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| 1 | A woman can't make you happy. Only you can.I agree....but this is r/seduction....not r/RelationshipTips | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't make you happy. Only you can.You're the one who said "that makes no sense". You jumped in and commented and all I said was "well keep trying until it does (don't know what to tell you if you can't understand that) . We're rooting for you (peace be with you)." No one said it was a chore, it's emotionally tiring sometimes to add someone else's joy and happiness onto your list especially if that other person has a history of not being the most happiest or chipper. I choose not to remove that "chore" from my significant other s… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | A woman can't make you happy. Only you can.Well keep trying until it does. We're rooting for you. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | A big misconception a lot of guys have about their looksGood Dating 101 advice here. There's a 2nd part here - the woman. Is this a woman that is only aroused by looks? If that's the case, all your efforts are in vain you are out of luck. I suggest you find a woman who is happy when you are with her. It could be anything, shared hobby, going out, etc... the goal is find someone who is happy and smiles when she is with you and you feel the same when you are around her. You find that energy, then the sex part often works itself out - and even though it… | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | "Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."You're not getting it.... be a man that has the values that a woman wants.... | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 0 | "Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."Be a person of value | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?Don't laff, one of the best first dates I ever had was where we went to various Goodwills, Salvation Armys and other resale shops to try on crazy hats, old jackets, t-shirts, stuff like that . . . plus you can learn a lot like "my uncle has one of these" . . or "my mom absolutely hates troll dolls" . . lots a good conversation starters | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I start flirting and for a lack of a better "signal" that I'm interested in them as more than a friend...solid advice. | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women"Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | What women expect you to do in the first date?yup | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 08:50 PM |
| 0 | What women expect you to do in the first date?Cool... you said boyfriend... so you were in a relationship.... thats different | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 0 | What women expect you to do in the first date?this is r/seduction.... not "issues and strategy tips handling current financial climate and hardships".... im not saying its not possible.... but chances are better if you did | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What women expect you to do in the first date?If you were a woman, would you fuck a guy who didn't have his life in order that he can't afford his own place? .... and if you would, what does that say about you quality acceptance? | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:52 PM |
| 38 | What women expect you to do in the first date?you're sol | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 10:06 PM |
| 49 | What are some easy ways to flirt and tease girls?"You're pretty fly.... for a white guy" | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 03:07 PM |
| 6 | I'm talking to a girl who wants to be friends but also have sex occasionally. I have a possible date next week with another girl. Should I be honest and let the friend know?"You gotta get what you can....when you can... while you can" | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.Always be game ready..... | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 10:10 PM |
| 4 | NYE field report - Absolute shitshow 🤦♂️think I was being groomed for a threesome with another guyCouldn't have said it more better | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer" womenFuck all that stuff . . it's really simple. If she smiles when she's around you, that means she's happy. Be the one that puts a smile on her face and that's all you can do really. . . . now . .what makes a particular woman smile, various from woman to woman . . that's the kicker. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 08:16 PM |
| 3 | 22m Kissless Virgin needs helpSo a man thinkith so he becomes. If you already see yourself failing, then it will manifest itself. But the same goes for seeing good things happening. Some prople are actually afraid of suceeding because they have no clue on the next step. You gotta take baby steps and get rid of the fear if failure. You fear of failure often keeps you from great things. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | 22m Kissless Virgin needs helpYou arent cutting them off your loosing the leash. Ever think they all get together to do engagement things without you? As well you should do single things without them. Theres nothing wrong with that | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 05:38 PM |
| 26 | 22m Kissless Virgin needs helpStop saying lul.... and find some more friends. Serious, friends that are single who like to go do shit increases your chance of meeting more people who are single.... clean slate at every new place | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | My friend got asked out by my crush and it hurtsThe best way to get over an old crush is to get a new crush to crush. Thats a variation from the standard of "the best way to get over old pussy is to get new pussy" | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Missed a huge chance yesterday. Didn’t know how to escalate?Fuck. I just re-read that. Sorry. So what da fuck happened... you scared to aint man enough to fuck yet?... dont be scared | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Missed a huge chance yesterday. Didn’t know how to escalate?thats a good green light. When I was your age, I was tumid like this too...till a friend of mine, she was like a wing(wo)man said "... there's nothing wrong looking a woman in the eye, saying I so wanna kiss you...." you will instantly know where you stamd with her.... she will say "what?" and walk away..... she will invite you "why dont you then?".... or she will kiss you. You are just having problem getting an answer so you know what to do... get you answer. Theres nothing wrong when things do… | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelySounds like you got the holiday blues | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know how guys handle rejection so easily. I got rejected all night at club and feel like crap.First off, you didn't get rejected at all . . you didn't get a chance to bat. So why are you taking the loss so hard. What I am saying is that, It's not like you were on the verge of getting laid and you said or did something that made her panties come up quick and leave . . see THAT is a rejection. All you got was a bunch of "I don't care for playing". So there was no game, no loss. Manage your expectations. Let's say it's your first time to set up to bat, you have never batted before, so you a… | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 03:19 AM |
| 10 | What do you guys think about Craig Ferguson. Is he is natural or he is actually PUA.He's the real deal. You can't fake being charming and the women's reactions are always legit... so.... | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How To Get A Girl To Like You Back (4 Ways To Spark Sexual Attraction In A Woman)"Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 07:29 PM |
| 22 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)classic.... never ceases to make me laff | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Asking out my Yoga Teacher - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 1Nah....it was a joke... can't wait to see your video of your interactions... when should I set the Remind Me alert? | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Asking out my Yoga Teacher - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 1Pics or it didn't happen | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You."Always be the hunted, never be the hunter"..... truthful honest high-quality post | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?yes..... until you find a boiling rabbit on the stove | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | When a Girl Says "Work for me""Work for you? . . how much you gonna pay me?" | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)"They could be uncomfortable because you are approaching them with clear intentions of hitting on them." . . Indeed they can smell the desperation from a mile away. You need to go in with no expectations. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 04:36 AM |
| 3 | If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move."having fun IS the right move | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 04:30 PM |
| 5 | [FR] “Buy me a drink” shit testThat my be too much too fast... but if she's cool she'd probably smile and say something like "... how about we start with the drinks first..." or it could come off creepy.... again depends on the woman and the amount of alcohol that has been consumed | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 09:01 PM |
| 30 | [FR] “Buy me a drink” shit test"You'll buy this round and I'll buy you dinner tomorrow...." swing for the fences | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?that's a good redirect... | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Exactly... | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Well yeah....duh.... (Stars missed the playoffs, hurts man) | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 18 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Make sure you stick your fucking chin out to create a solid jaw line and no turkey waddle chin type of solid photos | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Solid Advice | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Holy shit. If you don’t get matches, visit NYC.Sure. =) | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Holy shit. If you don’t get matches, visit NYC.Bumble advert ? | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Had a 10 give me the friend talk....Commit or move on . . . I mean she had sex with you and well . . she's not really knocking down your door or seducing you back so, I guess you kinda know where you stand on the sex quality. . . sucks but that's the truth | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 02:42 AM |
| -2 | Stop trying to be smooth. It's not working either.Especially if you are doing suicide by taking a bullet to the temple.... in this case, screwing up is your best option | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 06:39 PM |
| 8 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it?The only thing I can tell you is this. Don't be ashamed because there are a gazillion of girl's who would want to go out on Valentine's Day. Not, sure if they will have sex with you, but you never know. Valentine's Day Singles Bar event sounds like the best choice. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 11:18 PM |
| 4 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was saidBut that's not a loss. I took the baseball example as in not everyone knows how to hold a bat and if they do, they are afraid to swing for the fences. For him, he made contact and that should be acknowledged. Sure for Select AAA players that is nothing, now he's on to the next level. What's wrong with acknowledging a positive step? I respect your honesty and I am sure the truth and facts allow you to justify saying things that otherwise would be seen as hurtful. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 05:44 PM |
| 7 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was saidthe guy got a foul tip on underhanded pitch.... let his confidence build.... he's proud of what he's done | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was said".. happy happy... joy joy..." | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 04:44 PM |
| 4 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was said"... ok.... ContinueKissing | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 04:43 PM |
| 0 | What Women Really Want*you're so money.... and you don't even know it | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 05:52 AM |
| 4 | What to do when a girl starts talking to you?Uh a girl just talked to you because she wanted someone to talk to. If you were really into her, you would have had the balls to simply say "I really enjoyed talking to you, would you like to meet up again sometime?" . . put it back on her plate . . if she is interested, she will jump at the chance to give you her contact info . . .if she hesitates, just say "here's my info, no pressure, just think about it". THEN . . let it go from there. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 11:35 PM |
| -2 | How to be attractive man - 10 simple habits that will increase your datingYou forgot . . don't be ugly . .and be rich | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Bored on dates. Am I doing it wrong?What's the line from the Harvey Danger song "....cause if you're bored, then you're boring". Sounds like you're just picking women you are not interested in or who aren't fun. There's nothing wrong with that, just choose differently. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Bored on dates. Am I doing it wrong?This could be a good reason | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | No longer care about flakes/ rejectionsAttitude change suggestion . . "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 11:35 PM |
