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1

Holup... I have seen this exact same post by you before, I think you posted a few months ago. Wtf is going on?
/r/seduction18/04/20 07:29 PM
2

geez is this a guy phishing account? tf outta here lol
/r/seduction17/04/20 11:05 PM
3

w t f is this? lmao
/r/seduction15/04/20 01:35 AM
1

Vulnerability can be a good thing. Especially as explained in Models. I've done it myself and I thrive off of it because it also helps the other person become more vulnerable to get more involved with you. The tricky part is how you express yourself, the time and circumstance. Don't just go out there and dump your all your feelings and issues with the girls you date, ya know? That's what people mean about "coming off strong" We would have to talk about specific examples.
/r/seduction06/04/19 09:30 AM
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Lmao, I've bumped teeth before, even after being with my gf but not so hard. What ended up happening between you two?
/r/seduction23/01/19 08:44 PM
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I don't know why I said that
/r/seduction09/12/18 11:44 PM
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Call it the cycle: 1st base is build up and make out, 2nd base hands on boobs and ass, 3rd base pussy and ass and beyond the 1st base, home dicky dick found a vagina to give a nice warm hug... grandslam all the above but wait there's food and some more, so there ya go cycle lol ​ Ps.PersonalNote: I did have alcohol in the system when typing this, good idea past self
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:23 AM
5

Oh geez this is cringe funny that you will laugh about in the future. It happens to anyone, some more than others who have practice. If I were you I would suck it up, play it normal, and stay at your job. It's not like jobs grow on trees anyways. Really dude, this is no biggie.
/r/seduction01/10/18 07:54 PM
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*tear laughing emoji*
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:30 AM
1

Models is a book to give you a few tips but rather to make you question your essence so you can figure out how to develop based on honest principles. I feel like the big idea is that you should be genuine but learn how to express sexuality so you can advance in you romantic/sexual pursues.
/r/seduction28/09/18 06:50 AM
11

Brooo, bro?
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:03 PM
4

I don't know why I'm still amused that they sell the programs for people to get laid and people buy it with that purpose... Like the guy you said fucked 27 girls in 8 weeks because of program as if it was a magic catalyst. I learned quite a bit from the RSD channels when I was younger (around 17 to 18, 22 in 1 month) but eventually figured that there was lot of filler, rambling to make videos seem interesting. Yes, good content here and there. Eventually I decided to make my own path whether fuc…
/r/seduction14/08/18 02:23 AM
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I think what he's saying is to not give all of yourself away too quickly even after you've had intimacy. Somehow I've been doing the opposite (showing too much) yet manage to keep things kindled. Granted, our sex connection is interesting and highly pleasurable. You give away little bits here and there, and every once in a while talk a little more about the things that are closer to you.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:00 PM
1

*sniff* don't we already have some people doing this... girls find out, then you're like "uh research purposes". I'm just casually making fun because it's seen around the seduction/pick up community as normal thing. If I were you I would look around amazon.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:17 PM
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I'd say it's ok familiarizing with some of this stuff but not like you have to learn. If you convey yourself adequately you'll meet more girls that suit your personality. The whole "I love to travel, eat pizza, and go on adventures" bio on tinder is so fucking cliche. Then you meet these bitches in real life and they don't have a single fun story abut "their travel adventures". Do you but observe here an there, eventually you will be familiar enough to know what people are talking about. Btw, do…
/r/seduction13/07/18 06:09 AM
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Make sure you go at least 2 or 3 rounds to make the best out of it $$ heheh ;D
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:13 AM
1

This is some good shit yo!
/r/seduction12/07/18 03:46 AM
1

Yeah 8 makes sense. I've had some endeavors with 28 and 30 year old when I was 19 and 20.
/r/seduction12/07/18 03:45 AM
1

There's this quote from 50 shades, goes something like this "I'm old enough to know what I want in my physical pursuits". Honestly play it like you don't care. It all comes down to how you convey yourself.
/r/seduction12/07/18 03:44 AM
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Who brought up the age topic? Unless you look really young who fucking cares. You can drink obviously. You don't make a big deal out of it, do you, and act mature. A 4-5 year difference in the 20s is normal. My GF is going to be 26 soon and I'll be 22 a month later.
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:46 PM
1

