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Lol that’s so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:38 AM
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This is why I love Bumble, can filter these guys out just by the first page of their profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:25 AM
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2013-ish, I was asking my male cousin advice and he told me that only ugly girls are the ones to start conversations on Tinder. Because I was starting convos and never getting responses. Hate to say it but he was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:26 AM
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Came here to say this. His advice sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:20 AM
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How long were you engaged for before you moved in together and this happened?
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 10:27 PM
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Sounds like she has nothing to loose and he does so all hell’s going to break loose. And that’s why I don’t waste my time with losers.
/r/MGTOW16/07/18 08:53 AM
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Staying in shape/fit can also be one’s lifestyle
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:20 AM
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Same haha
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:18 AM
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there's a difference between hanging out and just hooking up. Asd kicking in creating plausible deniability. Who’s gonna admit to coming over to fuck like that. ‘Hanging out’ makes it sound better even though you both know what’s going to happen.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:32 AM
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“Where is he? How come you aren’t together right now”
/r/askTRP08/06/18 06:24 AM
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He had a BPD ex (he wasn’t over). He’s too damaged emotionally in my eyes. You sound like you have a lot going for you so don’t let some guy with emotional baggage keep you down, Just knowing a small amount of info about someone’s ex and how they view their past relationships is a HUGE part of the vetting process. I’m only interested in someone came out of a past relationship a better person no matter the situation. I don’t want to hear them shit talking an ex. Saying negative things about someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:23 AM
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Taking a fuck buddy out and getting upset How do you know that’s true? Anyone can say anything about anyone, especially if it’s to their ‘benefit’. Who knows and who cares what they were. It was just a game to you anyways.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 12:20 AM
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That’s so sweet!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/18 08:53 AM
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There’s over 7 billion people in the world and life is short.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:54 AM
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“One mans trash is another mans treasure.” Favorite quote of TRP
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:46 AM
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LTR someone who also travels for work each week
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:36 AM
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I'm not a very confrontational person, Not an excuse. Take this as an opportunity to learn how to deal with people
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:39 AM
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Casually bring up in conversation a hypothetical scenario to demonstrate what you would or would not tolerate in a relationship. You should be doing this in the vetting process, way before determining if someone is LTR worthy. You can find out a lot if you discuss the right things in a non-judgmental way.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:27 AM
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Of course it makes big difference. Nothing wrong with dark clothes but save that for music venues for shows, not bars. Rocking a bright colored or printed button down shows confidence and makes you stand out among the rest.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:05 AM
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”Sexual assault is an issue at universities across the United States. What do you believe can be done to better protect women on college campuses?” Nothing will ever change unless women and the universities start taking responsibility for it. Same goes for mass school shootings. Gun control isn’t the answer. In each instance the kid was bullied so if future bullies take responsibility maybe less school shootings will happen.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 08:26 AM
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Second reading this story. Definitely have heard the evil company line and handing out pork loins before 🤔
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 08:01 AM
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Has anyone seen the episode where people can rewind their own memories and view others’ memories? The guy finds out his wife’s fling in Ibiza was a little more than a fling which she kept from him. Finds out his new baby is not his...
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:44 AM
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Do you smoke cigs? Every bar/club in Zagreb is like a hotboxed car.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 09:19 AM
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she takes my phone and puts pics of her face on my snapchat story to signal other hoes that shes with me Damn how old are you guys? I would expect this from elementary school aged kids, taking silly face pics on Mommy or Daddy’s phone. You sound like a babysitter tbh.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:23 AM
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Find a girl without a nose ring. You date someone for who they are, not to change them. It’s a lost cause.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:18 AM
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The only way she will change is when she stops getting laid bc of her weight. 5’5 at almost 300lbs?? That obese and pre type 2 diabetes if she doesn’t already have it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 08:54 AM
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Sounds like you’re her bitch and buddy companion which you mistake for her investing time in you
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:20 AM
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If you’re college is super liberal, they’ll bend over backwards to accommodate you
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:43 AM
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she got Nietzche and Cicero from other guys in previous relationships and that shes basically just integrated them into her game. 100%
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:20 AM
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Yeah why did he agree to see her so much if this isn’t what he wanted? Like the above mentioned, if he had other things happening he wouldn’t be responding back so fast to slow down the frequency and create distance.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:25 AM
