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Are you sure nobody will know about makeup? I feel like in certain lights it would be obvious, and most women absolutely will judge a man for it, consciously or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:20 PM
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We’re talking at cross-purposes. I entirely agree that a lot of WMAF relationships don’t result in long-term happiness. I was talking about white western men having a better time dating in most countries. If the end goal is happy marriage and kids then I wouldn’t advise anyone to seek it in another culture. You’re exaggerating how bad it is though. The low-quality types certainly do exist, and yup US Army bases are a good example. But I would blame this on these men making stupid decisions, men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:13 AM
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“Greencardmaxxing” might be bullshit but so is your comment. I guarantee you haven’t actually lived abroad if you don’t think some women in many countries are lining up to marry (white*) western men. I’m not American but I am a white western man who has lived in East Asia, Central Europe, Russia and Eastern Europe and I can absolutely say without a doubt that dating is easier for most white western men in those countries, and it definitely isn’t all about money. If it was about scams and money t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:53 AM
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Very true. I’m always hearing about incels and their belief that they are entitled to sex and relationships but as a straight man I get that exact thing from romantically successful straight women who are the opposite of incels. One example is women who’ve asked me what I’m looking for in the early stages of dating, with me answering honestly that I’m looking for something serious and potentially life-long. Then when I realised I’m not into them enough and call it off or downgrade it they tell m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:17 AM
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/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 02:54 PM
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Family expectations are big yes but “wealthy westerners” are not a factor here. Not more than wealth matters back in the West anyway. I am talking about East Asia, so Japan, Korea, Taiwan, China, HK (I know a lot of China isn’t comparable). Certainly in Japan where I lived, Westerners who moved there were not usually wealthier than anyone they ended up dating. You’re thinking of South East Asia I guess where the wealth of a Westerner is a huge factor. I know E vs. SE sounds pedantic but it’s a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:20 AM
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I don’t think they are significant less/more likely to approach. I was talking about E Asian men approaching Western women who have moved to E Asia. A specific and relatively rare combination. If you’re wondering why that would be, I believe it is due fear, language barrier and family expectations and being less attracted to Western women (since they tend to be louder, more brash, more likely to approach men funnily enough... etc which are not generally attractive qualities in E Asia.).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:41 AM
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Absolutely not. The opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:24 AM
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Perhaps just misunderstanding. I didn’t mean her rejecting his kiss. I meant at the end of the date or something a man will be thinking “I should kiss her to show I’m interested” and she will be thinking “I hope he kisses me so I know he is interested”. That’s how things work. If she does not kiss him he will just think it’s because he was too scared to attempt to kiss her. Not that she must not be interested. Of course if he tried to kiss her and she pulls away or rejects that means she is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:20 PM
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Yeah I don’t have data and neither do you so we’ll just have to agree to disagree on that one. Apologies because I’m not sure how to say this without sounding patronising but I feel like you should know the the answer to that question about E Asia if you understood my previous comments. The reason Western men and E Asian women do frequently end up dating in E Asia is because as I said, Western men do not have this obstacle (that they are incapable of instigating and progressing relationships) be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:15 PM
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You’re just saying you know some people who don’t follow my generalisations therefore they are wrong. I know many people who fit outside the generalisations I made too. Doesn’t make them any less true. About the E Asia thing no. It’s not that at all. Men there take even more pronounced of a traditionally male and female role in straight dating. It’s just that E Asian men don’t initiate with Western women who have moved there. They still take the traditional role with local women. I didn’t realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:01 PM
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Yeah. Annoying that you have to throw the word “generally” into every single sentence otherwise someone will point out that they actually did once see a pig fly through the sky and therefore your entire point is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 06:32 PM
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We’re probably misunderstanding each other if that’s your conclusion, because young, well maybe, is nearly 30 young? But naive I don’t think so. I’m not going to spout my n count and relationship info on reddit for clout but I can assure you it’s not naive levels. To clarify, I meant that a man has never been on a date with a woman and sat there waiting for him to kiss her and assuming that if she does not it means she doesn’t like him. All men know that she expects them to make that move.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 06:28 PM
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Yes asking someone out but not just that. Also continuing the conversation flowing and asking them out again. Think AFTER the first date. Straight and bi women often take someone not sending them a message as meaning they are no longer interested. If straight men had that attitude they would be lucky to ever date anyone. The male role is to message, to ask out, but no it’s not just that. Even on the date, if the man doesn’t initiate and move things forward (eg. By kissing his date) then usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:52 PM
