londonpua Archive

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1	Wet/cold hands make me hesitate with kino, any ideas? Don't say that! "Help me warm them up"? Bit creepy.	/r/seduction	29/06/13 08:05 AM
1	A thanks packaged with some banter you guys can play with Context is everything! I often have very deep and quite stimulating conversations with women about a variety of subjects that, on the face of it, you wouldn't normally have on a first date/encounter (but I am very disarming) such as relationships, women, men, other dates, etc. - hell, I often talk to women about their experiences dealing with "nice guys" and how utterly ineffectual most men are at enrapturing them. If she comes out with that right off the bat she's clearly testing you and you wi…	/r/seduction	28/06/13 10:23 PM
1	Let's talk about recent date ideas Oh definitely. Snap assessment indeed. Goth chicks are usually fun and always up for something weird. Walking around a graveyard (we have plenty of those in central London and, hell, who cares about scaling a fence when you're drunk at 2 in the morning right?) but yeah. Think on your feet. I like bars because I like bars, but I've done other stuff too like hit up one of London's many museums or going to see/do weird artsy shit. Keep an open mind.	/r/seduction	28/06/13 10:10 PM
1	Wet/cold hands make me hesitate with kino, any ideas? Assuming they're just cold: "Hey, do you think my hands are cold?" -"Teehee, yeah they are!!! Omg my hands get sooo cold too!" "Are they cold now [touch hands] - no/yes they're cold"	/r/seduction	28/06/13 10:07 PM
2	Let's talk about recent date ideas I suppose it depends on the woman. I will make a snap assessment based on what I think she likes and then go from there. If you were dating some Shoreditch, bisexual feminist hipster type and you told her to come play house with you she may take that the wrong way -- see what I mean? Extreme example, but I suppose it nails the point home. My preferred approach is to go to a quality bar (of which there are thankfully many in London) with very skilled bartenders. Everybody loves cocktails, and why…	/r/seduction	28/06/13 09:48 PM
4	Please help with DHV routines and why inner game is mainly useless for noobs They don't get laid because they're just not that interesting people. Who hangs out with boring people? Why would women date boring men? They don't. Rattling off pickup lines will only get you so far; it may convince some women to take their clothes off -- but congratulations my friend, your success is directly attributable to something you gleaned off a fucking cereal box and not yourself. My "outer game" is to be a great conversationalist and to show genuine, true interest in the person I am t…	/r/seduction	28/06/13 05:15 PM
4	Please help with DHV routines and why inner game is mainly useless for noobs No it isn't all 'he' needs. Complete BS. Plenty of men out there are snazzy dressers and fit and they still don't get laid very often. That should be a give-away to you that these things are not as important as you may think. I gave a more detailed answer explaining why you're not right about your views of 'inner game.'	/r/seduction	28/06/13 04:46 PM
2	Please help with DHV routines and why inner game is mainly useless for noobs Inner game is all about your confidence; your personality; your wit and your ability to maintain conversation. If you think even for a second that success with women -- or your ability to meet and retain friendships with men, or do well in an interview -- boils down to "memorising routines" then you couldn't be further from the truth. As I often espouse to people in real life who're looking to improve themselves is that you must first master the art of conversation and interacting with people. Y…	/r/seduction	28/06/13 04:43 PM
2	How To Score A One Night Stand I can never respect anybody who uses the word "bro." For one thing, I do not consider myself part of the set of people who are bros. It's a category that conjures up scary images of shirtless men taking self-pics with their iPhones and sending cock pics to women on the internet. Secondly, this advice smacks of drawing conclusions where there are none to be had. The plural of anecdote, my friend, is not data. Remember that.	/r/seduction	28/06/13 04:27 PM
3	When you meet a girl for the first time, should you talk more or should you let her talk most of the time.. ? Excellent thoughts. The main crux here -- and the reason why there are so many iterations on this very same theme that keep cropping up here -- is that people jump into seduction without mastering the art of conversation first; it's no good knowing "how to kino"; "how to escalate"; "how to approach" -- if you seize up and you don't know how to talk to people. Yes, people. Women and men. My view has always been that you should be GENUINELY interested in learning more about someone: your life is a…	/r/seduction	22/06/13 03:14 PM
2	When I do a cold approach, girls seem to turn red when I start talking to them. That's a good thing, right? In my experience (and it's just my experience) that usually happens if they are physically attracted to you as well -- possibly a little bit intimidated. You didn't specify how far into the cold approach you went before they turned bright red; if it happens shortly after introducing yourself (and making it known to them that you're not asking what time it is) when they realise that you're there to talk to them -- that's good.	/r/seduction	21/06/13 07:33 PM
5	[FR] POF success HB9... from open to f-close What I was trying to say is it's important you calibrate your senses to know when the woman is just waiting for you to make the moves, and when you first have to build the attraction when it isn't there. You're also putting words in my mouth here: I'm not saying you should pretend to be someone else; on the other hand, people are here to change, so for some people that will involve assuming one or more changes to their personality in the hopes of making them, well, more social or more charming t…	/r/seduction	21/06/13 06:18 PM
1	Questions or topics to avoid to add mystery to yourself? You're looking at it the wrong way. A lot of people (newbies) here get too caught up in lists or phrases or specific actions when it's never really about that. Setting aside very specific examples most of the advice here are guidelines; they are there to stimulate the mind -- to galvanize your creative muscles. Consider this: you're flirting and she asks you a cheeky question out of the blue -- what do you do? Do you answer it or do you just give her a sly smile and play coy? The difference betw…	/r/seduction	21/06/13 06:08 PM
6	[FR] POF success HB9... from open to f-close Good job on f-closing her. However... I get the distinct impression that she picked you up and not vice versa; and I'm not entirely sure your initial opener is particularly suave -- but that's just my opinion. Still, congrats :) Edit: and you should probably redact your own name or at least hers.	/r/seduction	21/06/13 05:56 PM