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loadacode/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:42 AM
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loadacode/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:34 PM
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I feel similar to op. Your idea works but hear me out what happens next. If i treat the one i want, like the ones i dont want, then i dont want them anymore because she got trapped with that other persona of mine. I hope that makes sense. The perfect situation would be that you could just be like you are. Your true self and if she likes that and accepts that, then this is a ltr candidate for me.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:09 AM
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This makes sense
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:34 AM
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Because of the implication.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:46 AM
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I like to understand things. Ive seen several times how women are really into it to defend and promote lgbt stuff. Men usually are either against it but most of the time just ignore it. I wondered why.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:56 PM
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If this happens alot i would check myself. If you usually have good dates and this is an outlier then i guess it was her fault or at least you two just dont vibe together. I thought i can have a good dates with every woman but in reality it really depends on chemistry. If you just dont vibe together, accept it and on to the next one.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:13 AM
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So do you accept any disrespect from a woman if you can fuck her at the end?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:21 PM
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I realized in that moment too. She was just honest and i did the same countless times. The only difference is that it seems disrespectful to say that to your face. I wouldnt do that to a different plate. I didnt expect exclusivity, since i wouldnt start LTR with her. Its just for some good times. Like i said above i will not contact her again because i can get other women who would appreciate me more. If she contacts me again , i will decide then if i want to fuck her again or if shes not worth …
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:50 PM
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I decided to stop contacting her. If she contacts me i can fuck her and thats it. Ignoring the rest of the shit stor
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:33 PM
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I actuall said it. When she started to talk about it i said that im not here to comfort her.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:32 PM
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I decided to stop contacting her. If she contacts me i can fuck her and thats it. Ignoring the rest of the shit stor
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:31 PM
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Oh i would never go into a relationship with her. Its fine for sex but like i said im not sure if its worth it. I mean i did the same in the past (maybe we all did) but i never told a woman sth like this to her face
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:50 PM
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She cried afterwards and she hates herself for this. I know its just bullshit and blame shifting. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:49 PM
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I accept that its just my turn. And there will always be other men in this game. My only problem is that im a replacement for a different date. And that she is telling that so openly is confusing for a shit test. If i dont care, it shows her that i tolerate shit like this, or not?
/r/askTRP30/08/20 07:23 AM
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Well her actions tell ne that she wants me as a fwb but i dont know if i hurt my ego and self esteem if i allow a woman to treat me as a second choice..
/r/askTRP30/08/20 07:16 AM
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Why would i brag with sth like that. Im just shocked because i never heard a woman say that
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:21 AM
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Crazy she even called herself the devil
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:09 AM
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She came to the party with her bf. Everybody knows that but she still only talked to me. They had an argument beforehand
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:51 AM
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Im 6‘3 210 lbs. He is 10 years younger with no frame. Like i said the whole party thought she belongs to me
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:46 PM
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True that but i dont mind to have somr good months with her
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:44 PM
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Thx. I think you got it . I will try a lil bit but it’s difficult but she definitely needed some distraction. They had an argument the same day
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:35 PM
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I felt a chemistry thats the most i can give. If i contact her i think its obvious to her and her bf that i want more
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:13 PM
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I see. But if she wants me instead of her bf what can he do? Honestly he should just next her and let her do whatever she wants. I wouldnt keep a woman like this on my side in his position
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:07 PM
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Its the day after. I see her insta but i dont know if i should contact her since it could be creepy and she could show it her bf. Her gf doesnt want to help. So my only option is to contact her through insta but i dont know if thats the right move. She def wants me more than her bf
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:05 PM
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What drama? Its her decision what she is doing. I just dont say no to it
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:33 PM
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He was very passive and was sitting by itself while i was talking to her in the middle of the event with her
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:14 PM
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They like the i dont give a fuck type. Thread closed
/r/seduction04/07/20 10:10 PM
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Being dumb is dumb asf and being smart doesnt get you laid... So i take from your comment that the best way is to dont give a flying fuck what other people think and just be you. (like i said i tried both. Being dumb and fuckboy style works definitely better than being yourself, at least if you try to fuck as fast as possible.)
