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Started about a year ago when I was 18 like you. I was a pretty shy guy before, now I've put more efforts into my looks, started working out and gained a lot of confidence. Since starting I've had two relationships, of which one is still lasting. I generally feel safe and confident around women, but I still have a hard time approaching them on my own, which I am currently working on though. I've set myself the goal to approach 20 women, no matter what the outcome will be. Also I'm much more awar…
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:11 AM
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Seems pretty obvious she's into you. Ask her to accompany you to the DJ event, I'm sure you'll do fine. Also don't get discouraged if she seems to not be available a lot. The girl I'm in a relationship with has just one free day in her week, but we've come together quite nicely.
/r/seduction04/12/12 11:49 AM
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If you do this with a grin on your face, it might be funny enough to actually work. I'm so going to try this later!
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:17 PM
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I'm good at seduction, but how can I get him to follow me around like a puppy? Make yourself rare. Don't let him fuck you so easily. For example, when you're making out at it's starting to get sexual, pull away for a bit. Do that at different stages of the session. Tease him and let him work for what you have.
/r/seduction22/11/12 01:09 PM
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Tell me us how it went!
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:26 AM
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If you're having dinner together, tell her to give you her phone. Take it, put it face down in the middle of the table and put yours on top of it. She can take it whenever she wants, but she'll have to pay for both your meals in return. Did it with a set of 3 girls this weekend, one couldn't take it and actually payed for all our meals. The others were awe struck by the idea and gave strong IOIs afterwards. Good luck on the date :)
/r/seduction20/11/12 10:10 AM
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"Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life." -J. K. Rowling Thanks for the FR, nicely written, enough detial. Really motivating, too. Good luck on your future game!
/r/seduction19/11/12 10:32 AM
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I don't get it either, one of the better FRs I've read recently. Actually motivated me to go out tonight.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:26 PM
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After recently starting a relationship with a girl I'm quite happy with, most of what I do is testing things you do to maintain an alpha frame and sexual aura while being in a relationship, which isn't that easy for me yet. I work a lot, so I can't go out as much as some of you guys, but I try to at least use 1 weekend night every week for going out. The other night is spent with my woman because we can't see each other during work days. I read all the interesting threads on seddit and try to he…
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:19 PM
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Fuck you, Magic is awesome! What, a girl's gonna tell you your hobby sucks? Fuck that bitch, she has no idea! Girls don't care what your hobbies are, as long as you have a lot of fucking passion for them. Next time you talk to a girl, say "My name is Slutmiko, and I play fucking Magic, because that shit is the tits!" If she straight out tells you she thinks it sucks, turn the fuck around and walk away. If she's neutral on the subject, invite her to play some rounds and show her how that shit is …
/r/seduction09/11/12 09:35 AM
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Fuck, you're right. My fear is irrational, I know she wants the D. She's gonna be in for a surprise when she's back from holidays this weekend. hehe
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:21 PM
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Well yeah, I have hands. Maybe a little context will help explain my situation. I'm in a relationship with a girl, it's fairly new, we came together about 3 weeks ago. I'm a virgin, she's not. We've talked about it though and she's totally cool with it, said we'll just see how it goes. Now normally I'm super confident, but when it comes to undressing her, I start doubting myself, no idea why. Somehow I always get stuck when both our shirts are off and it comes to taking off her bra. It's like th…
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:18 PM
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How do I undress a girl when we're alone on her bed?
/r/seduction23/10/12 09:35 AM
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I'd be careful with that. If she has really bad self esteem, she might think you're not being serious with her.
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:10 AM
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I like your style, probably going to incorporate some of what you do in my routines.
/r/seduction21/10/12 12:37 PM
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Nice FR, looking forward to more of this!
/r/seduction21/10/12 12:12 PM
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Ah, I got the building part, but never knew why or how you'd break it, even though I do that a lot actually. Thanks for the clarification though!
