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| 4 | Fellow short men: how do you break the ice about your height over dating apps, if at all?I’ve had success with dating apps before, that’s why I still bother with them. But yes the dating app game is harder. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Same shit happening with my best friend and his girl. We’ve been friends since middle school and now we only hang out 1 on 1 every few MONTHS. Although he makes sure to see his girlfriend every weekend. God forbid that doesn’t happen. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?I had this same hangup. Seems weird taking pledges to guys half a decade younger than me and with much less life experience. Plus, the costs. But I’ll think about giving it a shot. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | If I only text for logistics (like an autist) then how does a soft next really have any effect? Isnt a hard next just better?Yeah it’s pretty much a soft next. From my understanding, a hard next is blatantly telling a girl that you’re done with her and cutting contact abruptly. Soft next is giving her less and less attention over a period of time until she gets the picture that you aren’t interested in her anymore. If she hasn’t gotten the picture, it’s up to you to do what you want to do. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Yeah I live in the suburbs. Fuck man I don’t exactly wanna live in the city but I guess it’s kinda necessary. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Np. Make sure you read that sidebar before you post here. You’ll get shit on if you don’t. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 13 | If I only text for logistics (like an autist) then how does a soft next really have any effect? Isnt a hard next just better?This is one of those kinds of things I feel like you have to take or leave with TRP. Treat TRP like a religious person does their holy book. They pick the passages out that they like and don’t bother with some of the rest. Texting only for logistics is a doctrine that’s meant to ween men out of caring too much and giving too much of their attention to women, and falling into their orbits. Text her however much you feel is necessary — just don’t go overboard. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Yours as well, brother | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Yeah, perhaps it’s time for me to move on to better things. Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 7 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?These are all fair points. Perhaps I just don’t know exactly where to look. I was in the army for most of my adult life so the lifestyles of the people I knew were pretty binary. Single = living in the barracks, partying every weekend and chasing pussy Married = living in housing, hanging out with other couples every weekend and having drinks together If all my friends go to option B, I’m left here stumped, thinking “where else would I go? Is there no option C?” I guess I should just work on mee… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?I think this is the juxtaposition I’ve found myself in. I don’t really care for a LTR but at the same time, I don’t want to have to cut most contact with my close friends to chase pussy while they go on with their married lives. Imagine if all your friends went to a different university that you didn’t want to go to. You don’t want to go to that university, but fuck, all your friends are there, and you’re stuck here. I don’t give a shit about party lifestyle or going out to the bars and meeting … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Solid words. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Yeah, I’m 25. It is what it is. I think we’d be in this dilemma regardless of who the fat cat in Washington is, since this is how the rest of the world is right now anyways. Regardless, I try to be thankful for where I am. I’m lucky enough to have been born in the US where even in a pandemic, there are still options to date (even if one must try much harder). I’m sure many men in other parts of the world don’t have that option due to a difference of culture. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Yeah pretty much. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?I think you might be right about the moving thing. Truthfully I’m not looking to do any benders or whatever. Last time I got drunk was the summer of 2019. I like to practice a healthy lifestyle. I left the army in 2019 and then this pandemic shit happened after I enrolled in college. All my friends are in other parts of the world and it’s been tough to make new friends when most of my college experience has been masks and zoom rooms. Shit sucks. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Seems like after a certain age, your social circle becomes incredibly small unless you enter a LTR. How do you square this with TRP?Long term relationship. I believe there actually is a glossary in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | You're walking down a street with a girl you're on a date with and random dude slaps her assI think the needle to carefully thread here is to show protection and comfort but don’t get yourself in legal trouble. Immediately separate your girl from the situation and confront him, but not physically. If you throw a punch or something, you can catch prison time. That’s just how it is. And not many girls are worth prison time. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?Don’t walk straight up to someone. Just remark things whenever you’re next to each other like “Ah can’t wait for this weekend. I’m going out of town” and they’ll likely ask where. Or if you walk past, say good morning or good afternoon. If they return the favor, ask them how their day is going or how their weekend was. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Book recommendations to learn about Money/Finance/Investing?Yeah, I got that vibe a lot from his literature too. Bachelor Pad Economics is the only book of his that I’ve read, and from what he wrote, it’s pretty easy to tell he’s “anti-left” for lack of better terms, and seems to be one of those kinds of conservatives who throw the terms of socialism and communism around casually when they’re not really necessary. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Book recommendations to learn about Money/Finance/Investing?Second on Bachelor Pad Economics | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Help with career prospects?If career prospects and salary are decent for sound engineering or whatever, I’d say go with it. When choosing two differing careers, it’s not just the salary or jobs themselves that you must think about. You must also consider the opportunities that come with it. Where would you live if you went into maths? What about sound engineering? What kind of lifestyle can a maths salary give you? How would this salary change your daily life? Would sound engineering change it much? Would you have to move… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Will a girl every approach a guyEye contact, coming into your view unnecessarily, even sometimes initiating with something like “Can I borrow your pen?” are all ways that a girl shows interest. Not ALL the time. It’s entirely situational. The more experience you have, the more you’ll be able to pick up on these hints. Women initiate in a very covert, non-upfront manner. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 08:37 PM |
| 14 | My girlfriend’s mother keeps telling her not to do things for me and it’s starting to piss me off. What do I do?This was my takeaway from it too. Truthfully we on Reddit can’t see a 100% picture of what’s going on. It could be that OP is giving us an accurate picture, but I wouldn’t doubt that there is a hint of truth to what the MIL is saying. It may only sound bitchy because it’s coming from the MIL. No matter what my girl does, I’m going to clean after myself. That doesn’t mean she isn’t going to cook, sweep, do laundry for us, etc. it just simply means that I’m not going to leave dirty clothes on the … | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Need your advice..You should go on this trip, but your main focus should not be trying to hook up with this girl. If you do that, you’re going to spend the whole time thinking of her and not taking in a cool trekking trip, and you’ll likely be pissed and frustrated if nothing happens between you two. You should go on this trip to have fun, expand your social circle, and hell you should maybe hit on some of the other girls on the trip too. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | How to come off as a valuable person over text/phone?This is good advice here, OP. Solid pictures and a witty bio will get you a long way. Most guys don’t take many pictures, so most use outdated and/or shitty photos. Having good photos sets you apart from the rest. Bonus points if it’s a work photo in an attractive job uniform (just don’t make it try-hard as fuck like recruits often do in the military or police force). | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Should I pick up bartending as a side gig?Fuck it, why not? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | My father wants me blue-pilled really badly.Haven’t heard of this book until I read your comment. Thanks for this. Gonna add this one to my list. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 12:06 AM |
| 3 | What happened with my approaches today?Everybody has off days. Sounds like you just had a bad combination of uninterested girls and some nervousness. Take it with a grain of salt and try some other girls later on. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Are buzz cuts on men attractive?For men like me who have thin receding hair, a buzz cut is usually the best option. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 01:04 PM |
| 5 | Girl flies to US to see other guy, but insists on spending one day just with meMaybe I should have been a bit clearer in my question. I’m not asking for permission lol. What I’m wondering is if she wants to see me simply for the sake of seeing me or if she’s actually DTF. I guess it doesn’t hurt to just hang out and find out. What’s to lose. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 02:12 AM |
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