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We'll have to agree to disagree. Those are incentives for playing ball with the state, much like if you get a bonus for achieving goals at work. Only in this case, the state's prerogative is for people to at least replace themselves, if not create positive population growth. Getting married and having kids earns you that bonus. Your personal well being and happiness is inconsequential as long as you are making more tax payers.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:35 AM
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Being single and child free is so much cheaper. Don't delude yourself into think adding a wife and kids will net you more money.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 11:51 PM
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That's a fair quibble, but the point remains - he was seeing a licensed professional and receiving therapy and advice (and drugs, since it's a psychiatrist). But by all means, high center on the minutiae.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:18 AM
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If your car completely shits the bed one day are you going to refuse to go to a mechanic because some mechanics are shady? I mean, if you would rather push your dead car around everywhere you go, and slow your life down, that's cool. But... if you want to get on track and move on with life, you'll do yourself a favor by doing some research on a reputable mechanic, talk to some people, and find an expert you can trust.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:03 AM
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I'm a big fan of therapy, but nobody's psychologist should be directing them to make any decisions, period. If they can't get you to find an answer for yourself that you feel is right for you then you need to fire them. I feel like TRP has this attitude that therapists are sitting around telling people what to do, and while I'm sure there are plenty of bad therapists, this is not how therapy is supposed to work.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:43 AM
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Very true, but simply knowing you can is very liberating.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:45 PM
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I guess the formatting didn't like the double parenthesis. Anyways, yeah, I dated a psychologist for a while and she was... not red pill, but acutely aware of her own emotions and those of the people around her. She saw through bullshit - including my own - like nobody's business. We had a lot of great conversations about psychology, relationships, and so on, including topics like this. If anybody gets a chance to take psychology classes, I would definitely recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 07:13 AM
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I snooped on my ex-wife. I didn't even think there was another guy in the picture, I was legit wondering what she was telling her friends about us working on things. To say I was blind-sided is putting it lightly.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 11:08 PM
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Good read. This is actually a phenomenon already documented as "splitting" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Splitting_(psychology). Notice the section on BPD...
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:56 PM
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Who here hasn't felt the same way? Seriously, you guys bitch at women for this attitude, but every single person feels this way. This is the joy of outcome independence. This is freedom.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:26 PM
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Depending on what country you're in, the birthrate is already below 2.1. Heck, the only reason the US continued to thrive after the baby boomers decided not to reproduce was immigration.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 09:31 PM
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Chemical castration? What?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 06:55 PM
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Sure, it's possible. Better just to check with a doctor and get a blood test if you're concerned.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:26 PM
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Definitely. Not going to shame you for taking SSRIs like that jackass below; you wouldn't shame a diabetic for taking insulin, you know? Just another chemical imbalance. But... from what I have heard low testosterone is often overlooked, and if it is the cause of your symptoms, trt would probably give you a higher quality of life with fewer side effects.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:19 PM
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I wonder if you have low testosterone. I have heard reports of a lot of guys with low t having depression. They go see an endocrinologist, get on testosterone replacement therapy and the depression vanishes.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:06 PM
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Higher testosterone seems to register as "He smells good" in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:53 PM
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As for the destruction of the Blue Pill MGTOWs normalize male isolation helping feminists achieve their goal of removing men from society and family. Based on the advice parroted on TRP of "don't get married, don't have kids", I would say they won. So let them have their victory.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 08:47 PM
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I appreciate what you're trying to do here, but I'm sure you realize how poor the arguments you are making really are because they are overly broad. A great many of the problems with steroid use are easily mitigated or user dependent. The blanket term "steroids" is only useful to a point. Testosterone is a very mild steroid in terms of side effects. If I didn't know I was using testosterone right now, I wouldn't know I was using testosterone right now. Others, like Trenbolone, definitely can cau…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 10:01 PM
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Haha, fair enough. Some positions lend themselves better to certain things, but my ex-wife had a weird tilt to her lady bits, so I get how it could be hard sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 05:08 PM
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Do you also crush apples when you pick them up to take a bite? Because according to you, lifting removes the ability to regulate the amount of force you use... Get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 05:02 PM
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A lot of them seem to like it when it's part of rough sex and they are orgasming and squirting all over the place. It's that concept of "pleasure pain" and being forcefully taken and dominated that gets things going. Also, if you angle your dick, you can usually hit "under" the cervix and hit other pleasure spots that really works for some women. I believe it's the anterior fornix. But it's a sensitive area that normally doesn't see any action, but if you give it a little love you can make a wom…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 04:31 PM
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I appreciate your thoughts and agree with the general sentiment. However, I'm content with taking a break from women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 07:44 AM
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That's what my exgf told me. A couple others have expressed similar thoughts. Granted, I don't believe it for a second... "Yeah, you cheated, and yet somehow I broke you? Fuck off." It's definitely a huge ego stroke, but it's also a lie. At the end of the day, that truth is what matters. At the same time, I do hate it because I know there are real feelings that are hurting. I'm tired of bad relationships, and I'm tired of getting hurt and hurting other people. MGTOW is starting to hold a lot of …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 09:15 PM
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Wow, the message below that pic is incredibly childish... since when did TRP start using these tactics?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 10:08 PM
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Meanwhile this loser thinks it's guilt. Not realizing that if she was really feeling guilty, she would be sucking his cock 3 times a day and doing all she can to keep him and get him to forgive her. Literally going through this right now. Caught my ex-gf texting other guys and broke up with her. Problem is she lives with me, so I'm giving her til the end of the month before I start eviction proceedings. In the meantime, she has been sucking my cock at least daily (instead of 3-5 times a week). W…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 06:27 PM
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God knows we didn't get it from our own fathers...
