as you or more. a wom… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 53 | "How do I tell my rich and successful guy friend who has been pursuing me for years that I will never date him because he's not Chad?", says the woman in her 30s.I swear that movie I was just alternating between: "Forest, my man, you can do better than her, just move on" and "JENNY YOU FUCKING WHORE!!!!!!!!" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 37 | "How do I tell my rich and successful guy friend who has been pursuing me for years that I will never date him because he's not Chad?", says the woman in her 30s.Exactly. Women's dating standards are so high these days that many women are utilizing dual-mating strategies where they simply date multiple men. They have a couple go to guys for sex/intimacy and then they use the orbiter guys for money/attention/validation etc. The orbiters get no sex. I think this is why many men should just walk away. If you aren't the "go to sex" guy, don't even bother. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/21 06:39 PM |
| 17 | "How do I tell my rich and successful guy friend who has been pursuing me for years that I will never date him because he's not Chad?", says the woman in her 30s.Now you know how your typical FDS member is made. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 9 | Puisbhean ainneonach admits her method of dating is not working, circa 2021 CE. How much ya’ll wanna bet she’s fat in addition to being screechingly unpleasant?HVM don't want LVW.....but of course you can't say that because "muh misogynistic" blah blah. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/21 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Puisbhean ainneonach admits her method of dating is not working, circa 2021 CE. How much ya’ll wanna bet she’s fat in addition to being screechingly unpleasant?This video is good at seeing what a white knight believes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-JZhsEbj5c | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/21 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Even Brad Pitt can’t get 50/50. Brad Pitt's Petition is Denied in Custody Battle With Angelina JolieTouché, yes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/21 07:47 AM |
| 8 | Even Brad Pitt can’t get 50/50. Brad Pitt's Petition is Denied in Custody Battle With Angelina JolieShe is really taking him through the wringer but if he doesn't actively speak up, then I've lost all respect for him. There simply are hardly any celebs speaking about men's rights issues and it is absolutely pathetic. This is why so many men are simply just walking away from all of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/21 05:04 AM |
| 14 | Her: Accept me and the fact that another man's seed is currently growing inside of me. Did I mention my heart of gold?or why not use one of the 10 birth control methods that are offered to women? It is just sheer stupidity at this point....that's why I have no sympathy for the single moms. It is 100% their fault full circle. Don't tell me that chad didn't have like a million red flags but we all know that these women ignore the red flags for chad. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Her: Accept me and the fact that another man's seed is currently growing inside of me. Did I mention my heart of gold?damn savage lol | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 11:14 PM |
| 188 | Her: Accept me and the fact that another man's seed is currently growing inside of me. Did I mention my heart of gold?Me: Hey there good lookin, how about a date? Her: ohhhh, yes, I would like to go. Where we going?? Me: Planned parenthood :) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I fucked upI honestly don't blame you especially when she changed after marriage. It is impossible for a guy to mitigate for that. Pre-marriage, she is perfect, you did all your due diligence, everything checks out. Then after marriage her true self comes out. It is a bait and switch. Heard this happening mannnnnnnny times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/21 08:19 PM |
| 6 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.Exactly. If she hire a shark lawyer. You will be wiped out. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I fucked upJust for reference for guys who insist on getting married. This is where he fucked up: "Well we got married, bought a house, and about a year later things started to change. She started to put on weight, she became very stubborn, she didn't want to have sex much and when she we did hardly seemed into it. " If she changes after getting married. Just divorce and move on. It is easier to get out of marriage when you've only been together a couple years and without kids. As far as OP. It is pretty o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 14 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.Exactly. That guy was probably a PUA. The PUA community has a big thing with trying to be "mysterious" and I guess they're right. Women love that shit. It is all about allowing women to have that fantasy imagination in their head. You just have to plant the seed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 04:20 PM |
| 14 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.Exactly this. I remember when I was young. I was stupid and actually tried to have LTR with sloots. I was 19 at the time, she was 18. I dated this woman for 4 months and never once got sex or oral from her. Not once because I was doing all the nice guy shit. At the very end of the relationship, she would tell me her sex stories about how she was horny and would meet up with guys and suck them off in the bathroom. One story she mentioned that she did not know the guy for more than 15 minutes when… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 04:07 PM |