| 10 | If you ever get rejected, remember what this woman says.On rejections, its often good to take a job interview type of attitude towards it. Sometimes you interview for a job and you don't get the job. Often it's not that you aren't a good worker, you just aren't a good fit for the company. Any good employee/employer relationship works only when both parties are in synch. You get something from them, and they get something from you and it's a match. So don't get upset if a woman it just not into having a one-night stand, shes' just not a good match. Mo… | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 12:22 AM |
| 9 | Tips on being a more assertive man?The way it works is to show you are attracted to her. There's nothing sneaky about it, just be honest and up front, put it out there. Be confident about it. There's nothing wrong with letting a woman know you are attracted to a woman and want to be with them. You respect when they say no and watch for signs that they are not attracted to you. BUT . .if they are . . you will have to inch forward to more KINO then being closer, etc. Your assertiveness is always hampered by you not knowing how she … | /r/seduction | 27/08/17 06:48 PM |
| 11 | What is your go to for a first date?This here is the correct attitude. The "open door" policy as in "you have the freedom to leave at any time" is the way to empower her right? No, it's really an indicator if she likes being around you and because you are open about it, it says you have the confidence to hold her attention. After that . . you're on your own . . but a hard date somehow puts added pressure of "being on a date" versus "going and doing something with someone". Attitude is important. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?That's pretty much the best advice for this. 22/M and doesn't want to fuck? That's a problem | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How to get older womenThis guy knows his older women. You forgot most older women don't like the bullshit and wasting time. Just be honest and up front. All they can say is "no thank you" but even then they will be flattered. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 05:54 AM |
| 2 | We live in the fucking future!! Getting laid in hillbilly country on Tinder.Great story but you left out the herpes part.... =) (just trollin, mIRC was my Tender app back in the day) | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 04:08 PM |
| 42 | How to Seduce a Beautiful Woman"No one will remember what you say or what you do . . .but they will always remember how you made them feel" | /r/seduction | 22/06/17 04:30 AM |
| 12 | Comfort VS Attraction - Why It Took Me So Long To Figure THIS Out"So on limited time you gotta make the right moves so she doesn't start to actually think about what she's doing." | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | On the dance floor, real talkThe only way you will score is if a girl finds you attractive. Seems like you are getting the "Grind him . .get a drink . .grind him to say thank you" and move on treatment. Even if a girl is SMASHED drunk and ready to go, she's still is going to have to find you sexy enough to fuck. That's just a fact. Sorry, it sucks, but it's just the hard truth. . . sorry I couldn't be more help. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 06:28 PM |
| 5 | About how important is being into fashion?" . . .be better than the Gap!" | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 04:22 AM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.If they aren't interested, don't take it personal. Move on. You gotta be able to handle that. Sure it's rejection but the fact is GREAT sex is only going to be had if both parties are interested and into each other. So why fret over it . . it wouldn't have worked out anyways. Don't give up and don't take it personal. Some people don't like onions on their burger, it's what they like you can't make them like what they don't like. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 12:07 AM |
| 11 | My fundamentals of gameCan I add something. There's a certain attitude and confidence that has to be displayed and that is the message of "... I'm doing you a favor by fucking you". Now either you are selling that message or she is. Where us guys always seems to lose is because we are ready to fuck 24/7. There's no trickery and you can't bullshit yourself, you have to have enough combination of earning her trust, making her feel good with your charm, and attractive enough to want to touch you. You gotta give her a rea… | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Couldn't agree more | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?It won't matter how you say it . . .if she's not into you, whatever you say dealing with sex will be creepy/weird/offensive. "I wanna take you home and sex you up good you up for that?" if she doesn't find you attractive, then that's creepy. "I wanna take you home and sex you up good you up for that?", if she does find you attractive, she'll blush, act shocked and smile. Same phrase, same words . . . different outcomes based on her acceptance. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 02:06 AM |
| 2 | The Core of AttractionI've gotten more success simply saying . . "hopefully tonight, I'll get a nice buzz on and earn the trust of lovely lady into letting me take her home with me for some fun which will probably include some awesome, safe sex . . SwiggingMyBeer . . that's my goal...what do you think?" Sure, I'll get slaps and ugly looks with a snotty "Perv!" , but sooner or later I'll get that smile and a "Oh really? sound like a plan!" thats' the hit you're looking for. =) It's like dancing, a partner who doesn't … | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 09:56 PM |
| 3 | The Core of AttractionI believe it's the direct and honest communication and ability to express intent is what earns the respect. Women respect honesty. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Would make for a great story. Always fall on the side of "I just want to have fun and not hurt anyone" and make sure that's communicated and then let them decide. That removes you from all responsibility. Some are going to say that's "douchy" but it's not, you're free from guilt and able to say "I just went with what you wanted". | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:12 AM |
| -3 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Yeah I said that before I realized you aren't the musician that doesn't give a fuck and will fuck any woman who wants to fuck. You're a guy with feelings and shit . . worry about what other people thing etc. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".If you like her and she likes you and you've already hooked up. Then hooking up with her friends is not good. But if you wanna, you are single I say go for it, but you'll lose her. Is that what you want? Sounds like you are not sure what you want bro. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:02 AM |
| 2 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Then there's your answer son. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:56 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Yes, in all honesty, it's up to what he wants to do. If he does like her, he could tell her just as easily as her telling him. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:46 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Depends, it's that what musicians do? | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:45 AM |
| -6 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Well of course no one wants to go around and hurt people on purpose that sucks but the game is on. When women play games, you can play games too. We both know to have her all he has to do is show interest in one of the other girls. That's a fact. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:38 AM |
| -24 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".The guy is single. This is r/seduction, not r/7thGradeILikeYouGames | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 02:46 AM |
| -31 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".This is a win-win too. Cause if you do hook up with one of her friends, you can always blame it on her by saying "you had to your chance and you pushed me away". | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 02:32 AM |
| 3 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".She's testing you to see if you find her friends attracted or if you just like her. If you like her you should ask "Do you think I'm hot or do you think you're friends are just crazy?" (that's serious but with a hint of humor so it's not uncomfortable) . . .and if she says "yes" or "kinda" then you counter with "Now are you sure you do or are you just feeling peer pressure cause I'm giving you first dibs here". (That is saying I like you too, but if you don't like me I'm gonna hook up with one o… | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Woman confirms "I'm not sleeping with you tonight" as meaning "I want to sleep with you" in her dating bookToo many games. | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 08:07 PM |
| 6 | The only lesson I learned during the almost 1 year of studying and practicing game, and why being yourself is actually a good advice."To thy self be true!" . . .this isn't some bullshit. It's fucking know who you are, be honest about who you are, don't fucking lie to yourself. If you are a fat fuck, then know that. If you are a scared coward to talk to girls, then own it. Until you know what is true, and factual, only then can you change it. Until you realize you dress like shit, then you'll never improve and dress better. Until you realize you can't hold a decent conversation with a woman, then you'll never work on that to i… | /r/seduction | 27/11/16 11:05 PM |
| 48 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.Take care of business. There are other nights. Christmas Eve, New Year's Eve . . .you can skip Halloween if need be. Stay focused. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 01:40 AM |
| 31 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.Study. Sacrifice this fun night for that test, but next time manage your time so you got all your studying done to go out and party. I've done it many times. It's all good. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.Safe sex? if not, now you gotta worry about cooties. Pressure is off now. =) | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice, I had never gotten this much attention from the ladies before, and last night might have gone a little too hard.Nothing better to solidify a woman's attention than to show her other women are interested in you too. That adds to your worth in their eyes. Also, you have a built in excuse, you are the host so you HAVE to talk to all of them equally and not show favorites. You can then find out which ones are jealous, interested, etc. Personally I think it's a good thing. | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Women's fear of rapeI got an idea. Don't go with a witty or cocky response. Communicate. Be honest and tell her "Are you serious, because I want you to be safe if you have some concern". Unless you are a cuck. | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Forbid cheating versus allowing with consequences?You're well on your way to being cucked . . . enjoy your hotwife =) | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 03:53 PM |
| 2 | 6 Mistakes Most Men Make With WomenBelieve it or not . . it's paraphrased from the movie Fast Times at Ridgemont High . . . "act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Hey, Isn't this great?" =) | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 04:55 AM |
| 1 | 6 Mistakes Most Men Make With WomenYou forgot Seven. Freaking smile and have a good time ! | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 04:48 AM |
| 1 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.tldr; To thy self be true, fuck everyone else | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Rejected rudely at a clubOh yeah, that happens all the time. But know that you survived it. Don't let it bother ya. Don't waste your time trying to figure out why a square peg didn't fit into a round hole. In other words, forget about it quick and move on and know that it wasn't going to end in a close so you didn't waste your time. You don't wanna fuck with a rude woman anyways, it's not fun. You're not there to rescue her. Be nice though, "Okay, well you have a great night" and move on. I know it sucks because you sta… | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Asked out a 10Yeah, I didn't understand that. Maybe she might have a friend or a cousin or someone else she knows. I mean smart educated girls usually flock with other smart educated girls. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to give off more of a sexual/lover vibe instead of a friendly vibe?NoddingInApproval | /r/seduction | 03/07/16 03:05 AM |
