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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Boundaries or Control?	ADVICE	lonnycbb	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 01:08 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Boundaries or Control? Difficulty establishing boundaries in terms of letting men that haven't treated me the best still have access to me. I honestly don't post on social media as often as I did before, but photos have typically been photos of me from going out or from traveling (I go to the beach often and yes, some include photos of me in swimwear), photos with friends/family, a few selfies etc. On the topic of swimwear, he also does not want me wearing bikinis or swimwear that doesn't completely cover everything, …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 04:15 PM
1	Boundaries or Control? We have been dating for a year and a half now. I'll definitely take the time to examine why I feel some hesitatation. This is the first time I've had someone expressly state their discomfort in me speaking to persons of the opposite sex, whether I've had any history with them or not, or outline exactly how I should interact with them, so I found his stance somewhat excessive, especially when I feel like these aren't persons I'm remotely interested in. I've never been the type to keep men as 'bac…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 03:52 PM
1	Boundaries or Control? Thank you for your feedback. This was very helpful! And I like the suggestion. Yes, he was previously married and experienced infidelity so I do think there's a bit of insecurity there but I also acknowledge that my previous patterns of behavior in terms of maintaining contact are probably not the most beneficial to maintaining a healthy relationship. I just never really had anyone tell me who I can and cannot talk to or how I should communicate with the opposite sex before, so it was all a bit …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 12:59 PM

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