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DISCUSSIONlluuni/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:32 AM
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Of fucking course your active subs include passportbros lmao
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 02:37 AM
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Yea sure, that’s why when someone divorces their partner due to sickness the sick spouse is six times more likely to be a woman. “Loved unconditionally” my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 05:54 AM
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Agreed. Many men will simply have sex with a woman and create a family just because she was the first person to let him. He often has nothing in common with her or has something in common with her that’s very trivial, like enjoying the same tv series. This is why it’s so important to vet men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:31 PM
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I can tell you exactly why. Despite their avoidance these men still want a woman around to mommy them, be their therapist, and have sex with them. They will go into relationships thinking this is all it will be and then will bitch about the fact that relationships require effort and work. They are mentally immature are not equipped to handle intimacy, yet will always pretend it’s the woman’s fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:23 PM
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Last time I was catcalled the men hollered at me and chased me down the road in their truck. I had to hide in the bushes until they left. Silly me for being upset and scared by this. We should ignore this issue despite thousands of women having similar stories just so we can protect men’s feelings. They are clearly the victims here. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:06 PM
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I actually think Will Smith’s reaction is because of the fact that Chris Rock has targeted Jada for his “jokes” before. Sure, as other commenters are saying, he could have handled it a different way. But Chris clearly has a weird fixation with her and I’m not surprised Will Smith finally popped his ass. All the boys on Reddit defending Chris Rock are terrified because they see themselves in him and are scared of getting the same repercussions. They want a society that normalizes dark humor with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:38 PM
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Remember, removal of attention is the ONLY punishment men respond to. Don’t clap back. No matter how genius you think your comeback is. Men will always gang up with other men, even if their comeback is just some unintelligent misogynistic comment. Take one look at the tinder sub and see all the posts of men humiliating women for the tiniest of reasons. Sometimes for no reason at all. You can’t win no matter how much of an upper hand you think you have. Ghost. Block. Delete. Your attention, no ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:24 AM
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The age group you pick will almost always give a seemingly low statistic. For example, men within the 20-25 age group make of a small percentage of the population. So it will always look like having ANY standards will result in small results. It’s absurd, and a way to guilt trip you into dating low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:41 PM
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I agree, it’s one of the many tools used to try to lower female standards. Almost everything these days in the media and on the internet is trying to lower female standards in some way. I’ve even seen children’s tv shows engage in it. That’s why more women need to be told about FDS. This is the only place I’ve seen that truly addresses this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:29 PM
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I agree with you. That goes for divorces too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:40 PM
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Breakups are bad. When a couple breaks up, it’s because they didn’t try hard enough to understand each other. I saw these posts on Facebook all the time and vowed I would never be like one of those girls who just left at the first sign of trouble. This of course is complete bullshit and only lengthened my toxic relationships. The truth is breakups are almost always necessary when they happen, and you SHOULD break up when a relationship in continuously hurting you. (Edit: Even if it’s not hurting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:58 PM
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Also don’t be afraid to appear “rude” if a date is making you uncomfortable. I can’t tell you how many times I subconsciously ignored my intuition out of fear of being a bitch. Manipulators prey off this fear in women. There is nothing wrong with ending a date early because they made snide comments about you. There is nothing wrong with telling a a date you don’t feel comfortable getting in their car, or going to their apartment. You never have to see them again anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:12 PM
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A lot of NF women have high empathy and are often targeted by NVM and LVM men. These men will use them as free therapists and surrogate moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:30 PM
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What a weird and intrusive question to ask someone while on a date. He’s asking if you had a “happy marriage” to see if it would take low effort to impress you. You gave a great answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:15 PM
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This is why all women need to vet as much as possible. Many men don’t care who they marry as long as they have a relationship. Their sex lives and relationship status dominate their ego because it’s how they flash their value and dominance to other men. If a man shows interest in you it may not be because he thinks your special. It’s often because he’s just trying to snag any relationship he can. Always Vet and wait until you find a man who shows effort and high value traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:54 PM
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They will probably tell her she needs to cOmUnicATe with him better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:53 AM