| -4 | How to give off more of a sexual/lover vibe instead of a friendly vibe?Hey, I'm a big guy too . . not fat, just big. Lucky for me though, I like the thick curvy women which most of the time they get dumped off on me which is fine, that's my poison. When laffing and having a good time . . my go to line is always . . " . .haha . .now you, I know you think I'm a nice guy . .don't think for a minute I won't be trying to get you into bed . . no shame in my game" but that line has to be presented a few drinks, everyone is having fun, she feels comfortable with you and SM… | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to give off more of a sexual/lover vibe instead of a friendly vibe?I will agree with all of this. But just like any "sale", you still have to let you intentions be known. So how do you tell a woman you would love to have sex with her? There's a fine balance and it's really up to how she will interpret it. You can be talking at a bar/party with a woman and whisper "I would love to take you back with me so we can have some real fun" . . one woman can be offended while a different one would want to. It's a risk. And with every risk you have to evaluate the situati… | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 10:25 PM |
| 12 | Nightclub bouncer gets asked what good pick ups look like (from RSD Nation)"So a man thinkith, so he becomes". . . . you already have the attitude of losing before you even start the game. | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Nightclub bouncer gets asked what good pick ups look like (from RSD Nation)I said this music sucks | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 01:58 PM |
| 5 | How to escalate from the kissing stage?Hey I feel ya. My cousin would go into bars and pretty tell women . . "Let get tipsy and then go back to my place and have some good fun sex." . . .Sure he'd get brush offs or slaps, but sooner or later he'll get one that says "Me too, I need some no drama fun". Just like Trent from Swingers said "...Oh Mikey, women respect honesty". | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 05:09 PM |
| 17 | How to escalate from the kissing stage?"Told her that I don't like to waste time..." yeah probably not the smoothest line there. | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 04:38 PM |
| 2 | I went clubbing last night, opened a few sets, but after that i just got blank mindIf she's with a group and she's into you . . boom . .she's already isolated it for both of you. You have to always keep the conversation going, I can't do that for you, but just know when she's talking to you, she's investing time and attention to you . . if you don't get that, then she's not interested. Smiles, laffing and wanting to have a good time. Those are the signs I look for. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I went clubbing last night, opened a few sets, but after that i just got blank mindShe'll be accepting and in to you or not . . it's that simple. If she doesn't want to play too, then move on. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Made up an excuse not to talk to this girl, wow was I wrongGonna? . .that should say "we are going out for coffee and a date" . . . Congrats though. I miss college, the first year I was so nervous and scared. Then had a few people guide me along . . got laid by a girl way out of my league . .we dated for a few months, found we weren't compatible . .but after that . . ConfidenceHigh | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Is withdrawl a good way to escape the "friendzone"?I was thinking "how in the hell have I not heard this song before!" . .then I realized I wasn't fat and gay. I agree, this sub has gone pussyfied | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I can't cold approach. I hate it, and sarging for hours just brings my depression to the surface. Seddit, what are some tips for building a big social circle and mastering social circle game?Not giving a fuck . . .serious . . I know this sounds crazy but why should you care about what anyone thinks of you until you know they are worth of you caring about them? Cold approach is just a game where if it works cool, if not cool. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34.You never heard of "rebound" sex? When you break up with someone there's that lingering feeling of not feeling worthlessness because that person you wanted to be with didn't want to be with you. You need another person to have sex with to "justify" your worth. I know that sounds jacked up, but it lends itself a feeling of worth whether it be going out on a date or sex. But sex is a the best thing to remove all doubt and get you back in the game. And you better to it soon or the lingering effect … | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 02:11 PM |
| 2 | I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34."Justify me" sex is the best | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Why You Should Quit Watching PornUpvote for some decent ideaisms. Downvote for posting as a promotion for your Youtube video (Hint: at least make a separate account to post it so it's not so obvious). | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.This is a good one. I have it and get compliments on it all the time. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.One of the best sandelwood scents you would love is out of production. I remember going out and random women would ask me "what are you wearing, it smells nice". If you can find a bottle of Baryshnikov for men invest in it, not the sport one the original scent. I wonder if anyone else has smelled it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Which attractive qualities in women are very underrated?Has a hobby that she enjoys. | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 03:15 AM |
| 7 | How do you guys deal with the "how many girls have you slept with?" question ?"Does oral count ?" | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Tried the "Wait..." line on a date,approved | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Witnessed something amazing Friday in high schoolEveryone ease up . . . if I was in high school I too would have appreciated a good wingman. Glad you saw what happened first hand. Now go forward and spread the good news. | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Followed my friend's advice!!!Perfect. I don't think it's who cares, it's more like "whatever happens happens roll with it". No expectations just enjoyment. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 03:55 AM |
| 2 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?No you spontaneously picked a sucky place to go my friend. Everyone has this fucked up idea of what spontaneous romantic is based on what they seen on a movie or if you took them to a certain area or event without planing that's considered spontaneous. No. Romantic spontaneous is doing something that says "I don't give a fuck where we go as long as I am with you and we are having fun". So I hate to break the news to you, you didn't have fun cause both of you tried to make it perfect. Fuck that s… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:09 PM |
| 2 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?THIS right here. This is the essence of being dynamic, romantic, etc... if you anticipate it and try too much to make it happen . . it ain't gonna happen . . . let it flow . . if it happens it was meant to, this makes it feel "right" for both parties | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?Well after they fucked her . . yeah . . bye | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 02:33 AM |
| 2 | "Approach random girl, don't give a fuck" works, guys!! It fucking does!!Good for you. Let this be a lesson boys. Do NOT put any expectations outside of just chillin. If you do, you add extra pressure on yourself, it'll get weird and women can sniff that out pretty quick. BUT they also know when you are sincere and chill about, they enjoy that too. | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | "We should kiss" A simple, yet effective line I've used many timesOf course, that's what Trent preaches! | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 02:06 PM |
| 1 | FUCK EVERYTHING, I'M GOING TO GO APPROACH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL RIGHT NOW, I DON'T CARE THE RESPONSEHighFive . . .To everyone out there, remember this . . the ONLY pressure added is your own self pressure! YOU are doing that to YOU. At the end of the day, no one . .serious . . NO ONE gives a fuck if you get shot down. If you do, it just didn't work out. Once you realize and accept that it's OKAY and ACCEPTABLE if you don't have the perfect approach or she doesn't swoon all over you, then you'll get over that fear. Congrats!! (Secret: Someone of the most gorgeous women are actually lonely becau… | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 01:24 PM |
| 2 | German guys numberclose girls and ask them afterwards what they think about being approached. Their answers motivate me so much to go out there and approach"I like your smile" is so generic there's no emotion . .women love emotion . .so when you say "you have such a warm smile, I can't help smiling too" . . she hears "your smile makes me happy, that is your smile, that means you make me happy" . . . emotion . .you give me a joyous emotion . . letting a woman know that she brings you joy is the greatest compliment you can give any woman . . you are saying, I enjoy being with you. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 03:33 AM |
| 130 | German guys numberclose girls and ask them afterwards what they think about being approached. Their answers motivate me so much to go out there and approachBe honest. Be charming. Be happy. Be seriously happy to talk to that person. The hardest thing you'll have learn is to give a woman a compliment without it coming off as a pickup line. Which is funny because once you master it, it will be the primary reason a woman will listen and hold her attention. Women love honest compliments. But practice because charm and presentation are important too, "I like your smile" versus "you have such a warm smile, I can't help smiling too" are two different thin… | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of Girlsi know this sound rude or fucked up . .the fact is this . . a woman wants to experience being a "slut" and nurture her inner lusts . . you have to be special enough to provide her a safe fun trusting enviornment so she can let go without judgement. My line is always "..look, I just want to have some safe but exciting fun, life is too short" You feed that seed in her mind and let it grow. You are honest and your intentions are on the table. I've scored many times just doing that. As far as the 3s… | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 01:53 AM |
| 3 | How do you approach a girl at a bar when she smiles a is clearly interested in you?Oye, Latino Bro. First off, if you lost weight, you havent transitioned into women finding you attractive. You are mentally still panson. Listen, confidence is key. You go up and say "hi" and let her talk, and if she won't talk, then you gotta keep up the conversation. There's one way you will know she wants you there . . and this is key. SHE will keep up the conversation to give you a reason to stay. If she doesn't contribute, then smile and say "I won't take up any more of your time, I just wa… | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyExpectations were set way too high. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyYES! Remember this moment. This is THE big step. You did it. Yeah sure you weren't successful but now you know what it feels like. You survived. Now this is the important part. You have to take a step back and LAFF at yourself and SMILE. Why? Because we've all been there. But you learn from your lesson. I personally think you put too much pressure on yourself and took things too serious. There are two attitude hats to wear. SEDUCTION - Ask, if she says "no", so what, big deal, move on to the nex… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadEmbrace that feeling . .that rush is perfect! It makes you feel alive. You are approaching someone that excites you that makes you nervous, just like your first time at bat or batting in a game situation. The more times you put yourself in that situation the more you will get used to it, embrace it and learn how to deal with it. Also, she may say "no" just to see how you handle rejection. I've actually had a girl say "no" then come over later on and say "NOW you can buy me that drink, I just wan… | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How To Make Her Chase - 5 Key StepsThis was good stuff. "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter". The "open door" policy where she can leave whenever she wants is so ALPHA, that sets the tone for "you are hear because you want to be" and you can only feel that confidence by allowing her to leave when she wants. So when she stays, she'd doing it on her merit. Also, chit-chat and small talk is the best "charm". | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Friendly or flirting?You were suppose to say "Okay I'll text you for my next appointment but if I wanted to ask you out for lunch or drinks, do I use the same number?" | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 07:02 AM |
