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6	Question for Men about Men's Rights - What do you wish women, feminists or others that don't support men's rights, understood about you? What do you feel others in a position like myself misunderstand about you and your beliefs? What biases do you think others approach mens rights with? That men aren't a monolith, and men "as a group" is so diverse it's almost useless to even conceptualize it. That being pro-men, or even anti-feminism, doesn't automatically mean we hate women (though there certainly are individuals who do). When you're used to benevolent sexism, indifference feels like hatred I guess. That many of us are as disin…	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 01:43 AM
5	I am a mother to be in three weeks to a baby boy, and I'm wondering, what is your take on circumcision as a circumcised/uncircumcised man? I was partially circumcised as a child for health reasons (may or may not have been actually necessary, I'm skeptical). Basically my tip is exposed but most of the glans is still covered. This was the most painful experience I've had in a long time, maybe ever. The all I can do is scream and tremble kind of pain. I don't really remember now 30+ years later, but I've remembered for long enough. And obviously the pain doesn't just go away when the procedure is finished and all the bleeding has fin…	/r/MensRights	11/11/23 11:40 AM
1	Why do most "Female Only" communties prefer an echo chamber as opposed to most "Male Only" communities that are open to debate? I've been wondering myself, and it's not clear to me why. One thing to note is that on male-dominated communities, if you post something that goes (sufficiently) against the majority opinion, you're going to get demolished by the userbase itself. The mods don't need to get involved, and users seem to prefer when mods take a hands-off approach, only dealing directly with the worst cases of rule breaking. That doesn't mean male communities don't turn into "echo chambers", but dissenting opinions a…	/r/MensRights	29/10/23 10:05 AM
16	21-year-old Israeli-Canadian jumped on grenade to save fiancee during Hamas attack ---- op: I've heard of this type of news stories in the past but never of women shielding their husbands or their children from gunfire or grenades. Never. If a tribe lost 90% if its men then it lost 90% of its military potential, and the neighboring tribe just gained a bunch of free shit. The women left behind probably end up as slaves.	/r/MensRights	18/10/23 12:30 PM
2	Do women earn less because men are usually taller than women? So you start with no, but what you're saying is basically yes, being tall and having a deep voice makes one appear more leadership material, and on average women come short on both.	/r/MensRights	16/10/23 02:28 PM
1	Is Misandry Real? How can you deny something that you can clearly see with your own eyes? Overcomplicated words something something institutional something something systemic. aka : I like doing it and I need a convenient bullshit justification for why it does not make me a bad person when I do it	/r/MensRights	24/05/23 09:39 AM
16	How is it that this subreddit has 35% more memebers than r/feminism subreddit? There are more men than women on reddit	/r/MensRights	02/01/23 10:54 AM
1	Even the dictionary is sexist now. I have only ever seen the word masculinist used as a derogatory catch-all word by feminists for those men whose ideas they don't like. Is there anyone who unironically calls themselves masculinist ?	/r/MensRights	07/12/22 02:43 PM
1	As a 16yr old male, seeing this trend on r/whitepeopletwitter is soul crushing. We're not all rapists, are we? For the past 2000 years, 100% of popes have been men. Does that mean we're all the pope ? :o	/r/MensRights	27/11/22 01:21 PM
42	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. One person can believe that the law is unfair, yet also believe that it should be applied fairly. That is not contradiction or hypocrisy. Also what the wife is doing here is also decidedly unfair and most likely illegal. There's a middle ground between "each spouse gets half" and "first one to pull the trigger gets everything".	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 12:28 PM
468	Of the top twenty posts this week on TwoX, fifteen are about men being cruel, insensitive, sexual deviants, rapists and…….underwear thieves. Meanwhile on TwoX : r/mensrights is a rebranded incel pit and I don’t know why it’s on this site. People claiming that men are systematically oppressed, “female privilege”, downplaying of sexual assault, constant weaponization of dead Ukranians… it’s such a disgusting self-pity party. The worst part is, I’m sure that a lot of them are just sad and misinformed loners. Just had to complain about this somewhere. Because Reddit Hates Women. Because the admins are trash. Because Reddit will never…	/r/MensRights	21/09/22 12:43 PM
0	House of Dragon Childbirth Scene Women can get castrated too ... no ? What do you mean ? You can remove a woman's ovaries but with pre-modern technology the survival chance would be 0, so it wasn't done.	/r/MensRights	27/08/22 12:31 PM
12	Circumcision Taking a shower and wearing protection will do that a lot better.	/r/MensRights	22/07/22 11:17 PM
11	Girlfriend in court for stabbing boyfriend to death after consensual rough sex and threat of breakup. "I just thrown a knife at him because I was angry and now he's fucking dying." She denies it was murder. and now he's fucking dying. How inconsiderate of him. If he cared about her feelings he would not have died when she murdered him.	/r/MensRights	12/07/22 12:43 PM
