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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -15 | High value women exercise their right to vote!Why? Some people don't believe in voting because they believe it doesn't change anything. I don't see what's so "low value" about believing that? Btw, I'm not American so don't come at me. Maybe you should respect other people's opinions. Doesn't mean they're apathetic. Hell, I'm the furthest from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:16 AM |
| -7 | High value women exercise their right to vote!Not everyone wants to vote. I'm not American and I believe voting is pointless. Doesn't mean I'm low value. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 15 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Of course they're sipping bud light. They're all the same lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 11 | I used to watch his videos as a kid. Just goes to show that you can't trust men.The eyes tho. Creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:03 PM |
| 20 | Hell, nahEwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 63 | The gaslighting this woman experienced is unreal. Let this serve as a reminder of why not to get involved with a LVM.Probably a strip club | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 50 | The gaslighting this woman experienced is unreal. Let this serve as a reminder of why not to get involved with a LVM.Why do so many women procreate with LVM they're not even married to? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | High value men in movies/tv?There's probably a difference between the book representation and the tv one. At least in the show he seemed to be a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:07 AM |
| 2 | High value men in movies/tv?Not Hollywood, but James Herriot from All Creatures Great and Small (british tv show from the 70's). He treats his wife really well, takes care of her when she's sick, surprises her with things, always respectful, is a great dad, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:02 AM |
| 6 | I'm tired of viewing men as the enemy.It's tough to find a HVM but I would try the law of attraction if I was you. You can really attract someone great into your life if you want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:17 PM |
| 44 | This has got to be one of the worst episodes of mainsplaining I’ve ever seen. Avoid men like Tom at all costs, and never let a man a speak down to you!Wow,what a narcissist. Also, why are politics majors so arrogant and think they know it all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?Vienna, Austria has an overwhelmingly large number of LVM. On OLD you won't even find one decent guy, at least in their early 20's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:59 AM |
| 11 | This showed up as “liked you.” Not only a liar but can’t add apparently.Male lawyers are ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:57 AM |
| 70 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoying"I'm NoT lIkE tHe OtHeR GiRlS!! PiCk MeEeEeE!!!!1111" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 16 | Right. To each their own I guess, but for me it's basic grooming?She'll also smell the cheese. Each to their own I guess. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 4 | My goals for the next few years 💛🧡💚Thanks! I'm really looking forward to it 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 8 | UGH!Funny I live in Germany but never heard them say that before. A lot of German guys are immature though. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | “I believe that one of the keys to understanding male violence is to understand the psychological impact of dealing with rejection. We must admit that as women, we face much less reflection than men”... from a major French feminist Instagram account. I can’t even cope.Probably a man behind that account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 17 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomThis breaks my heart, I hope she finds the strength to leave. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:03 AM |
| 3 | 3 Quality Traits Most Important to You in A HVMGenerous, compassionate and intelligent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:50 AM |
| 3 | What are some good books with HVM as the love interest?What the Wind Knows by Amy Harmon. I love this book! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:39 AM |
| 11 | Now they can't blame our mood swings either 💅🏽🤣screams in road rage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Broke people, please stay outWow, someone's insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:26 AM |
| 45 | Pickmeishas are telling on themselves and it’s hilarious 🤭"Misandrist" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 16 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsThat article scared me. We truly live in the end times. I wouldn't mind if an asteroid hit this planet tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 7 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Yup. They always like to shit on women's looks but themselves wear children's t-shirts that don't even fit over their bulging belly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:19 AM |
| 7 | I swear to God I have a neon sign over my head.It's the same with me although I rarely ever get any male attention (maybe bc I live in Germany). No guy my age (20) has ever come up to me or anything like that. I don't really get out that much at the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:17 AM |
| 270 | Imagine paying double the rent for the privilege of being a man’s room mateThat's some PUA/redpill language at the end right there. I hope she will dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:55 AM |
