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| 0 | Common theme I have heard from women including my ex wife: I never loved him. Rant.Not me or any other woman he dated was over 40, and the only one on meds and over 40 is my ex lol. Actually both of them. And both of them take mental illness meds. Now, it’s true mental illness is a huge problem for the masses these days, but not just women like you seem to be implying. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Common theme I have heard from women including my ex wife: I never loved him. Rant.I guarantee you it may be true in some cases (and going both ways) but that it’s also a defense mechanism, just like men saying everyone ex was “crazy”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | "AP is a great guy, I think you would really like him,"I think the simple and short answer is 1- people are largely selfish 2- people are largely mentally ill and 3- people are largely perverted to much higher levels then once were. Combine the three, total disaster. I started wondering if relationships are really worth it anymore. I desire a heterosexual monogamous relationship where we are loyal and honest. So very few have that! I think another reason people lie and hide is that can’t face their actions and thought patterns. If they saw someone e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | "AP is a great guy, I think you would really like him,"First ex husband wanted me and his AP, whom he later married, to all be friends, vacation together and what not. I don’t know what planet they’re from but I’m from earth and the answer was and still is 9 years later hell no. Currently in process of divorce number two in which STBX continues to deny he’s ever done anything wrong, all while having plenty of f-buddies and a what’s starting to look like, girlfriend….. And anyways, why does the one cheating lie and hide if so much?! You know, they kn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way?Wow, sounds like we were with the same person! Today was a hard day. Finding more of his infidelity is shaking me all over again, it’s like really you can’t even wait till the divorce is final?! Oh well. One day at a time. I look forward to when this is far behind me. You’re so right about hind sight. Hang in there | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way?Yea me too. You’re one of the people that felt sorry for him in his pathetic little “poor me” pile of lies. It’s ok though. On here you take people at face value. That’s the first mistake I made with him because he came off like the ultimate “nice guy”. His friends are no longer speaking to him. Even though he quoted them, they’ve not spoken to him. They’re beyond mad to find out he’s played them for decades. Kind of a tough thing to bite when you find out someone you’ve cared about, included as… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 11:54 AM |
| 3 | I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way?Here’s my experience, because I know EXACTLY how you are feeling. Location sharing showed my husband in a woman apartment; to which it took quite a while for him to answer my text/call/FaceTime. He started daily missing one sex pill for a boner a day (form of viagra) but was almost always denying me sex, to the point I cried often because I felt he wasn’t in to me (married only a few months when this started happening, the no sex part). Refused me any access to his phone, would turn away so I co… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/21 07:49 PM |
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