lookbeyondtheobvious Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	I rejected a super hot woman. It felt good. Was I too harsh? Don't worry, you did the right thing. There is nothing worse in the dating game than someone who is playing with you or wasting your time. Don't ask "Was I too harsh?" because that's what women do, second guess every move they make. If you felt the need to do this, and felt good about hitting send, you did the right thing. Now follow through with your action and move on to the next woman.	/r/askTRP	08/06/15 06:11 AM
10	Playing single moms? People make a ton of overly analytic points about single moms but really, there's just one thing to say that'll make you realize dating single moms isn't worth it. They won't make a lot of time for you, and you'll never be her #1 priority. Good luck making dates where it's just you two alone for long, the kid is waiting to get picked up from the daycare/ex/parents. Go ahead and see for yourself, that was just my experience that made me realize it sucked.	/r/askTRP	07/05/15 10:17 PM
1	Can someone explain to me how this works? He has more value than her and she knows it and is not willing to lose him so she does what he wants.	/r/askTRP	30/04/15 04:49 AM
0	Aargh. I would not recommend making a joke or comment about it because then you're acknowledging there might be a problem, and now there's pressure for you to "solve" the problem. The best thing to do is to take charge of the situation and get the body to perform its automatic processes of arousal by doing whatever gets you hard. For me, I described 3 methods. Some people might have other methods. The thing about arousal is you should not be "Trying" to get hard, getting hard is an automatic process ba…	/r/askTRP	24/04/15 08:00 AM
3	Aargh. Your body wasn't triggering its arousal state. You were so focused on her that your own arousal fell on the backburner. I had this same problem and was initially very worried, but then I realized I have to do certain things, or the girl has to do certain things and then I'll get hard. We're not 18 anymore, it takes more than just seeing a naked woman to get hard. Some things that let you enter your own arousal state: stand naked with her and make out, for some reason this really does it for me. …	/r/askTRP	24/04/15 06:20 AM
7	I have fallen in love, and the Oneitis has just enveloped me. Goddamnit You hung out with her twice and didn't make any moves? You've already lost. She's probably out with some guy who was bold enough to take her home this weekend.	/r/askTRP	05/04/15 06:32 AM
2	is this a shit test or what? Leave out the emoticon op	/r/askTRP	04/04/15 04:13 AM
2	Girl calls says she has a flat tire It's up to you. If you want to help her, then help her, you'll save her from a situation she has no idea what to do and will probably repay you for it. If you don't care that much, then don't.	/r/askTRP	04/04/15 04:12 AM
3	"I really like sex." You don't have to say anything at that point. Start taking her clothes off.	/r/askTRP	04/04/15 04:06 AM