| 3 | What Makes A Woman Chase You?You must be rich. But serious, "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 02:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went home with a guy last night, got on my knees for funtimes, then saw The Game on his bookshelf.Okay | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 07:29 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Went home with a guy last night, got on my knees for funtimes, then saw The Game on his bookshelf.Yes, no problem here | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you date good looking girls when you're not a good looking guy?Two things my cousins (female) told me that set me on the right path. "Girls want it just as much as boys do". Once you overcome that little roadblock, you'll understand. It's a paradox, women turn you down or find every reason not to, but if you stick with the knowledge that she wants to have fun as much as you do, you'll hold your confidence much higher. It's like knowing a truthful secret and she'll know when you know and believe it. "Notice details but not at stalker level". Women love compl… | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you date good looking girls when you're not a good looking guy?Be confident, make money and learn how to fuck. That's about it. Everything else is trivial. If you want the true secret. Whatever woman you want to have . . make her smile. It's that easy. Learn what makes her smile and make her smile. Now the problem comes when you find out one woman smiles if you buy her rich things. Another smiles when you can give her 10 orgasms in a row and make her squirt. Another smiles when she stays at home and you provide everything. So making a woman smile is easy, b… | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Nobody is Watching"....that one and one is threeeeeee (and it makes no sense to me) . . OhhhOHHHOhhhh" | /r/seduction | 02/08/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm grinding on a girl, she's into it, and then her friend pulls her away. What should I do?Yeah I feel you on that . .but still . . that's not the end goal. Participation trophies are for everyone | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm grinding on a girl, she's into it, and then her friend pulls her away. What should I do?HighFiveForTruth . . this right here is the most truthful comment. If you get all excited over a grind, you need to shoot for higher goals. That's just honest truth. What you gonna get all excited cause you got her number next? | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Well I always roll with the attitude of "she wants to fuck until she says she doesn't want to fuck" =) | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 06:06 AM |
| 2 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?Bull . . . shit . . . unless you are rich and are mega handsome in which any case you wouldn't be here asking for advice. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean?she's okay with you giving her a free meal | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Ever run into "nice girls"?Not sure why you aren't happy with a nice girl (ya hypocrite) Smile But know this, you can teach a nice girl to be a bad girl . . but you cannot go from a bad girl to a nice girl . . .What exactly is the problem? | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 07:25 PM |
| 5 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/Tinder"and 60-70 lbs lighter in that pics" . . that's a big difference | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 03:45 AM |
| 1 | I approached at least one girl a day for a week (fucking huge for me). I feel incredible.I know this sounds dumb. But practice on all people, everyone, girls, friends, men, strangers . . get your conversation flow. Practice, Practice, Practice. I'm gonna throw one at you. Everyone you see today, look at their clothing and find ONE UNIQUE thing about what they are wearing and find something nice to say in form of a question that would lead to more talking. This is my go to when conversation falls flat or slow. | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Fuck Her Brain Out 101Very good article. I will add that all women want to be fucked like a whore, they just don't want to be treated like one or seen as one. So make sure you nurture her naughtiness so she trusts you enough to let go sexually. Earn that trust and there's nothing she won't do for you. | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Girl who has been 'just friends' with me suddenly comes on to me.Don't worry, just as soon as you express interest she'll lose interest in you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 08:17 PM |
| 3 | THANK YOU SEDDITSniffSniff* . he's all grownz up . . . such a great feeling . .that's the hardest part (no pun intended) . . part of her body was touching yours . . just a small nudge and ALL of her body will be touching yours . . .happy for you ! | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:41 PM |
| 2 | I got stood upHang around alphas and you'll be alphas. GOOD alphas not douchy ones. You can watch and learn how they handle rejection. THAT is the most important part. How to handle failure is a big thing in this game. Does it stop you? Do you worry about it? Do you worry about it? OR Do you continue trying? Improve? etc... You get your confidence sky high when you fail and survive through those failures. Been there, done that kicks in and you don't get too emotional about it because you recognize the situati… | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she lost my number and then bought me a drink. What?She bought your a drink . . .a drink it just a drink . . .it doesn't mean shit. Buying a woman a drink it's just giving her a chance to see if you like her or she likes you. The action of purchasing someone a drink doesn't mean shit, but what you do in that time while sharing the drink is important. She bought you a drink and walked away. What has me bother is the whole "...drunker than I should" and "getting pretty drunk". I would not pursue dood. Always be the hunted, never be the hunter. Alph… | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Just had the shortest date in my life.No. I know you're trying to make a point, but the juice ain't worth the squeeze . . you're right, I'm wrong. Enjoy. =) | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Just had the shortest date in my life.say in a boastful manner . . in this case, type | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 07:15 PM |
| -1 | Just had the shortest date in my life.Not bragging if it's true . . . . need confirmation | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Just had the shortest date in my life.Ooooo tell me how you did it ! Swoon Dood, he didn't like her and he moved on. That takes balls. For some, it takes a bit longer to understand that. For me, it was having sex with two different girls in one day. That was my great seduction moment. I do agree with you, that one should do what they want to make them happy regardless of societies views. It's your life. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 06:54 PM |
| 13 | Just had the shortest date in my life...into her | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How reliable is your feeling when clubbing?There is nothing wrong in finding out if the vibe is there. You'll often find out if you express there's a vibe a woman will go along if they are not sure. There are some women who enjoy men taking the lead. Man up. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 08:24 PM |
| -1 | Becoming a sexual guyWell to be sexual you have to have lots of sex, good sex, bad sex, lots of experience. Not going to lie to you. The reason is you cannot bullshit though this. You can watch porn, or read up on everything, but its' not until you experience it will you know what to do. That sexual confidence many douchebags have, that's because they have had lots of sex and know they have made a woman cum and have the confidence in knowing what to do. Now, you do have to present yourself in an attractive manner so… | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 02:38 PM |
| 7 | A great example of how clothes and a haircut affect how you're perceivedVery good, you're learning how the media works now | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 11:32 PM |
| 0 | What is the proper response to a manipulative flirt?Flirt back. You need to master the art of letting them think they are winning. And by them winning is to letting them think they are in control of everything (note: women love to manipulate men). Nothing wrong with playing along and on some things say "no". That is how you establish rules and lines you will not cross, and in a way that is "dominance" because you stood up. Women don't want a weak push over. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 07:04 PM |
| 3 | When she doesn't text you backUh ? There's two types of alpha . . the alpha that talk about it it, says he's it, and won't shut the fuck up about being alpha. .and then there's the alpha who doesn't say a word and just is. This guy was annoying. Do you really want to hook up with a female who finds this guy attractive? I'll pass on that drama in the making. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 06:21 PM |
| 0 | So if I want to attract girls, I cant be noticeably nervous?Stay frosty = keep your cool, don't freak out, don't get nervous | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 09:21 PM |
| 1 | So if I want to attract girls, I cant be noticeably nervous?Nah, your nervousness comes from the lack of experience or overwhelming self induced pressure. Of course you will have to change who you are, you gotta learn how to stay frosty. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 08:45 PM |
| 0 | I think I am lacking completely in self awareness, and it's killing me inside. I think that the image that I have of myself is completely different from the image other people have of me.How many "closes" do you have? That's your score bro. | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 05:44 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is going on with this sub!?NoddingInApproval | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Best way to respond to "you're going to have to work harder than that" when asking for a girl's number?"It's good you know the world HARDER" Smile | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How to make a woman feel beautiful without flirting?Go with "Is this something I would tell my grandma?" . . I mean that eliminates all miscommunication of sex or flirting right? | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 09:11 PM |
| 2 | I live with my 2 girlfriends. Tomorrow I'm going to make a video where I discuss how I set it up, manage it, and answer any questions you may have. Please feel free to write some below and I'll pick the best for the video.So how rich and jewish are you? | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 03:13 AM |
| -1 | How I show interest in a guyYou missed the real purpose which is "we gonna do it or what?" | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 04:26 PM |
| 0 | How I show interest in a guyIt's called flirting | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 03:04 PM |
| 2 | How I show interest in a guyVery basic, Office Flirting 101. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How I show interest in a guyWay to take the high road. Bravo | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 02:31 PM |
| 0 | How I show interest in a guyThat's right, . .can you take a joke and laff at yourself . . or in actuality, how do you react when shit doesn't go right. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How I show interest in a guyShe's saying "Dood, look at me, I'm setting you up so you can tell me I look good don't fuck it up" | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 02:26 PM |
| 2 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.Yes, but as a man, you are like me, the one that can traverse the technical world and the social world. Double Strong! Showing intelligence, charm and manners and woooooo . . . major catch! Serious. Don't know how many times I was looked as the alpha only because I was not afraid to talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 12:43 AM |
| 2 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.You pretty much listed the persona of a majority (not all) of gamers and people who work in IT, not to mention folk who are masters of their industry and do not know another world exists outside of their own. One of my mentors told me, when you have no knowledge about something, go get some - force yourself so you remove that fear, be a freaking Renaissance man where you know a little about everything versus a lot about one thing. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the fastest way for a 23 yo girl to get laid for the first time in her life?I'm in Texas and every Canadian women I've ever meet is soo cool and laid back. I find it hard to believe you cannot find a guy willing to have fun with you hon. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 07:18 PM |