Are you still in the relationship that you go into? Care to provide any status on how things are going?
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:52 AM
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That's a negative and dark perspective (IMO). How about going into something without expectations, then dealing with situations as they come along?
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:49 AM
1

So, time to set up a fun date/encounter :)
/r/seduction30/06/18 04:27 AM
4

If you smell that she's being opportunistic, she probably is. I could be wrong. I feel like a considerate woman in a situation like this would ask if you can help find the tickets but not blatantly ask to buy both. Never had a woman ask me for anything like that. Rather the opposite; they would offer to pay on some dates because I've taken the lead on the previous dates, which is something I naturally do. Well, just some thoughts my friend, what the fuck do I know, let's see what other people sa…
/r/seduction30/06/18 04:25 AM
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I'm dating exclusively right now and since the beginning I always asked her to text me when she got home. In the past there were girls I didn't care so I wouldn't ask for the "got home text", for some I still did it out of courtesy. Many women would appreciate at least that. It shows confidence when you can demonstrate that "provider/caretaker" energy. If places in FL were at walking distance I would walk them home if they lived on their own or just nearby they lived with parents. It's up to you…
/r/seduction29/06/18 05:18 PM
5

And that's after sleeping at her house three times? Either she's playing hard to get, maybe giving herself more value, or you're not making any moves at all. Is she scared of sex? Religious?
/r/seduction27/06/18 12:41 AM
4

Can you provide some context?
/r/seduction24/06/18 09:05 PM
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Moral dude. If it matters to you drop it on them that you'd like to be friends, you don't want to stir up trouble. If moral is not a big deal to you, maybe you don't care what you're getting into, it could be a one time thing. What I said about friends I meant it because you can work into their circle and probably hook up with some of their friends. Last thing, if you all are having a crazy night out and say fuck it, shit happens, oh well, another life experiment I guess. Personally, with the wa…
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:17 PM
8

Might want to start using the word "pretty" instead and make sure you sound genuine. Also, follow up with something after she says aww.
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:10 PM
2

Second that. You put it nicely but can also be a confidence issue. We all know how good us adults (late teen), in fact everyone, is at hiding emotions.
/r/seduction19/06/18 01:48 AM
1

A drink might help, not being trashed or shitfaced. I've approached completely sober and slightly tipsy. I hate talking to girls when drunk because I'm not articulate and fast enough. When I was younger I learned from my tipsy behavior and mimicked it when sober, surprisingly that helped a lot.
/r/seduction09/06/18 01:38 AM
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Dude wtf, some people gave you solid advice and you still bring up the justification that you can "go to another gym because it's a chain". Stop that shit or you'll be a pussy forever. If anything I see that seeing her before the date can be positive. For one, you might see her around and want to work harder. Plus, when you see her around you can tease a little bit and build some good sexual tension for the date. Feel your environment and act as you feel. All these limitations and excuses don't …
/r/seduction09/06/18 01:32 AM
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Ok, for a serious reply I'll tell you from my experience. Some of these probably right swiped you randomly, others not. I don't know what's the response rate you got but for me out of 20 I would probably get 10 responses. Out of 10 maybe 5 got passed the first reply. Out of those 5 maybe I really liked one. But if I was horny enough I would try to get as many dates as possible... Moving on to the practical side. If they keep talking they're interested. Always give them the option "what's your sc…
/r/seduction04/06/18 06:13 AM
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For me; Learning to tell the difference between what is true and what your horny brain wants the truth to be is the most difficult and important part of seduction. Dude, this is so real. Horny brain is crazy to the point it bends self confidence for the sake of pussy. I'm in a different place now compared to a few months ago. Being more grounded and confident atm.
/r/seduction03/06/18 08:30 PM
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IMO, you were talking too much in tinder. My rule of thumb is to keep it short-medium. Once they look interested move on to SC to establish a trustworthy presence. From there set up a date or whatever.
/r/seduction02/06/18 06:34 AM
0

In these situations I laugh at myself because of such incomplete interactions... Like hey I'm a human being I'd rather be told to fuck off than ignored lol
/r/seduction01/06/18 11:37 PM
1

You won't lose anything by double texting but it might be time to move on. It's a big world man, she could've met someone, forgotten about you, going through other experiences. Possibilities are many. I've been there a few times. Who knows, maybe she'll open up again. I don't mean to be an asshole.
/r/seduction01/06/18 05:43 AM
1

