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It’s a bit of a paradox to be attracted to women in revealing outfits but being turned off by the act of dressing in revealing outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:11 AM
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Kinda think I look good recently but wonder if I should really go all in (man)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:40 PM
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Ig it’s normal but it’s weird how many women who I don’t match well with that I find attractive. Maybe it’s cause social media really rewards certain types
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:11 PM
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Well like I put effort into being attractive/fit but I don’t care that much if other people especially online think I’m attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:59 AM
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Seeing some women I know post so many pictures of themselves online illustrates to me how different people can be. It’s particularly interesting to see how much people value physical appearance/theirs while I don’t as much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:57 AM
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Tough pill to swallow but maybe I’m completely insignificant to my crush
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:30 AM
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🤷‍♂️. Compare for example men and women’s social media profiles for 3 minutes and you can see the pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:22 PM
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Sometimes it’s like women are programmed to display their physical attractiveness. Do you think men have a similar equivalent, if so what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:45 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could just stop thinking about women at will
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:40 PM
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Women have a much greater want to be perceived as attractive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:41 PM
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I guess I wonder how well you have to know someone to consider them a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:02 AM
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I’m in my early 20s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:56 AM
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What’s the line between acquaintances and friend. And friend and romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:45 PM
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I never see guys thirst trap as much or with as much success as women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:44 PM
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What’s the male equivalent of thirst trapping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:51 PM
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I really struggle with differentiating platonic vs romantic love. Any advice for telling which is which? Also I personally don’t have much rizz or friendship rizz (not saying that’s a bad thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:51 AM
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I didn’t realize the difference was that large 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:13 PM
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In terms of guys I know, I’ve seen so many spend a surprising amount on gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:13 PM
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It confuses me how some college/university women especially have expensive lifestyle, like I know some that are going on trips, wearing expensive clothing(or well took a lot of time to make) and eating at pricey places
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:55 PM
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We probably aren’t THAT compatible so eh but idk how
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:57 PM
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She probably had a crush on me, I kind of have a crush on her but she’s in a relationship rn. We kinda frequent the same place so we’re bound to interact semi frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:54 PM
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I have such a complicated relationship with this one girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:49 PM
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Why do some people want validation so much especially those who are already in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:57 AM
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I do not understand the psychology behind thirst trapping
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:08 AM
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I can’t tell which is which 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:26 PM
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What if you are good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:23 PM
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Tbh I can’t tell when women want to be friends vs are flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:25 PM
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There’s some people she does the opposite with how odd, I’ll just assume it’s purely chance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:23 PM
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She is in a relationship but it’s not disclosed on those accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:12 PM
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Yeah that’d make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:09 PM
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A chick follows me with her side account but not her main what does it mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:47 PM
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I just realized someone’s voice affects greatly affects how attractive I find them…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:34 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:58 PM
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Your definition of 8
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:43 PM
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What does htn mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:41 PM
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Logically I think going for the 8 is the right choice but I’ve met the other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:33 PM
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Would you rather date someone that’s like an 8 in all your boxes or someone that’s a 10 in most but 4/5 in a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:30 PM
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I feel like so many more women than men have an unhealthy relationship with their appearance. What does a healthy relationship with your appearance look like? My pov: if the amount of time and effort you put into your appearance is interfering with your career or your personal relationships it’s an unhealthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:22 AM
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Mhm, I see, socializing needs is an interesting concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:22 PM
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Something I don’t understand is what makes someone relationship compatible vs friendship compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:15 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:42 AM
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Instagram: Sometimes it surprises me who views my stories and who don’t but it probably says more about how they use the app than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:31 PM
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A decent amount want to be valued for their appearance with none of the objectification and valued for their personality or other merits with none of the expectations that men have such as being the primary bread winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:56 PM
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I kind of get it but it’s like they want the best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:48 PM
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It confuses me how much validation women want for their physical appearance, it’s definitely a case by case situation though. A lot of women are like they don’t want to just be valued for just their appearance but then operate in different ways. Thirst trap, put makeup on , compliment others on their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:40 PM
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It kinda gives me the ick when straight people make jokes about being gay and the like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:53 PM
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❤️😍😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:32 PM
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This is a possibility I already have some friends who dance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:37 PM
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Interesting, I like physical activity so perhaps that’s something I can get into
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:36 PM
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Trivia and running seem like something I’d enjoy, might start doing those if there’s some in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:35 PM
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Bonus: give date ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:46 PM
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What hobbies have like decent gender ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:43 PM
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Yeah that’s what I want to get
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:19 AM
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How much should you rely on your partner to make you happy? I see so many couples who are like codependent and I see how it happens and it’s something I’d like to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:44 AM
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The best method👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:29 PM
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How do you casually get someone to reveal their relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:17 PM
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🥴, well I’ve gotten over past crushes, still think about them occasionally but don’t really care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:08 AM
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Pretty + funny and same interests as me… but she’s now in a relationship so I need to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:34 AM
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Getting over a crush is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:28 AM
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Do you have a height preference? I’m a guy but I prefer taller than average women (I’m like 5ft10 and I find women like 5ft7-6ft2 to be my ideal height)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:53 PM
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Twox is entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:22 PM
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Pretty privilege is very real btw, attractive people are just assumed to be better individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:36 PM
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Although sometimes it’s hard for me to tell what’s the line between them doing their job vs flirting showing some interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:20 PM
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Yeah good point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:17 PM
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What if you then see the same woman again but when they’re not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:00 PM
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You see a cute woman but they’re working what do you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:53 PM
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How would you guys rank college majors/careers by prestige
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:52 PM
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Yeah healthier diet and fashion seems like the consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:04 PM
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My look is nerd or athletic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:35 PM
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Nerd or athletic I personally don’t like wearing jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:11 PM
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Early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:03 PM
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True any specific advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:01 PM
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I kinda think immediate thing is spending a little more on groceries and eating healthier foods
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:56 PM
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What to do with money and how to spend it effectively to get women(?). I feel like having my own place and car would increase my ability to get women but realistically I won’t be able to do either for like 2 years min, any other good money advice? I already have a gym membership
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:50 PM
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I promise you it won’t get that far
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:38 AM
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Potentially gonna meet a couple girls this week any rizz tips
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:32 AM
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I guess I know my ideal type, but tbh I have some dealbreakers and if I appeal to one demographic more than others I should shoot towards them a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:10 PM
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Or complimented on my outfit, sometimes I’ve even had random women take pictures of me (which I found was weird)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:45 PM
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Don’t use dating apps but I am fit, put a decent amount of effort in my appearance and occasionally get compliments and attention on my looks in my day to day life. Like sometimes I’ll randomly get called cute or whatever when I pass by women and women will stare at me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:44 PM
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But how do you tell it all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:25 PM
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So I think I should be shooting my shot at women in the same socioeconomic ish class that value looks more than they do status
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:25 PM
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Keep moving on in life try to meet more women, I’m a a bit confused on like when I should shoot my shot though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:31 PM
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Man a lot of people I’d try to date are already in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:24 PM
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Yeah that’s an option idk about special treatment though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:05 AM
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In what setting should I ask someone out in and how, there’s someone I’m interested in going out with that I see somewhat frequently but she always seem busy and idk her relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:14 AM
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True I guess I have to concede on looks (but I just wouldn’t date someone I don’t find attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:51 PM
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I don’t necessarily mean thin, just that the body type im most attracted to is say basketball/soccer/volleyball/rugby athletes and it’s definitely not a hard line. Yeah that alimony thing is something I hadn’t considered, realistically being in the same or +- socioeconomic status should be one of my top priorities. Just that I’m not sure what exactly is my female equivalent and if they consider me in their league(?)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:16 PM
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Physically(?): athletic and/or artsy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:48 PM
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I’ve interacted with celebrities and may do so more often in the future so I’d hate to date someone who thought being famous meant much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:31 AM
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How attracted are women to popularity in general? Personally to me it seems like women are more impressed by celebrities but by how much(?) and which type of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:22 AM
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I guess but I don’t want to waste time if I don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:55 AM
