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honestly married or not it would help a ton to have a partner who can help you with your child. Yes single parents are amazing and can do it on their own but in no way shape or form is it easy. Hell a two parent household isnt easy either but having a supportive partner helps a lot. I think this post is mostly about anti-marriage and not the latter because not everyone with kids are married. Not everyone who isnt with their child’s mother is paying child support as well. I always told my bf as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:24 PM
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i was thinking the same thing! I would be extremely offended if Im having sex with a person or even giving them head and i look up and theyre on their phone. I can understand if its an emergency call (certain family members) but even them you are lowkey letting it ring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:57 PM
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maybe they fit more of his wants. If Leonardo the type to party, loves drinking, and not settle then I can see why he would keep going after women under 25 (not saying women who are under 25 all party and etc because thats not the truth)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:59 PM
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I get that, but im sure if he wanted deeper advice like that, he would go to his dad and not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:06 PM
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Worry about yourself and they’ll come to you. In college some of my guy friends would worry too much about having girlfriends or getting laid that they missed out on great experiences. Now that they stop they all have girlfriends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:48 PM
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I think for me is a person who is different. i remember when my grandma died I told everyone that and literally the amount of “let me make you feel better” messages irked my soul. In my time of despair you want sex. The only guy who actually told me if I need a person to talk to he’s there but he will give me some time to grieve is the person I wanted the most and ended up dating. Our relationship was awful though but I respect how he came at me in the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:58 PM
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the fact that OP refuses to give definition and told us to use our own imma say they are beta. I just dont understand how the person settles but they are naturally passive. why be with anyone if you truly dont like them in the first place? you cant be craving intimacy THAT much to put your own self worth under another person just so you can say you have a gf or a bf. So my perception is a little different because I cant wrap my head around “settling”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:53 AM
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in my other comments you would see me explaining my perception of them personality wise so im aware (:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:50 AM
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thats the thing he never explained the definitions of either. So everyone who is saying beta have their different views of what beta is. Beta to me is yes perhaps passive but i see them as emotionally and romantically involved someone who go up and beyond for his SO and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:56 PM
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thats what comes to my mind for beta too. Maybe passive but he is super sweet, willing to go out and beyond to please you and etc i would love that lol long as he has some form of a back bone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:54 PM
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its not. a fuckboy by definition is more than sleeping with people its how they treat them as well which isnt always good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:51 PM
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I agree, I graduated not too long ago but everyone who was dabbling into that phase actually settled down and either have a gf or is married. I asked one of them what happen and they told me “it gets old”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:47 PM
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Beta. More ownership, responsibility, mature hopefully and etc. I feel like they would have a more solid foundation in general than a fuckboy who main goal is how many people they can sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:44 PM
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having kids dont mean you have a family. so just because they have a higher chance of reproducing doesn’t mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:42 PM
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i like this answer. I feel like guys who are just friendly and nonchalant makes it easier vs just straight up asking a girl out after seeing her for the first time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:39 PM
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is that what you want or is that what your SO want?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:06 PM
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cant be forced if you enjoy it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:05 PM
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exactly! you cant have one without the other, probably the gifting can be optional but the others make a solid relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:04 PM
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that’s so sweet tbh. I would be super scared to drive across country in a snow storm but honestly putting your fears aside to be there for the person you love is something a lot of people cant do. glad you realize that and made her the one (:
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:02 PM
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Honestly I go based off their love language so this is hard to answer lol. But going off of mines im torn between A and E (female) edit: if i had no other choice but to receive one or the other I’ll pick E
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:57 PM
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you aren’t. But I do know women who were faithful but simply pissed at the guy for wanting the test because they see it as disrespect. I can see it both ways but at the end of the day if the guy is thinking its his child and hes helping out and all he wants is a test to just confirm everything then why not? I can see if he just completely wasn’t there for the 9 months because he wants the test first then I would be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:38 AM
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if you want to take the test go ahead. I feel like the only time I would be mad is I did cheat and dont want to know the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:12 AM
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i understand. wishing you well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:41 PM
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I can understand where you are coming from. it doesn’t bother me because I cant control a person’s past and what they’ve done before me so high or low it doesn’t rub me the wrong way but I can see myself being a little self conscious if I only slept with one person my whole life but my bf slept with multiple
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:31 PM
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a hoe phase is permanent? We can agree to disagree on that lol. At first I couldnt see myself settling down but when the right person came along I am perfectly fine with him talking about marriage and etc with me. I still love the excitement and thrill of doing spontaneous sex though and bringing in new things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:29 PM
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how does knowing a person body count get to know them better? if anything i would be asking about fetishes, sexual fantasies and so forth. We focus on that vs past partners that dont mean anything. I tried that with guys and they’ll too be busy focusing on rating them and who was the best and so forth. I just dont see the point of self torture. Im sure my bf has been with plenty of women and dont care to know where I stand in the mix of them as long as we are enjoying our sex. Also im 23 and gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:13 PM
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probably not NEED it, but I won’t lie I have felt some type of way with guys who didnt have a hoe phase and felt that it was going to come when we would date. Maybe its projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:23 PM
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sorry, looked at your title and automatically comment. I personally feel as if everyone needs a hoe phase. Idk how many people men and women included would randomly get bored in their relationship and crave attention from outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:16 PM
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this! after the age 20 nobody asks and its extremely childish. Im a highly sexual person I love exploring that side of me so it didnt take long for my bf to notice that maybe my count is high but he doesn’t care because that doesn’t define me lol. There’s other things to worry about as a standard than a person with low or high count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:09 PM
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everyone do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:04 PM
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but could you say you dont need it because you never had it? I wasn’t focused on sex until I lost my virginity and then it became a big part of my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:00 AM
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It honestly depends. I think out of all my friends I am the most sexual but they still feel like sex is needed probably not as much as I think. But intimacy -sexually is important varying from people to people. For me it matters a ton as long as me nor my bf is sick or busy I personally want sex multiple times a week. I dont think I could handle a sexless relationship, I like it way too much but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:59 AM
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but the ones who have high paying jobs do. People always skip over this factor. I’ve seen woman physicians and lawyers pick up lesser caseloads compared to their male counterparts because of wanting to be more involved with their children/family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:26 AM
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We definitely still care about looks. The only f-ed up thing about it is if we say it then were stuck up or materialistic and so forth. I don’t search for tens but I don’t accept bummy looking people either. How you present yourself (hygiene/look wise) says a lot about how you take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:59 PM
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I never take first date seriously when it comes to restaurants. Long as we eating and having fun it doesn’t matter. Materialism won’t take you far
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 12:28 PM
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