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| 10 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)I also want to add that just because you disqualify 7/10 people on looks alone doesn't even mean that other guys do the same thing. Your sample size is one. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)A belief you hold on what grounds? Are you seeing how your position is irrational yet? | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)You made this assumption on what grounds? | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 12:57 PM |
| 2 | My hot 17 year old neighbor wants to be FWB. I'm 26. Is this an awful or awesome idea?could backfire if she's calibrated wrong. | /r/seduction | 04/08/11 07:37 PM |
| 31 | Some opener advice from my improv teacher"Hit me. I fucking dare you." | /r/seduction | 02/06/11 11:11 AM |
| 13 | Flirting over text?You could have put these all in the same post. | /r/seduction | 27/05/11 10:35 AM |
| 4 | My secret that has been perfect (5/5) in getting women in the friend zone to get attracted to mehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXf0yIRcdnI | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 09:56 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Physical Push Pull lands me a 5 minute bus stop K-closeElbows facing outward. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 11:55 PM |
| 2 | From the guys that brought you Penis Pickup: Internet Meme pickupThey're certainly doing something in LA/OC. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 08:51 PM |
| 8 | From the guys that brought you Penis Pickup: Internet Meme pickupHe did the "has anyone really been far" completely wrong. Too many pauses. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 06:49 AM |
| 7 | first dateHow unfun. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Some QuotesReminds me of hitchhiker's guide | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Moment of realisation while chatting to an afc.Use the safari app | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Seddit via Skype, Ventrilo, etc.No one is ever in the IRC. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 11:02 AM |
| 6 | How to tell the difference between flirting and being friendly?It's not the line that works. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorLike, right by USC campus? | /r/seduction | 12/11/10 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Hey seddit, want to get back with a girl I was seeing over a year ago, need advice.Drinks? Later? | /r/seduction | 07/11/10 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, if you ask a girl if she has a BF and she says yes, what do you say next?I told her that's not the point. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, if you ask a girl if she has a BF and she says yes, what do you say next?This is before I started reading any pickup material even. Even without that I know it's easy to convince people of almost anything if you catch them off guard. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Hey guys, if you ask a girl if she has a BF and she says yes, what do you say next?If she is out socializing without her boyfriend present, they can't be that close, so assume she is available, because she's making herself available. Heh I tried to explain this to my ex when she wanted to go out dancing without me (while we were dating). She didn't understand, and assured me she wasn't looking for anyone to hit on her/pick her up. I told her that's not the point. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Be Less BoringBut then you can't use it to gauge interest. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Be Less BoringI'm going to try saying "Hey my name is...," trailing off without saying my name, and then asking hers. | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Sedditor LocatorYou really know how to flatter a guy <3 | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorNice. I live around there when I'm not in school. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardMakes sense. I'm an engineer though. I'll need to do some serious schedule-fu to work it in. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardI just see it going like this. -sees random person walking in the opposite direction- Me: "hi" Person: "uh hi..." Me: -smiles- Person: "is that it...?" -starts walking away- | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardHey, you see that fountain? What's with that?! | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkward:| | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardI've wanted to do this but every time I think about it I realize I've nothing to say. | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 12:47 AM |
| 5 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardhttp://reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 12:16 AM |
| 1 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...Eh, I don't normalize my scale. | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 09:08 PM |
| 2 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...who knows? in this case. | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do...The funny thing is where most products lie to you when they imply "use this product and be surrounded by hot women," these employ truth in advertising. | /r/seduction | 07/09/10 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Anyone in LA have a lair recommendation?I go to USC. shrug | /r/seduction | 06/09/10 07:02 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your tricks for number closing online?good point. | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 03:31 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your tricks for number closing online?If you have a reliable way to contact someone why the hell do you need a phone number? Just say "I'm picking you up, where do you live?" | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Upgrade the date or flake out?I disagree. | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 06:03 PM |
| 14 | Upgrade the date or flake out?(girl game, so pathetic). Well it worked. | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Married woman expressing IOI. How to proceed?Word word BALLS UP! | /r/seduction | 30/08/10 05:54 AM |