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Try Plated or Blue Apron. It’s really fun!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 09:14 PM
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Yeah, what goes around, comes around
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 07:23 AM
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Don’t beat yourself up over this. It doesn’t sound like you were snooping by any means. Men vent but I can’t imagine coming across that especially if it included personal stuff. I also can’t imagine staying with someone and having it work without mentally checking out after learning of that. You both could have communicated better, especially him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 06:44 AM
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I’d take a man who’s had a bunch of shitty and meaningless ONS any day over one with a few LTR’s constantly suffering from onetis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:48 AM
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Why even bother...if not for the validation? Because one might keep fooling themselves into thinking it will be better next time with a different partner due to lack of overall experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:41 AM
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SZA, The Weeknd, some Redemption by Taylor Swift are some of my go-to’s representing today. Otherwise I love some late 90’s/00’s R&B - Usher, Ashanti, J Lo, Aaliyah, Mariah Carey, etc. Kaskade is one of my favorite DJ’s for this type of music, especially his song 4AM.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 08:41 AM
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Her: “I’m hungry and need to eat” You: “Babe, I’ve got food at home.” Even if you don’t have that much at home, say you do and if it ends up being a problem go to a fast food place later when you both need to eat.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:45 PM
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I'm actually extremely feminine so some of the 'masculine' traits I portray might send certain men for a loop leaving them thinking wtf? I live in a state where the women here tend to be more masculine and don't dress up at all, in comparison to other states. It's pretty outdoorsy and more of a dirty hippie vibe. That's not my style so if it's any indication on the femininity scale I'd say I'm in the 90th+ percentile with 98th+ percentile being visitors. The men here dress the worst.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 08:54 AM
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Thank you and yeah I totally agree. I am who I am and people can love it or hate it and I would never change who I am to please people. It's just general awareness of some things that might turn certain men off, ones who aren't compatible with me anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 08:41 AM
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Just be like “hey, I’ll be in your neck of the woods X day and could swing by to pick up my belt if you’ll be around?”
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:12 AM
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I'd let the guy lead and wait until he contacted me first etc. I used to do this and didn't work so well- that was like 2 years ago and now I'm a bit more knowledgable and self aware so I'll try it again, thanks! I'd also be really open early-on that I was dating for the purpose relationship. How early on should I be saying this? One thing I know I've done that probably comes off as clingy to a guy is thinking about something in the future that I know the guy would be into and mention he could o…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 06:32 AM
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What I said was very general since it's different each time in terms of "I'm not looking for a relationship blah blah Sometimes it's not "looking for a relationship right now" meaning they could be later? or it could be a followup with an option to be a fwb which is why I said I view this as an ultimatum on their end... Some guys say this in the first few messages or literally in their first message. Since learning about TRP I've become more playful about it and have some good comebacks so it's …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 05:53 AM
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Thanks for responding. I know the “please look at me for how smart I am” type of debater you’re referring to and that’s not my style. I’m at least self aware enough to recognize that haha. Although I’m extroverted, I more reserved in many situations and will do anything to not have to talk about myself or draw attention. I’ve become great at flipping everything to have it be about getting to know them and their story. I listen WAY more than I talk. The debating and arguing is a form of questioni…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 09:39 AM
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I was going to suggest this. Also if you need inspiration, Pinterest is great!
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 11:16 AM
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No, it will not hurt your chances if you fuck the 6. Chicks don't think about this stuff the same way that we do. Men's value doesn't decrease with each subsequent fuck... If anything, your value goes up. Can’t speak for all women on this but tread lightly if you must. It could be a huge turnoff for the 8/9 type girls. You’re status and social proof will drop especially since you’re in college and 5K is tiny af, everyone knows each other. The 6/7 girls will be bragging to everyone if your SMV tr…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:35 AM
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It has to do with your attachment style. Sounds like you’re the anxious type. The other person isn’t meeting your attachment basic needs which is why you feel depressed. I recommend the book Attached by Amir Levine to read into it more.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:29 AM
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They won't order a pizza but if there's one on the table and they're hungry, they will eat it. So chances are they just don't really care, you were the pizza on the table, right place right time. Haha
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:43 PM
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Why didn’t you ask her to join you at the after parties in the campgrounds? Thurs-Sat they go on till like 5am and everyone has their own parties within their caravan group with DJ equipment and generators. Great way to meet awesome people. Sounds like you’ve never been to Coachella before but now you know.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:38 AM
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I’m also a tall female(5’10) with 34G’s and it’s really nice to hear this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 07:53 AM
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That’s not fat, that’s obese
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 07:44 AM