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 05:07 PM
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From the same page: Both Schopenhauer and Herbert Spencer found telegony to be a credible theory;[4] it was only conclusively proved wrong with modern understanding of genetics.[3] It's an interesting idea, and obviously it occurs in fruit fly. Perhaps it occurs in humans as well. Unfortunately, science doesn't bear this out. Yet? Until then I'll continue not worrying about it. There are hardly any virgins left over the age of 16, so it's better not to get in a tizzy about something that very li…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:58 AM
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Lawl. "I'm just going make to groundless assertions that extrapolate on my personal speculative association with human and fruit fly biology. If you don't believe me, then fuck you." Bro science at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 10:20 PM
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There's a reason he didn't provide sources...
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:01 PM
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Something I learned about my mom, post-divorce (my dad only kept her around to raise kids and left her for a younger woman... I don't talk to him any more) is that she was kind of a slut. 50+ guys at least. Fun fact, she lied to my dad about that. Can I get an AWALT? But I digress... Point is, I look just like my dad. Uncannily so. Facial features, build, even personality. My brother is more a blend of my dad and my mom, but still it is unmistakable who his father is. So, that's anecdotal and an…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:00 PM
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Or if Chad gets thirsty and wants an easy lay... who are you again?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:08 PM
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Oh, for sure she thought she deserved better... she just didn't think she could get what she "deserved" so she settled. And don't get me wrong, I was beta af, and not the man I am today. Even now, I'm still healing and rebuilding, but I'm miles better than I was. And now, she's a fat 32 year old with tacky feminist tattoos and bright red hair chasing skinny hipster boys who fuck her fupa, play with her head, and move on. This is what she deserves.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 01:42 PM
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My ex-wife married me because she didn't think she could do better. She couldn't and still can't, but that's beside the point. The point is, when a woman has low self-perception, she will pick a mate who meets the approval of her family, peers, society, etc even if she isn't attracted to him. I'm tall, dark, and handsome but I was still BB. After a decade together, everything about me physically repulsed her. It didn't have anything to do with what I looked like and everything to do with how I b…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:57 PM
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Great post. There are a lot of "embrace your anger phase" posts here, which isn't a bad thing - it's important to understand and feel healthy anger as a part of the grieving process (grieving the death of the BP illusion). However, there isn't nearly enough content that encourages personal growth beyond the anger phase. Perhaps most ECs are stuck in the anger phase? Either way, this post is worth being on the sidebar. As someone trying let go of my anger, I personally found it helpful as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:57 PM
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Many employers don't care if you have a crappy arts degree... just that you have a degree.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 09:00 PM
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That sounds like a lose-lose scenario, and a good example of being aggressive, not assertive. You're laying hands on another person - a woman in particular - and will only attract negative attention towards yourself. Even though she was in the wrong, you will turn yourself into the bad guy, a target for white knights, by being physically aggressive. You made ridiculous, childish demands ("respect me!") and escalated from verbal to physical aggression. Maybe you're happy with the outcome, but you…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:59 PM
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Nice off-topic rant. Although I'm curious about what medical tests you used to pay out of pocket for that you can't get any more...