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:22 PM
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I will check challenge model. I didnt give a fuck in front of her. I talk about it here the same reason everybody else is. To improve and to learn from these situations. I struggle with on thing i guess. I give an intimidation look, im tall and i work out and my clothes i wore yesterday were upperclass / suit style. But when they talk to me i dont give that impression. I try to show my articulate and smart side and women often tell me that i didnt look like someone that know about these other mo…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:56 PM
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Oh i wasnt that stupid, i would not be that sponge. I just got her to say about she didnt have sex with him for the last 2 years, and she even said that shes horny all the time. After that i didnt ask about her relationship
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:07 PM
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After we started the sex talk i startet to touch her shoulders, neck. After she said she likes hard violent sex and a man who just take what he wants. That was my code word for kiss me and i tried but she really resisted
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:19 AM
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Imagine it hank moody style of arrogance
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:10 AM
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I would say im almost too confident. They get intimidated often. Almost arrogant
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:59 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:13 AM
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There are different opinions on it. Usually everybody agrees that watching porn is the worst. In my experience the best way is to keep the semen. I still have sex with a plate though, when i can. There are also people who go full monk mode and dont have sex or masturbate to feel the most benefits. I think thats true but i still prefer to have real sex. Masturbation should be avoided imo.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:35 PM
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Honestly did you try it? I feel a differenxe at day 10 and huge differences after day 20. like all things, i just stay open minded and see if these self improvement tricks help or not. If you didnt try it, you should and see afterwards if its beneficial to you or not. No dogma involved just your own experience
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:48 AM
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Arent we all here to control attraction through bettering outselves
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:55 AM
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I get that i am the price. I really am. Thats why im getting upset because i think, why would you be interested in them when i am definitely better? She should give other guys only desinterest while only be interested in me. Is that an ego problem? Honest question, i want to get rid of these flaws
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:32 AM
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Hmm i get it. Well then i have to reduce alot of my friends haha.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:28 AM
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Well i get your point but in my experience every male shuts his brain off if it comes to women and try to hit on them, even if you are with her or interested in her.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:25 AM
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Well whats your proof? I belief in a religion. Dont have to tell which one. But at least it provides me with reasons, why i should believe in it. Whats the proof of your theory?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 06:19 PM
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Who controls the religions in your opinion? I especially cant imagine all religions being controlled by the same guys
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 01:05 AM
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Im red pilled. But for me a prenup feels only justified if you are rich or a celebrity. Anything else , its not necessary.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 11:44 PM
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In short: you talked too much. You already had her in your place, talking about sex, kissing and dry humping you! From that point on just talk the bare minimum and just act. Especially if you are inexperienced, every word from you could work against you (example: do you want to go for real?)
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:46 AM
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It has to be natural in my opinion
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:15 AM
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True but what can i do to overcome this ?
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:14 AM
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If she doesnt love you the same way back as you love her, can you still accept her and love her?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:34 PM
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I really did in my opinion. Got my body and my mind in good condition. Improved myself and my finances. Traveled the world. But honestly i still need a woman that i love and trust and can have children with. Right now it doesnt seem possible because i only see two options: Being bluepill: getting fucked Bein redpill: be the boss but cant feel love for your partner because she is naive enough to fall for your tricks
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:25 PM
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If it comes to attracting women i think bigger body is better. Im 6'3 and i went from skinny but muscular (bruce lee style) to a body type similar to a heavy weight boxer.(220 lbs 100kg) In my opinion women prefer the bigger type. They want to touch you and in bed they feel your wide back and arms. I dont say its the most important thing. If you are confident you can easily get the same women. Its just easier to approach them in my opinion.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 01:00 AM
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Sucks to hear that but you sound like you analyzed and learned from this relationship. Its all a process. Thanks sharing this and i will try my luck as well.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:52 AM
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Thats what i was thinking. But i think there has to be a winning side because several guys do have good relationships without being a beta or bp.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:30 AM
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Absolutely dont have the need to rush in a ltr. My experience is that if i escalate like i usually do, i "burn" them. If i meet a ltr worthy woman, i also burn them because they see me as a fuckboy after my typical approach.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:40 AM
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I struggle at the integrity part. I feel exactly the same with getting numbers but dates are boring because women liked my "act" and not my real personality. The answer could be: then stop acting. But thats the problem, i have to act because no women seemed attracted before with the natural charakter. So how can i break this circle?
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:40 AM
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Try academyofideas. It has similar topics but it goes even deeper and with a lot of great thinkers as sources.