| 6 | OKC: Breaking the cyberspace barrier? w/ some short FRsI think you're coming on too strong. You have to act like you don't care, more. | /r/seduction | 22/08/10 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Things I've learnt, No-one told meI wonder what kind of sound they make. | /r/seduction | 18/08/10 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Things I've learnt, No-one told mea lot | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 08:48 PM |
| 11 | is there a /seduction that's aimed at women seducing men?You're asking what to change about yourself to nab the guy you want. Then you insist that you want to nab that guy without changing yourself. You should think about what you want. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Escalating on the dancefloor.15 minute lays sounds more like Rave Game than Dance Floor Game. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Intermediate PUA in London for the next week. Anyone for a sarge?Upvote for exposure. If I were in London I'd be all for it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 12:05 PM |
| -3 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!No faith necessary, bro. Tangible results. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Sedditor LocatorHaha so many people are doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorI have a feeling that those with throwaway accounts may not be so keen to participate. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 06:37 AM |
| 29 | Sedditor LocatorLos Angeles Edit: I've been upvoted twice. Who else is here? | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 06:33 AM |
| 20 | Sedditor LocatorCalifornia | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 06:33 AM |
| 29 | Sedditor LocatorUnited States | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 06:33 AM |
| 2 | i want to know what i'm doing...That's a great approach, I'm sure you'll be fine. I encourage you to stick around and do some reading. Remember you don't have to apply anything in any ways you don't want to. You're still and autonomous person. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Where do I start?awesome thanks | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Any tips or strategies for picking-up girls in my pizza delivery uniform?Feel like you're awesome anyway. If you feel like you're at a disadvantage for whatever reason, it'll show. Most people realize that what you're wearing isn't your choice if you're in a uniform. It shouldn't be a big deal. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Where do I start?Hey in the future do you think you could use mediafire for uploads? It doesn't have a queue time or a cooldown :\ | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 02:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lazer Tag, in IM formatheh | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Getting flaked on and how to deal with itJust not setting up anything would be her trying to get you to chase after her. Actually setting things up and then flaking is a different story. I think you should react "coldly." Work on getting a date with someone else. If this chick calls you back, great. If not, you already have someone else. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 01:17 AM |
| 6 | i want to know what i'm doing...That's a good philosophy about anything. But it sounds like you're assigning a negative spin on the community based on preconceptions. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redditor that are a proof PUA material actually works ?My mind jumps around sometimes haha. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 11:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lazer Tag, in IM formatCalifornia, yo. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 11:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lazer Tag, in IM formatI'm not doing anything. I specifically backed off when I found out their ages. I didn't ask them for contact information at all. We'll probably never see each other again. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 08:46 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Lazer Tag, in IM formatWell if they weren't underage. Also sorry for the format. I won't do it again if it's worth so many - points :P | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 07:40 AM |
| 0 | Are there any redditor that are a proof PUA material actually works ?Alcoholics Anonymous? That's not a scam bro. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redditor that are a proof PUA material actually works ?If you've already read the material, then you shouldn't be worried about being scammed. Either you already paid for it, and the "scam" already worked, or you read it without paying for it, and you're in no danger of being scammed. Unless you think hundreds of people you don't know are all part of some elaborate plot to make you personally look like an idiot. I don't know what you're afraid of, as far as trying this out. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Any one hang out in IRC?freenode won't let me on with mibbit. I suggest we move to rizon. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Seddit - just found out you were here. Wanted to celebrate my two f-close Saturday night.I'd laugh. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Seddit - just found out you were here. Wanted to celebrate my two f-close Saturday night.Well he doesn't have seddit to set him straight ;) | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 08:02 AM |
| 16 | Hopefully this will put your anxiety in perspectivemy current wallpaper | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Seddit - just found out you were here. Wanted to celebrate my two f-close Saturday night.It just sounds like he was using the standard canned opener described in The Game. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 04:53 AM |
| 7 | Seddit - just found out you were here. Wanted to celebrate my two f-close Saturday night.a guy w/ three girls asks me for an outside opinion about some relationship issue their friend is having. Sounds like you ran into another prospective PUA trying to pick up the girls around you :P Edit: sounds like he was also bad at it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 03:35 AM |