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I'm 5'10 with 34G boobs - same body as Kate Upton but my hip/butt area is more pronounced that it's ever been. If a guy likes a Kim Kardashian butt or a short and very petite woman than I won't be his cup of tea since I'm tall with gigantic boobs lol. I dress more conservatively, because I don't like people staring at me. That number might say the wall but I'm not at the wall (yet) but I get your point. I don't want to age discriminate either but I do have issues with younger men and I don't thi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 02:55 AM
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I'm attracted to them enough to meet them in person and see. It's hard for me to rate myself since its so subjective and I don't like to 'toot my own horn'. I'm not going to be every man's cup of tea either because I have a rare figure that's the opposite of average. I'm in the best shape of my life since being in high school. I went through a rough patch, gained weight and have lost it all and some. I've been lifting for about 3 years and now all that work is very visible. I went from being the…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 02:03 AM
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I live in a lot of social isolation from people around my age so that's why I use the apps. I could start going places to get my work done in the Downtown area (40 min) where I'll be around entrepreneurial types. I currently do it all from my house on my laptop. I already have a expensive athletic club membership but it's not a place to meet guys. There's barely anyone in my age group who goes here because of the location and price. I only go because its close, very nice and I don't have to pay …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 11:20 PM
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I mentioned in another comment but the guys tend to be below me in terms of looks and success, especially looks. It's because my SMV or HB# has drastically increased the past 2 years, continuing, and my brain hasn't caught up. The guys I'm not outright physically into enough so that's why I need to take it slow with them to develop an emotional connection. I've had it happen within one date and sometimes I only become less interested as it can vary. If these were guys who were above me in SMV th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 09:09 PM
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Do you have any advice for how I can make my intentions clear without it coming off negatively?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 07:45 AM
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I've been taking a few months off only to try again and the first guy I meet tries this. He invited me over to hang out and watch a show I told him about on Netflix. He hasn't texted me any sexual yet but still, it's could set everything up bad to follow. I started teasing him about him just looking for someone to hangout with, that what best friends do, I'm not looking for a friend incase that's all you're looking for. I just said "I bet you'd be fun to go to ... with" He said "I do! That'd be …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 07:42 AM
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Exactly
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 07:26 AM
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Explain to us what you’re looking for in a man. In no particular order: open-minded/curious positive humble empathetic/compassionate committed to self improvement open to new experiences genuinely laughs at my jokes and can make me laugh with his has a faith/religion which doesn't need to be the same as mine responsible with money but willing to spend when needed and not stingy driven at a passion such as a career is close with his family and has a social circle and close friends wants to get ma…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 07:24 AM
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I use Tinder and Bumble on and off and I choose not to say anything in my bio about what I'm looking for - I say other things instead. "Hey, I'd love to watch XYZ at your place, I've been wanting to see that! I just want to be upfront (because I think it's important to respect your time and my own) that I'm not interested in hooking up. I had a really good time with you at dinner the other night, and want to continue getting to know you. If this sounds good to you, then great! If not, I totally …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:27 AM
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This is really helpful because I would have responded back with "I'm not comfortable with that yet.." but adding in "I want to see you but.." makes all the difference!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:12 AM
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I know what you're saying and TRP has opened my eyes to the behavior of other women in the sexual marketplace since mine is so limited due to my upbringing. The thing is that I don't pretend to be "traditional" and get nothing from "extracting resources" or receiving validation. My self worth isn't based on that and I think it's also unhealthy to have beta orbiters. Furthermore I couldn't manipulate a guy if my life depended on it tbh. Sometimes I think my mating strategy is whack and I can't do…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:04 AM
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I get asked on dates and second dates frequently and yes I do assume they want to hookup if they suggest their place for Netflix. Yes it may or may not be their intention but what's going to happen when they try something on me and I politely turn them down. It doesn't mean I don't like them. From experience, they likely will take it personally and think I don't like them and think it's a failed date. I'm not a PDA person and many guys take it personally when I won't make out with them (or anyon…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 12:53 AM
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are you saying you do expect the guy to pay for these outings (for the first few dates) until you feel there's some momentum and begin initiating dates yourself? Nothing is set in stone for me- it's just an idea. I would never say that to a guy. Let's say a guy took me to dinner and paid, I would suggest we get a drink at a bar nearby after where I would cover our drinks. You can get to know a guy just as well by enjoying watching a movie together or hanging out at his/your place without sex as …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 12:18 AM
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I’d be like WTF, is this a joke, laugh in the guy’s face, be disgusted, never talk to this guy again, feel bad for him a bit, not entertain the idea, make him feel stupid if he wasn’t joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 09:12 PM
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I’m no finance expert but consider other assets besides buying a house. Housing markets go up and down and whatnot. Are you going to buy the house in cash or pay a mortgage each month? How will you do that if you don’t plan on having an income ever? It’s very smart to be thinking of this now because you never know what the future holds. Do you have your own separate money invested anywhere that’s been growing over time? Do you have savings?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 10:57 PM
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You forgot to add she forgot about him TODAY
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:04 PM
