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If this is the case then how do asexual people survive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:26 AM
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Not relevant to original argument. YOU mentioned Prince Charming not me. That’s extremely limited thinking to think you need to be born in to the “right” family but to each their own. Also “ridiculous“ is not an argument😂 It’s just sad you don’t know the difference between love and infatuation😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:24 AM
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No you don't. Being born in the right family is more than enough.. There's a reason women fantasize about Prince Charming I swear some guys are so delusional! Why do you want to be Prince Charming? A relationship is not a fairytale unless you just want a woman to love the idea of you so you can get in her pants. I mean do you want a fan or a wife/girlfriend? Just because woman fantasize about “Prince Charming” doesn’t mean they love them. They love the idea of the person. It doesn’t mean they tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:08 PM
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Yes….but most do. How can you make a point using exceptions to the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:25 PM
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😂😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:46 AM
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Men respect a prostitute who says she's a prostitute, they don't respect the girl on onlyfans/twitch who says she's an entertainer. That’s it right there, ladies and gentleman. We have found the misogynist. First of all, just because a woman is on OnlyFans and Twitch does not mean that she’s sexually promiscuous. For many women and also men, it’s just a means of income. Also, there is a difference between people paying to just SEE your body versus paying to actually have sex with you. Is a strip…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:08 AM
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“must tell all women to stop have sex or i no date you” hulk smash “must have sexxx! why no sex with me??”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:48 PM
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That's the point of my question, why you do it? what's stopping you? why you need to check when in the ons with average Joe you did not care about ltr? What’s the point of vetting if you’re just there for sex? If you JUST want to have sex with the person, you don’t need to know about their family, their background, their fears, personality, what school they went to, their profession, their values, their religion etc. If you’re just there for sex, why would those things matter? If it’s a ONS, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:41 PM
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I think the difference is some women see “just sex” as settling and men see “just sex” as their one and only goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:22 PM
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Why is it weird? The chads didn’t get a pass; they already failed probably on the first few dates are very early on in the dating process. The chads got exempted from the process because they’re not ltr material. So you settle for sex with them to get your rocks off until you find “the one.” Why do you need to vet if you’re just there for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:20 PM
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I swear some men have no self-control and are willing to do anything at the inconvenience of a woman for their own selfish desires 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:14 PM
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Let woman do what they want with their bodies. Damn you guys have your boxers in a bunch just because you can’t get some when you want it?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:13 PM
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Because some people don’t base their whole entire relationship or even a large chunk of it on sex. Spaced on personality, accountability, compatibility, shared values and lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:12 PM
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I have extremely similar sentiments. I really think that one night stands are only beneficial for the “Samantha Joneses” of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:11 PM
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It should be the same for “worthy women as well. But I’m sure you don’t want to have that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:03 PM
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At this point, I think most men and woman just view this differently. Men just want sex whether you’re committed or not😂 I’m not really sure how most men determine who they should be in a relationship or not. For most women, we would also like to have sex but, more often we need to hold off on sex until we can determine that you are ltr material in order to make a proper decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:01 PM
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Well, it’s abundantly clearly that you have some serious hate towards women since you think we’re all liars, frauds, hypocrites and cheats because you can’t get what YOU want. A woman cant use a man for sex What?😂 You’re just reaching for ideas. If you went on a date with someone and quickly realize that they’re not compatible with you but, they’re super hot, you can have sex with them only until you find your potential partner. If you went on a date with somebody and you’re not compatible with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:57 PM
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They can’t get what they want so they’re upset. They’re willing to get what they want sexually even if it’s at the expense of our values and compatibility. It’s disgusting and shows selfishness and lack of empathy as you were saying. They want us to treat them the same way that we treat ONS yet later on they will judge us saying “welp you should’ve chose a better quality partner.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:45 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:42 PM
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Because you could not come up with a quality answer you project what you think all women do while dating situations? Do you think we all omit our “strategy” as you call it? The fact that you even think it’s a strategy shows you already have bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:42 PM
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LOL no. Where are you getting these hypothetical situations from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:47 PM
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"Inconsistent" behaviour is often just learning from your mistakes and figuring out what you want. Exactly. If women living their life and learning from their mistakes makes you uncomfortable, you shouldn’t be dating to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:46 PM
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Why do you keep mentioning FDS? This is clearly a projection. YOU must see subs like FDS as representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:43 PM
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This is the problem. You see the men who get the ONS as being treated better. In a woman’s eyes, the man who get the one night stands are the ones who she will just cast aside and “use” for sex until she finds her potential husbands. I don’t understand how men don’t realize this. Maybe it’s better treatment for you but you’re not being treated better in the eyes of the women. To them, you’re just being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:13 PM