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I wonder what type of women I should be shooting my shot at/ what’s my league. I’m average/slightly above average height, fit, I suppose I’m considered good looking, I randomly get compliments on my appearance sometimes. Stem degree (?) <- not sure who this impresses most
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:29 AM
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Todays national bf day, looks aren’t the most important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:08 PM
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Not annoyed just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:01 AM
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Why do women compliment other women on their appearances so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:08 PM
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How can you tell if someone’s trustworthy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:41 AM
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Well 30-40 hrs of free time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:23 PM
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I have ~40hrs of free time per week I can spend on anything when you remove my prior commitments. Money I’m willing to spend I’m not sure what’s normal, and also don’t want to heavily invest either my time or money if I don’t think it’ll work out long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:19 PM
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What’s a reasonable amount of time and money to spend with someone you’re dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:47 PM
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I meet so many more women obsessed with romance than men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:19 PM
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In general are men more aromantic than women, like do women feel love more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:16 PM
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Women don’t realize how much of an advantage they have in social situations, I’ve heard women say things that would land men in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:52 PM
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Chasing women seems like such a waste of time, attractive women get so much attention (a lot of them are low level attention). As a man why shouldn’t you just take that time and invest in your career/education?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:03 AM
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It goes both ways for quiet guys and talkative girls not liking each other. Social awkwardness being punished in guys but not girls sucks but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:02 PM
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Anonymously on the internet doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:53 PM
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Movies definitely have an impact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:35 PM
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I wonder if I’m just wrong for not attention seeking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:17 PM
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I’m definitely an npc but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:56 AM
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Very, I couldn’t stand dating someone who doesn’t live a smart lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:19 AM
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Good friends keep it to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:26 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:02 AM
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I don’t get why people get fussy about women going for attractive men, men literally go for physically attractive women more and there’s a significant amount of personal input into your own attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:27 PM
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Whatever activity you like most that has a social scene
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:24 PM
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I think what men and women who struggle with dating should do: be more attractive socialize more not auto reject people because of arbitrary standards more critically analyze their dating choices: this holds especially for women, too many are overly passive when it comes to dating which attracts a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:05 PM
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Lilith is like a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:48 PM
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The optimal situation is a friend of a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:07 PM
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I think everybody should be trying to be more social irl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:04 PM
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Horny, insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:44 PM
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There’s plenty of attractive women in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:30 PM
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Age? Also the difference between 5 and 6 is small
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:43 PM
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"The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:28 PM
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They kinda do it for themselves/other women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:26 PM
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They’re treated worse to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:25 PM
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I think the main thing is that a decent amount of women crave attention to an unhealthy degree. Ideas for why they crave so much attention: social conditioning from media + society social media/modern society being too rewarding and addicting for the attention hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:17 PM
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It’s entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:02 PM
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Tbh using this method it seems easier for men to pump and dump than for women to find a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:03 PM
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What would be the equivalent for a woman to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:16 PM
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Very insane
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:16 PM
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I think it’d breed insecurity to get continued social proof in a long term relationship? Occasionally it’s fine though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:24 PM
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-When women give compliments to other women like : “you’re the prettiest ” “any guy would be lucky to have you🔥😍”. When a woman disagrees with another woman but doesn’t say so face to face, frequently they’ll vent about it in private tho, men are multiple times more to disagree publicly. -Dating wise plenty of women are dishonest about their preferences to seem more socially acceptable like the plethora of women who are like “ height, looks and money don’t matter it’s all about personality”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:18 PM
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Some basic social skills are needed like not making people feel bad/uncomfortable. Just being shy is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:30 PM
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Women do plenty of white lies to gain more social approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:59 PM
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At initial attraction, social proof matters greatly. But the traits attributed from lack/excel of social proof are better perceived from actually interacting with people. And say in a relationship, you’re gonna spend most of the time with your partner effectively 1on1, so logically it could only matter so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:27 PM
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Social points
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:23 PM
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Deeply so for initial attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:04 PM
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I guess it’ll change as I get older but in the spaces I frequent it always feels like women are leagues above men on the social ladder, just because they’re women. I wonder if it’s just a me thing or if this is the reality of the modern world and the social media age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:17 PM
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Appear pretty/ have clout
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:37 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:17 PM
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Cappers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:59 AM
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I think I care less about sex than other people and I would feel rationally insecure being with A
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:03 AM
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On dating apps and cold approaches women are a lot more selective than that and people assume those are the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:55 PM
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C then B then A
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:53 PM
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Both swinging more towards biology, i think currently men are more socially inhibited than women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:16 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:35 AM
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Video games sports
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:45 AM
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What’s the other half?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:27 PM
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Women have always worked
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:54 PM
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Because they tend to have status
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:46 PM
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Water retention makes sense, I’ll try to up my electrolytes and see if that makes a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:44 PM
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Sometimes my jawline looks fire but a lot of the time it is mid and I don’t really get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:24 PM
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Simps ruin it for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:56 AM
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Couldn’t tell if it was romantic or not but 2 classmates have asked me for my number
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:30 PM
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Better quality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:07 PM
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It’s just not realistic for most men to only use dating apps and expect to succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:39 PM
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I’m kind of trying this, or at least to consume more content made by women/for women, so far I understand why a lot of them aren’t popular for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:49 PM
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Good thread for discussing the differences in male and female socialization, both have their good and bad points
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:35 PM
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But what’s so unique about hunger that it can’t be satisfied by healthy/low calorie foods? A big issue is how accessible high calorie foods are and how inaccessible healthy foods are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:07 PM
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Overcorrection on purity culture of
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:00 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:30 PM
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As a man I would enjoy no strings attached sex with the majority of attractive women, that’s just how men’s sexuality works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:44 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:34 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:01 AM
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Often times it’s mentioned as a good place but like who talks at bookstores
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:45 PM
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It’s great advice but it isn’t easy for a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:23 PM
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There’s a relatively high virgin rate in young people focused on education and career. Don’t know where you meet those people though. Behaviour wise filter out people who party a lot, always dress for attention or have friends who do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:13 PM
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Because of the type of women you’re meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:51 PM
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They’re purposely giving edgy answers to get attention, not representative of all guys but too many
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:12 PM
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Personality is subjective so looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:19 PM
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Women are excellent at black box testing, men are better at white box testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah you should always make decision that are best for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:13 PM
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If you’re single it’s fine but weirder the closer you are to them, in a relationship it’s wrong to do it to anyone you could realistically cheat/interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:34 PM
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Eat less and don’t just workout your abs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:23 PM
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Research says men prefer women 3 inches shorter them, women prefer men 8 inches taller than them and the average man/woman couple height gap is 5 inches https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:21 PM
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Even worse if you’re aiming for internships or have a part time job
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:32 PM
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Most university programs have egregious gender ratios, most stem programs are massive time and energy sinks AND you’re not getting payed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:30 PM
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Are women really hypergamous with respect to status? Like are women rejecting men because they’re less popular than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:28 PM
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Nah but sometimes it seems like they’ll purposely go near me to egg me on to shoot my shot, i think if I frequented places with more women they would
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:08 AM
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I have goals for myself which happen to place me in the top but I don’t really care how I’m doing relative to other people unless I have to be better at them to reach my goals. But I really enjoy competitive games
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:57 PM
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Sexually, men by a long shot. Emotionally/romantically probably around even
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:48 PM
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Good attention > too much attention > no attention
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:33 PM
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Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:28 PM
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I’m ok with like 99% of people seeing me as an NPC but like there’s 1% where I don’t want them to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:16 PM
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I wonder if the women I meet think/talk about me or if I’m an NPC
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:50 PM
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“My friends are Ed, Edd n Eddy”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:54 PM
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Be more social
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:43 PM
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Looks aren’t everything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:58 PM
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Not that much for a woman like HER
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:17 AM
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Ageeeeee, young women are a lot more in demand than young men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:58 PM
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Maybe 30% are inherently social and lucky enough to meet potential partners without trying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:37 PM