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It’s not just a lack of boundaries. Some pickmes put men on a pedestal as the “better sex”. They think they are somehow cooler and smarter for being “one of the guys” and constantly talk shit about women. You can tell who they are as they often say things like “all my friends are guys, women are to dramatic” or say sexist stereotypes constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:47 AM
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I would even say to keep your guard up after the early stages of dating. Especially if he repeatedly keeps asking to take you to a secluded place. Some of these guys will act totally normal for MONTHS waiting for a particular girl. If he repeatedly tries to get you to go “hiking” or any other secluded activity, be wary. Even if he’s nice and agrees to do other things you suggest he could just be biding his time. A HVM would not want to even try putting you in that type of situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:03 PM
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He showed up in his work clothes. Which means he didn’t even bother to dress nicely for “his best match”. Going on a date in work clothes is a clear sign of a low effort man. Even if he was meeting her after work he could have put an extra outfit in his car ahead of time to change into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:26 AM
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If he was comfortable ridiculing you and screaming at you in public, imagine how abusive he would have been in private. You dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:13 PM
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It’s funny because there is sooo much shaming against women online who give “unsolicited rejection” to men. I’ve seen so many videos of a man acting all flirtatious with a woman, the woman politely lets them know that they are not interested or are in a relationship... Then the guy goes OFF claiming they just wanted to ask for directions or some other bullshit. Women are called bitches for assuming men are interested in them and gently trying to stop it before anyone is led on. Meanwhile men cra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:12 PM
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Honestly the amount of misogyny in the child free sub really sets me off sometimes, but Reddit users never care about that part of course. All the comments I see hating on childfree are because the women there refuse to have kids or be free babysitters for their family members, which is something I’ve never seen expected of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:14 PM
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“You learn how a woman’s mind works” He’s acting like we’re different species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:45 AM
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Women should support and love each other, but this does NOT mean our choices are free of criticism from each other. The whole “it’s a woman’s choice” movement is toxic because it portrays every choice a woman makes as inherently feminist. This is not true, as many choices women make can actively harm other women in the world. Believing that every choice is feminist is not feminism, it’s radical individualism. We can not achieve class consciousness through radical individualism as they are opposi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:20 PM
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It’s a test to see how much they can manipulate your emotions. They are waiting to see if you will jump up and offer empathy and act as their therapist. When you don’t respond that way, they stop the sad act and move on the the next girl. It’s scary how abruptly they can turn on or off the sad act lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:07 PM
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Men are more likely to be narcissistic, egotistical, and sociopathic. Consequently, any and all attention you give them will act as their “supply” (google narcissistic supply). It doesn’t matter how amazing your comeback is or how much you bare your soul about how hurt you are. They will not feel sorry, they will not feel empathy, they will only feed off the attention and manipulate it to their advantage. Block. Delete. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:56 PM
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God this is so true, what’s even worse is that when men DO decide to “help” during events they act so arrogant about it. Last year during the holidays my male relatives decided they would grill the meat (while the women did what they considered to be less Interesting work like setting tables, cleaning, and making side dishes). They turned it into a “man’s club” type of shit where they asked women to leave the area, talked about how great they were at cooking, and said a bunch of misogynistic cra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:25 PM
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I’ve seen many straight men who are clean and shower regularly. They are usually business types or college educated types. Higher intelligence and social awareness also generally make men keep themselves more well groomed. It’s a good thing to keep in mind while dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:33 PM
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I don’t believe anything the Watts family says about Shannan or how “bossy” she was because they have a history of lying through their teeth and being manipulative. But even if she was bossy, he could have just divorced her. It’s not possible to “push” someone into slaughtering toddlers through typical domestic arguments. He WANTED to murder her and his children because he’s a psychopathic monster and he felt they were in the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:10 AM
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Love languages are such bs. It’s a way for people (especially men) to box in different types of affection and limit the relationship to only the ones that don’t cost them any money or effort. Healthy relationships require a constant flow of all love language categories. Claiming you have only one love language makes you limit what you give and receive in a relationship. It also turns the issue back on the victim complaining about toxic behavior in a relationship. (Ex. “You’re mad I didn’t get yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:12 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:02 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:45 AM