| 45 | He’s USING you girl!Because of her men see all goth girls as BDSM kinksters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 29 | Why do men generalise women based on nationality?They often think Russian or Eastern European women will be more submissive because "eViL fEmInIsM" isn't as popular there. So they automatically assume that they can just pump amd dump them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 29 | Why do men generalise women based on nationality?You're very right. They're not as intelligent as they think they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 32 | It’s always Dan’s on OLD 🤮🤮Plus he's looking for a model. Sure, a model is going to sleep with an ugly scrote. Dream on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 23 | It’s always Dan’s on OLD 🤮🤮Eww and he can't even spell "woman" correctly! Low effort 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 26 | My friend has officially deleted all OLD apps on her phone after a LVM sent her this and is now done with menI deleted tinder for good after a guy told me I had no personality. Yeah no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 8 | Flowers sent to my house even though he was seeing me later that day.That's so cute! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 35 | Love. It's different for us. She hugs him, he feels her ass while drinking.He's not even pretending to hug her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else see the irony of young male masseuse having to quit job over being butthurt about being solicited? [context r/askreddit what questionable practices in your profession regular folks no nothing about] poor scrote doesn’t like being objectified :(Yet if that comment was written by a woman, no one would have batted an eye or they would have told them to be "more open minded" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:23 AM |
| 97 | LVM can’t dress himself for his own wedding 🤦🏽♀️She looks to young for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 20 | Should I Tell Him I Think He's Cute? What Do Y'all Think?Remember that you're the prize, not him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:18 AM |
| 77 | On r/sex a woman let’s her boyfriend have sex with her while she’s asleep. I wrote a comment in response and a Pickmeisba went at me for it.Normalising rape and abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:43 AM |
| 68 | Glad the trash threw itself outBut he probably calls natural girls without makeup "ugly". You can't win with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:24 AM |
| 7 | FDS worked for me!Congrats to you! 💫 Which app was this on if I may ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:22 AM |
| 15 | FDS worked for me!Congrats to you! 💫 Which app was this on if I may ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:22 AM |
| 37 | Being A Teenage Girl Sucks. Glad she’s calling them out!Being young in 2020 is dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 25 | The scrotiest conversation of my lifeIt's worse because going dutch is part of their culture there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 68 | “NoT lOokiNg fOr AnYtHiNg SeRiOuS” but leaves breadcrumbs to hook and manipulate hopeful pick me’s. Your pussy isn’t going to “evolve” a situationship into a commitment.If they put their insta in their bio they usually have an inflated ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:20 AM |
| 16 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?She is partly a pickme. I told her about the fact that my ex bf raped me (during sex I wanted to stop but he kept going so I didn't consent anymore) she told me that I was overreacting and that it lies in the past and I should forget it. She even said it was unfair of me to expect him to stop before he finished, which shocked me. She later apologised but it still stings. Unfortunately she has some traditional views that sometimes are worryingly leaning towards the alt-right. She thinks women nee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 45 | Thoughts on this post? Everyone is blaming OP, but all she wanted was to spend more time with him instead of playing video games for hours.That's why we don't date gamers. That's like dating a 5 year old boy. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 18 | Girl, runFuck gamers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 38 | Is this lvm behavior? He's been going out but taking precautions. We've had great conversation so far so I'm not sure...Well, he doesn't seems to have many hobbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 33 | Where do you draw the line at protecting other women from potential LVM?I once had a 25 year old coworker who preyed on 18 year old women. Absolutely gross. So when we got a new 18 year old woman on our team I warned her about the guy and to not get involved. Turns out she was pansexual and more attracted to women so she probably wouldn't bother with him anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:46 AM |
| 7 | Liberal feminists think too highly of men and men's nature.This is one of the reasons I support the right to own a gun and I'm European. I wish we had that right here too. I can only rely on pepper spray here which is useless if you're dealing with multiple attackers. If women started standing up for themselves more maybe then, things would start to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 22 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄That 0 at the end tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Should the guy always text first?The guy should always initiate otherwise it comes across as desperate or that you're chasing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:43 PM |
| 10 | I can't even join a professional group without Men showing their porn inspired depravity.Happens in fandoms too. Had to leave the metal community because there are too many greasy, potbellied, beer-pissing sickos in there who constantly joke about porn and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:07 PM |