| 1 | FR: Assorted PackHaha that's clever. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 03:05 AM |
| 3 | David Wygant - Don't fail her first test... Doesn't this go against what we know about game?Yes. By framing it so that she is "testing you" and you "don't want to fail her test," you are setting yourself up to be manipulated. You know how you "don't fail" shit tests? You act aloof - like it's not a test. The way to pass a shit test is to not give a shit. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 11:56 PM |
| 2 | FR: Assorted PackBoyish girl sounds like a bitch. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 11:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A little field report this time, same girl...I'm not sure I got a great sense of what happened from your post, but it seemed like you were kind of just flopping around. You can't forget the pull part of push-pull. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 11:34 PM |
| 1 | PUA in Tokyo - Post 0I have a rather impressive job. Does your apartment smell of rich mahogany? | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How one guy bought be drinks and was ignored and the other had me eating out of the palm of his hand. A FR of sorts from a girl.:) | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How one guy bought be drinks and was ignored and the other had me eating out of the palm of his hand. A FR of sorts from a girl.I wouldn't pick you up. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 07:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first number closeI didn't realize that was a thing, but now that you mention it I notice that I've seen it a lot. I don't really have an opinion either way. As far as "bad teeth" go it's pretty neutral. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 07:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first number closeYou sound pretty smooth, man. Thanks for the read. Also you're in Japan right? Maybe kissing her would have been a bad move, culturally. Aren't public displays of affection kind of taboo there? | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 06:59 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Being Used?She's push-pulling you and you're just going along with it. You should be taking control of the situation (and not buying her shit before she sleeps with you, what the hell are you doing?), and the fact that you're not, in her mind, gives her license to fuck around with you. I'd say give up on her. It's a win-win because either you freeze her out / show her it's not working and she realizes the ball's in your court, or you find someone else and start from the beginning. Then you have the opportu… | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 01:21 PM |
| -2 | This girl is SOOO hard to talk to!trolling response? | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Any good IRC channels?I'll idle there if enough people show interest. Also if you need ops I'll volunteer. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Direct GameHaha if anyone ever told me "You need to leave" from a public place I'd call them a creep. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Good luck. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Turning Around a Bad Situation, Like a Gentleman. - FRI just want to say this story made me smile. As far as your question, too eager isn't about timing. You and she both know why you're dropping by. No, too eager is about attitude. When you get there you need to smile and be cool. Neg her or whatever; pretend she's not the reason you came even though you both know it is. Talk to other people. Make friends with half the people in the store. Keep the frame under your control, and demonstrate value. Make her make an effort to keep you there. Anyway, … | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Don't qualify yourself to me :P | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?You give up way too easy. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?I wouldn't like "wait two days" or whatever. That kind of thing is dumb. But don't like rush to do it RIGHT NOW. I'd say do it when it feels natural. Probably next time you guys speak. You may be over analyzing the situation. Hell she may even be over it by now. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Hey if it means that much to you and the opposite means that much to her, then you probably should find someone who is compatible with you. Honestly, even if I thought the joke was fine, I'd still apologize for not considering she might not appreciate it. I went through a whole "if you're offended by me it's your problem not mine" phase but I'm over it. I realize now that sometimes you have an obligation to make those around you feel comfortable even if it's less than ideal. So, no, don't apolog… | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Yes that's exactly what I mean. Sorry if it was confusing. My point is, begging for forgiveness is not a position you ever want to be in. If you make a heartfelt apology and the person isn't willing to forgive you, that's on them. Prostrating yourself over it is less than beta. Obviously if you killed her dog you'd have to do a bit more than apologize, but you still should only really apologize once. Then find out how to make it up to her. Apologizing again won't fix anything, no matter what you… | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Oh yeah also if you do go the apologizing route, don't try to explain yourself. Say something like "that was uncalled for; I apologize" and then reassert your frame. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Haha that's just awkward right there. Only real advice I can give you is don't apologize for anything more than once. And if you do it once, make sure you mean it and it comes across that you mean it. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Wiki: Here it isDoesn't feel like a wiki to me. Tried editing a page and it doesn't seem like wiki markup either. Also I couldn't figure out how to get to each page's discussion page. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Direct GameI love how sensationalist you are hahaha | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 09:15 AM |
