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STRATEGYlmnsatang/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 12:17 AM
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she said something about how she doesn't have a lot of female friends and has more guy friends because girls always think she's trying to take their boyfriends or men they're interested in. biggest red flag of all. find good girlfriends, so you can tell them when their boyfriends are hitting on you and she can be freed from the deadweight. the problem is always the boyfriend with the wandering eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:57 AM
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I hate it actually and I don't think they actually manifested their ideal partner but just settled. ita. i think it's absolutely insane to not include physical preferences in manifesting a partner if that is something important to you. some people legitimately don't care what their partner looks like, so obviously they shouldn't include that while creating their vision/list. for me, it's absolutely necessary. physical traits and personality traits as just as important as one another, and how you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:54 AM
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i feel so embarrassed for him. he obviously thinks he's a catch 😂 the lack of self awareness is WILD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:32 AM
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you're most welcome :) i love sharing my interest in manifesting, internalizing and visualization. good luck on your journey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:08 AM
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remember that a HVM is about character, not about the window dressing. i'd like to hear more, if you're willing to expand on this? i know some men who are great people but not to their partners. i know some who treat their partners extremely well, but are pushovers in every other aspect. is a HVM someone who has it all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:49 AM
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For instance, my Google Home says to me in the AM: “Sis, if he wanted to: HE WOULD!” then it tunes into an affirmations playlist. this sounds amazing!! i'd love to see/hear the video of this. i 100% believe in manifesting the life you want, especially through finding a HWM partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:47 AM
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i've used the notes section of my iphone to create a 'physical' list where i could type/write out stuff. some people use physical paper and pens, but i feel like the most important thing is to internalize your list. 1. first is know what you want in a partner be as specific as you'd like, because it's for your eyes only. as i said, mine included whether he wears glasses or not, and what i wanted him to have a degree in. there are many others: similar sense of humor, other physical characteristic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:42 AM
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thank you <3 he was definitely looking for a girlfriend and not a hook up. what really helped me was visualization and manifestation, because what i want in a partner is extremely specific. examples include whether he wears glasses or not, his degree and career pathway (i'm in arts, and want a partner in STEM), his background and upbringing, and he matched most, if not all of them. never lose sight of your vision!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:57 AM
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Is physically healthy. this is SO important. it's wild how much some men don't care about nutrition or sleeping habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:38 AM
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use the most populated app, because it increases the number of fish in the pool. online dating is a numbers game, so have a strategy and stick with it. you will find what you're looking for if you are confident and attractive. it took me almost a year on tinder, a very detailed list of what i was looking for in a partner, thousands of matches, and a new date every month or every 2 weeks to land my bf. i spaced out my dates to prevent burn out, and knew what to ask during first dates. was never w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:31 AM
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it's weird that a person would put his female 'BFF' on the same level as his parents, while his gf/wife languishes in what is basically third place aka not even a priority? i can accept filial piety as it's strongly rooted in our culture but 'platonic' opposite sex friendships have got to go. it's such a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:17 AM
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ladies, this is why we should always date with intention. get out there in your late teens and early 20s knowing what you want in a partner, and never ever settle for less. the more years pass, the more the pool gets polluted. from late 20s onwards, the pickings are depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:00 AM
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people who say not staying friends with their exes are a red flag make me laugh so much. How can you be friends with someone who has been inside you? this is such a valid question, and following this is WHY would you want to be friends with someone who's been inside you?? i legitimate do not get it. to me, if you wanted to stay friends with this person, why break up? a relationship is basically friendship with sex, so why does removing 'sex' from the equation make it all right to maintain a frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:54 AM
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There are only 2 categories of women for men: fuckable and unfuckable. no truer truth than this tbh. this is exactly why i don't have male friends because 1. why do i need a male friend? and 2. every male i've called a friend or has been friendly with has shown sexual interest in me, from childhood friends (we've known each other since we were 8; we are now close to 30) to boyfriends of my best friends. why does anyone need this type of stress in their lives?? this is also why people who say sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:36 AM