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Why is he Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:15 PM
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Popularity is a lot closer to a zero sum game than the stuff men compete on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:50 PM
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Double digit by 18 is crazy, 95% is unmarriable, the 5% who are marriable is those that only did so because of their environment and who had a change in environment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:18 AM
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I don’t think anyone would prank me like that, only way I’d think it was a prank is if she had friends behind her laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:44 PM
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He’s the 1% yeah, personally I just don’t understand people like him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:34 PM
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I wonder what I’m at
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:15 PM
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This is a topic I find super interesting. It seems deliberate and yet if the goal is to make the characters more realistic they’ve failed at that, but rather than presenting the ideal from men’s pov they present it from women’s. Most of the time “ugly” characters are confident,strong and tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:13 PM
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Have you ever had people take pictures of you randomly? 3-4 times where I think girls have done so 1) kinda weird 2) what do you want from meeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:30 AM
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I hate having a crush, PAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:25 AM
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If my personality remains the same it’d be easy af since I meet so many men through school/work/hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:45 PM
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I’m decent at it but I clearly don’t enjoy socializing in nearly as much situations as others do 🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:02 AM
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Not necessarily, what’d you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:59 PM
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A lot of time when men complain about women’s easy access to sex, they don’t acknowledge quality of sex as a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:11 AM
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People overrated the wall but the general idea is that women get less desirable as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:56 PM
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Extra motivation for gym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:57 PM
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His physique takes a lot of work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:52 PM
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Depends on the woman. There’s inherently a bigger imbalance of power in situations like that, which some women should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:51 PM
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Remember the thing with Keke Palmer and her bf? Well it seems like they’re back together. A lot of women attacked her bf for what he posted. But keke’s back with him, does dick brainwash women or were the women who attacked her bf just virtue signalling?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:50 PM
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If he really makes 10.5 million a year that’s nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:27 PM
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Men’s bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:08 PM
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Lots of studies corroborate that men are more alone than women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:41 PM
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🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:41 PM
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Not socializing enough Not knowing what women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:23 PM
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Women will still reject most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:24 PM
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Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:39 PM
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🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:31 PM
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There’s no downside to like your profile if they think you’re a catch. 99% chance they get rejected but 1% chance you’re into them for whatever reason. Irl it’s different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:26 PM
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Why are some people comfortable showing skin while others aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:20 PM
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I think straight women especially don’t like bi men because the sex card is a lot weaker on them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:33 PM
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Hoping to get lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:06 PM
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9 but she might just be good at putting makeup on and posing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:37 PM
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Benefit so long as you’re not dating someone who’s low libido/ doesn’t care about sex much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:17 AM
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Sadge
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:20 PM
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Social proof is king
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:13 PM
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Watched the Barbie movie, pretty good, although I feel like it was made to be most relatable to 30-40 year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:56 PM
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Husband’s money is so much more conditional than your own money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:10 PM
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Freud was right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:02 PM
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You should still stop the roids, not worth the health complications
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:10 PM
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But it’s just so much easier for 2 extroverts to meet than 2 introverts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:33 PM
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It’s an extrovert’s world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:11 PM
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They always appeal to the largest demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:04 PM
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Gotta be smaller than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:57 PM
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(Man) Haven’t yet, maybe in the future if I have my own place and I’m looking for hookups I will
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:48 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:26 PM
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Since men make the first move 95% of time, in practice men go for the same women more than women go for the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:50 AM
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Banger, peak masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:42 AM
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A bit, since metoo men are more aware and don’t approach women as much, but women haven’t stepped up and started approaching, so the end result is that there are less relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah cause guys irl have social proof
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:22 PM
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You have the potential to be hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:25 AM
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5/10, better haircut would immediately boost you up at least a point, the eyebags are hurting too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:24 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:54 AM
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She’s still good looking and she has some health conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:09 PM
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Validating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:09 AM
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Diet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:33 PM
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some personality traits are universally attractive: such as a certain amount of confidence & social skills some personality traits are more rewarded than others in the dating market (at least in terms of quantity): Such as being open to risk taking behaviour, enjoying activities the gender you’re attracted to do, flirting and other attention seeking behaviour. some personality traits are attractive to people who are compatible to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:50 PM
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Online there’s so much talk about male female friendships but IRL people pretty naturally segregate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:43 PM
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Never met a single Chad in my life then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:36 PM
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What is your definition of Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:30 PM
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I’ve only seen a certain type of women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:54 PM
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Yes, I don’t think they’re insane, you gotta realize that the goals of their posts is just to feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:53 PM
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Because looks matter more for gay men, they put more effort into it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:39 AM
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In looks a lot, in behaviour not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:31 AM
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Women hate insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:14 AM
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⁠Seems psychotic to me to sleep with so many women. Like why? ⁠That date hookup rate is suspicious. I bet he either goes for women greatly below his league or is just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:31 PM
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Not every women is the same, the ones saying women can detect misogyny possibly aren’t the same ones getting into these situations. For the most part it’s not really accepting it so much as it is just not detecting it or thinking that’s what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:24 PM
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Predatory men are good at targeting vulnerable women and there’s a bunch of psychological and practical reasons for people to stay in toxic relationships. A small minority of toxic men act good in the beginning and then become toxic as the relationship goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:57 PM
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100, lost a lot of points from questions about experience and extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:46 PM
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What the hell, why are people brainwashed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:25 PM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:16 PM
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(Never is an exaggeration but the gender ratio is always skewed)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:28 AM
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I see many women with attractive bodies but I never see women working out, what’s going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:27 AM
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Raw looks 6/10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:46 PM
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Bad settling is going for someone you’re not attracted to for what the relationship can do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:43 PM
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It’s interesting how homophobia affects male male and female female relationships differently. A lot of straight men are careful with how they interact with other men in order to not be seen as gay or feminine. Straight women don’t need to be careful in the same way with how they act towards other women, but in exchange lesbians aren’t taken as seriously and are heavily fetishized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:38 AM
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In reality like go with like. These men probably also have a decent body count and they have a strong preference to date someone at their level of fame,money,looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:28 AM
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I’d give her an 8, I don’t think she has particularly blessed features
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:02 PM
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No, typically it’s better money wise to have 2 partners that work and the dynamics of a stay home partner isn’t healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:42 PM
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Fine with both, although I will judge her if she has bad tastes in ships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:42 PM
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Abusive and I wonder what went wrong for her to think that he’s the best she can do and that she needs to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:15 PM
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Pretty much, but it does work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:30 PM
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Celebrities are weird, you can’t really extract much from them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:47 PM
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The ideal Chads according to redpill are exceedingly rare and don’t have a noticeable impact on the dating market. Like tall, fit, good looking, rich, propensity for casual sex and the personality to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:41 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:47 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:46 PM
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Depends on location and age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:25 PM
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Depends on location and age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:24 PM
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AFBB
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:08 PM
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Social proof is king
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:48 PM
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Celebrities are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:37 PM
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I figure it’s cause women derive more of their happiness from socializing which is on the decline and pretty erratic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:39 PM
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Can’t believe that jealousy subs exist lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:51 AM
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Age is a big factor in thus
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:02 AM
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Not gendered but - talking bad about someone behind their back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:31 PM
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Trashy to attack someone’s partner. If my partner was deceitful about her past, then I found out, maybe I’d break up. In this case it’s really not a surprise that Nina’s been with a lot of guys, she’s publicly been with a decent amount of popular celebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:27 PM
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The self respect leaving my body when I see an attractive woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:52 AM
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I choose to believe the post isn’t real. What I’d do in that situation tho is give her the ick by describing embarrassing moments of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:37 PM
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That guy was cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:34 PM
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If it’s suddenly and hard there’s probably a specific reason, it’s probably innocuous but it’s worth investigating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:22 PM
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It’s that people see the difference between small numbers as being greater than the difference between big numbers, because it’s a bigger %.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:54 PM