| 175 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisThat's manipulation. If someone pushed their political beliefs down my throat like this, I'd dump them immediately. It's one thing to have a discussion about a topic but this is a whole new level of crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 30 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menYep. Because it would be all about him again. He likes dark chocolate, so she has to like it too 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:52 AM |
| 18 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menThey probably get downvoted into oblivion though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:16 AM |
| 46 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menHe's mad he got rejected lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:05 AM |
| 27 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menI don't even want to read the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 162 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menThere's no way that's a woman. "Before you stamp your entitled little foot" 😂😂😂😭🤡 Yeah, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:46 AM |
| 7 | Form an orderly queue ladies... He’s a keeper (1. Is referring to fake tan)Ah, the usual bashing of western women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:45 PM |
| 30 | 🤡 and pickmeisha 👹looking for another 👹 to join their circus 🎪This is why OLD also sucks for lesbians/bisexuals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:56 PM |
| 21 | When they care more about their penises than they care about your wellbeing, RUN!Wow what an idiot. Why is it so hard for scrotes to understand basic female biology? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 11 | Husband (26) uses kink as an excuse to rape his wife(20) then attempts to gaslight her"I don't know what to do." Oh yes, you know exactly what you need to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:42 AM |
| 20 | Do you ever just wonder why you still like men...Who is that guy? I've never even heard of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 193 | Trying to put FDS into practice. Critique me, ladies!Last minute means they want sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:58 AM |
| 31 | Trying to put FDS into practice. Critique me, ladies!If he was HV he'd care about punctuation and grammar. What this guy is showing is low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:57 AM |
| 85 | Okay, what the actual fuckHis face is pretty punchable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 41 | When you post hot pics of yourself on insta, a guy from hinge I hadnt spoken to in months returns. I wish I hadn't said sorryHe was probably horny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 30 | Scrote pretty much ignores a date and then texts oh hey how are you! out of no where. #menactdumbtogetawaywithshitI suppose he's using his psychological knowledge to manipulate women. But honestly, I couldn't believe what I just read omggg 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 118 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsHow is the woman in the pic even unattractive? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 111 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsI bet he's a total catch lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 10 | No sis🤦♀️🤦♀️ we DON'T "simp"It literally sounds like it was made up by a 5 year old 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:32 PM |
| 50 | No sis🤦♀️🤦♀️ we DON'T "simp"Ugh the word "simp" is so problematic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:25 AM |
| 9 | Nothing wrong with just wanting to hook up, but low value males don’t even make an effort to get you to find the attractive. Why do they think it’s okay to speak to us like this?I once got a message like that on tinder. So fucking gross, I will never use it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:03 PM |
| 22 | Boundaries versus standardsMy ex bfs idea for a first date was a last minute date at some generic ice cream parlor. I was so dumb at the time with what I put up with. A 3€ ice cream, man that's so low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 47 | Dating in college - a waste of time?I wouldn't date in college if I were you. I'm at uni also and focusing on my education which is my top priority right now. If anything, guys in college will just waste your time and might break your heart, which you absolutely don't need right now. Heartbreak can really fuck things up and cause you to lose focus. I know from experience. Any HVM who are in college will not be dating now but focusing on their studies. They tend to look for a partner when in their mid twenties at least, once they'v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 14 | Are they even trying to get laid at this pointLmaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:02 AM |
| 135 | What a guy TRULY means when he says he just wants to be FWBsYes. It's offensive when a guy suggests FWB. It's like saying to someone that they're only worth a shag but not worth the effort of love and romance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:01 AM |
| 24 | She had me in the first half 😂Ah the typical name-calling if you don't agree with their pickme opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:20 PM |
| 32 | Tinder LingoAnd when they are on top, they don't even bother looking at you because all you are to them is a sex toy. 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 09:11 AM |