| -1 | If Jay Z Can Do It....a large part | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?It's really simple. If she really wanted to spend time with you a "Yes" or a confident "Sure!" would let you know. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?"When girls are insecure..." at that point that changes the whole situation. This isn't about the OP, it's now about the girl. So he's asking advice on what he should do, well OP, you can either be "alpha" or "beta". You control the situation or let her control it. There's nothing wrong with that. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?"I'm not exactly thrilled about this?" . . . if you are not thrilled, then you need to move on. If you really like her bring out the "Sure bring your friend, I don't have a problem making a new friend" But you can't blame her for being cautious. Who knows she might be hotter and leverage that. However, if she pulls that again, I hate to say this, but make her friend the center of attention of everything. It was my way of saying "hey I wanted you to be the attention, but since you brought your fr… | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How to be DominantTLDR; Stand up for yourself; Fight for what you want As far as the ginger, Oh he's so friend zoned, he's a fun safe guy. Kissing is allowed, experimenting is fine, but none of them women want his ding-a-ling all up in them (provided they aren't smashed drunk middle ages women, like I saw there). I will agree with him, women want to have fun and goof around and do so when they feel SAFE. So his "wins' are not because of being dominate or seductive, they are all up on him because he's a safe-frien… | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How to be DominantThe Asian guy should have just mann'ed up and said "you wanna be with me or him tonight?" and if she said him, no shame in that. Just go with the fact that's what she wanted, you got your answer and move on. | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 01:10 PM |
| 3 | How to be DominantI don't think you are stepping over others. You are missing the point where if there is a woman and two men are fighting for her, the one expresses he wants her more will get her. Same thing for a job or opportunity. The point is, stop allowing people to step all over you. | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Tried to kiss a girl, she gave me a "nice try" lineYou should have kissed her. And women can smell "fear" (lack of confidence) . . Everyone is right, you should have went in, got the kiss . . if she liked it, she'll want it . . .if not, you'll get slapped or "don't do that again" and well . .at least now you know your answer you can move on. | /r/seduction | 03/08/14 07:44 PM |
| 0 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my leagueYou don't have a lot of friends or families in strong relationship as examples do you? Otherwise you would understand how shallow your thoughts are. I know your attraction to model types is unconditional and you can't help to feel the way you do. But you are missing out on a very important part of any relationship and that is . .the RELATION . .ship part. It's funny how you say "looks are very important to me for attraction" and yet that same thing can be said to you by the models . .I wont' dat… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my league...with joy and enthusiasm (this is very important!) | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my league"Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my leagueI think the woman's rule was "Never date a man who spends more time on his hair than you spend on yours". Also most of the model types are very superficial and want all eyes on her. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my leagueYes and No. At first when you are young, but then when you get older you'll find being complimentary in certain things makes a relationship stronger. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.Well think about it . .do you "try" to tie your shoes? . .no you've done it so much it's just part of what you do | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 04:31 PM |
| -1 | 'Undercover' on Ashley Madison, interesting tips on how to game women post-30 and why women would cheat.BULLSHIT . . no woman would say "Fuck You Cameron" and threw a martini in their face. TLDR; If you don't show her you desire her; there's always someone else ready to do so, it's up to her. | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 07:08 PM |
| 4 | What is one important thing you wish you could have taught your younger self about being better with women?"Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" . . and if you are not at that level where you can pull that off, then keep improving yourself . .money, gym, personality, etc... until you are what women seek, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 01:35 PM |
| 1 | So I live by the boardwalk/beach...and there's tons of beautiful girls there in the summertime. Need some tips.Why are you giving away psychiatrist tricks away!? | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 01:04 PM |
| 5 | So I live by the boardwalk/beach...and there's tons of beautiful girls there in the summertime. Need some tips.I would too . .but then I'd go over while breathing hard and say . . "okay, breathe . . you just cost me 10 push ups . .Breathe . . but I'm here now brethe Hi, I'm Joe . . HandshakeAndSmile (instant ice break) | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 01:03 PM |
| 0 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herDebunk that HB10's are only as good as how much they want sexy time. You have no idea how many times a friend/family member of mind would land a hottie only for me to ask later on "Dood, what happened to that hot chick you were with?" . . .90% of the time it was, she didn't want sex or didn't like sex or some crazy thing dealing with sex. I guess I didn't debunk, supported OP's opinion. | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 10:24 PM |
| 12 | For every super hot girl, there's a guy bored of fucking herI will debunk this theory. For the fact that, you could have a HB10 but if she doesn't like to fuck you or suck your cock, then you will resort to hooking up with HB(x) just to get your needs taken care of. I will say this: HB6 who loves to fuck and suck cock > HB10 who occationaly likes to have sex | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Married guy here, I read this /r/seduction for self improvement, unexpected # close at grocery storeI agree, it's very hard to say no sometimes. Closing becomes an addiction. It's exciting and challenging. The addiction comes from experiencing another woman enjoying what you do to/for her, that feeling is very addicting. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I experienced the power of vulnerability first hand tonight.If a woman isn't into talking about herself, just talk about anything. Remember as long as she's listening to you she's not talking to someone else so in a way that's a win. Opening up is a small gesture of trust, and if you trust her with something she'll feel she can trust in you. Relax, I think someone else said "it sounds like you just stopped trying to hard to make it happen". I agree with him. Something you have to be willing to let her be in control. That goes against seddit philosophy, b… | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 01:32 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with "You know we aren't having sex right?"Patience . .what if she was on her period? Or maybe she's just seeing how you would react to "no". You know sometimes you gotta play cool but sometimes you gotta implant that "thought seed" of her having sex with you. "That's alright, you will tonight when you are dreaming" . . I swear that works . . believe it or not, she will end up subconsciously dream of having sex with you. | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors over 40?It's a "no bullshit" time. Just show interest and your intention. Many woman will be flattered, some will be offended, but you'll be surprised how many women are just dying for attention and some "fun". Remember the women at your age, are looking for what you are looking for too. Keypoint is that many women are in the same boat as you so flirting and mature intentions right off the bat are not off limits, but you have to present them in a playful mature way. One more thing, you are grown ass man… | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Major Bullet Points From 2.5 Years of Seddit.Watch out for things that make her smile. Take note. This is VERY important. When a woman smiles when she's with you, you've won half the battle. Trust me on this on. Save those information nuggets and use them to your advantage later on and pay attention. The reason you do this is so you can use them on conversation later on. These are your lifesavers, these are the things she cares about and likes and you taking notice is hardcore bad ass. For example, "...so... about your dog Maxx, I saw your… | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 03:34 PM |
| 104 | This shit is GOLD -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To CloseVery good find. Don't lie. Don't be someone you are not. Physical touch at first meeting. You don't get just one "open" you can have many opens. She already knows what you want, now you got to get her to think you are worth giving it up. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | This just made my night, and I wanted to thank you guys...Did you close though . . . Yay, you're in the game . . now you are up to bat . . .what did you do with your opportunity ? | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 08:05 PM |
| 5 | How to tell if she's giving you "the look"?There are some types of "the looks". But in my experience, think about it from her side. "I'll look and let him bust me looking so he knows I'm interested". Then you have . . "I'm not going to look because if I look too much he might think I'm desperate or to wanting" . . Then you have .. "I'm fucking looking at you, no one else here if you can't get that fucking hint them what do I have to do say "I'm giving you THAT look what are you waiting for!". . . . You'll never know from the look . . you… | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | [Noob Post] How do I go about picking up a girl dancing at a club?You better learn really quick . .cause that's how it starts when you (or she) leads you to the bed room. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 03:36 PM |
| 22 | Social games to play when convo gets boring?Play "what are they saying/lip reader" . . .this is where you pick another couple talking and you pretend you are overhear what they are saying and you have speak their conversation . .but the kicker is you have the the woman role . .and she has to play the man role . .or whom ever . . . I did that as the bar waiting for our table . .and we could not stop laffing . . . While looking at another couple at the end of the bar: She (playing his role): "Well you know, I have peanut allergies" Me (play… | /r/seduction | 03/02/14 12:38 AM |
| 2 | "Putting the pussy on a pedestal."I think what he meant as don't give a fuck of the outcome. Don't give a fuck that she's hot. Don't give a fuck if you crash and burn. | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 06:25 AM |
| 0 | I'm feeling like a god, thank you seddit!Mom's spaghetti ? | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 01:56 AM |
| 1 | You're on a date, what's you're favourite way to keep conversation going?Just talk, about anything. You could always go with "What do you think about <topic>?". Now, if she doesn't come back with good counter conversation or ask what you think then bail. Serious, a conversation is 2 people playing tennis, and it's not very fun when you are always serving, there's gotta be a return volley to have fun. Most of the time, simply ask and let them talk and you be a good guy and simply listen. If you do that, you'll always come off as a great guy who is sensitive about her … | /r/seduction | 16/12/13 02:08 PM |
| 5 | You're on a date, what's you're favourite way to keep conversation going?There's a scene in Swingers where Trent says "Mike most of the time I have no idea what the hell they are talking about, but I listen, nod my head and somehow I come off as a nice guy" | /r/seduction | 16/12/13 02:03 PM |
| -7 | 22 secrets to social succes. Seriously, read itnot a bad read | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 12:26 AM |
| 4 | A woman can't make you happy. Only you can.Agree . . if you don't love you, how can someone else love you? if you don't think you are a fuckable, how can you expect another woman think so? if you don't think you are bad ass, how can another woman think you are bad ass? Your attitude should portray confidence with or without a woman. I will tell you a secret . . all women are BUSY and EMOTIONAL TIRED at all times . . yes . . and for you to add "your happiness" as another chore to their list of responsibilities is not something they desire… | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Today I finally said fuck you to my AA"You survived. You survived. Nothing hurtful happened. You survived. You weren't laughed at. You survived. That was the worst that could happen and you survived. I can do this because I was rejected and I survived." - your confident brain | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone ever feel like there aren't any women worth dating?Just keep looking . . I believe in Rule 34 for relationships too. | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone ever feel like there aren't any women worth dating?"I'm still a bit of coward and I only manage to escalate when it's pretty obvious the girl is into me." That's your problem with that there. Coward? why? What's the reason? And it's never obvious, so always assume she's into you, somehow that positive attitude, will manifest itself. Sometimes women don't know how they feel and have to be pursuaded into thinking "maybe I am into him" | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone ever feel like there aren't any women worth dating?No shit. MAN the fuck up. If you don't want to embrace "man" characteristics that most women enjoy and excite them, then good luck. | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How to give a compliment for greatest impactLike my boy Trent said in Swingers . . "Look, you see how they dress when they go out, right? They want you to notice 'em. All you're doin' is letting them know that it's working." | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 01:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you think hooking up with a friend could strengthen a friendship?hooked up = sex (you're doing it wrong) | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think hooking up with a friend could strengthen a friendship?Well some of the strongest relationship are ones where you are friends before lovers. And yes, sex with someone can "solidify" your friendship. Especially in the case where you both trust each other and don't really want to risk hooking up with someone you don't know or trust. So yes it can be done. However, you have to talk it out because if you do have sex and have not set out that why you are doing it, then it could cause problems when one of the parties wants "more" (as in a relationship ver… | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 11:03 PM |