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I didn’t say lesbians don’t find mates, I said they only do if at least one of them takes the male role in dating. Clearly lesbians are capable of that or there wouldn’t be lesbian relationships. If both of them take the straight female role (as many bi women do) then the dating process doesn’t progress as it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:31 PM
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This attitude only works when men are the target. Look at lesbian women with this attitude, most of them struggle to date unless one of them adopts the male role in the dating process. I know tonnes of bi women who exclusively date and sleep with men almost entirely due to the fact that women don’t chase them and they only ever end up with someone who chases them. In straight dating almost all men are fishermen and almost all women are fish. Two fish will just swim around avoiding each other whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 03:02 PM
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Good advice. Hang out at a kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 10:59 AM
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Not following your question. Anyway do you mean he isn't sending replies or he isn't messaging you first? If it's the latter then you are both not texting, so he could correctly say the same thing about you, and if so, what would your answer be? Why haven't you texted him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:18 PM
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I think I can answer this. Before I, as a guy, "get" the girl then texts are an important part of getting her. I need to text the right thing at the right time in order to make dates happen and get her. Once I have her, there isn't anything to gain from pointless texts. I'll still send them when I want/need to send them. No girl that likes me is ever going to stop liking me because I don't text enough, the opposite in-fact. A girl being worried that I'm not texting enough or wondering if I might…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:05 PM
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How do you even get so blue-pilled you think patience is what gets people matches on apps? The algorithm will reward the attractive and women. Average-below guys just get zero matches, doesn’t matter how patient they are.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/21 12:01 PM
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You might become capable if you stop bringing up Greek sex gods or whatever tf that was...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:59 AM
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First of all both your lady bits and face must be attractive. The content on OnlyFans would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:08 PM
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Do you mean you're seeing a difference between settle down and settle down with someone? Because of course settle down with someone can mean something from going exclusive with them to moving in with them or marrying them. Whereas settling down in general could mean just to stop sleeping around, to buy a house, or to more generally live a more calm and less "immature" and free lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:10 PM
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If men were given the same extensive choices as women on dating apps they'd also go for the hottest women possible. Are you so sure? Very attractive guys do have the same extensive choices as women on dating apps and from what I've seen they have a very different attitude and will sleep with much more women of a wider range of attractiveness. Seems basic knowledge that most hot men would enjoy a ONS with an average woman whereas most hot women would not. I'm not "very" attractive but I've visite…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:08 PM
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But he is also shorter than me by a few feet. A few feet!!? That's a coffee spitting height difference. Wtaf gap are you talking here? Say you are a very tall woman at 6ft, he is 3ft? That's insanely short, much shorter than most dwarfs. That's Verne Troyer height. That would be a person who could grow 1ft and 10 inches and still medically be a dwarf.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:02 AM
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The question isn't if it's okay. It's if it is more or less bad for one gender than the other in hetero relationships due to having a different motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:26 PM
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. >=6/10 white men can experience effectively this same dynamic if they go to countries where they are more sought after. You just have to live in in a country where the number of women who want to date white/western men is greater than the number of white/western men. It’s not just non-white countries like people seem to think. Examples would be: Any ex-Soviet/Warsaw Pact country and all of Asia (with a partial exception being Japan and Korea), probably the Middle East, Africa and S America but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 12:22 PM
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I think there is a lot of misunderstanding from OP and most of the commenters here. Much of the “masochism” you are hearing about is not really what masochism is defined to be. In the sense that a lot of the vast majority of the time it is not the pain itself that people are enjoying. People who enjoy being spanked/whipped/pinched whatever often enjoy it purely because of the psychosexual allure of being dominated, not necessarily the endorphin rush of pain. I’ve been on both sides of S&M and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:39 AM
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I can’t tell you if most men do but I certainly don’t. It doesn’t make a difference to me what gender my friends are. It does matter if either party wants to fuck the other however, in that case it’s hard to have a genuine friendship because it will always be skewed by the fact that one or more parties is trying to escalate it to a fucking scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:35 PM
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