| 54 | Tinder Lingo"Just ask me anything." = I'm too lazy to make any effort so I'm just going to let a desperate pickme worship me. + I'm selfish. In all honesty though, where do they get these from? Do they get them from PUA coaches or do they just copy their "mates" in hopes of getting laid? "Yeah bro, I got 10 matches today. Those b*itches be wantin' the D." So ridiculous and trashy lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 09:08 AM |
| 18 | Sexually coerced?You need to report him to the police. His behaviour was not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 08:56 AM |
| 8 | For a bad time, swipe right!Lol why doesn't he just get a fleshlight? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 88 | Date= kiss me?!!!!! KiSs mE?!The entitlement is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 26 | KHLOE THE CLOWNI always thought she was a clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 10 | How to distinguish a LVM from a HVM early on?It's a massive red flag when a guy claims he's been through trauma and uses that as an excuse to not commit. That's a common pattern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 77 | 😩I would reply: "How about you shut up under that mask?" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 99 | If you make the first move he will settle for you even if he thinks less of youImagine seeing women as numbers instead of human beings. Yes, you wouldn't want someone like that in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 55 | Why men come back... And why you shouldn't take him backMy ex did this after about 2 months or so and wanted to see me again. Then I told him that I have better things to do and preparing for university. He got really bitter after that lol. 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 19 | Men and farting/burping.Lmao my trash ex used to fart in MY OWN BED. Yes, that actually happened, multiple times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 24 | Tinder over 50 is a horror show...Puckered up his lips lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:19 PM |
| 10 | I’m so tired of Reddit y’all.I just hope we can get to those same numbers of people we had on reddit onto the other platforms. FDS on reddit was such a great community...saved me from myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 15 | I’m so tired of Reddit y’all.Yep, it is. We women need our own social media spaces. From women for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 6 | I’m so tired of Reddit y’all.At least LDS is still up, but for how long I wonder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:58 PM |
| 22 | I’m so tired of Reddit y’all.Time to get off reddit then I suppose. 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:50 PM |
| 36 | I’m so tired of Reddit y’all.Wow that was quick. 😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:46 PM |
| 13 | Another gem found on bumble.Toilet in the background..seems fitting! 🚽🧻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:54 AM |
| 6 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.Lol. Is he a bird or some shit? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:51 AM |
| 27 | Hmm.. what should she do??...Such a difficult question lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Created a new subreddit in case this one gets banned!There's already a spam post in there. It needs to be monitored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Spotted: another gem on bumble.Ah, now I get it. Eminem fans are the same lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Spotted: another gem on bumble.Those tattoos look terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Spotted: another gem on bumble.What's ICP? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:38 PM |
| 32 | IT IS TIME TO #BLOCKANDDELETE REDDItYup. The two guys that fucked me over (fuckboy and narcisstic ex bf) both were regular reddit users. Don't date reddit users. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do older men (35+) on apps really make no effort.It's the exact same thing with younger men who are in their 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 07:36 AM |
| 19 | If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him.I feel annoyed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 13 | PSA: This is not a sub for binary political or ideological thinking or adherence to established belief systems, this is a sub for STRATEGY.Thanks for this. I'm fed up with both sides of the political spectrum and all this talk about corona. Can't we just leave it aside for just one moment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:36 AM |
| 11 | Need AdviceI'd unmatch. It seems like he's messing around. All men on OLD are messing around... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:09 AM |
| 5 | INCELS LOVEE to sexualize women with dogs.I'll take dogs over shitty men any day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:58 AM |
| 12 | Woman cancels date with stranger, entitled guy has tantrum over itHis history reeks of vomit and messy rooms...🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do guys who look like a thumb, and have a minimum wage job think they’ll get this?Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:01 PM |
| 20 | This is my new bar, minus the marijuanaI wouldn't trust any guys on OLD. ALL of them are trash unfortunately. Some try to make their profiles look "great" just so they can get laid. Once there was a guy I talked to on OLD who had a great profile and seemed really nice, but was actually a fuckboy. We talked for 5 days and he never asked me out so I gave up and he never texted me again. Says it all. Also, by putting in his profile that he is a "Buddhist" he might try to seem "woke" to attract naive women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:54 PM |