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There’s also that some people love the honeymoon phase
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:12 AM
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I cringe when I see women describe tall as an attractive trait. But I don’t really understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:31 AM
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I feel bad for those guys, I don’t think what they’re missing is women, I think it’s low self esteem and other problems in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:35 PM
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Everybody wilds out a bit online cause there’s no repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:40 AM
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They’re clear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:14 PM
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Nah, it’s being in a relationship with someone who engorged in alpha fucks that makes you a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:12 PM
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It’s somewhat real, some women seek casual relationships when they’re young and then switch to seeking a more serious relationship as they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:40 PM
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Completely normal, I’d say try to do things your own way and cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 PM
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AFBB is partially true, some promiscuous women do settle down for “betas”. Do women who adopt such a strategy make worse long term partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:56 PM
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7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:28 AM
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Fired
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:01 AM
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Until they’re comfortable to have sex and their confidence that the guy wants a relationship with them is worth the risk of getting ghosted after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:19 PM
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If a guy just wants sex: he’ll try to give the “right” answers instead of his own opinions will seem very interested from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:05 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:20 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:54 PM
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Unfortunately some of us have some morals. But fr I think actual body count is unimportant, the context that they have sex in is important though and you can surmise that by other means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:23 PM
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https://arcr.niaaa.nih.gov/volume/40/2/gender-differences-epidemiology-alcohol-use-and-related-harms-united-states One of the upsides of men being less social than women is that they’re drinking less alcohol at a young age. I wouldn’t be surprised if the difference is more magnified in urban places.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:18 PM
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No what would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:15 AM
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Looks are probably the most important thing when it comes to attraction. But the better looking you are the less difference it makes to be better looking than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:32 PM
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I think the last sentence isn’t true. IRL, women get with partners that they like but aren’t their ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:26 PM
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My thoughts too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:58 PM
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Most important thing although there are diminishing returns
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:40 PM
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It seems like men have a bigger problem with women’s preferences than the reverse, what’s up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:23 PM
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Your options are pretty hurt at that height. If you’re good looking, masculine personality and have money(more always helps) you can probably still get good women shorter than you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:53 PM
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romantic literature ignores the problems the real world relationships would have they go for the biggest audiences instead of hitting every niche fantasy portrays ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:35 AM
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Fantasies are just that, fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:01 AM
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Women get lower sex drive the longer relationships go on, it’s observed in lesbians too. Other than that - one or both partners becoming less attractive - life stresses - bad initiating processes for sex. Like the initiator should respect nos, the rejector should reject softly and it should never always be on one person to initiate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:33 PM
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Diminishing returns after 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:01 PM
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Where’s the full post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:33 PM
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Only women who are nice themselves see niceness as an attractive trait, and even then it still ranks lower in importance than stuff like looks, status and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:39 PM
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Not such a surprise, people who lose weight quickly tend to not do it in a sustainable way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:26 PM
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Need money to live independently, comfortably and have a safety net in case of emergency Friends and hobbies I guess is up to personal choice but I can be happy without a good partner while I can’t be happy without those. If you use your partner to get all your social, emotional and entertainment needs you’re placing too much burden on them and you’re screwed if you break up or anyone falls out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:55 PM
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Money, friends, hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:18 PM
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What’s important is the ulterior motives behind people validating you. Women will often compliment friends to be nice and men will often compliment women just to get in their pants. If women who don’t know you randomly compliment you, you’re probably attractive. If men give you signs you’re attractive without overly trying to get laid you’re probably attractive, ex: you catch them looking at you, they seem to be nicer to you When men get complimented on their appearance they can take it more at …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:36 PM
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N count doesn’t correlate heavily with sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:42 AM
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And yet women still report worse mental health 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:24 AM
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Fine 🫡, I feel bad for infertile women who wanted kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:25 PM
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Do you want to date the type of women that will reject you because you say you’re 5ft7?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:54 PM
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How men do relative to other men isn’t important. Women care about how they do relative to her. You can see this in action by observing the dating choices of educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:23 PM
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I wish there was more information on social proof, from what I’ve seen it consistently increases attraction, but I haven’t seen much on how it affects women’s actions. Like women see men who are alone as the least attractive and see men married to attractive women as the most attractive. In between its probably something like men with friends < men with attractive friends < men who other women find attractive < men who are getting openly flirted with < men in relationships But at what point will…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:10 PM
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Yeah but the guy would have to be way out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:17 PM
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Not accurate at all, but women want doctors lawyers engineers with that level of confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:06 AM
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Just no just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:38 PM
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Interesting idea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:27 PM
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Not enough people haven’t realized that it’s inefficient nowadays and women would be content to have all the hard stuff put on men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:13 PM
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A lot of guys on here seem to overrate the amount of attention women get and how much random attention translates to dating success. But attention is pretty beneficial to mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:29 PM
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Pretty useless stat then since most women don’t have regular casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:01 AM
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According to people who believe in the 80/20 rule, why are more than 20% of women ever in relationships? Also people over-exaggerate how hard and beneficial it is to be a top 20% men. Technically a decent amount of people I see at the gym or university are top 20%, but they aren’t dramatically advantaged since they’re also aiming for women who are roughly equal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:37 PM
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I think she’s bluffing about being willing to live within her means and is purposely making it seem worse if she does so she doesn’t have to. I think he’s kinda an ass or foolish for drastically trying to change the financial aspect of their relationship deep into it instead of early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:24 PM
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Depends on the age bracket and location for the first statement. Most single men are not bitter sad incels ™️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:57 PM
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Who you meet is a biased sample. you’re a lot more likely to run into people who are similiar to yourself otherwise you wouldn’t cross paths you’re more likely to meet people who enjoy socializing and have less barriers that prevent them from socializing When women say most guys they know don’t have issues getting into relationships or sex, they’re probably mostly telling the truth, but guys they know is not representative of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:41 PM
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Hugging someone vs a pillow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:30 PM
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Good childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:29 PM
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So true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:46 PM
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Desperate for physical intimacy and to be sexually validated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:26 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:37 AM
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I go to the gym The rest I don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:47 PM
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I am 4 and 3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:01 PM
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Both absolute and relative to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:47 PM
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Men don’t care about height much, it’s women who do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:41 PM
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Some traits are immutable others aren’t Anything that’s a skill can be learned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:40 PM
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It’s not only toxic women that toxic men end up with. The dating script a lot of normal women operate on allows toxic men to pass so long as they play the “role of the man”. Are these relationships successful? I think women would say no but a lot of men would say yes since they’re getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:15 PM
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No like none, like shown 0 interest by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:57 AM
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25% of male users would succeed *
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:31 PM
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People who only use dating apps and then complain about the dating market are trolling. 1) the format: a bio, pics of yourselves and 1on1 online conversation are not efficient ways for women to gauge and like men. 2)gender ratio: only 20% of the userbase are women. Assuming attraction was random only 20% of male users would succeed through dating apps, but obviously women would aim for the top. Also this has the effect of making men desperate and wasting the time of women who they are not into.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:23 PM
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There are absolutely men who have 0 options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:03 PM
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It’s so annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:49 PM
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4
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:30 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:29 PM
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Quality attention still matters
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:34 PM
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Trick question, all of them except maybe 4
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:54 PM
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Because it just doesn’t matter that much, the reason why short men still exist is because it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:45 PM
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Yes, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:44 PM
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Signals good health
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:59 AM
1

When comparing people in the same environments: Drug usage Game (ability to show interest and notice interest) Standards Are greater predictors of how much sex they’re having than sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:26 PM
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It’s up to personal preference, but I say after since exercise increases hunger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:04 PM
1

Depends on your own interests, also go out with your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:45 PM
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I think a lot of guys in male dominated spaces don’t realize how abnormal the gender dynamics are there when it comes to dating. Dating wise you’re better off increasing the amount of places you’re meeting women instead of pining for the women with multiple times more options than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:19 PM
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I think it would be better if there were more women in positions of power but there aren’t enough women who want to do it. Men are benefiting from society but for a lot of men it is not satisfactory compared to their contributions and the restrictions on their behaviour if they desire to obtain a partner and do not have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:18 AM
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A lot of men are only putting up with stuff on the assumption they’ll get laid. For example: the amount they contribute to the economy, military draft, gendered expectations on how one should act. There are less behavioural expectations women need to live up to in order to obtain a partner, so whether women get one or not is less relevant to their satisfaction of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:02 AM
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Men probably want to be leaders more than women but they aren’t any better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:08 PM
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don’t put up with behaviour you don’t want to, if you feel like you must then make some unreasonable demands of your own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:53 PM
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The boost in attractiveness from makeup isn’t that big, what’s crazy is that it allows people to be attractive when they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:17 AM