| 1 | NEG?Maybe. I'm a guy. I see your double standard, but on an intellectual level I don't like it. But you have a point. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:38 PM |
| 1 | NEG?Nah I'm sure it'd get the person to establish value like crazy. Between you and she I don't know if it'll cause any problems. But between you and me, I just don't feel like it's kosher. Maybe that's because a while ago I would have done some serious self reevaluation if someone had "negged" me with the word stalker. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:30 PM |
| 4 | NEG?I feel like there's such thing as coming on too strong. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Dont know where to start - or how to finishhttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/ I think this should be stickied. Edit: It is stickied. I must have missed it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/10 02:40 PM |
| 8 | I have a Friend who is coming over tonight. I have a hard time of escalating things with her. Any help quick would be appreciatedI don't know why this guy is getting downvoted. When done appropriately, this is pretty effective. | /r/seduction | 29/07/10 11:50 AM |
| 1 | He who laughs hardest surrenders his status. Thoughts?That's fair | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 11:32 AM |
| 9 | He who laughs hardest surrenders his status. Thoughts?I think you've got your causation wrong. An alpha controls whether something ought to be funny in the group. If he laughs less, laughing more is weakness. If he laughs more, laughing less is a sign of weakness. The ability to control the tone of the situation does not make you alpha. Being alpha allows you to control the tone of the situation. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:19 AM |
| 0 | Attractiveness scale?Because the scale is completely arbitrary, I can assign any number as the median and any number as sigma. And I want a good 86% of women to fall between 4 and 6 on my scale. 12.6% in either direction one more value. etc. | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness scale?As a pedant, I take exception to that. And technically even if the domain is 1 to 10 it still has a range from 6 to 12 or 5 to 11 or whatever people seem to stick to. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness scale?Hell even Niel Strauss calls some chicks 11s. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Attractiveness scale?Most people's scales seem to range from 6 to 12, for some reason. I prefer to use a less inflated scale. I don't think I've ever seen a 9. I've never seen a 10. I'd call a 7 gorgeous. 5 is average. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 10:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First kiss close ever.I'm not exactly sure what I'd say if she said yes. "How friendly?" seems creepy. | /r/seduction | 20/07/10 10:31 AM |
| 3 | FR: One month now since "No Excuses" and "Overcoming Crippling Approach Anxiety"You've got to do it once and see that you have nothing to lose. There's nothing anyone can tell you to make your anxiety magically go away. | /r/seduction | 20/07/10 09:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the best source for infield videos?Youtube. Name a PUA. Type [name] in field. Enjoy. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 11:43 AM |
| 7 | Meeting randoms: how do you say you're interested in friendships, not flings?I've had to convince a few female friends of mine - as well as girlfriends - that if you're attractive, straight guys don't want to be your friend. If they were your friend and you make it perfectly clear that you will never be interested in them, they are no longer your friend. It's unfortunate. It's also untrue. I can think of a few counter examples off the top of my head. But it's still a very prevalent thing and you find an exception, appreciate him. For the most part, a girl's guy friends a… | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 12:07 PM |
| 1 | I need some self-confidence for todayIf you keep going and not saying anything it might get creepy. You should definitely make a move soon, or forget about it. | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 11:25 AM |
| 4 | First Field Test and a Call to arms for PUA in Waterloo, OntarioThat's actually pretty funny. | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.I understand what it sounds like. I realized that while writing it. But not everyone who plays tabletop games is a complete loser. I'd like to prove it to you but I'm not sure how. | /r/seduction | 01/07/10 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.You're probably right. I had a girlfriend until recently (and a few before her), so I mean I'm not a total loser, and I have a great group of friends each at home and at college, but when we hang out we pretty much get on computers, or play tabletop RPGs, or whatever. A few of them do that and go out and party and be social and whatnot, so I might join them next year. But yes I have trouble talking to new people - people I don't know yet. I guess I need to work on opening. Once I've met someone … | /r/seduction | 01/07/10 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.Unfortunately I don't have any hot neighbors. Also I was under the impression you're supposed to try to pick up people that you'll never see again. | /r/seduction | 01/07/10 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.I haven't learned any game yet. Started reading about all this stuff like less than a month ago. And I haven't exactly been doing nothing else, either. | /r/seduction | 01/07/10 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.Makes sense. I'll see what I can do. | /r/seduction | 01/07/10 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.Problem is I sit in front of my computer all day, and I can't just "go out" because I'd have no idea where to go. Also I'm 19 so I can't get into a good many bars and clubs yet. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.I'll keep it in mind. I'm not even a lurker yet. "Starting off" doesn't begin to apply to me. I figure I'll actually start being social when I go back to college next semester and by then I'll have picked something up. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 03:36 PM |
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