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| 20 | What are fictional characters that you consider HVM ?Stupid sexy Flanders... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 8 | 2 letters, yeIf they smoke enough that they have to ask upfront if its a dealbreaker, they probably smoke too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | How to explain to my mom my view on children/marrying?I used to ask my mother and ex-inlaws 'are you going to fucking pay for them?" whenever they pressured me to give them GrAnDbAbIes which usually shut them up pretty quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 96 | 2 letters, yePeople who think smoking pot is a personality trait because they don't do anything else remotely interesting with their time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderI mean it can be fun, but idk why people are so obsessed with it. Like its the ultimate sexual fantasy to tick off the bucket list? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 15 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderIf you really want to try it, best way is to find 2 other single people. Then you're all starting out on the same level. You're not getting dragged into a couples preexisting bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:34 AM |
| 6 | What's up with men afraid of cockroaches and bugs?Never been with a man afraid of them. But have had plenty who expect me to be afraid of them, and like to play the big strong man. Like crushing a tiny spider is such a heroic feat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:40 AM |
| 205 | Living out of a suitcase at my mum's... Still higher value than that idiot.Your son would have grown up watching your EX treat you like shit, thinking thats how men are supposed to behave. By leaving you're teaching him that this is not OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 24 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderIf they marry a man, they're obviously straight, it was just a phase! /s Bi/lesbian women are expected to want to fuck any woman we meet. 2 women who are both attracted to women aren't necessarily going to be attracted to eachother. Just because we like women, we're not going to jump on any chance we get. We're not men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:10 PM |
| 15 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderThere are, but couples like this have even worse luck there than on mainstream apps. People in these alternative communities can spot red flags a mile away. A couple that would be worth playing with would list a little bit about themselves, their relationship, and some of their interests/hobbies outside of sex. They want to meet first, make sure theres a connection there, then would consider moving things to the bedroom. This is rare though, much more common to find entitled couples like in my p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 207 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderUnicorn hunters are the worst. They be like: 'Couple seeks young attractive bisexual woman to be our fetish dispenser. See ridiculous list of requirements. No room for negotiation. We are going to be super selective. Because middle-aged, slightly overweight couples desperately trying to stave off divorce are such a rare gem! So please provide detailed response to criteria showing us why you deserve the privilege of licking my husband's sweaty old ball sack.' You know who wants a young, attractiv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:10 AM |
| 33 | Ladies.. this “advice” 🚩Men: its ok for a guy to have multiple partners, but a woman shouldn't sleep around. Its just biology, they need to be more selective. Noone will respect a woman if its too easy to have sex with her. Also men: I shouldn't have to put any effort to have sex with a women. Why should she expect to be treated like a prize? How dare she not want to fuck me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Going to therapy!Going to therapy is a huge step, well done. It can be hard but its worth it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:52 AM |
| 32 | This reeks of NVMHe really wants her back because shes the one who cooks, cleans and comforts him. Also can't see how umbilical cord is any different from a favourite tshirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: shut up engagement rings are a thing. An engagement does not mean you are immune to LVM behavior. A LVM can be hidden for YEARS under a HVM mask and engagement is the PERFECT time for a man to use "building a life together" to justify LV behavior or pressuring you to lower your standards.9 Global pandemic. Even the best relationships can be under strain during a time like this. I'm sure many abusers have revealed their true colours the past few months :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 4 | I'd rather stay single forevaAnd none of our emotions are valid because its obviously just our periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 7 | how we failed megan fox 🆘🎬🍿But then there are plenty of talented actors that miss out on roles because they arent 'sexy' enough. So you have to be sexy, but not too sexy. Talented, but not too talented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:22 AM |