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Thighs are tastier
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:01 PM
1

Chicken or eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:39 PM
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This is kind of just an online thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:44 PM
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People who crave validation tend to engage in damaging behaviour when they don’t receive it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:25 PM
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You have to pick between attractive people vs people into the same stuff as you, while social people can get both more easily
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:11 PM
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It does seem like social people are more physically attractive. I think it’s that there’s more incentive to be physically attractive when you’re around other people and the gender you’re attracted to. Sucks for attractive people with more solitary hobbies 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:41 PM
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Negging
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:10 PM
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Only facts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:03 PM
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Don’t see much outright disagreement but a lot of people aren’t acknowledging the gender ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:56 PM
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How is this an unpopular opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:50 PM
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Warrior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:08 PM
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The information gained isn’t very useful but women are very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:44 PM
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There’s not much direct competition? Compared to say sports or video games which boys spend a lot of time and effort on. Teachers in general do a great job with what they’re working with. And it might not be worth changing the system since it works for girls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:52 PM
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It’s not by intentional design that the school system is easier for girls but it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:35 PM
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It’s more so how the material is presented and evaluated on that men struggle with. A school system designed for boys would be more game like and maybe have more competition between students
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:30 PM
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Fine, sex and first dates aren’t the most important thing in the world and for what I want (a quality relationship) it’s not substantially harder for men to obtain than women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:07 PM
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School system just so happens to be designed in a way that allows women to succeed more than men. It rewards obedience which women have an easier time with. Also there’s more careers easier for men that don’t require college education.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:54 PM
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If there is it’d be to look at very unattractive people a lot, then when you’d see a more average looking person they’d seem a lot better looking by comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:54 PM
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Yes and that’s not a bad thing, chasing sex and only sex is not goof
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:32 AM
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A common complaint for age gaps relationships is “what would you even have in common?”. Which is a fair point but it’s also a rather recent affair that technological advancements have intensified generational gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:10 PM
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The dose makes the poison and difference between female and male sexualities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:50 PM
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Still holds and you can always break up if you think you’re not sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:11 PM
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What costs/risk does dating have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:00 PM
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Even if you think sex is the end all be all why should you think that holds for casual sex? You typically get more and better sex within a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:42 PM
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Less so than men since they’re more people pleasing and less likely to take a hard stance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:38 PM
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Smart man 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:35 PM
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I think the first one mainly comes from women who use dating apps, don’t think I see the second one often?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:48 PM
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But a lot of predatory men prey on autistic women, don’t think the reverse is as true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:08 PM
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What’s the consensus advice women give that men are supposedly ignoring
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:09 PM
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1.Looks 2.Status 3.Compatibility 4.Resources But you can get a failing grade in any of them, which will make a woman not want to date you. Looks increase status Status tends to increase resources Resources can increase status and looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:59 PM
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I think women are more social but where they get ground on men is by doing things with pre existing friends. Like going to a concert, the mall or the gym with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:30 PM
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Either ugly or unapproachable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:02 PM
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A good diet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:18 PM
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More random attention than your peers + looking in the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:02 AM
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Just a difference in how female and male sexualities work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:33 AM
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The cracked part about being an extrovert is that it’s easier to meet more women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:27 AM
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Most men have to put more active effort into the early stages of dating and women too often give politically correct answers instead of the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:29 PM
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Yes to both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:52 PM
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I don’t think acting platonically towards a woman makes her lose interest in you/auto friendzone. Imo too many women have stories about unrequited crushes for that to be the case. But bending over backwards to be friendly is a waste of time and effort. Also if she’s into you, she won’t solely act friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:19 PM
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Boobs: no control over size, has decent effects on dating and status despite providing little innate advantages. Only thing missing is that there’s no relative aspect to it, mostly everyone likes the same boobs. While for height it’s based on the height difference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:30 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:24 PM
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There’s a lot of them (beauty).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:24 AM
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Yay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:04 AM
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I’d feel bad if I led someone on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:41 PM
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Short term, like suppose there’s 0 chance it becomes long term because you’ll relocate for work in a couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:45 PM
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Suppose dating long term isn’t an option. example: you’re gonna relocate for work in a couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:13 PM
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Irl how do you even say or advertise you’re looking for a casual relationship without being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:31 AM
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If you’re attractive no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:30 AM
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Yeah it’ll build a little bit of muscle, effect depends on the intensity however
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:11 PM
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What % of women want casual sex in a non self damaging kind of way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:01 PM
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8 inches taller
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:46 AM
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Real. It’s not that women are malicious but being a “nice” person does nothing for your dating life and boys would be better off with different advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:46 PM
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What’s important is to have attainable measurable goals. It’s fine to be motivated by wanting a romantic or sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:47 PM
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I don’t think it’s that, I think it’s 2 main things. 1) Men are more likely to choose their careers based off money and power since that boosts their status and relationship success. 2) Men prefer things and women prefer people and right now that swings in the favour of men. It’s plausible for that to swing the other way, for example medicine and elderly care could become more lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:34 PM
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Sex? Yes. Romance? No. Although it’s possible that men choose to be friends with women they find attractive to a greater extent than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:09 PM
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More or less agree, although women should try to establish themselves financially and the pool of successful men available and into them when they’re on the younger side is of questionable quality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:30 PM
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Because women go for more successful men, they date older men, if you think that’s better than dating men their age then your opinion is correct. For this conversation I think it’s worth remembering that birth control as we have it is rather modern. Before, sex meant kids. Now you can choose if you want to have kids and when you want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:36 PM
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I don’t, although women could get a fuckbuddy, most don’t want a fuckbuddy and quality fuckbuddies are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:28 PM
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Maybe, although I don’t think a lot of women like the fuckbuddy arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:20 PM
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Anecdotally young women are staying single for pretty extensive amount of times too, except for sorority type women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:07 PM
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Nope, although people value others just like them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:12 PM
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Yeah I disagree apart from brave and pro-social behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:05 PM
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What do you consider good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:00 PM
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No but men used to get away with literally anything in marriages because of the societal pressure to stay together and laws against divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:00 PM
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Yes but men nowadays get 0 of the benefits that they used to (and that’s not bad)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:50 PM
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You can find higher quality relationships if you spend money effectively (put it into looks, socializing and in general the lower stress of having money). If you’re looking for any relationship you can flaunt your money with expensive clothes,car,house and mentioning your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:10 PM
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Weird to say it like that while talking about how young women are in relationships more than young men. 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:06 PM
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Best bet to find single rich men is probably expensive male dominated hobbies like attending sport events and stuff like golfing. To find single rich men that are lonely/have no friends? They’re probably married to their job so you’d have to catch them there (apply to male dominated industries that pay well)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:00 PM
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Well it’s what’s happening
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:00 PM
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It’s less common than looks matched but rich or charismatic men do shoot above their looks league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:13 PM
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By your logic you could say women find less people physically attractive than men do but that doesn’t make it that men are less physically attractive than women. If you evaluate men by women’s standards they do better than women (height) and if you evaluate men on men’s standards they’re equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:07 AM
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The line is subjective but in general clothes that accentuate body parts considered attractive and wearing them for that purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:56 AM
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Good luck,I think the trick for making friends in uni is joining school clubs and staying on top of classes so you have an easy thing to talk about with classmates
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:53 PM
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It’s gaslighting that women are more physically attractive than men. For one yeah no duh women would put more effort in their appearance since men care more about appearance than women do. The second thing is that men are more physically active than women and of those active they tend to do resistance training, which has a bigger effect on aesthetics than women’s main forms of physical activities. However there is an argument that most men should be putting more effort into their looks especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:49 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:32 PM
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The most important part for me would be that she has a healthy relationship with food. Like not stressing over everything she eats but also being health conscious enough to eat mostly healthy and have portion control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:40 PM
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I feel like nearly every attractive women has a large social circle because looks can carry women in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:57 PM
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Massive invasion of personal space and disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:17 PM
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Either go lighter, eat more (especially protein and vegetables), sleep more or work out at night if you can. Also if you’re just getting started it will get much much easier soon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:13 PM
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Hol up 👨‍🍳
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:10 PM
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Yeah, 3 main takeaways - some women flirt easily and a lot - opposites can attract - a decent amount of people hide parts of who they are if it doesn’t conform to expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:16 PM
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Yes and yes. Although a lot of people would find it much more difficult to stay hard/wet and orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:21 PM