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:04 AM
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True. Always these fucking 2-3 months. Any tips to expand that time? Without getting into a ltr
/r/askTRP14/10/18 03:13 PM
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So if she shows interst: likes, views etc. than its an option. If you have to reach out first to her, you are most likely in a orbiter position. Correct?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:07 PM
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I dont use insta for picking up girls, but i hear from a lot of guys who have success there. They post stories and text women who watched their stories for example and it worked. What do you think about that?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:58 PM
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Well i have seen both sides. I was one of these angry bp guys, switched sides and have been the typical "asshole". It just works. It shows confidence and you stand out to all the guys who are thirsty. Women and especially 7-9s are wondering whats wrong with them, if you dont give them the attention they are used to get. So my question is; is it even possible to be this alpha/ attractive man without being an asshole?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:56 AM
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I did both. Being honest just shy away most people. Fake it till you make it worked for me much better but in the long run it can be exhausting and you cant be the real you. So i have to choose being real and lonely or fake and popular
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:09 PM
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They know each other since 6 years. He is succesful right now ( standard job the years before). She is a stewardess since 1 year( another red flag for me). So they arent young and dumb but i have a feeling that he is naive because he just believes in love and trust.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:05 AM
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Ask, what specific?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:47 AM
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Exactly. You nailed it. Ive seen a nice video about "existential nihilism" and could identify with everything about it. But that was in the past, right now im more on the path to find joy without external needs as you described it. Seems to be there is no "end state" and life is a constant progress. Is that what you meant too?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:01 PM
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I read before how many guys here are in all different ages. Are you still a teenager as well? Yes i banged women and im asking you guys , trp what your goals are after you achieved what you wanted to. My man you sound very negative in your comments and i wish you the best and that you get what you want. Negativity hinders us to get that.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 11:56 AM
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Im not afraid of criticism. Honestly. I just dont like comparisons to bitches or something disrespectful like this. You said i think i figured it out but there are still a ot of things to learn. 1 sentence later you say im craving for more , never satisfied. You see the contradiction? I never claimed to know everything. By god im just a human and want to learn until i die, but i want to make clear i achieved a lot and want to learn from my mistake of getting back to my old habits just because on…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:21 AM
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What do mean with self actualization? Thanks
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:05 AM
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Here i know its easy going into an ego competition, but i got better in any aspect. Body, mind, fincially, and worked on my education. Learned several languages and traveles the world before being 25. i wouldnt call that shit. Im not saying im perfect and i still have to learn a lot but comeon dont critic just because you want to critic anything. I told openly where i made a mistake and discuss this with you guys
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:04 AM
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Im not judging but does it mean, one night stands and plates for life?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:43 AM
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Im not bragging like i said. I said what comes after you mastered all this stuff. I see all these people talking about nexting women but im telling you this doesnt lead to a fulfilled life. So whats your end goal?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:43 AM
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As i said my goal is ltr as well but as i practiced the red pill, i see 99% of the women as manipulative puppets. I can control them with simple tactics and im even angry that they fell for that bullshit. I would like to have a real ltr but cant see it happen in this enviroment at the moment
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:57 AM
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I want to believe that. But in my experience women dont like that deep and real me. If i stay superficial with money body and party i can get almost all of them. If i show my true self, it seems like women are disappointed. They wanted a playboy and not someone with ideals. I dont want to sound frustrated but this is what i experienced. I saw both sides, bp and rp and women like that superfiscial bullshit. Its what they know and fee comfortable
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:54 AM
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Well im honest to you. I fell into a depression because all my goals were achieved; Money, body, women. Now i understand that there shouldnt be a end goal. Life is a progress. We should experience as much as we can in this short lifespan we have. Material things are great no doubt. But how about conquering your fears? Helping others? Find a purpose? Expand spiritually? Thats a lot of things and its very deep and i still Have to learn a lot about that thats why i want to discuss this topic with y…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:51 AM
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I give you my upvote. Its important to know his own goals no matter what other people say
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:41 AM
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So its beyond our mind? We create our purpose?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:33 AM
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Imgur doesnt Show it. Check my instagram: marocshaolin
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:32 AM
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You are on the right path
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:17 AM
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No problem. Where to post imgur or here?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:38 PM
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Depression my friend. That was it. Im feeling much better right now and im back on the right track, but i fell in a deep hole before despite having all these material things. My best advice it to not wait until it gets too bad.conquer your problems ( no matter what) as fast as possible and you should be fine
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:49 PM
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I am self employed. Ive sold digital codes like itunes. I raised capital before with iphones and ipad which i exported from the states to europe. You can ask me for more details. I just got confident to use my full potential and go to get after my dreams without fear and hesitation. The law of attraction helped me a alot as well but i used it unintentionally, because i didnt know that this exist in that time
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:47 PM