| 8 | Ain't that the truth.My ex would describe me as: 'She's so lazy and selfish. She made me get A JOB so she's obviously a gold digger. She wouldn't work full time to support both of us so I can keep sitting on my ass all day playing video games, so she's obviously just using me. Yeah she worked 2 jobs for a couple years there, while also studying, BUT I paid rent for a few months. Yeah she still paid for all our other living expenses, but still, Im SO GENEROUS. She was so pushy about it too, insisting we pay rent EVER… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:16 AM |
| 14 | Why I hate ‘gender preferences’ (babies/pregnancy)Some cultures prefer boys for this reason, because when a woman gets married she 'joins' his family and will take care of her inlaws. But a son will marry a woman bringing an extra person into the family to care for them. Its so selfish to have kids just so they'll care for you in old age. Hopefully if you're a good parent and raise them well they will help where they can. I hate the idea of adult children being indebted to their parents and feeling guilty about moving on and living their own li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:28 AM |
| 48 | My parents are pressuring me to kiss the boys I date rotationallyYou're at the age now where you start to make decisions about your own life, and realise your parents don't always know what's best for you. I'm sure they love you and mean well, but pressuring your teenage daughter to do anything sexual if they aren't ready is terrible advice. IMO saving first kiss for marriage is a bit extreme. I couldn't commit to spend the rest of my life with someone I've never even kissed before. But it's your body and your decision. Don't do anything intimate with someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:15 AM |
| 14 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.Funny how women can step out of these traditional roles (dad earns the money, mum takes care of the kids) quite easily and thrive in the workforce. But men struggle if they have to stay home and raise children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Many of you girls decided you’re fine with being single forever. But how do you feel fine with never having a family / biological kids?I'm not fine with being single forever. I want a family very much. But I want to make sure I pick a good dad for my kids. I would be a bit sad if I never had children. But I'd much rather be alone than in a toxic relationship. Right now, my cat is my baby and my friends are my family. I have faith that the right man will come into my life when I am ready for him. In the meantime I'm working on myself and steering clear of LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Ted Mosby and Other "Good Guys"Can we just pretend that the final season didn't exist please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:49 AM |
| 3 | The core difference between FDS and Incel/Redpill/MGTOWThey'll still argue NOT ALL MEN even though we agree. Not all men are LV, just you asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:30 AM |
| 12 | I really hope this girl takes her own advice because it's great and she deserves betterHere's a list of things she needs to change: Ditch the boyfriend Thats about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 83 | Ted Mosby and Other "Good Guys"Interesting the comparisons between Ted and Barney. Even though Barney was a disgusting womaniser, when he was in relationships he was much better than Ted. Look at how they each treated Robin. Barney and Robins relationship didn't work out but that seems like more a compatibility issue. Barney was OK with ending things because he could see that she wasn't happy. Ted would never have done this. When they weren't dating Barney did a lot for her like helping her find a job, sending her and Don on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:38 AM |
| 7 | Queen refuses to accept low effort proposal. LVM and pickmeishas try to shame her.I blocked him on social media, because he asked me to help find him drugs on messenger. I said no then he repeatedly spammed me with a bunch of gifs. Block. He still has my number because we have some ongoing logistical issues that need sorting out. Once thats done I'll tell him clearly in writing not to contact me again. I refuse to change my number. If he can't leave me alone I'll involve the police. Hopefully it doesn't come to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:05 AM |
| 20 | Queen refuses to accept low effort proposal. LVM and pickmeishas try to shame her.Omg you have no idea. The drama is still ongoing even though we broke up over 6 months ago. I'm doing pretty well now but every time he tries to contact me it brings my mental health down again. Would be so much worse if we had to do a divorce settlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:20 AM |
| 19 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.Most guys I know would lose their shit and cut a friend off if they tried anything with their sister. Even LVMs will protect their sisters because of misogynistic purity culture women-are-property bullshit. Most guys know that their mates sisters are off-limits. Especially if they are 18 year old men and shes a 14 year old girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 53 | Queen refuses to accept low effort proposal. LVM and pickmeishas try to shame her.My ex and I planned to go out for dinner. But I was really sick with the flu and didn't feel up to it. He got really shitty at me for this. He's usually quite happy to cancel plans and sit at home doing nothing, so I thought this was a bit strange. Eventually asked 'so are we going out or not?!' I said 'Not'. So he got down on one knee and proposed at home. Apparently he'd been getting really anxious about losing the ring so wanted to give it to me ASAP. At the time I thought this was SoOoO rOMa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Once a cheater, always a cheater?Biggest red flag I see here is that he kept it from her for 2 years. He should have told her when they got back together. This shows he's more than happy to lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Seriously. Stfu.No matter what you do, you're gonna get shamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:44 AM |