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This is all manipulation. Men want us to constantly bring each other down so that we have no class consciousness. The reality is that they just want to divide women as much as possible so we have no power. Never bring down other women just because they don’t attend to the male gaze. Men manipulate you into doing this so that we force each other to look attractive to them even when they are not there. Do not subjugate your own class for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:47 PM
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That’s why they painted him as a “master manipulator” when he was just a lunatic. The police were embarrassed with their own incompetence, and instead of apologizing they made up some wild theory that Bundy was so hot women just became stupid around him and fell for his schemes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:43 PM
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UBI as well as public housing and subsidized daycare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:17 PM
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It’s also so funny how these critics constantly call FDS a cult. A cults main focus is to take away independence from the members in order to control them. FDS is literally a sub that’s about increasing women’s independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:14 PM
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This is so based. I remember seeing a thread on askmen where a woman asked what men liked best about their female friends. Pretty much every answer was, “I love the empathy she gives we when I talk about my problems. My fellow male friends don’t give me that”. Everyone thought it was cute, but I was disgusted. They all love women because they can get free emotional energy from them, then go right back to clowning with their male friends. They always take your energy and never return it. They bas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:25 AM
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They all think they are funny, yet all they do is quote memes and lines from adult swim tv shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:30 AM
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Which is so stupid, because unattractive men are so bitter and nasty due to not being handed everything. They usually blame women for this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:50 AM
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“I worked hard to be this angry at my abusers after years and years or repressing my emotions”. This is beautiful. Thank you so much. There are so many incredibly smart and wise women on this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:04 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:56 PM
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Gifts are mentioned a lot because they ARE a huge indicator of HV and LV. Society teaches women that they can’t voice concerns about about gifts without being bitches, so it’s one of the first things men will manipulate. Buying no/cheap gifts is a sign of overall lack of relationship effort, while buying overly large extreme gifts is a sign of love bombing and manipulation. “Love language” is also mostly bullshit. Pretty much nobody says their love language is gifts because it would make them lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:57 AM
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I see Terri Irwin being applauded by men for refusing to remarry after her husband’s death. Men say awful things like “take note thots”. They treat women who remarry after their husbands deaths as less moral, yet they abandon their sick wives and remarry just months after their deaths. They’re completely heartless hypocrites. I don’t think men’s loyalty is different. They applaud this type of loyalty when women do it so they clearly understand and value it. They are just selfish and refuse to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:59 PM
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lol give me a break. Women have so much pain and heartache inside of them from being abused by men their entire lives and having an entire history of oppression. Yet women don’t give men even a fraction of the hatred they give us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:59 PM
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Exactly, we need a campaign for ourselves. Nobody would ever expect gay people to say “gay rights are for straight people too” during their campaigns when straight people already have the privilege to live openly, and are the ones oppressing gay people. (That’s why it was so controversial when someone suggested putting “Ally” in the LGBT acronym). So it’s ridiculous to expect women to be forced to include men during their fight for equality when men already have what we’re fighting for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:48 PM
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Here’s the simple way I see it. Feminism is for women. Men can benefit from feminism because living in a society without sexism has positive effects for everyone, but feminism is ultimately about freeing women around the world from male oppression, not the other way around. Feminism is not for men because men don’t need to be liberated from women. There’s nothing wrong with saying this because it’s statistically and historically accurate. It’s typical to have a knee jerk reaction to this and wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:57 PM
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So true. The difference is astounding. It doesn’t even have to be expensive items. My HVM will bring me a candy bar from the store whenever he gets himself one, or he’ll get me flowers after I’ve had a rough day. You can tell he genuinely loves buying stuff for his loved ones. Meanwhile all the previous LVM in my life spent every penny they had on themselves and their videogames. Anytime I confronted them about it they would pretend it was my fault...because I was clearly a greedy bitch for want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:51 PM
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I have a male coworker who is acting buddy buddy with me. I’ve been friendly since were both married so I don’t think he will try anything stupid. But are there any warning signs I should look for in this situation? Or advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:46 AM
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“It’s women’s fault. It can’t possibly be something I’m doing!” Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:52 PM
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After reading so many stories of women being given horrible sentences for self defense, this makes me slightly less depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:00 AM