19	How do I benefit from the patriarchy? So I did a quick reddit search to see what feminist subs had to say about this, here is one that stands out : https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/oj6x7h/how_do_we_benefit_from_the_patriarchy/ My own personal takeaways from this : As a man, people give me a little tiny bit more respect, at least in person, because they're actually worried, consciously or not, that I just might be crazy enough and capable enough to wreck their face if they don't. Or at least shout at them angrily with my s…	/r/MensRights	03/07/22 12:49 PM
3	The double standards in this thread are annoying. All the arguments used against men having reproductive rights can be used against women having freedom with theirs too. I'm all for women having control over their bodies but the cognitive dissonance in this thread is annoying. So no need for abortions then.	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 02:50 PM
14	All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it. The enemy isn't women No, but they sure have declared us their enemy time and again. Now still. Apparently this is all happening because we (men) want to control them. Yep, it's all on us, we made this happen. To oppress them.	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 02:07 PM
4	Slate - How a washed-up movie star, men’s rights activists, and true-crime fans duped America. It's a sub here that's no longer. It's still around. Wasn't ever banned, they just decided to make the sub private and moved to another website. At the moment I'm posting this they are no longer private.	/r/MensRights	13/06/22 04:43 AM
2	#MenToo is trending on Twitter because of the Depp/Heard Trial... Well because that would get in the way of the patriarchy as a belief system, and it's a belief that makes women feel good about themselves (and miserable simultaneously, but it's a good misery, I guess ?) Then there are the more traditional-minded ones who somehow simultaneously think that men are far too strong and tough to possibly be abused by a women, but also that men aren't allowed to lay a finger on a woman, even in self-defense.	/r/MensRights	05/05/22 01:14 PM
4	EU Parliament spreads disinformation about gender pay gap Social skills arent enough for negotiations. When you're trying to get something out of someone who wants something else, finding common ground, talking it out, and getting along is well and good, but assertiveness and disagreeableness will leave you better off (or no longer employed...). Women may be better at socializing, but men are better at confrontation, on average. I think it's in part personality differences and in part barely conscious bias (things get ugly if fight, ape listen to male …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/22 04:02 PM
1	What's so terrible about men speaking up about men's issues? None of what you said makes any sense. What gender equality ? The equal right to be statistically more likely to be assaulted by someone of the same sex as you ? Is that what women wanted all along ? To be assaulted by women instead of men ? And men have to fight their own issues on top of women's issues ? That vision of the world (which you're far from the first to peddle) implies that men are a hive mind and women are another hive mind. When a man does something bad to a woman, all women are v…	/r/MensRights	12/03/22 06:39 PM
2	What's so terrible about men speaking up about men's issues? Isn't the huge percentage of men also assaulted by....men? Even if that were true, how does that matter in any way at all ?	/r/MensRights	12/03/22 11:08 AM
20	Russia Used Beatings and Tricks to Forcibly Send Soldiers to Ukraine, Rights Group Says Disgusting. I expect they'll surrender first chance they get, but many won't get that chance.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/02/22 01:33 PM
1	Men and women are not the same. Negative reciprocation ? Is that saying what I think it is ? Are women less vengeful than men on average ?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/22 06:34 PM
17	How dare these boys and young men think that their lives might be worth preserving! Yeah this isnt about children It never is. Only the children of the right gender.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/08/21 08:48 AM
16	Why aren't men more afraid? Well first you are a young woman, so men are going to avoid appearing afraid in sight of you. That just wouldn't do. Secondly I'd say some (many?) men are 'afraid', or rather wary of going out at night especially in some areas. We tend to be well aware of the risks, especially as we get older. But we also know if we stand a chance to fend off some potential attackers, and outrun others. Most women can do neither, so the feeling of helplessness is probably more terrifying than the reality-based s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/21 09:15 AM
5	Lawsuit challenges Biden aid priority to women (all of them), and certain minorities It's because Biden thinks women can't handle money, obviously.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/05/21 01:49 PM
19	Why there's empathy for women and "Man Up" for men After all, for centuries women were denied educational and occupational opportunities that men could take for granted. I'm not sure how so many people can actually believe this. Are they so ignorant of our own history or do they believe that had they lived in another time, they would have been part of the very few elites of societes where it might apply ? For the vast majority of human history, the vast majority of men and women were hunter gatherers or subsistence farmers, and were equally deni…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/21 01:56 PM