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as another commentor put it succinctly: It's my body, I wear what feels comfortable. if my body is banging, why shouldn't i be posting about it on instagram😂 only insecure men will have a problem with it, like my ex. i have a monetized fitness instagram where i post pictures and videos of my physique + workouts, and his low value self told me he's uncomfortable with my photos. i listened to his rationale, but it didn't make sense to me. this is why he's an ex :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:17 AM
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during the lockdown, i didn't shave my legs and armpits at all. now that things have reopened, i still shave those areas because i do lots of fitness things and i admit i'm too fully entrenched within the toxic expectations of women to feel comfortable being hairy in those areas. i don't shave or trim anywhere else. my private body is what only me and my bf sees. he has no issues with my pubic hair, which is the way it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:44 AM
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lmao learnt this the hard way. was with his broke ass through his depression (free therapist). had to help him write his uni papers (free professor). let him stay with me for free when he visited (we were LDR). he had no savings, no proper plan for the future, was definitely not on my level financially or SES-wise and he still cheated on me. in the grand scheme of things it was the universe doing me a favor, but things like this cut deep when someone as low value as this does something like that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:39 AM
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even these 4 don't cut it - where's the ambition/drive that will lead to the financial stability he'll bring in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:26 AM
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prince harry and HVM in the same sentence short circuits my brain. that guy doesn't only have shitty behavior, he's also so unattractive🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:13 AM
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He said “now you’re saying I can’t like photos of girls on gym clothes?” My answer would be: yes. you can't like photos of girls with gym clothes on instagram because it makes me uncomfortable. that's all you need to say. you don't have to justify your feelings or emotions to him, because what he's doing is not right. there are some things you should compromise on, and other things that you should stand firm on. this is something you should stand firm on, because it literally brings no benefit t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:06 AM
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yup, it's yoga! honestly nothing has changed my life more than embracing yoga - because yoga isn't just about the movement (asana), but about breathwork (pranayama) and meditation too. sound baths is also a great avenue to explore. i started my fitness journey doing the usual HIIT/weights, which really helped me lose fat and gain muscle. with yoga, i get to work much deeper into the body, without worrying so much about how much protein i'm eating or how small i wanted my waist to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:40 AM
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men are really simple and shallow, and the easiest way to get any man is just by having a fit body and being pretty (good skin and the right clothes). i'm extremely thankful i grew up in a good household, with plenty of opportunities. i have a degree from a great uni, am comfortable with my life and body, and have an interesting job. are these factors for men? perhaps. but none of this matters as much as my looks to them. it becomes way easier to filter out LVM from HVM once you're attractive to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:37 AM
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his LVM sign is flashing in all its neon lighted glory. don't just leave - run. i have a fitness insta page, and i get many guys who follow me who obviously have girlfriends. some even DM me lmao. personally, this behavior disgusts me but my page is monetize so i'll gladly take the likes and comments and i never respond to them :) i compare these LVM with my bf, who doesn't even have instagram. why does he even need it? he has me, and honestly SM is a waste of time if it's not monetized because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:25 AM
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The goal is to be so great that everyone wants you. All you will have to do after that is just pick the best option the truth right here. this is why my #1 advice is to get into fitness. once you have a banging body, men will accept any personality - even if you were deemed 'picky' or 'bossy' or 'difficult' before :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:55 PM
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nope, and my thought process is why have male friends if i have a boyfriend or i’m looking for a bf? the only guy i call a friend occasionally DMs me on insta with hearts or heart eyes that i completely ignore (he has a long term gf, i have a long term bf and we both know this). the only other guys i hang out with are my close friends' bfs, and even then one of them tried to get with me because he was thinking of breaking up with his gf (my close friend). wtaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:52 PM
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you're welcome! take this time to nurture your body, heart and mind - it's about being gentle yet firm with yourself (understand yourself, but don't give into your own excuses). you are your own treasure; don't let anyone make you forget that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:37 AM
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a lot of people dislike dating apps, but i find it the best way to separate HVMs from LVMs :) at one glace, you can usually see what universities they go to and maybe they'll even mention their career. i'd argue that university is a better signifier of worth vs what career they're in because a good university tells you a lot about their SES - parents who can afford to send their children to a prestigious university are more likely to give them a better upbringing, raising more emotionally stable…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:25 AM
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no uterus, no opinion. always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:10 AM