| 1 | HBO: Hello LadiesWe all learn from other's mistakes. So there's probably a lot to learn from it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 02:41 AM |
| 8 | Have any of you successfully gamed older women?This right here. They don't play around, they don't want any bullshit. | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Model says she gets approached 70+ times a weekBe Rich. Be Attractive. Be Nice. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 11:24 PM |
| 1 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Hey . .he started it ! . .and lighten up Francis | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 12:40 PM |
| 0 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!No and kiss my ass. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 04:13 AM |
| 4 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!That's not game, that's having self-respect. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."Spot on ! | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 08:14 PM |
| 3 | ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there!because you learn from them . .that's called "growth" | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 09:44 PM |
| 1 | 3 Effective Methods That Can Make HER Ask YOU For SEX...It's NOT cliche, before the clothes come off, at dinner . . . in her mind's eyes she's already visualized you sexing her up. Oh and it's not cliche to where you can tell in her kiss. Also as far as seduction goes, most of the time it's not telling her what I want to do to her, but make it about what she wants me to do to her. In a way it's role reversal, where she's in control, but we both know once that first kiss is initiated, it doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 05:32 PM |
| 1 | 3 Effective Methods That Can Make HER Ask YOU For SEX...I'd go with the attitude of "I'm always here, without judgement to have fun, unconditionally" with a hint of a confident "I don't NEED you" and a small touch of "whatever makes you happy" | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 03:50 PM |
| 1 | 3 Effective Methods That Can Make HER Ask YOU For SEX...Shhhh . . keep that quiet. I'm not the most handsomest guy, or the richest or anything like that . .but the advantage I have over most of these douche/selfish men is my ability to anticipate the lick . . . the soft kisses around . . the upper inner thigh nibbles . . face rubbing . .itty bitty kisses around her clit . . do that till you have to hold her down and keep teasing . . I do that just to hear the sweet music of her deep moan and motion to grab and grip onto anything the moment the tip of… | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 03:44 PM |
| 1 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.I'm not gonna bullshit you . . . older women are complimented when you make them feel attractive enough to fuck them. Now, there's a gentleman, respectful, and charming way to relay this message though. That part, you have to master. You have to have the smooth charm to let her know without a doubt if she gave you the chance you would have her in bed giving her pure pleasure that she deeply desires/needs. But have fun, make her feel desired . . . older women want to feel passion . . period . . G… | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 03:34 AM |
| 2 | I am leaving high school, going into college. What would you recommend to meet new women outside my old high school circle?Just remember there are a lot of women who are in the same position as you are, trying to meet new people. If anything use that as your vulnerable line after a bit of conversation. Just knowing that will ease up any anxiety. Remember every woman in college is there to also have fun, do not waste your time with those who don't want to, there are way too many who do want to. Definitely join some clubs. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How to Hold Conversation Like a Man | Nick SparksThat's that Trent said in Swingers | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 03:41 PM |
| 0 | I am the prize."Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 10:12 PM |
| 3 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerSmile . . "well, I dunno . . my definition of fun might be different from yours . . what's your idea of a fun time?" | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerI was like that too, but they have this craps table where everyone sits around these dice and you have your own video screen to place your bet. I was in Vegas for a wedding and the day we got there I sat on the table put in $100 at 11 pm and didn't cash out until 6am . . I won some, lost some but left with my original $100. It was fun!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fs6_fvBZ0_k | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 05:47 PM |
| 3 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerYes, but I'd reply with "..why, are you interested?" TakingSwigOfMyDrink (GAME ON!) | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 04:54 PM |
| 2 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerNever play slots. Craps is the higher time-to-fun ratio. Save for next time. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Ladies love it when you say their name.No kidding. Guess what, it works at networkers too, need to land that big deal, hey . .remember the person's actual name. Shocking | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:56 AM |
| 2 | pro-tip: learn how to take off a bra with one handNo Shit . . . if fumbling around to take off a bra destroys your groove, then you ain't doing it right. . . if you ain't got her heated up to a point where you can't just look into her eyes passionately and then softly say "..take your bra off for me . . " and have her maintain eye contact reach around back and take it off for you . .then when the bra falls down, you then make the sensual pimp move of softly cupping them while looking down at them then kiss her and continue with the touching . .… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 01:00 PM |
| 4 | We need to talk about flaking...Hard Truth: They don't want to be with you, otherwise they would have made sure they made the date . . OR . . the would reschedule as in (I can't make it, but he can we do dinner next friday ?) If they just cancel, move on. You forgot the rule of "Never be the hunter, always the hunted!" | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 04:26 PM |
| 7 | Tip for guys with warm handsNo no . . the move is . . LookingIntoHerEyes . . then say "Feel good doesn't it" SoftSmileNaughtySmirk . . .and HER response will give you the answer if you have the green light . . if she's DTF you'll get a eye contact with "Yes, very good" or "Yes it does" a smile and blush or a look away . . . If she's NOT DTF, she'll pull her hands away and say "Okay thanks" . . . just know if she keeps her hands touching yours . . that's the BIGGEST GREEN LIGHT it means I'm okay with part of my body touchin… | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Tip for guys with warm handsI will confirm this being a go to move on cold nights. I have used this before and depending how much charm or smoothness you have, it's an innocent yet seductively sensual move. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 05:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went out solo to a bar, left due to anxiety, got balls, and went back in. Results inside.HighFive . . you got nothing to lose . . have fun . . don't take things too serious though . . enjoy the ride | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 01:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I fucked upI agree here . . . "Once it's sold, quit trying to sell it" . .otherwise they will backtrack and overanalyze "why does he keep trying to sell himself to me" . .door . .women love to shop and they can spot a bad sale's pitch. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 09:50 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I fucked up"..I knew I was gonna win, I can't take my eyes off you" . . .wait for the smile | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 09:49 PM |
| 2 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.I'll counter with Sade - Lovers Live | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 01:35 AM |
| 9 | Help finding a lost Fuck Buddy guideThis was a damn good read ! Upvote for sharing! | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksGotcha. There's a chance there's a HB10 at the bar looking at him but since he was so focused on the other one, he may have missed out on the love of his life . . ah yes . . | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksThis is tricky, because there's a fine line between pedestal and actually being attracted. So what if you liked her more than the others. However, this is seddit so the rule is not do that. Personally, I think it's to limit the emotional collateral damage when she says no and if it doesn't work out you are not scarred so much it won't discourage you to try again. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Thanks Seddit. I'm 25 and I just had my first girlfriend, lost my virginity and had my first breakup in a matter of months. What a crazy end to 2012.Once you learn that you can survive all the bad shit, it brings on the confidence only obtained by experience. There's a confident strength that comes with being able to say "I've been through this shit before and I survived it", that cocky smile then shows up. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 03:51 AM |
| 1 | I picked up "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and some of it seems contrary to the basic seduction shtick. Thoughts?Your last sentence says so much my friend. Solid truth there. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 04:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] It's so much harder than it looksPractice makes improvement . . perfect doesn't exist | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 03:45 PM |
| 0 | [FR] It's so much harder than it looksYou are giving a fuck . . . if you didn't give a fuck, you wouldn't be so concerned with the outcome. . . .quit adding pressure on yourself . .no one else is adding that pressure on you . .EXCEPT YOU . . .stop it . . calm the fuck down . . don't worry the nerves go away the more your repeat and the more comfortable you are with the situation. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 07:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] HB7 - My successful first approachGotcha | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 01:37 AM |
| 4 | [FR] HB7 - My successful first approachAm I missing something . . she was a customer? . .you're a bar keep or work at McDonalds? . .was this a club . . we're missing things here . . but to be honest the message was "I went for it" . . ThumbsUp | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | So I went up to a lady state trooper...learning experience . . you know she can't do that | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:23 PM |
| 13 | So I went up to a lady state trooper...yeah proabably in the lines of "...Iv'e never done this before or tried this line so I was nervous, the fact that she was super cute was messing with my confidence, but I said fuck it, I mean what's she gonna do, arrest me for being nice to her? Fuck, she's got a partner, oh well, I need to be able to have game with other guys around, hell he might be my competition so I'm gonna have to let him know I'm here, I'm in . . here I go, if I can pull this off without wetting myself I'll be happy regar… | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:06 PM |
| 9 | So I went up to a lady state trooper...because even stepping up to bat is an accomplishment . . SupportiveClapping "That's alright baby, you'll hit it out of the park next time" | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Story Time: Kids These Days (How Not To Pick Up A Hooters Girl)That was painful to read. He needs to watch the movie Swingers and watch the part where he mentions that women know where you want to take them eventually, you beating around the bush is a waste of their time and they'll appreciate your honesty. It's a fine Jedi skill to be able to tell a woman you want to fuck her without saying it and without her being insulted or offended . . when you get your game to a point where you can let a woman know you want to fuck her, show your unquestionable intent… | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ?The way to get over one woman is to find another, it's that simple. Also, the great Chris Rock said "A man is only as faithful as his options", how does this relate? . .I dunno . .just thought I'd share. =P | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI'll agree with this . . only because of this logic . . .IF you are afraid to ask her to go home with you . . what makes you think you are gonna be brave enough to get her in bed . . .and if you get that far, are you going to be brave enough to get her to do the naughtiest things you want to do with her in bed? Side note: I've seen my cousin walk into a bar, go up to the hottest woman there and an within an hour, he's taking her back to his place to close the deal. His line " ... so wanna get ou… | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, Lifestyle..something that is not real (trick, illusion, lie) | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 07:55 PM |