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:59 PM
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2) Oddly capable therapist... That's a new one... Normally it's 'do more chores around the house' or 'why don't you think about an open relationship'.... My therapist gave me similar advice when my ex and I did marriage counseling as a last ditch effort. Actually much of it mirrored the core recommendations on TRP. Be assertive, put yourself and your needs first, etc. Great lady, I'm really glad I went. It helped give me the strength to end things with my toxic, bi-polar, whorr ex-wife. 3) A tra…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:53 PM
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You cannot consent to assault/battery in the US. A chunk of BDSM practices are illegal and con non-con certainly falls into that category. A piece of paper won't save you.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 08:18 PM
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Yes, that's the implication... If the ho explains her feelings to her bf, the guy will break up with her, freeing her to ho it up as much as she wants.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:25 PM
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Your statement would make sense if they hadn't been loyal to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:35 PM
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I've dated women who are quite loyal and will reject other guys at bars and clubs without issue. Even with the ones I wasn't interested in except for short term, it was nice to see that level of loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:01 PM
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I don't disagree with you... We're making the same point, but coming at it from different angles.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 01:37 AM
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Are you kidding? Former fat girls that have lost weight (and kept it off) are great. Granted, they will never be as slim as girls who have never been big, but they are generally much more well rounded, have better personalities, and are more appreciative of your attention. Getting fit builds character for women just like it does for men; it shows that they aren't complacent and willing to accept the easy way out.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:08 PM
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Wow, this is the dumbest shit... yeah, gear is great, but you can easily out-eat it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:23 PM
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TRP Uniform 1.0 *Faded cotton pique polo - bacon collar a must *Cargo shorts - must go past the knee *New Balance or Nike trainers We're definitely not a bunch of faggots in here!
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 09:06 PM
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Just did anal with a girl who said she didn't like it before. I worked my thumb into her asshole, just to get her used to it. Then I slowly, slowly, slowly worked my dick in there. She had already cum multiple times, was relaxed, etc. I whispered in her ear to make sure she was okay, and she was. I didn't pound her ass or anything, just some gentle thrusting for a few minutes to get her used to it. Apparently she came twice just from that. I have had women put fingers and prostate toys in my ass…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:22 PM
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And how do you respond when she asks "Does my hair not look good every day?"
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:34 PM
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if a formerly fat girl lost a bunch of weight, the first thing she would do is get all of her fatty pictures off her dating profiles and social media I have met exactly one woman who didn't do this. It blew my mind that she was actually a good 40 pounds lighter than her profile claimed and all her pics were from before she lost the weight. I guess it was her way of finding guys that liked her for more than physical reasons?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 02:48 PM
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The endorsed contributor tag is a crock of shit. Not sure how it's handed out, but it doesn't mean much.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:11 PM
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The problem is that most women don't sacrifice anything to help their men, but they still expect "compensation."
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:05 PM
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Very fair. I definitely have had self esteem issues that pushed me towards bigger girls in the past. I've been with a few fit girls now and I do generally like them more, but something about wide, curvy hips, a big ass, and juicy breasts... it does it for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 05:23 PM
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She could stand to lose a few pounds, but I would tear that pussy apart. What is she anyways, a size 10? She's got a little meat, but she's not fat. But I like bigger girls; probably just a biology thing because babies in my family tend to be pretty huge. Gotta look for those child bearing hips...
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 03:26 PM
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Women that have been around me on and off gear have told me they can smell the difference and taste it in my cum. Anecdotal, sure, but in my mind there is no doubt that women can sense high testosterone... and they love it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:13 PM
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I received more loving affection from her than I ever did from my ex. You really didn't. She wasn't gobbling your cock as an expression of loving affection. Women will fuck you and be your personal whores if you're good enough, but it's never because they appreciate you. It's because you have something they want, whether that be earth shattering sex or emotional validation or status or money or... you name it. Dissociate yourself from the idea that you will ever receive true love from a woman. T…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:39 PM
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I'm divorced, so take this with a grain of salt, but I married my first. I would have had no complaints with our sex life if I had known how to be alpha in the beginning. This whole "I want to experience other women" isn't all it's cracked up to be. Find a sweet girl, be alpha, and lock it down if that's what you want. If her pussy's tight and she doesn't say no, what more could you want? Well... sexually, that is. In other aspects, you may have to train her, but if you're alpha, women are malle…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 04:01 AM
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I've never had a problem with viruses or exploits myself, but... fuck people that send out viruses. Fuck them in the ass with a rusty knife. If you want to stick up for a loser beta script kiddie, then good for you I guess.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:53 PM
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Mirrors... how do they work??