| 35 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfMy ex tried this with me when I first left him. So I called his dad. Explained the situation, that I was concerned for his welfare but couldn't act myself because I had to protect my own mental health. IDK what his dad ended up doing, but he's never tried it again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Reminder of why it’s important to not follow LibFem ideology when it comes to dealing with men.Philadelphia sidecar, you're welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 12:19 AM |
| 23 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?:( I wish you well. You will be together again one day ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:16 PM |
| -8 | Question about one of my deal breakersNope, I'm a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 37 | Reminder of why it’s important to not follow LibFem ideology when it comes to dealing with men.Colostomy bag is for holding shit when digestive system isnt able to handle shit on its own. So he's looking for a woman to take care of his shit for him. Sounds pretty accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:15 AM |
| 9 | And yet modern males complain about paying for dates...My grandfather washed the dishes EVERY NIGHT. My nan did all the cooking, they both worked full time, so this was his way of contributing. I didn't know this until about a year after he passed away. My nan complained that her 'dishwasher had died'. I was suprised, I don't remember her ever owning a dishwasher. Turns out she was talking about her husband haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:11 AM |
| 33 | And yet modern males complain about paying for dates...My LVM ex put in 0 effort into my pregnancy cravings. I was craving a hot dog from a specific chain. Our closest one was about 45 mins drive away. But he was out at a pub very close to one, would've been a 5min detour on the way home. He refused. There was another time I NEEDED broccoli. Couldn't find any anywhere. When to a bunch of different supermarkets. I ended up breaking down crying in Aldi because they had a great big picture of broccoli on front of their catalogue, but none in stock. He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:02 AM |
| 44 | That's why we should test men first, beta men always seem nice at first...Saddest part was that she stayed so long because she didn't want her youngest daughter to have a 'broken home'. Then when she told her eldest they'd split: "I thought she’d be upset but she replied ‘so he can’t shout at Mummy anymore?’" Kids pick up so much more than we realise. Divorce is hard on children, but growing up in a house of abuse and violence is so much worse. 'Staying for the kids' doesn't work. Every child deserves to be safe, happy, and loved. They deserve a mother who is healthy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:35 AM |
| 7 | Question about one of my deal breakersUghh nooooo he should be glad it didn't hurt you and disappointed/worried if he does. The fact it went OK means theres potential there to try again and maybe get to the point where its pleasurable for both of you. That's obviously not what he was after though :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:10 AM |
| 20 | He expects her to remember his mother’s birthday for himMy ex still didn't remember my birthday after 5 years together. He called me just after we broke up, wishing me happy birthday a day early. 'Oh I knew it was sometime soon.' Not good enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:43 AM |
| 19 | He expects her to remember his mother’s birthday for himThat actually is your job though. I mean yeah, he's a grown man and should be able to do these things himself. But if he really needs help then yeah, hire a secretary, personal assistant, whatever. A wife is NOT an employee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:40 AM |
| 25 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?I'm so sorry for your loss. I totally understand why you'd feel this way. If/when you do feel ready to date again, I'm sure he'll be looking out for you. He would want you to be happy :) Now you've experienced how it feels to be treated well so you won't settle for less! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like the early 20s woman and early 30s man combo is so prevalent lately?Same, I'm 28 and go for early/mid 30s. Guys in their 20s still have so much growing up to do. Many 20-something appear to be going somewhere with their career, studies, but I've wasted many years waiting for LVMs to follow through on these plans. Alternatively, some boys are shitheads during their early 20s but end up maturing into decent men. Men in their 30s you know what you're getting. By that age they're pretty close to their 'final form'. It becomes obvious if they're a HVM or LVM. I don't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Woww so appealing :$Is it some joke? Dildos look like they say Corona | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:06 AM |