| 3 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?Sure . .don't know if it's quote worthy . . . but then again my buddy gave me one of the best lines ever when I was going to step up to a woman one time . .the advice was . . "If you're gonna do it, do it...if you're not gonna do it, then don't do it" . . .that was his nice way of saying "Bitch I don't wanna hear about things you WANT to do, tell me what you've done" . .so . .whatever works . . .the end justifies the means. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Short texts = no go?Let the game come to you my friend . . | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 07:09 AM |
| 3 | An abrupt change. [FR]You are correct more than you think. Women want the power to say no to relationship (Thus being the one in control) they don't want to risk not being in control which pretty much means they are open to being hurt . . . but don't see it as control or anything like that . . if that's her mindset . . she's gonna be trouble anyways. I think you dodged a bullet. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 05:57 AM |
| 107 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?There is no difference. When you hear about relationships that have "lost their spark", it's because of this. . . there's some sort of mentality that once she's your girlfriend you don't have to bring your A game . . . that is furthest from the truth . . that's where you bring it strong and man up and pretty much say "you always have the option to go be with other guys but you know who I am and what I bring" . .then you create the situation where she doesn't have to be with you . .she CHOOSES to… | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 07:41 PM |
| 29 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?Yes, you are what you are . . so don't fake it, become it | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 07:38 PM |
| 26 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?The actual catch is when you say "..damn, I wanna do that again, but with YOU" | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Im not great with women, but I'm growing a pair and getting it done.Its from my irc days... Sorry it bothers you | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Im not great with women, but I'm growing a pair and getting it done.By the way . .the way to handle rejection is the key to confidence . . . if you ask a woman to dance, lunch, study, etc.. and she says no . . I always go with "Hey, no problem, maybe next time" . .AND SMILE . .the smile, by you being disappointed and/or sad about it, it gives her all the power in that situation . . but if you take the rejection in stride and SMILE . . that smile forces her to smile back . .or make her re-evaluate why you weren't disappointed/crushed thus her realizing her reject… | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Im not great with women, but I'm growing a pair and getting it done.I'll probably get downvoted for this . .but I was shy in high school and my first year in college . . today you would never guess it . . but the one thing that got me over the hump of shy . .was a few things . . #1 - I realized everyone else there was just like me, a bit intimidated, trying to earn a degree, have fun, make friends and trying to get laid . . once you understand that everyone, the jock, the nerd, the TA's, everyone has one of those goals . .then you will feel more comfortable . . … | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 05:32 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Being ApproachedBroNod . . I agree | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 11:02 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Being ApproachedOkay, well now that sounds like more trouble than it's worth . .and yes . . I know that psycho kind .. it's really fucking annoying. . . you dodged a bullet . . BroFistBump | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 01:56 AM |
| 3 | My Experience With Being Approachedyou're an honorable man, many would take advantage of that situation. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 06:13 PM |
| 3 | My Experience With Being Approached"Sorry hon, all my money is gone, I'll look for you first next time" then Smile | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Quick tip for restaurant dates"What did you do Ray !?" | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 12:44 AM |
| 20 | Quick tip for restaurant datesAlso if she asks . . "Are you are a God?" . . you say YES ! | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Why nice guys and gals finish last in loveThe greatest article ever written . . .the logic behind the logic not working. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 05:54 PM |
| 2 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Indeed ! | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 02:04 AM |
| 37 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?I'll share what my mom shared with me and it's worked . .every . .time . . ."I'm gonna tell how to have any woman, it's really easy.... make her smile....that's all you have to do". The addition to that is this, that all depends on the woman, some women fancy rich things make them smile, for some women just having a man to snuggle with makes them smile . .so each woman is different . .but the it's ALWAYS going to be the same thing . . . what makes her smile is the reason she'll always be with yo… | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:31 PM |
| 3 | I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My KneesUpvote for Emiliano Zapata quote | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Simple way I started picking up girls on FBYou can only do this is if you have a funny playful personality. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Simple way I started picking up girls on FBNot bad. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention?"Don't read this shirt" | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 01:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR]Did I fuck up?I agree with this guy. I'm a man whore, I always fall back on the "she's the one that gave me the go ahead, I was doing her a favor by addressing her needs, sorry bro" Remember it takes two people to fuck, you wanting it and she wanting it. I know I always want it, so all the power lies in her making the decision. That resolves any guilt on my end. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 05:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Did I fuck up?she's searching cause the reasons for being a slut tonight are outweighing her reasons for not being one | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 05:50 PM |
| 3 | How Seddit has helped me in the past few months.Thanks, you magnificent bastards.I agree. Work is your money stream, don't let women have the power to fuck up your money stream. "Also, just overall confidence has increased and ability to talk to people" . . . Fake it till you make it ! | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 05:17 PM |
| 3 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?Somewhere down the line, lean down to her ear, get close and tell her "..I really like you and wanna have fun with you" then lean back drop a BigSmile and take a sip of your drink. . . I know it sounds cheezy, but its indirect enough so it's not rude or disresepctful . . if she wants to fuck she'll know that's what "have fun" means, if she doesn't want to she'll say some shit like "we are having fun!" and that's your cue to move on . . or if she says "What do you mean by fun?" . .and that line g… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 04:08 PM |
| 3 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?Indeed, older women don't want the bs, very direct and all the other stuff is pretty much a waste of their time. I know this sounds jacked up but the 1 hour you are spending trying to seduce her she's thinking "we are wasting good sex time". | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Can you guess how long it takes for her to decide if she’ll have sex with you? [x-post from r/sex]I know I'll get downvoted to hell . .but it's true. You have to respectfully have the confident attitude of "..if you give me a chance, I can sex you up and do it soooo good" . . it makes her want to find out (that's the close) . . in 5 minutes a woman will know . . but you got to believe you can, women can sniff out the posers. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 06:02 PM |
| 5 | special type of girl: any theories/experience/advice?I dunno about dangerous, I will say that women like that are pretty special in the sense that they value independence and are "survivors". If you get in a relationship with that type, it's wonderful because her attitude is she doesn't need you at all, but if she is with you, it's because she CHOOSES to be with you. As a man, that's a bad ass feeling when a woman has the freedom to do whatever she wants yet she chooses to be with you and love you. Bring your A-game ! | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:11 PM |
| 6 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?""No" . .then lean in for the kiss . . . then after you break the kiss, softly smile and say . . "Now I am..." . . continue kissing | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Made my first ever approached today. Scared shirtless, proud, but also kind of disappointed.Gold Star . .see . .the world didn't end . . ProudOfYa . . Also being brave (in this case having balls/guts) is being scared out of your wits but still doing it . . . | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 09:52 PM |
| 0 | I pussed out again. Please help.Hey man, I'm just saying I've been through this before that's all and I'm sharing what's worked for me, that's all. I'm not in this to argue about who's right or wrong . . different style, different situations and different strategies . . As far as zero knowledge on seduction, Smile fine believe what you want cause you know everything right? . . . Just saying his strategy might be too much too soon . .that's all. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 06:28 AM |
| 0 | I pussed out again. Please help.First off, you're at a damn car wash . . no one expects any deep/heavy conversation there . . it's basic generic chit-chat to see if they are open to talking . . if they are not then move on . . .and what kind of attraction do you expect to build at a freaking car wash . . . by the way . . 42 and happily married . . just sharing my experiences that's all | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 05:29 AM |
| 1 | I pussed out again. Please help.Delusion?. . . whatever my man . . I strike up conversation like that with women all the time . . ALLLL the time . . just chit-chat bullshit to see if she's friendly and fun . . and if she's not accepting to conversation then move on . .don't waste your time . . How is that delusional ? | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 04:27 AM |
| 0 | I pussed out again. Please help.You didn't even step up to the batter's box . . . At a car wash . .let's see . . . "Excuse me, so let me ask you . . as a woman Smile . .which air freshener would you choose vanilla or strawberry ?" Her answer will let you know if she's interested. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Fucking BitchesPersonally, I'd take that as a compliment. They feel you are a threat and if other people feel that I am a threat to take away a woman from her man . . . that actually makes me feel good. This actually happened to me one time where I was having a good time with a woman at a party and her mom actually told me "..you know she is engaged" and I told her "Well, we are have a good time talking and having an innocent good time, but hey, if you think I can talk her into something more than that, well, … | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 07:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] worst fucking date everNo recovery . . he showed his true colors . . .women got their own shit to worry about . .they never wanna date a guy that brings on more shit | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 05:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] worst fucking date everRule #1 - Always have friends that can pick you up at any moments notice | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 05:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] worst fucking date everThis is what she interpreted: "I'm a whiny little bitch because another guy was there and I wanted to have sex with you but . but . .there was another guy there . .and since there was another guy there . .I couldn't compete . .and next time . .it'll be just you and me . . because I can't handle other people around . . and I'm a big whiny little bitch . .me, me, me, me . .listen to me" Your text should have simply said: "I always have a great time with you, let me know when you wanna get together… | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 05:02 PM |