| 12 | Disappointed but not surprisedOnly a LVM would insult his own family like that 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 11 | Is it a new trend scrotes put a kissing photo in their dating profile? I’ve seen a few of them but this is the lowest of the low. Leave a one-word review for this 😂Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:19 PM |
| 26 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?The attractive guys don't use OLD. Even irl they're rare. If I have a crush it's usually someone famous lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:01 PM |
| 100 | Future HVM! Kudos on Whoever Raised Him Right (It Sure as Hell Ain't the Dad)That moment when a child knows how to behave better than a grown "man". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:28 AM |
| 2 | How do I deal with insecurity about my looks?I already deleted twitter which helped a lot but can't let go of Instagram somehow 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with insecurity about my looks?Haha no 😂 he's getting married to his girlfriend soon. She's so lucky! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:15 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with insecurity about my looks?Some probably are HVM but most are LVM, just like with the not so good-looking guys. I do have high standards when it comes to personality but also high standards when it comes to looks. I can't really help it. And I guess the reflection part is somewhat true too. I don't really like the thought of settling, I only want to settle for someone who ticks the boxes. But you're right, I have to work on my self-esteem first. Because that's really the thing that attracts good people. Confidence. I stru… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with insecurity about my looks?I've been lurking in r/skincareaddiction for awhile now but didn't realise there was so much to read up on. I'll definitely check it out! I've recently added retinol to my routine and I feel like it's helping already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 4 | How do I deal with insecurity about my looks?Thanks. I'm currently working on my skin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 61 | Desired vs. DegradedYes same! I realised I have never really been desired by a man, only sexualised. "I couldn't stop staring at your ass." - Fuckboy coworker "I can't believe it, my life is awesome. I've got a hot girl lying next to me...." - my ex when we were already in a relationship, he made it sound like I was just a hookup. He was full of himself. Makes you think, doesn't it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 31 | This is what will happen if you don't quit being a pickmeisha....I hope they don't reproduce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 50 | Males be like"Shy" is just an excuse for low effort, hence they just wanna fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 28 | This is why you NEVER should send/post nudes. Scrotes will use it against you and ruin your life.Unreal. It's not like the same thing would have happened if the poster was male. Men can post nudes without being shamed. If a woman does it, she's suddenly a sl*t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 05:04 PM |
| 35 | “Men are very creative when they’re really in love with you”He sounds really lovely! Where did you meet him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:37 PM |
| 14 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord!Yep. Definitely a pedo who is into incest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 19 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord!Wtaf. And he watches 50 Shades of Grey with his daughter.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 80 | Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemicShe probably won't dump him though and make more excuses for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 39 | Men inherently derive pleasure from CRUELTYRevolting 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:11 PM |
| 63 | Our expectations aren’t unreasonableAnd then they call us gold diggers 🤣 they have no arguments so they resort to name-calling like some dude just did in my DMs. 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:08 PM |
| 29 | OLDBecause most of them are looking for easy sex. They want a pickmeisha who will suck up to them. There seem to be plenty of them around unfortuantely. Are you on tinder? Tinder and bumble seem to be the worst apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 11 | Another bingo: FUCKBOYS you fucked (and I hope it stays in the past) 💀Don't forget weed, energy drinks, instant noodles and netflix 😂😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:20 AM |
| 29 | When a man wants you, he’ll let you knowI see. My LVM ex committed after two weeks but I think this could be classed as lovebombing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:12 AM |
| 8 | When a man wants you, he’ll let you knowWhat do you think would be a good timeframe to commit for a guy? After a month or longer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:53 AM |
| 43 | Ladies, let's talk about porn in a relationship.I know it sounds tough, but I would leave him if I were you. He clearly doesn't value you enough and it hurts me to read it. As you already said yourself, he shouldn't need porn to get off. How long before he wants to do the things they do in porn, like the anal and BDSM stuff? Porn messes with people's minds, including your bf. If he was a HVM he would realise that the porn industry is extremely damaging to women and he would avoid it. He makes you feel rejected and that is not a good base for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 20 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?I was being a pickme to ome of my coworkers. I asked for his number, asked him out. We set up a "date". The day before that date he invited me to his home for a "cooking date". Basically a booty call but I thought it was romantic. Well, he used me for sex. He was so fucking bad in bed. Next day, he camcels the date saying he's "ill" and we rescedule to next day. Later it comes out that he wasn't really ill, because he watched game of thrones and "studied". I was hurt by that but that didn't stop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:31 AM |