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My HV dad always cooked us nutritious meals, and still does to this day when I visit. Never settle for a man that wouldn’t be able to take care of your children if something were to happen to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:57 PM
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Boy moms are the worst. When I worked as a teacher boys could get away with anything from bad grades to bullying because their moms would brush it off or excuse it. Meanwhile their daughters couldn’t have dirty shoes at the end of the day or they would fly off the handle. I have no idea what happens to women’s brains after they have sons, but it’s made me only want daughters in the future. I’m convinced there’s some biological change that actually happens because the boymom behavior is so consis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:08 AM
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“Because they don’t” Beautifully said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:59 AM
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That second asshole wants compliments and female attention for doing fucking nothing. Compliments are earned, not something you’re entitled to. I’ve never seen a woman demand compliments from male colleagues and friends. We are raised having to work twice as hard for any true recognition. The “daily compliments” these idiots talk about women getting is just daily harassment from scrotes trying to get sex, they hold no true value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:45 PM
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It’s not even just porn, although that’s definitely a main source. But almost all media has the narrative of some unattractive mediocre guy “winning” the girl in the end. I even remember my cartoons as a child having this trope. They are conditioned to be entitled from childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:18 AM
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What defines a “inappropriate touch” for you? What defines a “borderline touch” for you? Why do you get to now decide what’s borderline inappropriate and what’s not? You literally made this argument in your first response that what’s inappropriate is different for everyone. For example In Argentina it’s normal to greet someone by kissing them on the cheek, regardless of your age and sex. In my country that would almost always be considered sexual or romantic. Remember how you said that some auti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:02 PM
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Despite this one awesome screenshot, Angelica’s mom was nearly always portrayed negatively in the show. I remember my parents saying she was a bad mom because she was always busy at work and didn’t “stay home” like the other moms. Apparently being a successful business woman is terrible, and every woman needs to be a stay at home mom instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:35 PM
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That’s such a perfect quote for their behavior, men as a group need to commit to misunderstand women as much as possible. This way they can paint themselves as victims by saying women are just too cOmPliCaTed, when in reality the problem is that they don’t put any effort into the relationship and lack even basic amounts of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:22 AM
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This makes me wonder if any and all kindness from men towards women is inherently an act to get sexual favors. They can’t even see a male child’s kindness as genuine because it’s such a foreign concept to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:06 PM
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Whenever I see “men have it bad too” arguments like this, it always reminds me of the people who claim that white people have problems just like black people do. Black people are oppressed. Women are oppressed. The problems men and white people have are not comparable to this oppression. Men created patriarchy and it benefits them, they are not “lacking equality”. Men are the ones pushing the idea that men and women are not equal as hard as possible so that they can continue to discriminate agai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:41 PM
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While expressing boundaries is important and healthy, asking someone to accurately predict which boundary to express right before you touch them is literally impossible. Nobody can predict the future, and it’s not up to people to predict which parts of their body you are going to touch next so they can stop you in time. You are completely responsible for your own actions against someone’s body regardless of your autism. Also you say you grabbed people and carried them because you felt they were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:27 PM
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Honestly they shouldn’t even have to ask the autistic person to stop. That still puts the responsibility on the one being touched without consent. The autistic person should be asking if the touch is okay. Nobody should be touching anyone unless they get permission first, unless you are very close friends who have long term established boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:28 AM
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As someone who’s worked with kids for 10+ years, this stereotype couldn’t be farther from the truth. There’s lots of studies showing that bullies on average have better home lives, better mental health, and higher confidence in themselves compared to others. There are even studies showing that they have less empathy for others. Here’s one article on it. https://www.today.com/parents/study-bullies-have-higher-self-esteem-social-status-lower-levels-t36271 Honestly kids who actively bully in my cla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:39 PM
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He realizes. He dated you for four years, so of course you would have mentioned how long the bonsai has taken you to grow in that time. He knew how hard you worked on that tree. You told him that you didn’t like pranks, and he didn’t like the fact that you were setting a boundary. He was trying to see how far he could go and what he could get away with. Now he’s realizing that he took it far and is “apologizing”. Don’t fall for it. Block him everywhere and never speak to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:08 AM