| 3 | [FR] worst fucking date everDood, I'll say it . . grow the fuck up . . until you get to the level of "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter" . .your expectations are always gonna disappoint you. Until you get to the level where woman wants to fuck you more than you want to fuck her . .then you aren't at the player level you are expecting to be, that takes years son. Just fucking go out and have fun, relax and enjoy . . . the BEST sex sometimes occurs on those times you don't expect to have sex ! Trust me on that one | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 04:59 PM |
| -1 | Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself tooI wanna call bullshit because any 9 or 10 would have me hard as fuck everytime . . on the other hand you tried to play a role you weren't (douchbag) therefore you weren't honest . . and funny how the physical follows the mental | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 12:23 AM |
| 1 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.You were putting too much pressure on yourself . . . relax . . you're just talking . . quit pretending that if this woman doesn't like you and ask you to marry her and/or have sex with you the you are a loser and all is lost and FML . .no no no . . relax . . you should have only one expectation and that is to get her to talk back with you . .that's it . .that's the goal . .you need some go to questions and/or topics to keep the conversation going . . | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How creepy would this be? (point form)Until your attitude turns toward being the hunted . .and not the hunter . . you'll always come off as needed. Go make some new friends, especially with people who like the things you like. That's where you will feel comfortable and florish making friends. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 02:11 AM |
| 12 | Things to whisper into girl's ears at bars.Actually he could volley back with . . "No I'm not, but I'm working on it" To be honest, the move is an ass/douche move . . but it depends on the woman's style. Is she looking for a punk rude douchebag guy, if so here he is. "Whew, cause I plan on flirting with you and I didn't wanna be rude" | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:02 AM |
| 7 | Things to whisper into girl's ears at bars.Alpha like a mutha ! Cause if he's not she'll be forced to say "No, he's not my boyfriend" and for him to hear those very words from her voice/mouth already is a heart destroyer. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Need ideas for first date with this girl?Oh . .well ROCK on then ! | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Need ideas for first date with this girl?Just fyi . .you are over 18 . .she is 16 . .still a minor . . .that situation there opens itself up for some potential trouble. Your seduction play on the first day is to make sure she has a fun time. I suggest you wait till you get to know her better for your seduction moves. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 06:55 AM |
| 4 | I'm 20 years old. I've never kissed a girl. I'm horrendously insecure. I am very close to giving up -- I need a mentor.No problem. First off, I was 24 before I got my first kiss, I know that sounds crazy but it's true. I had jacked up acne, about 30 lbs overweight, but in the end the secret is attitude and confidence. Let's put some perspective here. If you got to kiss a girl tommorrow, would that lend itself to mega confidence? Probably not, so don't put to much weight on what you haven't done (kissed a girl). Go hit the gym, take out that angst on lifting some weights and/or running, just a suggestion. Master … | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 06:50 AM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Fair enough. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?I'll buy that. I agree. But when I was dating I was ugly as hell, so they were doing me a favor! =) | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Hey I'm married what can I say I have a skewed perspective I guess. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 02:38 AM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?haha . .I'm 42, married with children bro . . I have the dating scar wounds . . I'm all good. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:47 PM |
| 3 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?I like that . .the gift of missing you ! | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:31 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?"... I got upset and gave her a short response, she kept texting me saying she was sorry,.." Maybe I am looking too much into i, but she had to text you back to say she was sorry so you kinda made her feel like she had to? Or maybe she was feeling guilty . . this is all trivial really . . move on . .and hope it works out for ya ! ThumbsUp | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:30 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Fair enough. What I am saying is that something came up right? Probably unexpected right? Then why would you get mad? She didn't cancel on purpose so you shouldn't be MAD you should be disappointed. However, if your really like the girl you should be compassionate and understanding and know that SHIT HAPPENS. You'll come off more as a gentleman for being understanding and saying "I understand. Hope you are okay and everything is good and we'll meet up again" versus being MAD about it. That's my … | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:05 PM |
| 2 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?you're not dating to your potential if you feel you can be mad about her not being able to make a date. If anything she should be a woman that you are disappointed to a point where, you hope she is okay and you will be acceptable to rescheduling. If you feel you can GET MAD at her already, then you're dating down. I know that sounds bad, but it's honest truth bro. Unless you really could care less and it's "just a date" and if that's the case even then that strengthens the argument as to "Why ar… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 08:00 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?You got upset? Why? Just curious. Just sounds like another reason she HAD to go. =) | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:40 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?flaked out on you twice? . .and then asked you out . . Hmm . .sounds like she treated this as a "I owe you one" date and felt bad. Again, I don't know the girl so if you believe her okay. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:18 PM |
| 4 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Listen to me .. send her a message that says "I had a great time. Hopefully we can do it again soon, let me know when you are free. Smile" You're not asking or pushing, but you are saying you had a good time and you would like to go out again. You're in control but you are presenting it like she's the one in control. Sometimes asking for another day too soon could come off as needy/despearate. But "freezing her out" can come off like you really didn't have a good time. Either way, this is a touc… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:01 PM |
| 14 | OKC First Date - F-close"Not saying anything is gonna happen.." is code for "I'm horny as hell, I'm ready to fuck, don't judge me or think I'm a whore or a slut, but I have needs please respect me if I give it up cause I'm wayyyy horny and I need it . .BAD . . ." edit: Congrats and I'm proud of you, she put up her "wall of NO" to see if you were man enough to break through that wall to come get her. You did. You earned your just reward. (Hope you wore a condom) | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 08:11 AM |
| 2 | While picking up in a bar, how do i move the topic from an ice-breaker to more..."pickup-related" topics?Uh . .no . .they were already married . . BAD advice. Just talk . .about anything . .and always revert to . . "What do you think?" . .or . ."How do you feel about that?" And then let listen analayze her answer . .and that should give you a run in to the NEXT question or conversation topic . . it's a fine art . . | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 01:57 AM |
| -5 | Too much sex, not enough happinessYou're beautiful and you are using logic in your argument which for woman is really rare (and hot !) =) | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Too much sex, not enough happinessSo does the sex quench that "I need to feel wanted" thirst? Lots of people who break up, often go into "make me feel wanted and desired" sex mode and fuck anything and everyone just to feel worthy of attention. I know that sounds bad, but it's true. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Too much sex, not enough happinessI agree, if you are happy with you . .that will yield the confidence you'll need to take on the world. Your confidence is what is sexy to me, not your conquests. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Too much sex, not enough happinessSounds like you are using your sexual conquests as justified ability to accomplish something . . I know . .sounds petty and mean . .but in a way it is . .but now you have mastered that skill and so it's not fun or challenging anymore. .time to move on to other things. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Too much sex, not enough happinessIntimacy, . . it turns good sex into great fullfilling sex | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:27 AM |
| 4 | I have a hard time openly hitting on girls, not out of fear for rejections, but out of fear of looking like an idiot.You worry too much about the outcome and what other people think. If you put too much added pressure on yourself to get laid or take a girl home with you, it's not gonna happen . . you're not gonna be able to relax. Go with the attitude of "I'm here to have fun, I WANT to hook up, but if not, so be it . .if so . .GAME ON !" THAT will help you relax and trust me, women are just as nervous about being asked but the key thing is to remember . .women can sniff out nervousness and lack of confidence.… | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 05:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed?Dood . . you look like my favorite player . . Texas Ranger's 3rd baseman Adrian Beltre (https://www.google.com/search?q=adrian+beltre&hl=en&prmd=imvnso&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=o8b4T9GHHIeW2QW2y63HBg&ved=0CE4Q_AUoAQ&biw=1421&bih=762) If it's any consolation, I'm ugly ass hell too . .but I found a woman who loves me for me and I have a gorgeous son and we have a beautiful family. Just be nice, loving and a good person and you'll find a wonderful woman who can see you for you. You need confide… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this thirst for validation?Once you realize those who give a fuck about that crap are the ones you shouldn't give a fuck about, you're life will remove all that "justification" pressure. You aren't suppose to give a fuck about what they think, you are suppose to give a fuck about family, kids and the one you love (gf/fiance/wife/lover/etc..), that's all that matters. Once you get to that part in your life, you have officially grown up. (how's that for a nice smack in the face, vanity ain't worth it bro) | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 08:32 PM |
| 11 | Can someone explain eye contact to me?As far as flirting goes, eye contact rule to never forget is this . . . always smile until eye contact is made . .when she makes eye contact . . show the smile . .let her see that she made you smile. . .and she's the reason. . .it's a small way of subliminally already saying "you are special you make me smile" . .which translates to you make me happy . . . try it. When making love, eye contact is required . .especially when kissing . .it's part of the intimate and sensual sensation . . your eyes… | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] House Party.Ah youth . . remember, just cause she's the hottest at the party doesn't mean she fucks the best. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 11:33 PM |
| 1 | 6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from AssholesUh . . gammer has to go to a bar and get out of the house | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 04:31 AM |
| 0 | 6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from Assholes"Treat bitches like princesses . .and princesses like bitches and you'll never go wrong" | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Texas group to offer college scholarships to white menAs a Mexican-American/Latino/Hispanic/Brown (Whatever the fuck you wanna call me), it's about skill, desire, ambition and hard work. I do not have a problem with this, however, they need to tie it into an industry or discipline to avoid the whole race thing. For example, anglo white male who need financial assistance. I agree and don't have a problem with that and you'll find those who DO, don't like it because you are taking away their "entitlement" to a scholarship BECAUSE of their color/race.… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/11 08:15 PM |
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