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I can properly respond to you now since I have am home. I have a real job, so earlier i was on my phone. Never said success is easy. Esp. in america, we live in a liberal, competitive country. To achieve success, you must invest in yourself, develop your talents, and work diligently. How do you get people to pay you? By and large you serve them in ways they want. Other people want to do this too, so you have to be better than them or find someone no one else wants to do. And this will 100% teach…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/25 01:49 AM
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They are with the women i pay. They are part of the whole package. So we will go to an event, or activity (I typically plan 2-3 unless it is a big event) and then have 'desert' afterward. And, truth be told, i only do this with one woman right now that I have a good arrangement with. I do see other SWers but those will just be sex or a simple dinner and then sex. I want to make sure i get along with a SWer before i pay her a ton of money for an extended activity. When i first started hobbying. I…
/r/seduction21/02/25 06:37 PM
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Yes. I can "just have sex" whenever i want. But I typically set up experiences that are longer and involce things other than sex. I particularly enjoy theme parks, museums, escape rooms concerts, and nerd events. But those are more expensive because of tbe time and logistics investment
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:44 PM
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Without going to soecifics, i have done this The issue is that tou can never know joe much a sex worker trult likes you, so it does not help you feel more attractive. I personally have noticed that i probably feel less attractive but i cant tell if that is because of "hobbying" or because i dont get any attention from women ( i never have). It has helped me feel better about women though. I used to think i was creepy or a mysogynist, but now I feel like i am a safe good person for them. SWers ar…
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:05 PM
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Yeah I guess its just like I can't imagine women being nice to me for me. So money is all i have.
/r/seduction03/03/20 02:59 AM
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That's judgemental. Stripping is a job. I have known many many strippers and they are as varied as can be. I actually think the stigma behind thier job makes it tougher and harder on them and actually does make some of them into the kind of people that people think about them. Be that as it may. I should go cold turkey but it is hard man. I get rejected and have women tell me off. Or just plane ol ignored and like. I go to the strip club and they are often quite nice to me. Its hard to quit beca…
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:39 AM
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Honestly. I have gone a bit overboard with SC's as of late and I am thinking a lot of them. I definately have been relying on them too much for female interaction and it has gotten very expensive. BUT. I make a decent wage so I can afford it. It has kind of killed my self esteem as I have come to see myself as worth as much money I have and I don't know what to do about it. BUT I often think if I should just go full bore and eventually be a SD. Some guys on TUSCL are saying they are and they are…
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:37 PM
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Given that a woman has never done this. Is it correct to assume I will die alone then?
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:14 AM
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Yeah. Makes sense. Makes me wonder if some of the critics of game and pua think this is what it is about.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:27 PM
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You can not convince someone that does not want to . But you can preselect and get good at reading bodly language. Seen tons of guys do this into their 40s and even 50s. But if you want to believe game is a lie that is fine too.
/r/seduction20/06/19 12:55 PM
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Wait. Fwiw, i am more about just pulling and pick up at the moment than dating and having a relationship. So I mostly go at fridays and saturdays although it has been a while. And i have never done it. the best hting ill get is some women will dirty dance and make out with me for a bit. Actually that is interesting. I have actually had some woman just love me for my dancing and have followed me around from club to club and that is the closest I have gotten to pick up. Here is why I don't do rela…
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:56 AM
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This is a good point. Funny you would think that it is easier to pick up in big cities do to numbers (which erase any ratio imbalance). I am apparently in one of the best cities for dating (DC) as it has a high ratio but it isn't easier. Also I don't drink. But bars still seem to be the best location since the women are there and more open? I mean i would love to just day game in the mall or in book stores but girls there just don't want to meet guys. I also go to anime cons but those girls are …
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:35 AM
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So pretty much the only thing pick up artists say is "go out and practice until you get more confident". Everything else they do is just build you up to actually do this. Or they try to explain and give us o erthinkers something to go off on. Anyway. Whats the alternative? Do nothing? Die alone? Get funneled into one of the previous things i mentioned? It feels like pickup is the only option left.
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:15 AM
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I wonder this about [Interfusion](https://interfusionfestival.com/) festival. It seems insane. A big festival full of women. And parts of it involve dance, partner aero and even a sexuality session. It seems too good to be true. ​ so it probably is. Unfortunately I can not go there with an agenda. Just like I can not go to a dance class with an agenda. I don't know not to have an agenda. So bars and clubs are it for now. Since i figure the women that go there know what they are in for.
/r/seduction18/06/19 06:47 AM
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This is why I hate it when people say "Just be yourself.". You can have the most interesting life, hobbies, etc. etc. and everything. You can take women on amazing dates and make them feel very happy. You can be there and listen to them. But in the end you still need to be confident and make a move. SMH. Shit likes this makes me never want to invite women that I want to date into my life until I know we are actually going to be a couple.
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:11 PM
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You have gone to bootcamps? What were they like? Your story kind of scares me since I am a similiar age and have similiar results. I have not approached as much as you, but I have gone out, mostly to nightclubs, and have had similiar levels of lack of success. ​ I would suggest you need a good coach or wingman to look at your form and give honest feedback. You probably have some issues with body language or tonality that can be addressed but this would have to be done in person with supervision.…
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:30 AM
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is he really? nice. I might buy it then.
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:19 AM
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Todd Valentine has a good perpspective on this The whole alpha vs beta thing isn't real but being confident is what makes you more attractive. Then againg. Every dating advice person says to be confident.
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:04 AM
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