| 15 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.and of course the chem. eng. will take her back and then make a reddit post talking about how he is the man who ended up getting her in the end. They will marry then enter a sex-less marriage because the tingles are gone. She will cheat repeatedly in the marriage (and mr betabuxx probably won't even know). After 20 years of marriage she will cash out, take half of his money, half his retirement, and get lifetime alimony. Then she will go back out into the dating world where she will fuck the mos… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 03:56 PM |
| 15 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.The sexy son hypothesis explains this one. "The Sexy-Son Hypothesis states that a female's ideal mate choice among potential mates is one whose genes will produce male with the best chance of reproductive success. This implies that other benefits the father can offer the mother or offspring are less relevant than they may appear, including his capacity as a parental caregiver, territory and any nuptial gifts." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis It shows why women go with bad boy t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 03:47 PM |
| 8 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.and it looks like parts of her hair were already turning white?!?!? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 24 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.Exactly this. It just shows that traditional dating advice is BS. The first guy is clueless into what gives women sexual chemistry. Guys need to stop "showing their hand" when it comes to dating. Stop saying how much you make, how much money you have and so on. If the woman asks, just deflect the question. Instead just be the second guy where you just make BS up. It is impossible for women to figure out what the truth is. The women that do figure it out were never going to fuck you to begin with… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 03:32 PM |
| 15 | You can’t even tell nowadays. Leaves boring chemical engineer to fuck warm beer weirdo.Every man knows it is true. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | My favorite divorce song; Nine Inch Nails "Only"I raise you this song :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b\_vh4atOp5Q | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/21 03:49 AM |
| 14 | A very serious question about second wives...Some guys like to live on the plantation. They were born to be plow horses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Beginning of separationYour marriage is over. File immediately and get out. You're trying to save something which does not exist. It does not matter how much "amends" you make. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | My wife has threatened to leave me every 18-24 months for 12 years.Yes I second this advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/21 02:39 AM |
| 6 | My wife has threatened to leave me every 18-24 months for 12 years.Sounds like you're married to a narcissist. https://www.lifehack.org/796353/narcissistic-behavior From the sound of it. This is as toxic of a marriage as you can get. You need to get out of this marriage and move on with life. This marriage cannot be fixed. Just stop trying. At this point you need to start preparing for a divorce. Read on this sub there is lots of good advice on what you need to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/21 12:01 AM |
| 3 | I think my eyes are being opened to the truth. So the other day i broke up with my girlfriend...Exactly this. I'm in my early 30s and have dated off and on for the past 12 years. Red pill theory is absolutely true just from my direct personal experience and I notice that men's other stories aligns with it as well. The truth is the vast majority of women are simply acting based on their emotions, feelings and hormones. Red pill theory is simply the inconvenient truth about women. Some people just accept it while others ignore it at their own risk. The reality is men who ignore it will simpl… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | I think my eyes are being opened to the truth. So the other day i broke up with my girlfriend...Couldn't agree with this more. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 07:14 PM |
| 7 | I think my eyes are being opened to the truth. So the other day i broke up with my girlfriend...Don't be friends with simps. Period. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.Yes, this is exactly the type of women I am talking about. These days, very early in the conversation, I always try to dig down as much as possible and ask myself this question, "what has this woman accomplished in her life?" Keep in mind I go for women around 30ish years old so they should have something basic at least. You would be amazed at how creative some of these responses I get even to basic questions like "what do you do for a living these days?" You basically get the jist that they don… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How does stock work in a divorceI'm curious about this as well. What about in situations where say the husband has like 500k of stock in a separate account (prior to marriage). Then he gets married but doesn't put anymore money into this account. Instead he opens a different account and puts investment money in there instead. Then assume the 500k account turns into 2M. Then they get divorced. How much claim will she have to the 2M? half? half of 1.5m? None of it? Specifically talking about CA here. I've read up on this and the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Ex posting to social mediaDocument it and show it to lawyers. Don't respond to any of your friends. Whatever you say can and will be used against you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 06:00 PM |
