lolnotrealduh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? Why do you do things that are not fun? I do them because if I only did the things I enjoyed, I would not do anything. Find some activity then. I meant what I said above. The set of all activities is a strict subset of the things I do not enjoy. If I could, I would be lying on my bed 24/7. This isn't because I enjoy laying on my bed. It is because I hate doing anything that much. I would not do anything, because no matter what I do, I do not like it. Both women and social environments exist Not i…	/r/seduction	10/04/12 01:37 AM
1	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? The main thing is that you're having fun. No, I'm not having fun. That's just it. If I am in a bar, then I am absolutely miserable and likely skipping down the road to being suicidal.	/r/seduction	09/04/12 10:30 PM
1	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? Well, we'll start with the fact that one woman has accused me of stalking her. (I didn't stalk her.) Another one cut all contact with me because I started to creep her out (I did stalk her, and was at the time she cut all contact). Yes, these both happened years ago, but it's not like I'm able to claim I never did it. We'll discuss the fact that I unnerve half of the people I meet by the fact that I don't react normally. I'll stare off into space, eyes unfocused, in such a manner that it almost …	/r/seduction	09/04/12 08:49 PM
1	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? You suffer from being alone but yet don't like being social. Something doesn't add up. I bet it has something to do with fear of rejection. Actually, at this point, I expect nothing except rejection. I'm rejected every time someone passes me by. This adds to my paranoia. Any more active rejection (the inevitable result of approaching people instead of waiting to be approached) is an existential threat. If I continue to do nothing, I'm miserable but alive. If I do anything, the other person will …	/r/seduction	09/04/12 07:07 PM
1	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? How about finding something social or half-social to do? The Venn diagram of things that are in any way social and things that I hate doing is two concentric circles. The former is wholly contained in the latter. Go somewhere where there is people and you need to interact with them even a little. Every place I go is empty. If I walk into a crowded room, there is nobody there. Wherever I am, I am alone there. Stop any actions that replace the satisfaction of a social life in your body chemistry. …	/r/seduction	09/04/12 04:24 PM
-2	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? Have you ever danced with a girl you didn't want to fuck? Or a guy? Or your mom? The circumstances change, and your mentality changes. Let's simplify your question. Have you ever danced with anyone? The answer to that question is NO. I have not danced with anyone. Do you know why? I fucking hate dancing. I hate the idea of dancing. I hate everything about dancing. See, I view dancing as everybody rejecting me. That's always been what happened when there was dancing around me: I got rejected, som…	/r/seduction	09/04/12 01:38 AM
5	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? Dancing is flirting. Period. "I love to dance" is "I love to flirt". You cannot remove flirtation from dancing (though dancing isn't the only way to flirt).	/r/seduction	08/04/12 09:04 PM
0	Has pickup made you loose faith in women ? No. Because I cannot do it. I mean that I cannot actually go anywhere and do any of the stuff you guys are talking about here. I have extreme social anxiety, the likes of which a few pickup books are not going to help--the likes of which I don't believe therapy can help (not that I'm not trying therapy, I just think it won't work). I cannot initiate a conversation, not even with a dude (so there is no possibility of sex). I cannot continue a conversation once one is started. I cannot bring mysel…	/r/seduction	08/04/12 09:02 PM
3	Girl invited me to "watch a movie" in her place. Have any tips? Yeah, I would strongly advise bringing a box of condoms. This isn't a "just in case" thing. You will need them.	/r/seduction	11/03/12 08:28 PM
1	Need advice: girl with bf into me Honestly, we're talking about hypotheticals at this point. We can leave out OP's situation of the boyfriend (though at my age, every woman has a boyfriend that she hopes will marry her). I'll also say that I continue to grow frustrated with the pickup community. I fundamentally do not understand what you're saying. I may have been shown movies where a guy somehow looks "softly" into a woman's eyes, but I have never seen it. I wouldn't notice it if she "looks back". I don't know what "go a little…	/r/seduction	28/01/12 07:34 AM
1	Need advice: girl with bf into me I'm not 12, but I have been incredibly sheltered--partly by my own choosing.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 12:22 AM
1	Need advice: girl with bf into me Let's say I'm not in an environment where cuddling is an option.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 12:16 AM
1	Need advice: girl with bf into me Okay, building on your response: Talk to me like I'm 12 and was raised in a sexless environment. How do I build up that sexual tension?	/r/seduction	26/01/12 05:43 PM
1	I can't approach and I feel like a giant pussy Well, porn wasn't the big issue for me that it was for most guys: getting rid of it was relatively easy. I have very little experience with women and even less with sex. In fact, sex is something entirely alien to my existence--so alien that I cannot even fear it. After all, we don't fear the unknown, we fear that which we know just a little bit about. We fear what we've heard something about. Sex? That's off in "what the hell is that" territory.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 11:26 PM
3	A few unrelated tips on gaining self-confidence. I guess this could be helpful with gathering up the guts to approach her. None of these has worked for me. I'm still miserable, I still have absolutely no confidence, and I still hate myself.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 11:24 PM
1	I can't approach and I feel like a giant pussy No, it won't. I say this from personal experience. After two weeks, I just wanted to be alone.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 10:19 PM
1	Forever Alone comes to seddit - Ask Us Anything What's more, it doesn't work. If I am myself, I never leave my apartment.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 10:03 PM
2	Signs She Wants To Be Kissed And Signs She Doesn't I will say that the green light signs are things I will absolutely without a doubt never see. No, it's not me writing off those things happening. I just cannot perceive those things.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 03:38 AM
1	Do not let this be you! I will pick up the pen, and the ideas will vanish as though I never had them.	/r/seduction	22/12/11 11:39 PM
2	Porn and Masturbation Abstinence It isn't for all guys. However, my questioning has indicated that about 2/3rds of all men that I've met have monstrous, unrecognized pornography addictions. The other third actually has a good bead on their porn use.	/r/seduction	22/12/11 04:28 AM
1	Is this not the worst pickup you've ever seen? The worst pickup is the one that doesn't work. It doesn't matter how awesome the pickup is, or how cool it'll sound when you're telling your grandkids. What matters is that it got the other person's interest. Here's another thing: the pickup that wasn't attempted doesn't work, either.	/r/seduction	18/12/11 04:51 AM