| 9 | Did a man ever make you realize that you weren't expecting too much, it was that your previous boyfriends just had bare minimum value?I have this bad habit of apologising for my emotions. Had a minor issue with the guy I'm seeing now. We spoke about it and resolved it. Then I said 'sorry for getting upset'. He told me 'No. Don't ever apologize for the way you feel. It is perfectly valid'. My last serious relationship I had to hide any negative emotions. He couldn't handle seeing me upset, he'd freak out and I'd end up comforting him. He said he cared, tried to get me to open up about my mental health. But his reaction to it ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:02 AM |
| 8 | Man divorces wife because she was injured and unable to have anal sex for a few weeks... Then he lies to his kid, telling him that "she refused to have anal sex". Kid is disgusted when he discovers the truth. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM SELFISH MEN!!They romanticize the parents early relationship. Like everything was wonderful until this injury, then he threw it all away. I doubt it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 08:12 AM |
| 16 | Men who pressure you into sex by begging are still being coercive and manipulativeYep, had an ex who would annoy me all night if I said no. Was easier just to have sex with him so I could then get some sleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | This is horrible!!! let's try to help her!"I know I’m hard to deal with, sometimes I ask him to clean after himself, he says he’s tired from applying all day for jobs, he's depressed too! I get depressed from working full time and doing all the chores too, I know how hard mental illnesses can be, I want to help him, but he screams at me when I suggest he goes to the therapy or at least to start running every day! Am I overreacting or asking too much?? I cry myself to sleep every night while he’s playing video games until 5 AM!“ This was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Vibrator Question...If you're still able to orgasm with your partner, vibrator shouldn't change that. I lie. It will make it better ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionAs someone who has lost a child, fuck this bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:34 AM |
| 4 | What Makes You Swipe Left?-'Easy going, laid back, down to earth guy!!' -Poor spelling -Pics giving the middle finger to the camera -Group pics so you can't actually tell who he is -Shitty tattoos -'Here for a good time, not a long time!' -Drunk photos -younger than me, or more than 10 years older -uses words in profile like 'midget' and 'retard' -mention of his ex -pics of his car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | What Makes You Swipe Right?Physically attractive. Tall. Nice smile Intelligent. Interesting, highly skilled career. Masters degree or higher. Doctors, scientists, yes! Tend to avoid financial/corporate types. Well written profile, everything spelled correctly. Looking for conversation, friendship with possibility of more. Kids is a touchy subject for me, so prefer when its not mentioned in profile. That's a conversation for later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:11 AM |
| 24 | Know yourselfFeels like I could've written this myself! My whole adult life I've never been single for more than a couple of months. I rushed in and gave my all to these LVMs without stopping to consider if they deserved it. Every relationship I completely lost myself. Its so much more than a list of rules. It's the mindset that you deserve to be treated well. The confidence of knowing you can make it on your own. A partner should be someone who adds value to your life. Don't tolerate shitty behaviour becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:55 AM |
| 7 | What's the quarantined OLD scene like right now?I'm extremely selective though. Don't get a lot of matches haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:38 AM |
| 22 | What's the quarantined OLD scene like right now?I've been on tinder a bit and have actually had some interesting conversations. I think quarantine is bringing 'normal' people back to OLD as well as the usual fuckbois. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 35 | Watch out for these greasy men, ladiesThis. Competing against the best traits of all my exes isn't difficult at all, they all assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 9 | What’s your normal sex drive per week? Idk if mine is normal or not.Varies but can be up 5+ a week. I'm on antidepressants too. They can affect libido so talk to your dr if you have any concerns. Stop worrying about what 'normal' is, focus on figuring out what you want and finding someone compatible with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:11 AM |
| 176 | “ period stuff freaks me out” Disgusting. This is why you shouldn’t get into a fwb situation with a man, some men really don’t deserve sex'We'll just fuck next week!' Lol mate no you wont | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:37 PM |
| 5 | The audacity, so many requirements to be his “friend”He's not wrong, definitely has a lot to work on himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | We've been talking for five minutes and he's already asking for nudes. Should have been way more harsh with this guy, but hey, I'm learning.Should not have said sorry. 'No' is a complete sentance. I usually don't bother replying and block these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:44 AM |
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