| 26 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.Women like this are pretty common these days from what I've seen. Very few women actually bring something decent to the table. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Are we going to see an eventual bias toward men in the workforce since more women are going to college?Same thing at my work. Due to the labor shortage, we completely eliminated the BA degree requirement. We don't even require experience anymore at all. We will train you as well. You just have to be motivated to do the job. This job pays 50k/year at the entry level. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.Very true | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 04:38 AM |
| 9 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.True but men also see these situations going on and then they themselves start asking, what's in it for me? | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.Well the women want those high-earning men........They don't care about the low-income simps that spent most of their money on impressing women of the past. All they care about is how much money the man has now to impress her. So if those high-earning men are truly "opting out" then yes, Houston we have a problem for these women that want those type of men lol | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 37 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.That's why libfem women are pushing "open relationships". It is part of their dual-mating strategy. They'll have a relationship with a man who is a good provider then they'll have a relationship with a man who is good with sex. The provider man providers money, pays the bills and so on while the "side BF" man just provides sex and satisfies her sexual fantasies. Most of her sexual energy goes to the side BF rather than the husband. Open relationships are openly being normalized in popular cultur… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 03:47 AM |
| 8 | Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it.I met a guy who was 89 years old. He was divorced 5 times. Even at age 89 years old, he was still looking for the 6th marriage. I kid you not. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea what to do.Exactly. From 25-35 it seems like women are getting snapped up then they start coming back after 35 after being divorced lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 02:26 AM |
| 3 | I have no idea what to do.Don't hate the player, hate the game. If you don't like it then reform the family courts to limit abuse! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 10 | I have no idea what to do.What the hell are you doing, man? Lawyer up, get the papers filed and clean her out. Try to get as much as you can. You're in a loveless and sexless marriage and you're trying to save it? Why? It is pointless man. You'll still be able to see your kids. Move on with your life and dump the baggage. Just get a new GF if you're lonely. Your new GF and your kids are your family now. At your age, they start to become dime a dozen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 105 | "I've passed up good men because there were no 'sparks'. When I chased the 'sparks', things didn't go too well. WHAT IS WRONG WITH MEEEEEEE?! 😭" (forums.red x-post)At this point the only thing we should be saving is other men to avoid having their life destroyed by this woman. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 10 | Prison princess prefers profusely philanthropic partner.I know, right? I saw another one where it was some 22 Latino looking girl, pretty hot looking. She had an arrest record of 30+ charges ranging from robbery to drug distribution. My guess is she was running with gangs. Pretty funny how these women end up in those situations. They were chasing the gang banger chads when they could have just gone with a beta buxx who would have just paid all their bills lol Edit: Profile: http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/ladies/giselle-343395.html arrest record (only … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/10/21 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Prison princess prefers profusely philanthropic partner.http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/ladies/ You know everyone who likes sending dick pics is probably writing to these women as we speak On a side note some of these profiles are actually interesting. Some of the women are pretty hot actually. My guess is a lot of them are in prison for drug trafficking or something similar. You can see what they're in for by googling their name. If you want see a fucked up one, check this one out! http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/ladies/sierra-113690.html https://www.cb… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 22 | "International about loving me and my kids like his own". "Don't waste my time if you're not interested in getting to know my kids as well".Worst part is knowing they got no-strings attached sex and then she will be telling you "tehehe, I'm not that type of girl. I only have sex with a commitment!" and then every date you have blue balls. Lovely. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/10/21 04:06 AM |
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