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the worst part is it's not just her life that's wasted for being with such a LVM, it's the baby's future squandered as well :( this is why every woman should have high standards - to prevent being trapped in a life like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:09 AM
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it's actually a small but pretty great green flag imo. most people don't know how to use SM productively and spend mindless hours just scrolling and refreshing. i am on SM a lot because my profile is monetized, and that's the only way to use SM. if a guy i'm seeing has all these SM profiles but isn't an influencer or monetizing it? wasting his time (and mine, if i'm with him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:06 AM
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this is a sickness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:04 AM
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i don't understand bio's like this. is he super good looking, or posing in front of his family's private jet or something??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:55 AM
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like many of the other commenters here, i don't believe in 'alpha' or 'beta' roles, but more personality traits. i am type A in some areas, but totally relaxed and want others to lead in others. knowing exactly what i want has led me to imagine a life i truly want. will it go exactly to plan? of course not. but at least knowing the structure would make me go into things with my eyes wide open. it's knowing what to stand firm for, and when to bend. in relationships, it means weeding out guys acco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:53 AM
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i own being picky and difficult, because i know what i want. HWM are also picky and difficult, but they're known as 'assertive' and 'confident'. being picky means you won't settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:02 AM
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i'm proud to say that mental health issues are a dealbreaker to me, because i want to date someone who's like me. i don't have depression or any other mental illnesses which need medication, and i know what it's like to be the 'rock' for someone with a mental health issue. my ex had depression (was medicated for it) and i actually spent months helping him through his spells by writing his exam papers for uni, being an emotional anchor, etc. all for the sake of 'love'. in the end, what i got was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:57 AM
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HVM do not need nor want expensive gifts from their girlfriends preach. if she wants expensive gifts and he's not bringing it to the table, tell him. if nothing changes, exit the relationship. never spend money on a guy because you want him to spend on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:51 AM
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the first rule of life tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:55 AM
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men also get promoted far easier than women and are paid higher just on the principle that they have a pens, so if he isn't bringing in the dough, what exactly is his worth as a man?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:57 AM
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nothing helped me get over a breakup to a LVM more than hitting the gym to get better mentally and physically. it worked too, because i’m so much happier and i'm now with someone better looking, wealthier and better than he ever was😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:49 AM
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my first silver! thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:45 AM
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HVMs do not stay single for long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:37 PM
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While we believe in having your own career and making your own money, a man still has to add financial value to your life and make you feel like he can take care of you. This means not splitting the bill and not dating financially challenged men. ugh this is perfect. i dated a financially challenged man and was planning my life around his: marriage, a family, the works. it's hard to date when you grew up privileged because almost nothing they do can reach what you have had ever since you were a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:53 AM
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the most important question to ask first is 'why'? is he that great of a person? is he super attractive/bathing in family money/'gets' you on a level no one else has so far? because if he doesn't hit at least 2 out of 3 of these things, i would say you're wasting your time. because even if he hits at least 2 of these, you still have to work out when and how you guys can be together and the mental toil, planning, and heartache that goes into this would not be worth a single second if he's not a H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:45 AM
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platonic friendships with the opposite sex are just a waste of time if they're not your friend's boyfriends/bf's friends. even this strategy is not fool-proof because my best friend's bf was messaging me behind her back when he was going through a 'tough time' aka contemplating whether to break up with her or not. what a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:44 AM
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i used to think about getting an IUD, but meh. condoms would suffice as women go through enough pain and shit on a daily basis. i also don't shave/wax because it's terrible for the hair follicles and the sensitive skin - i'm not mutilating myself because a guy's going to see a bush for 10 seconds before going inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:41 AM
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i've never understood the idea of dating older = wealthier men. why not get someone your age or younger, who comes from money? i grew up in a circle of wealthy people, so dating someone within this circle would mean they would have a background family wealth larger than most older men who had to make their own money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 10:59 PM
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