/r/seduction19/10/12 05:18 PM
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tl;dr, Act like you're the shit, because you are. Don't explain your actions, ever. If you have the confidence to back this up, you can say anything and she won't mind.
/r/seduction19/10/12 02:47 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it. For me this worked so well because I didn't have any actual goals to achieve. I just said, hey, why not try it, you've got nothing to lose. If you can get this mentality into your head and accept it, it's going to change the way you approach.
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:02 PM
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Ah, now I get it. Well, we spent a lot of time together, the usual "getting to know each other / making out" type dates. After getting a feeling for each other, both physically and emotionally, we pretty much just talked ourselves into the relationship. She's in her final year in school and has a lot to do, said she doesn't feel like starting a relationship because she wouldn't have any time for it, but if she did start one, it would be with me. I said I have a lot of things to do on my own, hav…
/r/seduction17/10/12 08:14 PM
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Gonna have to pull a Bill Clinton on that one. For now ;)
/r/seduction17/10/12 04:35 PM
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Always trying to keep you guys updated, hoping you can learn something :)
/r/seduction17/10/12 04:31 PM
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Not sure if I understand your question properly. Do you mean how I isolated her?
/r/seduction17/10/12 04:30 PM
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Nope, no pee-close yet. wat
/r/seduction17/10/12 02:42 PM
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Thanks! Post a FR after testing.
/r/seduction17/10/12 02:12 PM
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Sounds like a great approach! I really like how casual you handled the whole situation. The secret agent technique is something I have to keep in mind.
/r/seduction17/10/12 02:08 PM
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Thanks, I'm really happy with the result. She's amazing! Also helps a lot with my confidence.
/r/seduction17/10/12 02:05 PM
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Sorry it's been so long, but I've written another FR to update my situation. You seemed interested, so here's the link.
/r/seduction17/10/12 11:17 AM
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I'm in a relationship for just 2 weeks, but since we got together, I haven't been out to the bars once, which is fine since we're still getting to know each other and I love spending time with her. She'll be on vacation from Friday on for about a week. I already made plans to go out with some buddies this weekend to get back into the gaming mindset. I really don't want to lose what I picked up in the past months after discovering seddit. Good thing about bringing buddies is if you're getting "to…
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:03 AM
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Sounds like a great approach, make sure not to let her wait too long for a text from you. I'd set up a date ASAP, before she forgets about you.
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:40 AM
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I know it's not easy, but just for it! If you're feeling a good connection, there's no reason not to do it. And if she rejects, just smile and try again later. "If you try kissing a girl, she denies the kiss, but continues to talk to you, she wants to be kissed, just not yet." I was on a date with the girl described in the FR yesterday, and when I tried to kiss her, she resisted and said "I can't do this when it feels so planned!", so I joked about it, telling her how I had been planning this fo…
/r/seduction21/09/12 06:43 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not the kind of guy sitting in front of his computer, talking about inner game without going out to sarge, wondering why I'm not getting my dick wet yet. I agree with you that inner game has to be influenced by personal experiences, but actually "going out there and getting your grind on" is in fact a very practical thing to do. What I meant by looking for practical ways of improving inner game would be, for example, reviewing what you did on a night out (writing FRs real…
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:29 PM
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Absolutely agree with you. Even if you know a lot about outer game, you won't be able to pull it off without having inner game.
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:15 PM
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Check the side bar, there's a link to text game. I'd call her to plan when/where to meet etc. After that, wait til the day of the date, text her a couple of hours before you meet with something like "Glad to see you later blah blah". This way you're confirming the date in a casual way and she has a chance to do the same. If you want, add something like "You better not dress too sexy, or I won't be able to keep my eyes off you ;)" to build some sexual energy early on.