4	Why haven't you guys killed yourself yet That doesn't seem healthy but it's very relatable, and certainly better than what OP is thinking.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/03/21 10:06 AM
1	Women complain about casual sexism on reddit but I feel like they can't see that there's also casual misandry here too? Jesus this is 5 months old... r/ FemaleDatingStrategy	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/02/21 09:26 PM
3	Constant feminist agenda and males being monsters being taught in college Out of curiosity, what are you studying ? Sounds like a change of course might be in order...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/01/21 01:51 PM
3	Women complain about casual sexism on reddit but I feel like they can't see that there's also casual misandry here too? Yeah... I used to subscribe to FDS for shits and giggles but I don't think outrage addiction is healthy for any length of time. If anything, some of TwoX and FDS seem to be a result of women looking too much at TRP and the likes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/20 04:35 PM
2	Women complain about casual sexism on reddit but I feel like they can't see that there's also casual misandry here too? report them directly to the admins Any luck ?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/20 10:53 AM
4	"Achievement isn't why more men are majoring in physics, engineering and computer science" OK? So it's a matter of confidence. That's what the article sooo badly wants to convince us of. That if everyone just put even more effort into drawing more women towards those fields and telling them they can do anything, then it would finally happen. I'm pretty much convinced it's never going to happen. If it was going to happen, it already would have, or at least it would be close, but it's not, not by a long shot.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/08/20 02:16 AM
10	Paternity rights are apparently "upending who we are". https://www.service-public.fr/particuliers/vosdroits/F14042 Paternity tests in France are illegal when done outside the standard framework of the law. Meaning it must be mandated by a judge, when trying to establish paternity or contest child support. Spanish labs doing (locally legal) anonymous paternity tests report they have plenty of French clients though.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/20 03:52 PM
3	How the concepts of "white privilege" and "male privilege" as they are most commonly used alienates people and pushes them to the right. It may describe the same reality, but it does not frame it in the same way at all. One evokes resentment and hostility, the other sympathy and compassion.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/20 09:26 AM
2	Feminist discusses women giving birth to patriarchal oppressors in ancient Greece. I have no idea but wikipedia has some interesting tidbits : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infanticide#Asia Contemporary writers from the Song dynasty note that, in Hubei and Fujian provinces, residents would only keep three sons and two daughters (among poor farmers, two sons, and one daughter), and kill all babies beyond that number at birth.[67] Initially the sex of the child was only one factor to consider. By the time of the Ming Dynasty, however (1368–1644), male infanticide was becoming in…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/20 07:33 PM
2	Feminist discusses women giving birth to patriarchal oppressors in ancient Greece. No statistics I' afraid, but I remember a letter of sorts by a roman soldier who wrote to his wife home that if their baby was a girl, she should have her exposed, if it was a boy they should keep him. I believe I read the ideal family unit was 2 sons 1 daughter at the time. Alright, all that conjecturing and poor memory stuff asiide here is an article that discusses it, along with some actual evidence that this was in fact not a strongly gendered practice. It's about the romans though, not the …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/20 04:37 PM
18	Does anyone have the link to the study whose results showed that the term toxic masculinity is objectively prejudicial and prone to misunderstanding and misuse? First search result seems like a good match : https://www.reddit.com/r/FeMRADebates/comments/g38v79/a_new_paper_highlights_how_existing_narratives/ There is a serious risk arising from using terms such as “toxic masculinity”. Unlike “male depression”, which helps identify a set of symptoms that can be alleviated with therapy, the term “toxic masculinity” has no clinical value. In fact it is an example of another cognitive distortion called labelling (Yurica et al. 2005). Negative labelling and t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/20 12:04 AM
1	What are the reasons behind the gender disparities between criminal behaviours and perpetration? Women suck at violence	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/08/19 03:02 PM
96	Clitoraid [clitoral repair surgery for suffers of FGM] supports Florida mother who faces prison for refusing to have her little boy Genitally Mutilated. Clitoraid asks U.N. to ban childhood Genital Mutilation worldwide for both genders Clitoraid (clitoraid.org) is the international, non-profit organization founded by Rael, spiritual leader of the Raelian Movement This story just keeps getting weirder. Now I find myself agreeing with cultists and a woman who seek to prevent a father from getting involved in his son's life.	/r/MensRights	10/03/15 05:48 PM