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This is a huge red flag I’ve learned to spot. When a man brags about being an asshole, brutally honest, sarcastic, or anything similar, he’s telling you in a socially acceptable way that he is sociopathic/narcissistic and expects you to put up with it no matter what. These men are horrible when you argue with them or break up. They will pull out every dirty trick to make your life miserable. They may be funny to hang around when they are making fun of your rude boss and coworkers, or useful to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:31 PM
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It’s funny because this sub literally teaches women the opposite. Pining after men and trying to beg and manipulate them into loving you is pickme behavior. The biggest rule in this sub is to only date men who show an interest in you and work hard to show their affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:42 PM
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Most of them know that too, they just enjoy saying that shit to harass you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:48 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:51 PM
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It’s biology, men are just more narcissistic. It’s really that simple. It’s the reason why they enjoy violence and sadism. It’s why they can’t empathize with women. It’s why they believe they are better than women. Their biology forces them to be violent, narcissistic, hypersexual, and hypercompetitive. We like to pretend that it’s socialization, but it’s not. Socialization may contribute to their misogyny, but it’s not the primary cause. They’ve treated us like this in every culture for all of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:15 PM
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When I look back at my life, I can clearly see now that I never had a true male friend, they were all just trying to get in my pants. Even the ones I knew for years only kept me around for a possible sexual opportunity. My life is so much better now that I only have female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:05 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:09 AM
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I do think all women are shamed, but I do not think we are shamed equally. The underlying message from society is that big breasts are valued and small breasts are not. This has extreme differences on self esteem. Big breasts can create problems for women that have them, like pain during exercise, or being unable to fit into certain shirts, but it’s not the same as the systematic devaluation of small breasts. It’s just like how men with big penises are treated better than men with small penises.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:20 AM
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I’ve never seen men on reddit say small boobs are attractive except on r/ unpopular opinion. Large breasts are treated as something valuable and womanly. Small breasts are treated as gross and boyish unless their being fetishized by pe dophilic porn communities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:37 PM
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Large boobs are not shamed in the way that small boobs are, but they are fetishized. Which comes with its own set of problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:33 PM
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/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 07:28 PM
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They don’t have to vet, that’s the hard truth. In most relationships women take on nearly the entire mental load. Men rarely have to worry about women forcing them to carry the mental load of the household, so they have the privilege of not having vigorously vet dates. Plus women are rarely a physical danger to men. They don’t have to be careful of female violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:37 PM
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I don’t know if they are controlled by the same genes, but the “alpha female” thing is definitely true in other countries. Long labia is believed to indicate higher estrogen levels and fertility. Shorter labia is viewed as childish and “unwomanly”. The men also claim long labia makes for better sex. (I’ve seen no scientific evidence that any of this is true). Women in those countries will even stretch out their labia, meanwhile western women will surgically shorten theirs. It’s sad how women’s b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:14 AM
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That’s so stupid. Labia growing in size is literally a symptom of female puberty. It has nothing to do with the number of sexual partners you have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:20 PM
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It’s funny because men generally love saying hurtful things. They view it as being “realistic”, “logical”, “savage”, and “intelligent”. But then suddenly they pretend to be empathetic when they don’t want you to react to something they did. It’s all to serve themselves in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:57 PM
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People consider this so funny when a man does it. But when FDS tells women to use nicknames for men they date the whole internet goes rabid and claims the sub is evil and dehumanizing men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:21 PM
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He wanted to see what he could get away with. Narcissistic people are always testing others to see what they will tolerate. That’s how they find people to control. Block and delete sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:44 PM
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I remember having sooooo much empathy as a teen girl. Teenage girls are generally kind and wonderful yet society treats them like absolute shit. Meanwhile sociopathic teenage boys can do no wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:28 PM
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They had an entire post where a guy asked if it was okay to call a women he hated a bitch. His sister told him to stop because it was a slur against women. Everyone in the comments claimed he was NTA. Yet apparently calling a man a “manchild” is somehow misandrist and gets you a 7 day ban.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:42 PM