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:09 PM
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I disagree with you on a lot of things, but can understand where you're coming from. Just some thoughts about your post: Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory, tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat. You're misunderstand this quote. Strategy would be inner game, tactics would be outer game. Here's an example: "I'll set up a positive and confident frame." That's going to help you in any situation, although might take some time to achieve. "I'll use kino/negging/com…
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:36 PM
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Will do sir!
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:09 PM
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Oh I am not forgetting this advice at all. I'm seeing her this Thursday, I simply don't have time to meet her any earlier. I'll make sure to close her.
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:00 PM
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and stuff Holy shit please tell me you don't do this in day to day conversation!? Anyways.. Think about what you want. Do you want to fuck her? Do you just kind of want to be together? State your intentions! And not to us, to her! The only way (in my opinion and experience) to un-friendzone yourself is to show her you're a potential sexual partner. So go on a date with her, apply kino and escalate. Take your time though, she might need some time getting used to your new frame.
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:43 PM
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This cannot be stressed enough. If you ask a girl for her number while making up an excuse, how can she know your real intentions. Also, be more assertive. Next time, say something like "HB7, I think you're really cute, give me your number." and hand her your phone so she can enter her number and name. Or go straight for a date like "I enjoyed talking to you, how 'bout we go out friday night?", set up where/when to meet, then have her give you her number so you can call/text her if something abo…
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:21 PM
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Well she said she's not looking for anything serious. I'm not sure, but it sounds like a shit test to me. If I were you, I'd continue flirting with her and try to escalate. On how to escalate: For me it's always been very situational. It sounds cheesy, but with all the recent girls I've kissed, it was always was that hollywood style "perfect moment" where you look into each others eyes, smile and go in for the kiss slowly. Though you can create that situation if you want to. Maintain eye contact…
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:13 PM
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It's pretty obvious you need to work on your game, as you've said yourself, but hey, that's what you're here for, right? It's a good idea "practicing" with her, I do it with my female friends too, where I have no actual intentions. Be careful though. I don't know what your opinion on this is, but I wouldn't mess with a girl in a relationship. Try to keep it flirty, but I'd advise against kissing or fucking her. Also it seems like you were off a bit that day. You know what kino is, you just didn'…
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:07 PM
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As a guy with heavy AA but no problem at going from casual to seduction, this is really interesting.
/r/seduction13/09/12 08:26 AM
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It's really interesting. I wonder how I'd do in a different country, America especially. Thanks for the kudos, I'm proud to say I'm getting good results after discovering seddit half a year ago. I was your average AFC before that, completely beta. Really worked on myself those past months to get to where I am, and I'm not stopping here :)
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:44 PM
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Hah, being a foreigner helps sooo much! Good on you mate. I'll be posting as many FRs as I can, maybe you do find something helpful. Also, this thread should be really interesting for you, check it out.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:28 PM
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Check out this thread, hope it helps.
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:43 AM
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Yeah, thank's for reminding. No use of getting oneities over her.
/r/seduction11/09/12 07:59 PM
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Yeah, in retrospect it seems pretty obvious to go for the kiss at that point. Would've set me up with a nice, confident frame with her friends aswell, who I didn't know prior to the date. Anyway, I'm looking forward to the date on friday, in fact I'm pretty excited. It's the first time in a while a girl made me feel like she's really into me, without much effort on my part. The past few girls I hooked up with were quite hard to get to like me.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:44 PM
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Thanks, I'll post the FR, depending on how it goes, either Friday night after I'm back home or Saturday morning if I stay at her place ;)
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:54 PM
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Yeah, I'm feeling pretty good about her in general. Some things she's done are pretty good IOIs. She might be relationship material too, which I would greatly appreciate. I think the sister won't be much of a problem. She's a bit younger, and I'm usually pretty good at dealing with siblings.
