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longboatlarry/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 02:37 PM
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longboatlarry/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 02:02 AM
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Do it mostly for the kids as they will want as much normalcy as possible and also do it for your ex. It’s only a costume and you’ve agreed to remain friends. I don’t see any risk to this approach
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/21 10:54 PM
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Unfortunately after divorce we see the worst in our old partners. I’ll never understand the entitlement they think they deserve after we’ve provided them a financially secure future. Must just be purely revenge or spite
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/21 08:32 PM
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Bud. I’m going through that right now. Married for 24 years. Separated 3 years ago. I also have a high net worth and she has enough to retire at 51 already. Although she’s claiming she has to work until 70. I am worn out from working my ass off for last 30 years and reduced my work to two days a week. She’s taking me to court to impute full time income to me. She’s relentless. My lawyer tells me that family courts expect us to work as hard as we can for as long as we can. There is not benefit to…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/21 07:21 PM
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Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/21 05:45 AM
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Yes. We go to court Oct 4. We are meeting in a few days to discuss the case. She doesn’t think a judge will expect me to leave for work but because I’ve done it willingly for over ten years she’s not %100 sure. She is searching for case law that might help. I just thought I’d reach out to this group in case someone had similar experience and how it worked out
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 11:15 AM
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Thanks bud. Sounds like very similar circumstances. I did quit voluntarily but that was stated in my separation agreement so hopefully that helps. Also I do have significant proof of spinal degeneration. On one hand I feel confident a judge will see I’ve done enough. On the other hand I see so many other stories of guys in similar situations that get shafted.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 05:57 AM
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No. I was working overseas making good money. It was difficult work and I made sure the agreement showed that I had no intention of doing it long term. She got used to the high income. Now expects me to go to Alberta to work. I’m too worn out to go freeze my ass off in order to try and fill her unfillable financial cup
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 05:16 AM
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I hope your kidding but if not hope you can protect the kids
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 11:14 PM
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Yeah. She was never satisfied so I should have seen this coming but stayed for the kids. This is the price we pay for staying. She has no debts and enough to retire and still willing to spend thousands on lawyers to get extra
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 10:52 PM
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Will do. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 06:00 PM
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I’m in BC Canada
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 05:03 PM
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I have medical scans and my doctors note stating my medical issues. I’m still paying support on my lawyers advice. We’re hoping the judge will order her to return some of that back to me when we go to court next month
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 03:13 PM
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I’m 53. She’s 51. Agreement states that when my overseas work ends we would vary support based on my new income. She has refused to negotiate for almost a year and is suggesting that I’m underemployed now
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 03:10 PM
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Atta boy. Congrats.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 04:57 AM
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No worries. And yes I’m available to talk about it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 12:13 PM
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I understand exactly how you feel. I stayed way too long but I did it for the kids. Since divorcing I see things a lot more clearly. It takes getting out to get the perspective. I haven’t regretted divorcing my ex once in five years. It was tough on the kids but I spent a lot of time with them and they are all fine with the way things are now. By the way, most, If your wife doesn’t want to go to counselling or investigate the low libido that pretty much shows her commitment to the relationship
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 02:26 PM
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Sex is an integral part of a relationship. We all have periods of low libido but she either has a medical condition or doesn’t love you deeply. I’m 53. Separated 5 years ago and divorced for 2 1/2 years. Similar situation. Sex life was great in the beginning but became less and less as time went on. There’s way more to it than just sex though. Feel free to private message me if you want to chat. I’ve had my struggles but overall I am happy I have my freedom back. I learned a lot about myself sin…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 03:39 AM
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53 but I have the body of a 52 year old!! Haha
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 03:19 PM
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Yeah. Will do. Thanks bud.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 03:17 AM
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Three kids grown and thriving. Last boy is 18 and will be done school in a couple months. He’s been splitting his time equally between ex and I which has been fine for everyone. Definitely like the nanny idea
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 03:16 AM
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That’s the issue. I’m trying to retire for several reasons. I think of done enough and also body isn’t capable of working in the trades anymore. The courts can impute income to me and I’d be forced to pay support based on that income. Even if I’m not earning it. My lawyer just updated me today. Ex is actually asking for $500,000 more. I can’t even hold my head up anymore. Seems like I’m fucked either way
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 01:19 AM
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Nothing sounds better bud but if I don’t comply the government can garnishee my wages. If I move out of the country they can cancel my passport. Which I wouldn’t entirely independent but I have four kids here that I can’t live without
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 02:23 AM
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