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For me personally it was the 2. option. I got to secure and it was the first woman i had feelings again after my transformation. I dont understand how i could fell back to my old ways after all these years.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:34 PM
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I can see what you mean. I feel i became the best version of me but only one thing missed: to get in a relationship when i want to. So i am wondering what does it mean if after all these years one bad relatiomship can put you back to your bp state? Imposter syndrome?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:22 PM
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What if you achieved that freedom and pussy money lifting WAS your goal. Now that you have it it doesnt give you that dopamine kick again. What should that person focus on after that if nothings left.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:44 PM
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Well i want to improve my game, if not to her than to the future plates
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:49 PM
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I love women but damn do they over complicate things
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:08 PM
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Well thats also almost always the case. Women like the dick at the beginning are getting emotional very soon. Especially if she is getting older, they are getting aware of their biological clock.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:06 PM
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Thats what i was thinking as well. Good analysis as well. I think i try to confront her for 2 reasons First: to have clarity that its over and i can move on and Second: in the past it wasnt so bad as i thought and just a cry for attention. i could meet the same woman for a longer time afterwards. But in this case and after i read the other comments i think its best to go silent and just wait, and getting other women in the meantime( which i also have already)
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:59 PM
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Well i dont think i waste her time because she has a good time With me and she is always in the know what the relationship is about. No fals promises with me.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:54 PM
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Ltr is no option for me. done could use that but since i reached out several times i guess its better to just go silent with the possibility that shes gone.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:48 PM
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Good idea. Doesnt sound clingy. I decided now that i just go silent and see if she will text.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:41 PM
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Good analysis. I will do that. In the past i was often to direct and started to discuss these situations with the women. Its better without that and just hold your frame.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:39 PM
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I dont get oneitis so fast. I just posted it to understand the situation and improve myself. Like i said she was the one reached out after i didnt talk to her several times.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:36 PM
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This case im already sure i have to ignore and next her if she doesnt contact me anymore. Absolute no interest on a ltr with her. Just out of curiosity what if it was a relationship?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:03 PM
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I ignored her after every time we had sex. She had to contact me every time and i had other women. She knew she was a plate. I have other plates ready if i want but this case confused me. Sudden change of her Mind and change of dynamics
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:01 PM
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Well which mistake was made in this case? Maybe i shouldnt declare from The start that im not interested in ltr, so that women doesnt feel exploited?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:33 PM
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Thanks, great advise.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:03 PM
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I think shes into me but after 2 months and knowing that i dont get into a ltr with her made her feel different. Its not that i need her but its an ego thing i guess. I Want to be the one in control of this situation. You are right that discussing it with her wont help and i will go silent and will concentrate more on myself. A plate is a plate.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:55 PM
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Could you explain the last sentence? She wants me to chase her not catch her? I mean when im reaching to her that should be enough chasing her and she should be content. Or did i understand you wrong?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:49 PM
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The strange thing is i went silent and she reached two times. After we met again for a few times she started get that distant. Got me confused.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:44 PM
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Ok thanks for your advise.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:20 PM
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Dont get me wrong , I think you are right. And i was always the dominant man from the start. I try to understand your point if you always next women wo get uncomfortable. My problem seems to see the difference when its a test, and when its a lost case.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:09 PM
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I see, but isnt it often the case that women try to test you. To see if you are persistent enough and really want to meet her? Or do you NEXT every plate that gets uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:54 PM
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Why is it always the fat chicks that know how to suck cock? Do they have to compensate? Their way to catch a man while missing the looks?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:08 PM
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Will check it out thanks
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:43 AM
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I like that one haha. Did you have therapy or did ir yourself with books etc?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:32 AM
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I want to fwbing women and this for a longer time period.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:16 AM
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Honestly you have a point. At the moment i dont have much to do besides gtl. I read books and i have several interests but they are more intellectual than activities. I think i dont provide too much backstory that the women stay interested.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:54 AM
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Yes i do, and i know thats very important. They tell me im a classical fuck boy and not someone for a relationship
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:42 PM
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I see, i thought these women were cool with it since i showed my intentions and they were fine with it at the beginning. I thought they have the same intentions and arent looking for sth serious
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:42 PM
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You noticed that well. Im definetly missing the emotional side. Its a fine line between holding your male alpha frame and still show emotions here and there in the right, not needy, way.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 06:26 PM
