| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | Repeating the Cycle | lonegunna77 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 02:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Did it feel like your S.O. "flipped a switch"?My ex was happy and we bought a house in august, last year. Always telling me how great I was. In September she distanced herself and we ended it in November. Just insane to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleThat’s great advice, I’m tired of chasing people, would love to have people come to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleThat’s not bad advice but for some reason my penis and my heart are interconnected lol. See a therapist for that so stay tuned. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleThank you, I just haven’t been single in nearly a decade so it’s definitely a change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleYa that’s true, it was just crazy how so much changed so quickly. I mean less than a week ago she was texting me good morning and I was sleeping at her house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleMy current ex? I dated one other person. My wife? I dated numerous others. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/24 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Repeating the CycleI know that helps man, I just felt like this was maybe a new beginning rather than a new end if that makes sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleYa I think you’re right about the not dating piece. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Repeating the CycleThe apps are exhausting and so non-productive. They’re traumatizing me ha. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleI don’t disagree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Repeating the CycleAnd that’s what she said, and that’s why it maybe hurts more. Nothing I did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Repeating the CycleThat’s true. My friends and family are like what’s your problem man it was 5 weeks, get over it haha. But feels like my separation all over again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Repeating the CycleThat’s kind of fucked isn’t it? I definitely took it as a positive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Repeating the CycleI guess that’s a decent perspective. For me though I’m not a one night stand type of dude. I think multiple 1 month relationships would kill me haha. I’m working on my seeming inability to not get attached fairly quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Repeating the CycleI don’t disagree, I appreciated her transparency and honesty. She just spent time complaining about her ex or highlighting my positive differences to previous relationships. A real mind fuck. When I got that text breaking up I was completely blindsided. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Repeating the CycleHang in there brother, seems like you’ve identified a pattern within yourself with her and it’s our own responsibility to break those. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Repeating the CycleI feel this man, I kept comparing her to my ex as well. Kept thinking “well this is how she would’ve responded, or she would’ve asked me if I needed an advil when I said I had a headache”. It’s rough. Realizing I’m not over my ex and trying to fill that void. Don’t know the path forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Repeating the CycleShe totally gassed me up too, said she had finally met an equal, met her friends and they all loved me, bought her flowers and sent her $25 for a round of drinks with a girlfriend - apparently things no man had ever done before. Asked me to point out a ring I thought she’d like (should’ve been a red flag). Had sex with me lots of times. It’s degeneracy out here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/24 02:15 PM |
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