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It’s odd to think that by being “myself” I’m not the object of women’s attention, except to maybe boost their ego. Women dress up and try to sell the best versions of themselves and yet it is not for me. If I want that to be for me I must go out of my way to meet women, I must initiate and I must escalate. However that wouldn’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:48 PM
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Not socializing enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:45 PM
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And as an individual you can become more attractive over time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:58 PM
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Only true if money not an issue not grinding for internships or grad school in an easy major (for you) no heavy gender ratio in your major at a party school/one with a good social scene
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:58 PM
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Is it only insecurity to not like women who post thirst traps? Or does it make for a lower quality relationship? or is it fine but a thing that may cause incompatibility for some? I kinda think the lens of social media makes posting thirst traps too rewarding so it might just be something guys have to accept 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:13 PM
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This is true but status matters for “SMV” and you can convert money into status
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:44 PM
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Yeah at least for lower and middle class. There’s far less women marrying and staying in marriages because they have to for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:26 PM
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Women’s standards dramatically and rightfully increased from getting more rights and no fault divorce and the normalization of such things. In recent times women’s standards are artificially inflated due to the more asocial nature of modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:22 PM
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Quite easily, only like 10% in the world are 6ft or taller and most women care more about other things than height
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:28 PM
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I wonder what it’s like to be a man in female dominated spaces. I know in the reverse women get swarmed with attention
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:53 PM
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-Whether they make an effort to be around you or initiate conversations. -Body language (like eye contact, open towards you, smiling or laughing a lot, bits of physical touch and trying to be physically close) You can never be 100% sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:19 PM
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2 years of being a working adult in the same area and trying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:41 AM
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Men do want it, just less so than women. Also if it wasn’t clear I’m talking about platonically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:06 PM
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Probably mostly due to biology, women are particularly vulnerable when pregnant and after giving birth so friends were a lot more useful to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:18 PM
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Women crave attention/validation more than men and it’s easier for them to get it through their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:20 PM
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A little, the narrative is kind of that enjoying seeing hot women is wrong and that approaching uninterested women is a moral failure and not a social failure, that is disproportionately put on men due to gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:00 AM
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Not enough information but so far ✅she has a good head on her and she’s attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:24 PM
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It’s valid that women feel attraction differently and so it can be harder for them to find someone they’re attracted to than it is for men. BUT young women still have it a lot easier in dating than young men and it’s weird how people act like that isn’t the case, especially when it’s mostly young men who complain about dating struggles. Most women’s preferences are “~my age or slightly older”, most men’s is “~my age or slightly younger”. But as an adult man, it’s weird to date high schoolers whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:37 PM
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In general men don’t compliment men on appearance so that they don’t get seen as non masculine and women don’t compliment men because it gets misinterpreted as interest. The end result is that as a straight man dressing yourself attractively is usually not a rewarding activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:25 AM
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Nah, women love talking, it’s just that the topics men and women like talking about are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:42 PM
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Yeah just weight loss and maybe muscle gain (idk how much you weigh and what the rest of your body looks like so I can’t tell if you’re a little overweight or at a good weight but with a mediocre/bad muscle to fat ratio). Your face isn’t ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:41 PM
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No surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:36 PM
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You’re not ugly you’re average, you could probably become above average if you lost some fat and put on muscle with a workout routine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:11 PM
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Women online make a lot more sense when you realize they’re just venting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:08 AM
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The optimal is friends of friends. But ask out your friends if you think it’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:11 PM
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Not quite, it’s fine to compliment on traits that aren’t sexual like hair, eyes, nails, figure. And generic compliments like you’re pretty/cute/beautiful/handsome are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:17 PM
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Women show me a decent amount of passive interest but rarely ever compliment me physically and when they do it’s safe stuff (like instead of saying they find me attractive they’ll say nice shirt or shoes even when they’re nothing special)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:54 PM
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The women in these cases have such inflated egos
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:50 PM
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Banger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:04 AM
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Historically women needed men to be competent as women are in a big position of vulnerability when pregnant and after childbirth. Also newborns require a lot of attention. Confidence is used as a measure of competence. It’s a false equivalency especially for young people and women don’t need competent men as much due to better healthcare, maternity leave and control over reproduction (birth control, abortion, education about safe sex) but old habits die hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:53 PM
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Spoken like an extrovert
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:06 AM
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Social proof is rather important, but what should you do when you meet women and you don’t have any? (Example: you join a recurring dancing class and you know no one initially) Is your energy best spent befriending the women you’re not interested in? The women you are interested in? Befriending everyone there and banking on them leading you to more women in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:10 AM
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Why do women find men in relationships more attractive then? Why aren’t women receptive to cold approaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:11 PM
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Feminism is overall very good. But an individual level listening to how feminist say men should act is detrimental. Also a lot of entertainment is worse because they try to appeal to feminists, however we should see companies reach a good middle ground on that soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:28 PM
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Women are more likely to vent, men are more likely to complain face to face
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:23 AM
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But men hold the majority of economic power for the foreseeable future
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:36 PM
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Goku
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:37 PM
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you can’t expect people to do a 180 once you start dating them, especially when it’s those same traits that made you pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:50 PM
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Women want to be liked by others more than men do or they’re liked by others more and want to maintain that social clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:37 PM
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The gym is a no go for shooting your shot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:23 PM
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Shallow: arbitrary and strict requirements Unrealistic: Your type has significantly more good for them options than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:34 PM
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It’s odd how provocatively female celebrities dress, is it that women who dress provocatively become famous or the rewards of dressing provocatively when you’re famous makes famous women dress more provocatively?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:47 PM
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Young men yes. The average man’s ease of getting into any relationship depends on if they lucked out and their interests or career align with women. OR how long it took them to realize that they don’t and start putting themselves near women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:27 PM
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B: but there can always be a reason to love yourself. If you love someone or something and you work to make them happy or make it(like art), why not love yourself for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:18 PM
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To get “too muscly” takes years of consistent progressive overload and dieting or 💉.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:07 PM
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Tbh it’s ok to have issues with how she dressed but calling her out on Twitter instead of discussing it privately is trash behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:23 AM
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It’s not messed up it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:55 PM
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wow this is my life partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:02 AM
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Focus on meeting and getting to know people/guys in a more relaxed social setting. And analyze what she wants in a partner vs what factors the guys she’s met offline have had that made her approach or reciprocate approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:35 PM
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Chad doesn’t exist. No man appeals to every woman. The closest thing is fuckboys who sell a different version of themselves depending on the woman. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:21 PM
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A lot more men into women than women into women. And despite what women say there’s more men who appeal to women’s standards than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:46 PM
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It’s cause women seek outside validation more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:49 PM
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It’s weird how despite the advantages modern western society gives to women, they’re more likely to have mental illnesses. I assume it’s cause of biology + social media + men being more easily satiated by things like games and sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:55 AM
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More in common with the 30 y.o and the power dynamic is much healthier and likely to stay consistent long term
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:05 AM
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Feeling safe ≈ social proof/Preselection. Some level of it is essentially a necessity, like the majority of women will not start a relationship with the majority of men if they’re complete strangers. It might be the biggest factor for initial attraction but I don’t think it holds up long term
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:56 PM
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It’s cause autism makes it harder for you to understand and apply the 100s of unwritten social rules and etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:35 PM
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Very little. This take ignores that women choose their partners and the extent men are willing and capable of change
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:06 PM
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Men, more physical activity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:36 AM
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Yeah, nerdy guys don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:07 PM
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The people who post and the things that get traction are a very biased sample
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:30 PM
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Nerdy guys like nerdy girls. They’re not nicer than average but they do have less options. I’m sure that causes some behaviour differences like being more likely to be loyal and for some to resent women because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:14 PM
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Banning abortions reduces the quality of life of the majority of those who aren’t ready to be parents, their kids and people who will have to pay more in taxes to subsidize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:53 PM
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Yes, but the world isn’t a better place just if there’s more people in it. Quality of life is important and forcing the poor and people who don’t want kids into having kids, reduces the quality of life of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:48 PM
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How is this even a desirable outcome? The babies are surely concentrated in lower income households and people who don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:37 PM
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Not quite, they care about status which overlaps heavily with intelligence and competence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:04 PM
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Attractive and is “just like me fr”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:45 PM
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Yeah, they look a bit wrinkled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:28 AM
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Iron out the clothes and trim the beard and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:25 AM
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The decline is greatly exaggerated, physically it’s a very slow decline and up to individual lifestyle choices. But for women with a preference for older men I would say there is a point where men older than them have enough wealth to have substantially more options. Mid 30s probably? Also there is the biological clock for women who want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:28 PM
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That depends on age bracket and area. And women still have it easier for “any” cause guys don’t care about social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:46 PM
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“My guy friends keep hitting on me” These stories are really interesting cause it shows how a lot of men and women’s best interests don’t align. For a substantial portion of men, sex/romance/physical intimacy are rare or hard to get so any is worth losing a friend for. While for women that’s less the case, since they find socializing more rewarding and have less difficulties getting sex/romance/physical intimacy. And the cultures of virgin and slut shaming make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:15 PM