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This is the best answer. High value traits may attract many dates initially, but they won’t guarantee holding a relationship long term as your differences and flaws become apparent to each other over time. People ultimately want someone with similar thoughts and interests to them that they connect well with. If it turns out you two mismatch to much, a single high value trait won’t make someone stay with you. This is true for both sexes.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/20 09:22 PM
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Always suspect male foul play in these situations. I knew a girl who’s ex boyfriend made profiles of her like this all over dating sites in retaliation to her breaking up with him. We should question if it’s real, and be supportive of a sister until proven otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:57 PM
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There was a man who used a woman’s real phone number to track down her address and sue her when he didn’t like the date. (She used her phone in a movie theater to text her friend for a ride home because she felt uncomfortable around him). Another man tried to sue a date after she accidentally gave him a cold sore. NEVER give men your last name or your real phone number until you have established a long term relationship. Without them it will be very difficult to have the necessary information to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:14 PM
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I’ve noticed many marriage therapists are very conservative and prone to blaming the woman for any problem brought up during sessions. I’m convinced that marriage counseling is just a socially accepted form of forcing women to stay in bad relationships. Societies have had sneaky ways of doing this throughout history, and this is just a modern strategy. I’m not sure what the FDS view is on marriage counseling, but I personally would never recommend it to any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:05 AM
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The sad part is that he’s likely to attract very kind empathetic women who look at this and think “I don’t care how much money he has, I love someone for who they are not what they have!” In reality she will be dating a man who is probably going to parasite off of her financially while using sob stories to guilt her into being okay with it. I know a guy who did this to four different women, he owes each one thousands of dollars. HVM generally save dating for when they are financially stable, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:59 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:26 AM
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Not sure what she means by sensitivity and emotions making us women. Both over-sensitive and emotional men are a major problem for women as a whole. I’ve honestly encountered far more men with these problems than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:28 AM
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I always link people to “the mental load” comic by Emma instead. It describes how doing men doing physical and mental labor around the house is necessary for an equal household. Not a nice gesture you do once in a while for your wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:50 AM
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It pains me to think of my young sweet self who used to believe this. Turns out the reasons these men are sleeping on bare mattress on the floor and chronically have no money are almost always self imposed. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a woman wanting to date someone financially stable. I can’t believe society paints this basic standard as vanity. Btw I was at a low point in my life were I could barely afford rent and had to sell things to get by. The last thing on my mind then was dati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:25 PM
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You also literally have a better chance of surviving a medical situation with a female doctor. If that’s not enough to convince someone to choose female professionals I don’t know what will. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/14/well/doctors-male-female-women-men-heart.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:52 PM
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We should add “helping out with his religious duties” to the wife shit list. My atheist friend lost countless hours helping her worthless ex plan christian events for his church. She would audition with him for the church Christmas plays, volunteered her weekends for his events, and went with him to Sunday services because he was “bored without her”. Of course, he got all of the credit for everything even though she always did most of the work. Please don’t date LVMs, especially ones outside of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:05 PM
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We need a masterpost of things that are considered wife level. I see this questions about it a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:57 PM
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Well there’s specific definition that I know of, but this is my best attempt at describing it...A pickme is someone who constantly sucks up to a person or group oppressing/abusing them. They usually do this by insulting their own group and complementing the oppressing group. The most common way the term is used on this sub is to describe a woman who sucks up to men in order to get them to see her as a “cool girl”. The term “pickmeisha” is also used for these women, because it’s a female name com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:57 AM
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Yes they will leave you, and when you point out the statistics that say men leave more than women, you will be attacked for it. They will say it’s YOUR fault because “not all men are like that” so you obviously picked a bad guy. They will tell you that there’s no problem to address and that it’s your own fault for not noticing signs beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:15 AM
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I love how mainstream the term pickme is becoming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:46 AM
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Thank god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:51 PM
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Better late than never, congratulations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:24 AM
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This is what most 35+ male online dating profiles look like. Even if it’s fake, it’s barely an exaggeration of real life anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:19 PM