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I dont think thats special enough for its own post. Its basic shit and i didnt find something to my problem so far
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 02:16 AM
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I tried to explain it above in my comment. Confidence is key. Appearance as well. It sounds a little bit awkward but i learned alot by watching movies and tv shows. See how the womanizer in these shows behave and copy that. Even if it feels strange and not typical your character. Fake it till you make it. Behave like hank moody or george clooney and you will see women will treat you in a different way. They only know this much from you, that you are willing to show them
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 12:40 AM
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Thanks. I dont want to complain too much, im just discussing with you guys what i experienced. And since we are all in the same boat i wanted to hear some other perspectives. I think there are a few good women left of course, maybe 1% but even than i think, are they worth it if i have to treat them like shit and manipulate them just to get them? Like i said i dont want to sound too negative here hehe
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 03:26 PM
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I think the whole pua tactics damaged me. It works 100% and if a guy wants to score hot women , they can use it. But i think after years of doing it, its natural to me and i dont know how to change it to also get ltr etc. Awalt is branded in my brain and its not too bad either. I wont be a naive idiot who will marry a slut just because she looked hot. This will vanish in a few years. So i feel like stuck between. Pump and dumps that wont fulfill you. Or staying alone.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:57 PM
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On the positive side it doesent seem that you will have any problems. Ltr is more diffcult than ons. So at the moment you can have both, i would enjoy it until you find one thats worth it, even if it takes another 10 Years youre not in a hurry
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:50 PM
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Obviously you dont care too much about them that could be a reason they stay interested. But even then i wonder how you can keep them for years. After 2 months they would realize im not interested in a ltr and leave
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:45 PM
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I dont want to brag thats not my intention. Im here to discuss and learn more. Yes i can seduce women that fast and its not that difficult. To get the date isnt always possible, but if she is interested in a date, or invites me to her home, you can be sure she will have sex before the night ends. But like the bluepill professor explained above, these two things are different. I know how to get her fantasy going but if you want to bind her for a longer time, you have to push different buttons. I …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:10 AM
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Its a little hard to explain. I come from a beta guy past and stopped it after i realized how much pain it brings. I changed my life 180 degrees and went all in. Money, power, women bla bla. And i have to say it 100% works. I did it by myself before knowing the redpill, and felt surprised that there is a whole community behind it haha. The problem is after 10 years of hookups and honest HB9-10( if 10 exists), it got a little boring and i needed something not so superficial. I did a huuuuge mista…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:05 AM
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Thats what im experiencing the last 10 years. Its eiter pua or ltr. Nothing in between. Many friends suggested to leave this redpill , pua, mindset and behave differently to find a ltr. I dont know at the moment if thats true thats why im reading more in this sub and glad for every comment. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 12:56 AM
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I try to keep it short. Confidence is the most important thing. If you are natural shy or anxious, it doesnt matter. Just fake it. Behave like you are the guy you want to be. (Fake it til you make it). I describe it as sovereignty! After i learned to behave souvereign in front of any women, it changed instantly their behaviour to me. Appearance should be nice as well of course. Nice clothes, smelling good, working out! In my opinion every one can look attractive if he works a little on his appea…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:30 PM
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Gave me something to think about. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:56 AM
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Ok thanks for that. Thats true and i think thats a good summary how someone shouldnt behave. But for the end, how should someone behave in that situation or like you said the way to break the cycle. Just being distant in an honest "doesnt care" way?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:10 AM
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I understand that and its correct. That is why i said if i try distant it doesnt come across as letting the attention grow. It comes across as" he is not interested/ just wants to fuck". Thats why i feel like im in a situation were both behaviours are wrong no matter what i do.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 03:54 AM
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The part about being needy or invested seems to be true but even than i cant figure out how to stay distant and keep the her interest high. Its paradox to me. I usually stay uninvested and it results in women think : oh you just want to fuck like all the other guys.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 03:43 AM
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Side note. Where do the old folks move to?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:31 AM
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good age to still enjoy your hookups and just having fun :)
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:38 PM
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can i ask how old you are?
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:27 PM
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because hookups are interchangeable. this shallow experience gets boring in my opinion. maybe its enough for you but i spent the last 10 years with hookups with hot women but its always the same.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:25 PM
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I feel like thats true. My only question now is, if i play that "role" at the beginning and it works, how is it possible to be like this for a longer time. I mean i cant play a role for months or years. So my only solution seems to be to become that kind of guy instead of playing a role right?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:47 PM
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Im a typical black or white guy. I spent alot of time as a typical friendzone type of guy until i switched sides. After that i had 10 years without any commitment and just one night stands or fuck buddys. Maybe i have to learn a middle ground
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:50 PM
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Interesting comment. So i understand you correctly, im signaling them that i just want to fuck but in reality i want something else? And a possible solution could be to behave more like a beta to keep the women?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:46 PM
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Im used to one night stands. And most of the time i fuck on the first date. My problem is to keep the women for a longer time attracted to me. I know women mostly for 1-4 weeks and than our paths seperate. Maybe im too cold to them but i dont know. Any advise?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 02:58 PM
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