| 23 | I'm so confused... Sorry I didn't have much dating experience and this is my first heartbreak.I don't believe his ex was abusive. Most men call their exes crazy, maybe his ex finally had ENOUGH. Just block this loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:59 PM |
| 86 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.Why do they have to attack anyone or anything that is female? Next they'll be fucking plants that are female (yes, plants can be male or female). They literally hate us women. They hate animals. See, this is why I want to work in animal protection. I can't bear this shit. If I came across any of this scum mentioned they wouldn't be alive for long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:14 AM |
| 58 | “ 5’8 “I don't understand why women still use apps like bumble. It's literal trash. The men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 13 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.Wow, what a scumbag. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:13 PM |
| 35 | Women can't be high maintenance but then he says this.And I used to think Irish dudes were gentlemen lol. My ex is Irish and he is a scumbag. Fat too and lacking in hygiene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:07 PM |
| 47 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.Yes this. I was tricked by an LVM coworker once in this exact way. At the time I was a full pickmeisha and was super happy when he invited me to his place to cook for me. Note that it was all very sudden and he invited me like an hour before. I thought he was being romantic...LOL 😂😭🤣 Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:50 PM |
| 14 | What should I do?If a man says "he doesn't know yet if he's into you" and "we'll see in the future", it's a MASSIVE red flag. 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:42 PM |
| 45 | Imagine being pregnant but your man doesn't care enough about you...Yeah, he's acting like a total victim. Typical. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 67 | Do you think men rate themselves higher?Yes. At the same time they like putting women down like crazy but if someone criticises something about them they get all offended. Many men have a fragile ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 07:00 PM |
| 20 | Ladies, save your empathy for...Yes! Animals are incredibly important to me. I care more about them than about men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 33 | Thinking of ghosting a LVMJust ghost him, he's a trashcan and he doesn't deserve anything better. Women need to stop making excuses and care about "men's feelings". They don't give a shit about our feelings so why should we care about theirs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 05:40 PM |
| 26 | The NVM ManchildMy ex never took his tooth brush with him when he would stay over at my place even after asking him to. So in the evening when going to bed he wouldn't clean his teeth and the morning after neither. His pubic hair stunk of cheese. It's so gross, like how do women tolerate such behaviour? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 02:54 AM |
| 25 | Why do some guys think they’ll get matches by talking like this?I feel sick by men on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 74 | Is it just me or...Yep. They all either smoke weed, listen to hiphop, play video games, binge Netflix, watch porn, stuff their faces with instant noodles and other shit "food", say they like hiking, coffee and cuddling. Most of them probably have never picked up a book outside of school. Boring as fuck. I think I'll throw a party if I ever find a guy who doesn't do any of these things. Someone who isn't generic. A guy who takes care of his health, loves animals, has an interesting music taste, intelligent etc. At … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 94 | My friend is seeing a guy who keeps sanitary pads at his house for his female friends and she thinks this is a HVM traitThey're probably for the women whom he strings along and tricks them into having sex with him. He sounds like a fuckboy, honestly. It's the same thing with condoms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 13 | “The Relationship App” 🙄That's why I never use Hinge. It's almost worse than tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:25 PM |
| 26 | I don’t know what’s worse, the audacity or the fact that these were all from different profiles 🙄As a Buddhist I wholeheartedly agree. It's gross when these scrotes take our traditions and commodify them and use them in their sick porn fetishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:01 PM |
| 33 | When it comes to sex, make your specific needs clear from the start and if he fails when the time comes, dump him IMMEDIATELYYep. In the beginning my ex always paid for condoms but after a while expected me to pay for them the night before he decided to dump me. Big no-no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 09:27 AM |
| 59 | I'm screaming lmaoWhy on earth do they call themselves '"alpha males"? To me they seem like "betas" bc they're full of shit and narcisstic. Generally goes for men who are into this whole alpha thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:40 PM |
