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The term “alpha” and what it means is based on what you value. It means nothing more than the best of the best. You can be the alpha in terms of intelligence, charisma and attractiveness and kindness and drive and everything. The term alpha is just an empty term. Just be the best you.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 04:01 AM
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I guess my perception of who is a redpiller is different then. Maybe I think more generally of guys who are bitter. Also, women can absolutely reinforce toxic masculinity and saying oh baby, it’s okay to open up and then seeing him cry and seeing him as less attractive is definitely shitty. Pro-tip for men: if she expects you to pay for everything, is upset when you show emotions or sets healthy boundaries, tells you to man up: run. She will only make the problems you’re dealing with worse. So I…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 09:15 PM
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Your feelings are valid and I get what you're saying. I think sometimes its a little easier to be overwhelmed by the left because all the beliefs are very forward thinking. Not in a necessarily good way but in a way that feels very forced and bizarre. I never would have thought 10 years ago the discussion of transgender would ever be this way. And the conservative views feel more reasonable because it's been there done that. That's inherent in the name. Conservative is to keep things the same. L…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 08:42 PM
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Well, I've had horrible luck with dating. I was horribly insecure as a kid and high schooler. I never got asked to any dance in high school. I was not as insecure in college though it was still there but I was in theatre and a very small conservative Christian community where I actually didn't agree with very much. So limited dating pool. And then I graduated and moved to NYC. And it is the hardest place for women to date. The gender balance is totally off and to be "pretty" you have to have a s…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 08:16 PM
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I’m so happy to hear you are in such a healthier place! Keep sharing your story! We need to hear it.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:42 PM
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I think that the women that are tall and still have an easy time is if you're really slim like a model. Men don't want to feel like they are smaller in all aspects. And as a woman, I'm okay with a shorter guy (not shorter than me and I'm 5'5) if he is a fit and has more manly body, mostly with nice arms which is always a plus. But that's related to wanting to feel protected and women love that. Feeling protected is one of the most attractive and emotionally connecting thing and it can be related…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:25 PM
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I don't think the Blue Pill community thinks its equal. I think it would be that the men have it easier. I do think that they struggle in different way and its not just that its different but I think that men and women face problems that are the inverse of each other. Men are told they are metrosexual if they work too hard on their appearance and women are not feminine enough or lazy if they don't do everything to make themselves more attractive. Men are told to do all the pursuing and women are…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:19 PM
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Interesting take and I agree with you on some of it. But I don't think there's a focus on self-improvement. I think the opposite. I think there's a lot learned helplessness. I think that's a carry over from when we're younger and in college or high school and for some, those times had a lot of social trauma like bullying or embarrassing levels of rejection. But they are having a hard time healing from it because of societal expectations of men to not show emotions. If you can't show them, you ca…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:07 PM
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I love that! It's not negative masculinity. It's something we take it that in not inherent to ourselves or our gender. God bless.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 06:41 PM
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I really appreciate the bots saying that this person has negative or very low karma. It's like calm down, its not worth it.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 06:39 PM
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Living 10+ in the past with an exception of traumatic experience is unhealthy yes. We should not be judging the people today based off what our peers were doing before scientifically their brains weren’t even fully developed. I think that’s only logical.
/r/AllPillDebate17/12/22 10:29 PM
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High school? You’re past college and still let something in high school affect your perspective on dating? That’s not healthy
/r/AllPillDebate17/12/22 09:56 PM
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Yes, they do because a large portion of men have poor grooming habits and don’t know how to dress themselves well. There are many things a man can do to improve their appearance but because they are afraid of being perceived as more feminine, they don’t. But that’s not excuse. A reason but doesn’t mean they shouldn’t try. Women are taught to scrutinize their appearance at a very young age and by the time they hit puberty, they are told to buy a shit ton of products and change their appearance 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:39 PM
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I disagree and so do many studies. There are many studies that say that men overestimate their attractiveness at pretty high level and some men don't believe in leagues at all while most women universally do believe leagues exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:25 PM
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Women go to the gym too😂 also if skincare so easy why don’t men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:48 AM
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For real. I converse with a guy I know is over 6ft+ and I’m like “nope, not worth it”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:37 AM
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Wait, you’re 5’10 and you think women turn you down because of your height? I think you need to reassess because 99% of the time YOUR height is not a factor at all about why you’re getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:34 AM
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Because with the way the beauty industry work, high earning women can afford more cosmetic services or clothing or diet. You can easily buy pretty in many different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:18 AM
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We shouldn’t tell people to lower their standards but raise their standards for their self.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:17 AM
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Men wanting women smaller than them is also hypocritical. And not just in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:16 AM
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But not so much, you’re becoming their life coach. Not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:14 AM
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And would want someone overweight if you were a big fitness person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:11 AM
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And men. All men want a beautiful woman. And an large portion of those men will do nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:09 AM
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And we make the soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:05 AM
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Intelligent, kind, moderately ambitious/passionate, shows some upward mobility, 5’8-6’1, decent in shape, abs are not necessary. Good skin, good hair, mostly of them attainable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:02 AM
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That’s a very good point. When she does, she is more often than not as someone working to improve by saving money or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:56 AM
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There’s no need to be mean like that. This sub seems invested in productive conversations and making assumptions doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:53 AM
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My same question! And inversely what masculine traits you mean? I think many feminists are aware that their femininity holds power. Their natural aptitude to be sympathetic, soft, caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:52 AM
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Coming from a person with bipolar and BDD. I think for me because your period and childbirth and all that, is constantly being bombarded with being told I can do something to change my appearance to make myself look better hoping I will be treated better. It seems from my observations because of how gender works men and woman faced inverse trauma and pain. As a woman because of society when I would go on a date I would feel pressured to get an eyebrow wax, maybe a bang trim, new makeup, new clot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:47 AM
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That sounds awful. I’m sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:24 AM
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I was dating a guy that did have a smaller specimen but I didn’t think he had a small dick! Not at all. What gave me the ick was that is his apartment was gross and he expected me to be his new life coach. To all listening, your partner is not a life coach. Thinking this will only prevent you from improving and causing your relationships to end because you’re partner is exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:22 AM
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I definitely think you make a great point that many misogynistic men get laid! I think also it has more to do with poor social skills but attractiveness as something to do with it too. Because also many men are unattractive and can get laid. Because we tend to think of attractiveness as a picture we see on a dating app but attractiveness comes just as much if not more from how you carry yourself. I just went on a date with a guy today and he was decent looking but when we meet it totally changed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:19 AM
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They communicate differently. Men need women to be upfront and women need men to listen more to the nuance they are trying to discuss. If woman were to be more direct and still express the nuance, then it would be woman ahead. But when a woman is direct often she is portrayed as a bitch or bossy. Not just by men they are in relationships, but as a society. But if men were to figure out their own emotions and study themselves in that way, they would be better communicators. The key is to understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:14 AM
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