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:24 PM
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Hmmm... this is interesting read and makes me feel a little more self-assured about the woman I'm dating. She is post wall and probably a 5. Part of me hates it because TRP says I'm doing things wrong. The other part of me loves the fact that I'm with a woman who feeds my ego, is submissive, has no boundaries in bed, shares a lot of common interests, isn't codependent, and encourages me to develop my masculinity. I have fucked hotter women, but compared to the low maintenance, sex crazed, sensib…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 05:07 PM
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I had to get divorced, start seeing other women, and "find myself". My ego is much better now.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 04:59 PM
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I don't literally mean that only women are oblivious I know you didn't mean it literally. However, I wanted to tear into you, because you're speaking like a woman. Or perhaps more like one of Rao's "Losers" because it's not quite powertalk... They [Losers] engage in straighttalk at times, but not always. They also engage in what Rao calls "GameTalk" which is like powertalk, but with out key difference... it is self-oriented. In other words: It can be truth or lies, according to the needs of the …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 11:23 PM
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Women are "involved" in more accidents. My ex wife was reared ended multiple times. She was "involved" in multiple accidents. I know the statistics you're referring to and they are fun, but they also don't show fault, which is much more interesting. My beef with the other poster is that he claims that men are never bad drivers. I'm assuming you agree, but unfortunately, you're both wrong. Men and women are both shitty drivers. Again, this is an example of where certain redpillers are using women…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 11:06 PM
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Did I say women don't do this? No? Okay, so what's your point?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 09:31 PM
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How many times do you narrowly avoid a car crash only to look over and see a male driver completely oblivious to what almost just happened? Never. Always female. Oh, except for that time when some douchey frat kid rear-ended me while I was at a stop light because he was too busy texting... Or the dickweed weaving through traffic not even bothering to check his mirrors and almost hits me... because my quad cab is so small you barely notice it on the road, right? Women aren't the only ones that ar…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:51 PM
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I love eating pussy, but I wouldn't pay to eat pussy. There are some weird guys out there...
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:52 PM
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Maybe it makes me weak, but it gets me laid with minimal effort so I can spend my time doing other things.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 04:21 PM
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That was my thought right there. With Tinder around, there is no reason you shouldn't be getting laid as often as you want. But maybe OP doesn't want sex and that's cool too.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:09 PM
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It's because you are giving her validation. In passing her shit test, you are telling her that she did well in choosing you. You are the prize, and you proved it. You're gonna have to do it again and again and again for the rest of your life unless you tell her to hit the road or she takes away your manhood and leaves you.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 10:52 PM
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I was looking exclusively for younger women, and there were plenty of 19 year old single moms on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:27 PM
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I plated a woman like this. N-count was less than 10, but once you throw bjs into the mix, you're looking at 50+...
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:31 PM
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Sounds like my ex wife. And me, to be fair. In a 6 week period I fucked 7 different women. A couple were regular, and I even got exclusive for a while.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:20 PM
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I dated a fat girl for a while. She was genuinely the best woman I have ever met. You know how RPWomen has that list of feminine traits? She nailed every last one of them. Submissive, empathetic, compassionate, etc. She understood me better than any other person I've ever known. But she was fat and several years older than me to boot. If she lost the weight and was 10 years younger, she would still only be a 6/10 at best, but with her personality, I wouldn't have cared. If only things were diffe…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:36 PM
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That was the first thing that came to mind when I read that bullet point lol. Now, I just to think of something to say to girls I'm currently fucking...
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:37 PM
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I was trying to get back together with my ex. In the time we had split up, I fucked a handful of women (we lost our virginity to each other). I came clean and told her about it... she was mad at first, but then something switched inside her. Overnight, she went from giving me duty sex to chasing down my dick. Ultimate dread game, I guess: If she won't fuck me, I don't have any problems finding women who will. It's too bad there are too many other issues in our relationship... I think if I had le…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:39 PM
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Okay, I feel like there is a communication issue here... I understand the meaning of the words. What I'm asking is: why did "stating" work so well for me?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:46 AM
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Insinuate, not state This is where I "fucked up". I insuated at first, but after a few dates decided to come clean. My ex hadn't been with anybody else (I snooped, sue me); although she did make a couple attempts, she got rejected. On the other hand, I had been with more than a few women since we split up. It may be important to note that we were each others first. So now her partner count was significantly lower than mine (1). At first she was angry - I told her everything with the expectation …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 11:46 PM
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Seems like this is geared towards the club scene, but most of this wouldn't work in a club since they are just too loud. You can't talk, nobody can hear you, etc. Maybe some bars are quiet enough to talk, but none of the ones I have been to are like that.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:47 PM
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Joint accounts are bad even if you're married. My plan moving forward is to have a joint savings that we both contribute equally to for things like vacations, but otherwise she will spend money as fast as I can make it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:43 PM
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