| 22 | Dump him, sis 😩Oh god. This is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Opinion- DON'T DATE INTERRACIALLY.I see this happening all the time but mainly within the same race. You will see a lot of Western guys wanting to date Eastern European women because according to them they are more "submissive and not brainwashed by feminism". It's honestly disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Is it normal that guys in their early 20s expect you to pay and how would you do about it?That makes me feel hopeless since I'm from Europe 😂 There MUST be HVM here somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:30 PM |
| 73 | Oh this poor girl - 10 year age gap relationship, fiancé agrees to have a baby with her (he also has prior child with “toxic” ex), then completely flips the script on her...Yep. That's the biggest shit men pull. "Omg you wouldn't believe how crazy my ex was, she wanted to be treated with some respect! Unbelievable!!!11!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:27 PM |
| 21 | 3 Lies...typical scroteHinge is terrible. I tried it once and ALL the men on there were arrogant and entitled. I deleted the app after 5 minutes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 13 | From tinder a while ago, have at himPretty girl rock 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Everyone name filters their dating pool whether they admit it or not. What are your no goes?Seán. 100% The two LVM's that were in my life both had that name. Plus many misogynist rappers like Big Sean or Sean Paul have that name. So yeah, I say no to any guy named Sean. 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:59 AM |
| 27 | Are most LVM in America?? Thinking about leaving this country for good.Unfortunately this is the case for most men from Eastern Europe. I'm half-Polish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Are most LVM in America?? Thinking about leaving this country for good.I've used tinder in Ireland and Germany. Most are trash on there, most men don't even put anything in their profile! I assume they just look for hookups. In Ireland most guys had god aweful photos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:22 PM |
| 69 | Could we have queen meet-ups? I need an IRL FDA girlfriend in my life.I was just thinking this today but there are too many creepy men unfortunately who might pretend to be women. Have you tried Bumble Bff before? I'll be trying it myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Fuck. We’ve been found out. Ladies, we need to restrategize ASAP! They’re onto us.Nah, that's fake. I grew up in buddhism bc my mother is a buddhist and there are some people who want to make the religion look bad. I don't buy into it. Women and men are equal under buddhist philosophy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 20 | Fuck. We’ve been found out. Ladies, we need to restrategize ASAP! They’re onto us.These guys need buddhism seriously 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 27 | Shorcels can’t cope with FDS telling women to raise their standards. Reminder: these manlets think women actually fuck dogs (aka dogpilled) and openly hate and wish death upon us. Yet our sub is the problematic one?"Foids"? Now THAT'S original 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 20 | Marriage is an econmic propositionI love this movie 💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Pickmeishas really piss me offI know right? Idc about pickmeishas generally but when they start lecturing others it's a no-go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:27 AM |
| 3 | With all this talk about paying...You're right. We also get tonnes of that libfem propaganda unfortunately... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:26 AM |
| 4 | With all this talk about paying...Ah, alright. I'm glad about that. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:15 AM |
| 20 | With all this talk about paying...I'm confused because I live in central europe (germany/austria) and apparently people go dutch here when dating. I've never dated here but idk how it really is culturally. I do think the guy should definitely pay! Does anyone know more about this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 10:59 PM |
| 48 | Advice from a Woman Who Proposed to a Man: “Don’t do it” she said, adding that when the woman asks, “they don’t take it seriously.” 🤡I would never marry someone who yelled at me. That guy was really disrespectful to her at the beginning, who know he won't be in marriage? Poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:40 AM |
| 5 | CringeHe's going to dump her once they have kids probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:28 AM |
| 22 | More stupid OLD profiles!What the actual fuck? Can we stop using "h*e" in 2020 y'all? I'm sick of that word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:11 AM |
| 53 | Every. Time.Ughhh I can relate. "Out of all the girls that listen to metal, you're the prettiest!" Oh, fuck off you fuckboy! 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:37 PM |
| 24 | To all my lovely cat ladies out there!Gotta love cats 🐱🐈💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:24 PM |
| 16 | How much efforts did you put into meeting someone from dating app?They want to keep their weekends for their "bros". If they actually were interested they would make time for you AND make the effort to travel to you. These guys you talked to are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?Exactly! Almost everyone likes music and food 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:57 PM |
| 22 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?Probably just an excuse so they can do the low-effort coffee date thing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 5 | I am too 18th century and I need help!!At least there wasn't any porn though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:33 PM |
| 41 | Don’t be a semen receptacle for dudes addicted to vidya.This is why I don't date gamers... If a guy says he plays video games that's an instant no from me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:30 PM |