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He sounds like a diamond in the rough tbh. It’s petty to be concerned with that. Just respect his military background and his view and right to the second amendment and learn where he’s coming from if you are unfamiliar. On the spot you don’t need to know what you think about it but good for you for talking about it with him. I think it’s great to be with someone who brings diversity into your life as this sounds like it could be the case for you. It would be boring if you both agreed on every s…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 12:10 PM
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It’s what TRP calls oneitis. Avoid these guys at all costs. They are not relationship material and not over their ex. Same would go for a woman going on and on about her ex.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 01:59 AM
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I’ve used Meetup and had success finding female friends who like to travel and go to music festivals. It worked great when I lived in NYC and didn’t know anyone. I’m also closeted politically conservative and I don’t think it would be good to find likeminded politically conservative people. It also depends what city your in. I would love to meet other likeminded females, even RPW females so I get that’s it’s not easy meeting females who aren’t liberal feminists. Fortunately I get enough intellec…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 01:57 AM
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I can’t think of any better representation than the current Taylor Swift. She is who she wants to be and has remained independent, despite pressure from the entire feminist left. She’s been pressured to condemn the President, be apart of the women’s march and publicly supporting planned parenthood. These left feminist groups advocate for ALL women’s rights yet they speak up for only those who agree with them. They’ve been attacking Taylor because she doesn’t do what they want. She’s definitely t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 10:10 AM
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I agree that this would be very emasculating to your BF. He’s 32 and you’re 26? Who would be more senior in their position? If you see marriage in the future it’s not worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 11:05 AM
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Is anyone going to bring up Roy Moore? There’s a big difference between him and let’s say Al Franken. It’s he said, she said. No provable allegations have been brought towards Moore where with Franken, the picture is the smoking gun. Part of the yearbook signing was admitted to being falsified so the whole thing falls apart. Of course Moore is going to deny it. Who would admit to something that’s not true. Franken, Weinstein, Lauer, Rose all admit to it. Anyone can say anything about anyone. It’…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:24 PM
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Being a good mom raising the kids is one thing but it sadly doesn’t make up for the part of settling a horrible example. Is she at risk for Type 2 diabetes? Pre Diabetic? At the rate she’s going she’s slowly killing herself. So the kids think it’s alright to be that heavy and unhealthy? Are the kids going to be at risk for this lifestyle?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 11:09 AM
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Your n-count should be no ones business but your own, especially with someone new. It’s incredibly rude for a man to ask or talk about it early on. It also might set you up as being plate material where it’s mentioned above that (leading with the n-count being a big topic) makes it out that you might be good for sex only, not relationship worthy. You’re more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 09:19 AM
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Law & Order: SVU did an episode along the lines of this. Episode was about a Mom who was willing to do anything to get her son accepted into a good school so she slept with who she thought was the dean of admissions. The guy lied and pretended to be the dean and was a janitor at the school who preyed on vulnerable Moms. The DA argued the suspect should be charged with rape for having sex under false pretenses. It was hard to prove and I don’t remember if the episode showed the outcome. It was on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 10:21 AM
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I did this to my second bf when I was 14 because I didn’t know any better and barely knew how to talk to boys. I can’t imagine doing this as an adult and having an adult man putting up with it. My 14 year old bf didn’t haha.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:28 AM
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She’s into interracial porn and she’s in an interracial relationship. Maybe it’s what she gets off on. You’re too sensitive!!
/r/askTRP11/10/17 06:50 AM
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Not true. There’s plenty but the only way to survive is to be a closet conservative.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:02 AM
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It’s not as good for that because it doesn’t show mutual interests and likes where as Tinder does. It’s not bad but it’s going to make it harder.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:00 AM
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First of all don’t ever tell any woman what your generalizations are on political parties and behaviors. It won’t get you anywhere. Tinder is a good way to know is someone is more conservative or liberal. Like conservative organizations on Facebook then it will show you if someone has any of those in common with you. I pay attention to those and can tell which guys have good taste in music like me so I swipe right sometimes just because they like good music. Also look at which school someone wen…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:20 AM
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What do you mean? This is usually how I am when I go out on dates or with a friend to protect my time from getting wasted. I act the same in any situation regarding confirming and texting each other when we are heading out. If I don't hear anything and it's getting close, I'll confirm myself. I won't lift a finger until I know it's actually happening. Do other people do this too?
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:53 AM
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I'm a female. I won't bother to start getting ready for a date (hair, makeup, clothes) until everything is 100% confirmed. I'm in communication with the guy as I'm getting ready and heading out. I've never been stood up and I've never stood someone up. You could set a time, place, location but why would you just show up without communicating or confirming it. That's sadly how guys get stood up so easily.
/r/seduction19/09/17 10:54 AM
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You haven't said what type of Greek organization you're apart of. Is it a IFC, NPHC, Independent or Multicultural organization? Each organization is different and will have different views on your situation. You're doing the right thing by not lying about your age and being forthright. Also consider your future when meeting a woman later on. Most women may frown upon the fact you're still doing the fraternity thing at your age. I'm talking women 22 and up.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:52 AM
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