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What kind of question is that? I obviously know that people have one night stands but you don’t need an emotional connection to have a one nightstand. I’m not sure why that’s so hard to comprehend. Most women not all need to develop some type of emotional connection to you before they engage in any kind of sexual intimacy. Just because people like you can’t wait does not mean that they should compromise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:02 PM
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I hate this rhetoric of “withholding.” It’s like saying “Even if it’s uncomfortable for you, don’t make me wait for sex. I don’t care about the fact that you may not be ready. I can’t wait for sex and that’s all that matters.” How does that sound like LTR material? If you care about someone and are interested in being their boyfriend, you wouldn’t try to convince them or push them to have sex before they’re ready. What would be the difference between you and the all the others women that you onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:50 AM
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It depends on what you’re lying about. If you lie about wearing a condom during sex when you don’t put one on, that is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:25 AM
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You didn’t write it out clearly. You gave 2 extreme examples of a woman who’s never had sex before in comparison to a woman who’s had sex with 20 men. Studies show that women have sex with on average 5 to 7 men before they get married. So 6 is average. That emotion waiting shit only works for the type a woman. So no matter what your body count is, men want you to use the same tactics to pick up a “fuck buddy” or ONS as you would use for someone that you’re trying to have a long-term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:32 PM
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Thats because you think Men want to be treated the same as other men in your life.. dated more than one person at a time. Not true, they want to be treated BETTER than all the other men you've been with What? If you want be treated better then you have to earn that. What would make you stand out in comparison to all the other men that she’s dated? Do you share the same values? What’s your personality like? Do you have good character and morals? Do you treat other women, children, dogs, essential…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:42 PM
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Do you have the link to said study?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:35 PM
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According to what study? Study shows it it takes 6 to 8 weeks to fall in love. Studies also show it takes 3 to 4 dozen hours to begin to get to know somebody and become a friend, twice that many hours to become a good friend and twice that to become a best or close friend. I, personally, wouldn’t get in bed with an acquaintance. I think you could have a pretty amazing sexual attraction in one hour at a bar and a hell of a lot in common with each other but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:18 PM
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Years later she told me it was in that moment she knew that I wasn’t there just for sex (which is true) and the relationship took on a whole new tone. We have been attached at the hip ever since. This is beautiful. This is exactly what some women are looking for. It’s harder to tell your intentions in moments like these if sex is possibly clouding your judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:59 PM
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How was it illogical? Women are shamed for their body counts all the time. Those pair bonding studies are always coming up now., how you can’t pair bond with men as much and are more likely to get divorced the higher your body count is. But now women also shamed for “withholding” sex? That doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:53 PM
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You’re assuming that women only “withhold” sex for image which is so shallow. There are several reasons women don’t have sex with men they’re interested in. Some women don’t have sex with men they’re interested in because they want to get to know them on an emotional level first before the physical and hormones get involved. If you have a body count of 6 because you’ve been in 6 long-term romantic relationships, should you automatically give it up to a man on the third date because you have a bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:48 PM
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Exactly! It makes no sense! So you want me to have sex with you and every other guy I go on a date with by the third date but expect my body count to be -2? The math ain’t mathing!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:41 PM
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To you. That’s a connection to you. We all have the right to define connection how we would like to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:37 PM
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I apologize for the misunderstanding. I should’ve been more thorough and clear in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:35 PM
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Again, I have no problem sticking with male friends through hard times and helping them out as long as they do not use that as an opportunity to make some sort of advance towards me. I’m sure there may be other women who have been in similar situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:26 PM
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Exactly! It’s that simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:23 PM
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I don’t understand. Would they rather date a woman who is not physically attracted to them for the sake of being less selective? Would they rather date a woman does not like their personality for the sake of being less elective? This makes no sense. I feel like some men only like women who are less selective because they feel it benefits them and they are more likely to be chosen. Otherwise, the less selective women are shamed for not choosing good enough quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:15 PM
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Why do the same men who shame women for being “too selective” when they are the ones not being chosen the same men who say women are not selective enough when they date men with horrible character traits? These are also the same men that are extremely selective with whom their own daughters date when they have children later in life. The cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:10 PM
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This is not a even proper response or rebuttal. Yes! I have dropped male friends who were going through a rough time. I can see that you’ve pointed that out. This was after they started making romantic and sexual advances towards me after I tried to helped them through said hard times. I informed them that I was not comfortable with those advanced and that they may have misinterpreted my help as some sort of romantic gesture. I set boundaries saying that if they wanted to continue the friendship…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:51 PM
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Except when one of those new guys is you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:43 PM
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Women loathe losers, and even a badass who’s hurt and “opening up” starts to feel like a loser rapidly. Personally, I’ve never really dropped male friends who were going through a rough time because I “loathe losers”or couldn’t deal with a man’s feelings. It was more so that I didn’t want to give them the wrong impression. In the past, when I had tried to help out a male friend, over time, they started to see it as me taking interest in them or even if they did not like me before, they liked me …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:15 PM
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