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This is fantastic. If more countries did this women could leave their domestic abusers and flee to other countries without fear of being followed. Though I fear that if this becomes more popular, many misogynistic countries will respond to this by creating higher standards for what they consider “domestic abuse”. They will also make it harder to get a true conviction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:18 PM
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This also applies to sports cars, overly expensive cars that are far above his pay grade, and modded cars that are obnoxiously loud or have bright lights. Also find out if his car is clean or nasty inside. If it looks like a trashcan you need to hightail it out of there immediately. This is a reflection of his cleanliness, hygiene, and general responsibility at handling everyday tasks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:08 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:02 PM
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You’re right that IQ has no actual reflection of how smart you are. I know someone with a 140 IQ, and he’s a racist high school drop out who’s addicted to drugs. All his high IQ scores tells you is that his brain works faster and more accurately than average. So yes, IQ cannot tell you someone’s personality, or if they have social skills and common sense. However, no amount of schooling would change a persons natural IQ level because proper IQ tests do no measure knowledge you learn from school.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:13 PM
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It’s so true. Look at the difference at how society treats “wine moms” vs “beer dads”. Beer drinking dads are lovable doofuses with dad bods. Wine moms are cringey Karen’s promoting ALcOhLISm. Edit: Even better, if you’re a guy who hates sports, you’re an intellectual. If you’re a girl who hates sports you’re a snobby bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:33 PM
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That’s actually false. IQ tests, especially modern ones, control for culture and educational level. Most sections are based on things like pattern recognition, spatial awareness, and problem solving. This tests a persons innate logic, working memory, and processing speed rather than just knowledge of school subjects. In other words it tests how well your brain works, not the content it’s learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:53 AM
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It’s funny how a woman collecting anything, be it coffee mugs, plants, or shoes, is so demonized by men and the media. But women are expected to always put up with men’s intense and expensive collections. I remember every time I would see women posting about their husband’s extreme collecting (to the point of filling entire rooms) reddit would tell them to be supportive and that it’s “who he is”. But it’s never the same for a woman who collects. She’s called names like “shopaholic” and told to f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:45 PM
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I agree that communication is important, and that you can’t expect your partner to be a mind reader. But men have taken this relationship advice and abused it to the max. They drag out this line every time a woman asks for even basic emotional support. They expect women to tell them how to react to every situation without doing any of the mental labor themselves. Seriously, after years of dating or being married, you shouldn’t have to have your partner spell out everything for you. You should kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:26 AM
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Could someone explain the astrology joke? I don’t know much about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:54 PM
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“The ONE time a women makes it clear what she wants to eat”. No. Women make it clear what they want to eat all the time. Eventually they just learn to be complicit because men argue with all of their choices, or tease them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:22 PM
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I love how a straight penis is apparently an enormous and self centered standard, yet tons of men online refuse to be with women who have labia minor that stick out of their vulva. Suddenly men start defending it as a “preference” when it’s about what genitalia they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:58 PM
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Women literally have a higher chance of dying in the ER because doctors don’t take their emotions seriously. They will leave crying women alone and dismiss them as emotional as they die in the waiting room begging for treatment. Meanwhile the same studies show that male emotions are taken more seriously. An emotional male will receive ER care faster. They will also respond to male demands more quickly, and won’t question them, or insinuate that they are lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:34 PM
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What does OLD stand for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:40 PM
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I’m glad I joined this sub right before it hit so that I could be part of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:34 AM
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Could anyone copy paste the titles into text here as a comment? It won’t let me view all the songs unless I make a Spotify account and I’d rather not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:46 AM
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I have the biggest smile on my face reading this. I’m so so glad you got out of this relationship. So many women never leave. Also those grade are phenomenal. I don’t even know you and I’m proud of you. I’m sorry your own husband couldn’t be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:56 AM
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I’m so sorry for your loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:07 PM
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Male aggression is normalized and seen as less aggressive than it really is, while female aggression is seen as more aggressive than it is. There were studies done on this. People judge female and male aggression unfairly. This movie is a perfect representation of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:19 PM
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