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You’re overrating how muscle boosts men and underrating how much muscle can boost women too. Also I think it might be harder for women cause they eat less, it makes eating a variety of food harder cause food frequently doesn’t split cleanly and portion sizes when eating out seem to be designed for men. Not to mention periods affecting hunger
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:15 AM
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You just gotta shave the beard and you’ll be doing fine looks wise! I expected you to look worse based off your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:12 PM
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I really like the quote from Marilyn Frye about heterosexual male culture, the important bit is “ The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire... those are, overwhelmingly, other men.” I feel like it definitely applies to me cause for games, books, sports, fitness, sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:14 PM
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Free time and more freedom with choices
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:02 PM
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It’s all about social proof… wake up y’all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:33 AM
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LTRs aren’t for everyone. Taylor specifically just seems like bad luck she didn’t marry the guy she was dating for 6 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:05 AM
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Consistency> everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:33 AM
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5ft-6ft1 long wavy hair full ish eyebrows but not shaped(?) plump lips some boob-noticeably above average boobs body fat % where you can see some abs in right position/lighting a bit-a lot of muscle everywhere somewhat thick-thick legs/glutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:09 AM
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It’s crazy how much women defend each other just because they’re women. Reddit post I saw on twox prompted this but you can see this a lot in discussion of fictional characters like Sakura from naruto or Rey from Star Wars You’ll get called sexist for hating on them when they’re inarguably controversial and women wouldn’t bat an eye on the hate if the genders were flipped. It’s especially crazy cause of how often they’re written by male authors who can’t write female characters for shit. For a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:03 PM
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Cold approaching doesn’t work, you’re not hot and you’re bad at socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:16 AM
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A lot more compromise on gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:58 AM
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I wonder what % of the population actually wants kids. So many people get kids just because of unprotected sex, practical reasons for business and societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:36 AM
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Girls being more mature than boys always seemed like the biggest lie to me, young people seem to have equally terrible decision making. I think a lot of people equate obedience to maturity which is why people think girls mature faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:00 AM
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Is it an issue if a lot of people aren’t in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:28 AM
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Weighted except dips and pull ups
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:57 PM
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Keep at it! I mainly focus on compound movements (bench, dips, pull ups, squats, lunges, rear flys) and do jump rope for cardio
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:26 PM
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When I think about how there isn’t a gym girl for every gym bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:01 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:32 PM
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Cap… painted nails are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:29 PM
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Not really? Not many ways to do it that doesn’t lower your position on the social hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:23 PM
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Sex definitely isn’t a need but imo physical intimacy is and in a lot of places it’s only deemed acceptable for men to get that through women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:12 PM
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4 pack vs 6 pack vs 8 pack is up to genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:12 AM
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You can tell by looking at shoulders traps and a certain size threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:46 AM
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Q4ALL: do you think the world would be a better or worse place if makeup didn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:42 PM
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They are traits but they don’t make you any less/more capable of being a good partner and functioning member of society. *Except if they’re taken to extremes and being attractive. But they do drastically affect your chances of getting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:45 PM
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The just world fallacy is one of the only things in dating discourse that gets on my nerves. There’s nothing wrong with you if you’re young and you struggle with dating, just means you’re one or more of: ugly, not very confident, not very social, broke(men) If you’re older it does say something about your intelligence and sex drive. And there can be factors outside of your control that hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:20 PM
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Tbh I’d be impressed at the confidence. Personally I don’t see the point of gifts unless they’re very thoughtful or were easier to obtain for the gifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:54 PM
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I wonder to what extent it’s right to treat the gender you’re attracted to differently. Like befriending women only because you want to potentially sleep with them or their friends. It seems grimy to me but if it works and you’re operating within social norms ?🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:09 PM
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I think so, for like the top 5% who are always wearing makeup and spend hundreds on beauty a month. Idk if it’s that being pretty greatly increases your social circle or only people who are very social put so much into appearance. Also in general women are more social than men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:58 AM
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I really think men and women have about the same standards when it comes to relationships but women are so much less willing to date strangers which is why it seems like they have absurd standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:15 PM
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It means women are/were more willing to get married with people who don’t do chores compared to say broke/ugly/short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:18 AM
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Women complaining about their husbands not doing enough chores is an example of survivorship bias
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:25 AM
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Lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:48 AM
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Very good perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:32 PM
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Do most men on here really not care about how much money a woman makes? I see how for sex it doesn’t matter but in a relationship? Too much less than you and she could only be with you for your money, too much more and what’s point of the effort you’ve put in your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:08 PM
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Might be my favourite comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:03 PM
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Q4A: apart from physical attraction what traits do you look for in a partner that you don’t in a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:45 AM
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QFA: what clothes can a guy wear that makes him seem DTF
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:38 AM
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Tbh 26 times with 26 different people. To me cheating like that is just because you have mental issues. While 26 times with 1 person means they’re just too scared to end the relationship/want the best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:59 PM
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It depends on if the guy is willingly a virgin or not. Also depends on the ages of both. The woman will have an easier time finding a partner cause she’s had options
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:14 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:52 PM
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I don’t doubt it’s true that women present themselves as more attractive than men. But women care less about looks than men. Would most men see more success if they put more into looks instead of status and career? Is what I want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:39 PM
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Not trendy, women have always been attracted to fit men. But since society is more egalitarian it takes more to be attractive/ to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:24 PM
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😭 .The swipe rate isn’t so bad if tinder matches people randomly. It can be explained by stuff like wanting kids vs not wanting kids, LTR vs hookups, attraction and personality compatibility. It’s in the conversations that things are going wrong, (which is better offline since if you know each other somewhat you get benefit of the doubt) still I wonder what she’s doing in these convos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:29 PM
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Does dick size matter? Lesbians report better sex than straight women and they don’t have dicks, also a lot of women can’t even orgasm from PIV sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:50 AM
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Making dating your #1 priority has a terrible ROI unless you’re already rich, attractive and social
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:31 AM
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Some people will luck out but in this era a lot of people need to make an active effort to be around members of the opposite regularly. Also a lot of people have misconceptions about what is attractive and have been temporarily hindered by factors outside of their control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:45 PM
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I wonder how much women’s standards/attraction are absolute vs relative to themselves vs relative to the market. Like to a woman with an undergraduate degree is a man with a phd more attractive/impressive than to a woman with a graduate degree? If so that’s kinda sad for successful women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:23 PM
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That’s genuinely a possibility but if so where are women’s standards coming from and what biases in societies are preventing men from becoming more desirable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:23 PM
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Always surprises me to see the women on Reddit say they don’t have better dating options than men, when Reddit swings young and young women have substantially more options than young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:26 PM
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? A lot of men want casual sex but it’s not an issue if they don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:06 PM
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I’ll never see it as an issue that most men cannot get consistent casual sex since most women do not enjoy consistent casual sex. And really think about how humanity wouldn’t have survived if the majority of women throughout history enjoyed casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:58 PM
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Sometimes I forget I don’t even want a relationship rn it’s just the biological urge to have sex and start a family
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:43 PM
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Your first impression is always gonna be a bit worse since people won’t know if you’re a first generation immigrant or not but your ethnicity isn’t considered unattractive for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:15 PM
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😭humans suck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:12 PM
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How far can looks alone carry a guy? For women: if you see a hot guy do you want him to come talk to you even if appearance is all you know about each other or do you just want to appreciate his beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:33 PM
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Pretty objective stdev ~5% but I’d say style is very subjective stdev ~20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:34 PM
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Negativity bias, if they’re uglier they’re more likely to get posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:01 PM
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They’re approaching your dog so I’d consider it closer to cold approach than warm approach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:40 PM
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Not a surprise, I imagine the same holds for women. Takeaway should be to get some exercise in and up your protein. But getting the recommended protein without protein powder is surprisingly hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:35 PM
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1/500 * attractiveness(out of 10) * social skills (out of 10)… cold approaching isn’t worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:27 PM
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He seems happy but not taking care of your health shows a lack of control
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:33 PM
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I see why the norm formed but the end result is that there’s a lot more unsuccessful first moves than there would be if the other gender did it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:12 PM
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Such bad design that the hornier sex is supposed to make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:19 PM
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No but it’s not a turn off to them either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:10 PM
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U/Fancycomfortable has it right but I’d add the caveat that if someone wants a substantially pricier product/service they make up the difference the other is willing to pay themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:45 PM
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Looking at current trends the average dating life isn’t all that to so I’ll say successful dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:10 PM
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Casual sex has been on the decline, the majority of sex happens within relationships. I’d guess around 10% of men can get casual sex consistently, for those who can the limiter is how much they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:33 PM
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If you’re in the top 20% it’s fine so long as you do it in a place where they don’t feel trapped and you back off if rejected. If you’re in the bottom 80% it’s only worth doing if you have prior rapport with her or her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:53 PM
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It’s partially a culture thing but it’s not appropriate to talk to strangers at the places you listed, except for when they hold special events. And for the places where it is appropriate to talk to strangers, the gender demographic tends to swing hard in a direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:39 PM
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The actual biggest problem with dating is the lack of reasonably mixed gender spaces appropriate for making friends and romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:16 PM
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If you think age gap relationships are wrong I think educating women on why they’re attracted to older men and on how these older men fare for their age is the best use of time. Instead of virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:32 AM
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Kinda amazes me how women online act like women have no agency when it comes to age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:58 AM