| 10 | STOP settling for less. He should be courting, texting, approaching you first on all formats. OLD, IRL, LTR, it does not matter.Yeah, I was confused about that. Thanks for clearing it up! 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 14 | STOP settling for less. He should be courting, texting, approaching you first on all formats. OLD, IRL, LTR, it does not matter.How is it when dropping hints you like a guy by making eye contact and smiling? Is that alright or does that come across as pickme behaviour? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 8 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themHopefully ☺️ I already have some ideas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 32 | LVMs on dating apps aren't looking for commitment but want to have kids :PUgh these men should NEVER breed 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 23 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themI'm going off to university in Austria in a week. I'll be studying archaeology at undergrad level because it's my dream to work in the heritage field. I think it's so important to respect and honor our past and ancestors! I'm particularly interested in Celtic archaeology, in which I hope to specialise in for my Master's. Was thinking of going to Edinburgh or Oxford for that one. I'd love to work in some kind of museum/heritage site one day or in research. I also want to start a mental health/lif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 21 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateI was a pickmeisha back then but even his behaviour bothered me in the end. The fact that he dumped me shortly after was a blessing lol Apparently I was "too clingy" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 36 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateMy ex used to finish first and then just lie there dozing off and I'd have to masturbate right next to him to get off. 😡🤬 He wouldn't really make an effort when I asked him to give me oral and I just gave up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 16 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.I used to watch Mad Men too but found that the male characters were narcissistic assholes. What annoyed me was how they treated Peggy Olson but she was also a bit of a pickme. The one character I liked (and had a crush on lol) was Joan Holloway because she was confident. But you're right, that show in general is annoying af 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:03 PM |
| 12 | I’m (F,20) confused. Did he (23m) lose interest right after asking me to be exclusive ? Should I move on already or is he being pensive ?To me it's a warning sign if they want to be exclusive too soon. Shows that they don't really want to take the time to get to know you but want to brag to their friends that they have a girlfriend and how "cool" that makes them. Sounds like a narcissist to me if I'm honest. Probably has self-worth issues too. Also the fact that he can't take 2 seconds to send you a text is a RED FLAG. Dump his ass. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Matthew Hussey?Indeed it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 12 | Thoughts on Matthew Hussey?Lol the British accent part made me laugh 😂 I'm British myself so his accent is not exotic to me. I guess our accents sound "gentlemanly" when spoken by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:56 PM |
| 9 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!ACAB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 36 | Thoughts on Matthew Hussey?It's so sad because in the end it's all about men again and how to please THEM when they should be pleasing and impressing us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | 50 Cent confirmed LVMThing is, lots of women still listen to that tripe thinking it's "cool" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:57 PM |
| 16 | These “my boyfriend was terrible on my birthday, am I an asshole for expecting him to not be terrible on my birthday?” type posts are causing me PHYSICAL PAINDump his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 15 | Both of those desserts taste eager, stupid and devoid of self respect...That is so disgusting omg I don't get people who have this type of fetish. Just imagine getting pregnant from one of these guys! 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:44 PM |
| 8 | FDS: Where we don't settle or pander to men's wantsThanks for the info. I suspected that which is why I left that sub. Feels good to declutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 13 | FDS: Where we don't settle or pander to men's wantsWhat do you think of r/relationship_advice? Idk know if the advice there can be trusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a boring man? Does a boring man = LVM?Nope. Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 11 | [Discussion] Has anyone here found quality partners resulting in a healthy relationship from sex apps like Tinder?You're right. It's like one can never relax when it comes to relationships and dating these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 21 | [Discussion] Has anyone here found quality partners resulting in a healthy relationship from sex apps like Tinder?I just asked myself this question too. I met my ex on tinder and he turned out to be a LVM. In the beginning he lovebombed me and showed some red flags that suggested he was a narcissist but I ignored them at the time because I was desperate. I still cringe so hard when I think of it all and the way he disrespected me (like not listening to me in bed or not caring about my pleasure). My ex then dumped me via Whatsapp because I dared to make a reddit post asking for advice because I felt like he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:54 PM |
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