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:31 PM
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Thanks, I'm rather excited for the 2nd one. Will write another FR for that. Also, please don't delete me! ;__;
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:27 PM
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Really, from your description that sounds like a good opportunity. Very close, she is in your arms, looking at you happily... Maybe you were feeling held back from her friends being around? That's exactly what was holding me back, actually. We were in a pretty public place, her friends sitting around us, and a lot of strangers too. I think it would've been uncomfortable for her as well. After all it was our first date. Also about waiting with the kiss: I didn't intend to wait so long, I just did…
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:05 PM
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Well, for me it IS the first book I read on seduction, so I have to ask, is it really that much like other books? As far as I can see, his style of teaching men to better themselves rather than manipulate women with special tricks seems more or less unique. But thanks for the other book recommendations, I'll definitely check those out.
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:19 PM
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Look through the rest of my comments on this thread, I've described a lot of things which work in Germany.
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:45 AM
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Girls are just more savvy and mature... what I'd see as a compliment some german girls would see as an insult and feel objectified. Honesty and Natural/inner game is the only way forward if you want to bed a german girl I guess. That being said, don't overdo your confident frame. One thing which seems almost essential with german women is to keep them on the same social level as yourself. Don't put them on a throne, but don't act like they're just there for your entertainment either. Also I woul…
/r/seduction06/09/12 11:05 PM
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Honesty and Natural/inner game is the only way forward if you want to bed a german girl I guess. This pretty much sums up everything you need to know about picking up german women. Most of them are very confident and will see through your negs and tricks with ease. Try being confident yourself, but don't overdo it, they'd think you're being an asshole.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:57 PM
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It is VERY male-oriented, but I'd be more than interested in hearing what you think about it. Maybe tell us which "strategies" would work with you if applied correctly.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:53 PM
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Yeah, this pretty much aligns with my personal observations. German men seem to be almost afraid of touching or flirtin with women. So really, if you've got even the slightest of game, you're sure to have an advantage over almost anyone. As for the books, it'd be very interesting to know what you think of them. You think you could somehow remember this post, read the book and then review it?
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:22 PM
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I was pointing out basic methods which do work, as opposed to some of the more advanced or detailed strategies that don't.
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:19 PM
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I'm in the Heidelberg area, so South-West of Germany. I've been thinking about submitting more FRs here, lately I've been gaining a lot more confidence and feel like I'd have some awesome stories to share. Look out for my posts soon, weekend's coming up :)
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:32 PM
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Got it: Der perfekte Eroberer by Maximillian Pütz
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:30 PM
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First off, I'm neither a veteran, nor do I know a lot about the German PUA scene. I've only started sarging 6 months ago, while really focusing on myself and what I do, rather than trying to imitate what PUA do. Now, on why some methods will not work on German/European women. I can't really tell you the reason it's like this, only share what I have experienced. One very important thing I have noticed is that barely anyone has game around me. I often go out to bars and clubs with the guys and the…
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:59 PM
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Not the one I meant, but this was recommended to me by a buddy recently. Haven't read it yet, so I can't review it.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:16 PM
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Can't remember neither name nor author right now, let me get back to you on that after work. (in ~2h) OP will deliver ;)
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:18 PM
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I'm from Germany, and I totally agree. The American game is tailored to work on... ya guessed it, American women. Of course there are some basic strategies or mindsets that work anywhere on this planet, but certain details differ quite a bit depending on where you are. I have not read The Game, so I can't give you a list of things that do/don't work. However, if you understand German, there's a book I could recommend. It's written by Germany's most famous PUA and I'm currently in the process of …
/r/seduction06/09/12 12:07 PM
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I think you saved yourself pretty well with that last part, from what I can tell she seems interested. Just text her on Friday about where/when you're going and hint something sexual, like kingcal said, something like "make sure to look sexy ;)".
/r/seduction05/09/12 11:17 AM
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Will keep this in mind. I'll post a FR after the date tomorrow. I'll try and stay cool.
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:26 PM
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Sorry, I feel dumb for not having the rules in my head now. Will repost in askseddit. Thanks for the info and sorry for the inconvenience.
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:23 PM
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