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Naturally meet more women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:02 AM
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Do you guys think women find introversion unattractive or it’s just a case of it lowering your options?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:22 PM
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For sex with attractive women, yes why not be easy? For relationships, no. I don’t really care if female friends or acquaintances think they could have sex with me if they wanted, it’s just a matter of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:05 AM
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Women care about social proof so cold approaching them doesn’t work. Men are expected to make the first move Men are evaluated on status and career: (Bc of this young women have it much easier than young men and the state of the economy has a greater effect on men’s dating prospects)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:05 PM
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Preselection bias is some fucked up shit, I wonder if it works online tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:47 PM
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One of the issues with dating is that because women take a passive approach, there isn’t a positive feedback loop for men to do things that make them more attractive or “to put themselves out there”. No matter the effort you put it’s not unusual for the difference to only manifest in women’s thoughts. Because of this I think it’s imperative to focus on things you like instead of purely what’s optimal. This might look like doing more cardio than weightlifting, dressing in your style instead of fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:07 PM
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It says what’s most popular but not the weight for each option. Like let’s say 15% of readers like option A, 14% like option B, 13% like option C and so on, most authors/publishers will go for option A because it appeals to the widest audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:55 PM
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Video games >>>>>> sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:13 PM
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Why does that matter in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:51 PM
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Practically I don’t think that’s a big problem since we can learn by observing actions and other’s experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:57 PM
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Too many guys think with their dick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:59 PM
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These are the types of posts that keep me here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:46 PM
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Cold approaches don’t work and doing them closes more doors than it opens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:53 AM
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If you cold approach your chances are literally less than 0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:10 AM
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I care about intelligence, having a dead end job with no plans to progress isn’t smart… I don’t want money to be a big factor in our relationship so I’d like it if she made enough to live by herself comfortably for herself doesn’t matter past that. Working in STEM and not too much with people would be a big bonus. I wouldn’t mind a career woman if she either has passion for what she does or has specific money goals for specific reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:25 PM
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Dating apps are slightly viable for women but still only like 20% of relationships start from there and they have low success rates so you need to put yourself out there IRL. Also are you looking for practicing religious men or just religious or anything as long as they’re supportive? The first one is a big restriction in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:25 PM
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I won’t make ANY efforts but if it happens naturally because of frequenting the same places(school,work or hobbies) yes. I rarely hang out 1 on 1 with friends so I wouldn’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:00 PM
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Something that I’ve wondered is how normal is it to crave female validation and to what extent? Should men with good careers and hobbies be satisfied even if they don’t get any female validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:25 PM
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Where are you meeting these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:00 PM
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Using male attention is too risky, I’d still study for a good career and wouldn’t directly abuse my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:58 PM
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The “issue” with young men is how they’re socialized. Women are treated as having innate value but men aren’t. Which wasn’t inherently bad, in the past, it forced young men to do things which would both improve their social clout and wealth. But now?- Accelerated by the pandemic there are not enough social avenues for men to go from being treated like nothing to people (and it’s frequently disconnected from career success). It’s insane to expect every men to come out ok. Young men seem obsessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:03 PM
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Idk why you’re discounting how much women like higher incomes Still men’s SMV has the potential to increase with age: Money allows you to take better care of your health and fitness, in addition to letting you stay properly groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:38 PM
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I think it’s unfair to demand they change from what they wore before you were together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:48 PM
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Most amount of casual sex? Maybe. Successful LTR? No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:41 PM
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Entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:59 AM
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Nice no, idealizes me yes. It’d just be wasting our time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:59 AM
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Actually I think it’s that women see sex as inherently degrading by default
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:03 PM
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This is true and messed up, the importance of platonic friendships/social circles needs to be taught to kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:14 AM
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Yeah I’d let them be my friend lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:44 PM
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Guys make a lot of decisions on the idea that “it’ll get them laid” so seeing the decisions they took and were told to take not pan out is upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:13 PM
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Don’t be friends with women you want a relationship with, ask them out while you’re acquaintances, if you don’t have enough rapport to ask them out well it sucks but that’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:38 PM
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Be more attractive (simple but maybe not easy depending on your starting point): work out, have some skincare routine, haircut, have a fashion sense ie copy good looking people. Be a lot more social: - do hobbies that you like the most and hobbies on the edge of what you like that have women - go to one off events with close friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:16 PM
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They don’t but being similar to someone is a HUGE plus, for example you probably wouldn’t see much success with lawyers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:50 PM
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It doesn’t if they’re attractive. Also what success rate are you expecting? Wouldn’t even a 5% success rate be good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:31 PM
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Not anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:24 PM
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I don’t think they can, it’s just how female sexuality works. But as a society we need to become more social so average people have a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:11 PM
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Someone who goes after young women specifically is weird. But I feel like women project their own sexuality onto men and judge based off that. Like women are attracted to older men because they have more money, status and confidence. But men just don’t care about that stuff and why should they? For the guys capable of attracting women, why does how much they make and her status matter? Why not choose more based off looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:41 PM
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Not social enough…(in my defence my hobbies are male dominated) not enough money (student)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:39 PM
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Personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:09 PM
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If her field is like mine yes otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:00 PM
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It’d be better if women approached, since they’re the rate limiting factor when it comes to attraction but they won’t cause of biology and confidence being seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:46 PM
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Men’s sexuality is demonized but if men didn’t take an active approach in dating there would be so much less dating happening. As the world becomes more antisocial it can be unreasonably hard for some people who would make fine dating partners to date if they don’t do some level of cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:09 PM
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Speak for yourself 🤧, I think for most men most height variance doesn’t change attraction but people like to conform to social norms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:41 PM
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I wouldn’t say your standards are too high but I’d say you’re not looking at the right places for 1/50 rate. You should do activities/surround yourself with like minded people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:40 PM
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Yep 100%, I wonder what guys like that should do to increase the amount of potential single women they meet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:15 AM
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Top men have it much much better than top women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:35 PM
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Not really? Or well women have a worse understanding of gender and dating dynamics because they don’t have to have a good relationship/life and they’re wired to want “high quality” relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:11 PM
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Why
/r/MensRights05/02/23 07:34 PM
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“A guy you know” is a biased demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:49 PM
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What can I say, I like complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:01 PM
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I wonder why, maybe they’re more fulfilled due to other aspects of a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:54 PM
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I’m still in uni but no shot it’s harder later if you’re in male dominated classes and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:07 PM
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Imo the big issue with dating now is that everyone’s more anti social so it’s harder to meet in general, even compared to 2000s less relationships are formed. The 2nd is that women are over selecting for certain traits that don’t correlate with being a good partner/person today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:24 PM
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I don’t like most men either but my hobbies are male dominated so there’s a lot more guys I like non sexually/romantically than women. -I do see women as equals but different -I do expect to do roughly the same amount of housework but if my partner has drastically higher standards of cleanliness she’ll need to do more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:27 PM
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Not the original commenter but I’d say women are already redpill, it just looks different. The red pill is just explaining people’s relationship actions through the lens of evolutionary psychology. Most women already know what men want because of how much men’s sexuality is shown through media (possibly only cause beauty/fashion industry can make money through it). But what women want isn’t shown as much, instead boys are told an idealistic tale that weakly reflects modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:35 PM
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I really do think most of the discrepancy is caused by younger women being more in demand than younger men. The other thing is that there’s more women who could get laid if they wanted to( due to women having larger social circles and men being dtf a lot) so they don’t complain as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:09 PM
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Always, it’s usually a big negative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:25 AM
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Yes, the friendzone/fuckzone happens when people misinterpret attraction for friendship. It happens a decent amount due to the differences in men and women’s sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:45 AM
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You think so? In my experience women want friendship more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:34 AM
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Advice wise red pill is kinda spot on, it’s their reasoning/ideology that suck since red pill attributes women’s actions to malice and acts like dating is rigged against men. That said one advice I don’t see enough: meet more women and don’t view every interaction with women as potential romance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:17 PM
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For women being ugly and mean, for men being ugly broke and lacking confidence. But IRL the real reason lots of people are single is because they’re not social enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:58 PM
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So fake… 100 years ago women didn’t even have the same rights as men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:31 PM
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Very good points, I think that it’s harder for young men and older women to find relationships. But I think point 1 underestimates the effects personality and upbringing has on one’s lifestyle. A lot of men can do their childhood completely content with their amount of friends/hobbies/career prospects/physique and then as an adult want a relationship and just be out of luck (temporarily at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:18 PM
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Judging a man by how he treats unattractive women is fine but be careful not to expect them to treat them like a woman would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:43 PM
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Go out more/meet more men and talk with people who interest you. Big 🚩 is when they’re only pretending to be interested in you apart for for your body. It’s really hard for women to know if a man they don’t know is lying or not so this is where having friends opinions is good. Best way to know independently is to talk to the men about stuff like hobbies,family,movies, etc and extrapolate from that what they really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:19 PM
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On an individual level, all we can do is encourage people to be more social. Politically: cost of living should be reduced so people don’t have to choose between work/education and a social life. And public places like libraries and YMCA should get subsidized by the government, basically the barrier of entry to social activities need to be reduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:18 PM
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I’ve wondered this, in today’s society isn’t the only thing women can only get from a partner, sex/deeper physical intimacy? And since the average Adam craves sex a lot more than the average woman, the average woman is more in demand than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:45 PM
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🤷‍♂️, if you observe people/relationships you see that arrogant behaviour gets over rewarded
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:51 PM
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