This goes both ways. Sometimes when you are not interested in a girl you can say "hey you're nice but I'd rather be friends" , she might say "oh am I not attractive? you don't like me?" . Not good to sugar coat it so you can respond "I don't feel the relationship chemistry" , "I don't visualize you and em like that"
/r/seduction30/05/18 09:25 PM
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My friend, I have a simple way to say it; start being "bold". If you want to compliment her lips do that, if you want to say you hate a type of beer say it, if you wanna kiss her do it, laugh about yourself, tease around... If you can build comfort that's a good thing regardless, but you have to make a MOVE!
/r/seduction29/05/18 03:27 AM
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In my opinion it's good to keep reading more books. Options are abundant. If you feel like you need to go over a concept go back to one of those books but what's the benefit of reading it over and over? Might as well practice the concepts in real life instead of fixating on the words. If there is one I can recommend, but I've only listened audiobook is "Unfuck Yourself" by Gary John Bishop.
/r/seduction28/05/18 12:41 AM
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Ok nice. And dude, I really don't care whether you're lying or not. I only meant to discuss the context of the sentence. To each their own.
/r/seduction28/05/18 12:34 AM
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I understand your argument and the people against it. In fact, I like how it's a little edgy. You do know how the word "if" sets implications, right? My take on this is that if you you this line move quickly from the joke to the conversation and say something along the lines "hahahah I'm fucking with you, not gay" or "well you're in luck because I'm not gay" ... I can see this going in good and bad directions. I guess if you're good at framing it, then keep doing it.
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:52 PM
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It only becomes more awkward if you think about it that way. The manner I picture this is scouting a store in a mall, a chill one. Better to go for a relaxed girl that has looks like has leeway with time. Going for a girl whom is in a rush might not work. Idk, some idea... Be like "can I help you find anything?" she tells you yeah so and so, you go like "ohh I think I've seen it in this section" bla bla blah... possibilities are open after that. Now you're stuck in the women's section lol. But y…
/r/seduction27/05/18 03:00 AM
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Good vid... guys off topic but on the new reddit design the last comment of the page gets cut off, I've tried zooming out but doesn't work. Anybody knows how to fix this?
/r/seduction22/05/18 08:11 PM
2

Hey buddy, look I've been studying the creeps out there and how they approach. If you look at a girl in the eyes and tell them something genuine you shouldn't feel like a creep. Granted, we're not perfect and some things might slip here and there, but also remember that not every person is the same so you might come off like a creep to a girl but not to another girl. Here's an example of a creep, the most common one that I see around college and downtown; girl or group of girls dancing, guy come…
/r/seduction22/05/18 07:51 PM
0

Change your question to a statement such as "Hey I'm still good for tonight" . I used to do the question you wrote and it portrayed me somewhat insecure. Btw, apparently, with college girls sometimes you have to confirm more than one time...
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:59 AM
1

this guy fvcks, good stuff my dude
/r/seduction19/05/18 06:57 PM
34

Oh darn it, re-read the post and he mentioned cousin lol
/r/seduction18/05/18 11:23 PM
-38

care to explain ?
/r/seduction18/05/18 09:56 PM
1

Thanks for letting me know about the meds. I've also taken ritalin before and would get awful headache crashes. I feel you on the practice thing. That's also why I don't take these flings too seriously. It's like test driving cars too lol.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:46 PM
2

Dude you saved me righting a post, a post that I would already know the answer to. Screw it, got cravings gotta satisfy your body. And like someone said "sombody's gotta bang the chubbies too". I've come to learn I'm a little above average, even better when I have a fresh haircut, my facial hair and structure is pretty good too. A good friend told me a couple of months ago he couldn't believe the average and below average girls that I was fooling around with. He told me I have potential for a lo…
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:34 PM
3

This is good stuff. I'll be using the "on time thing" response from now on.
/r/seduction09/04/18 12:19 AM
1

With the one from a month ago yeah she explicitly told me more than two times not gonna have sex then when we were making out outside the bar I pressed her hand against my friend down there... wasn't even 5 minutes in my place and things got more heated. She told me at the bar "I have morals" hahahah. Then I told her "of course we're not gonna have sex" in super sarcastic tone that she took seriously.
/r/seduction09/04/18 12:01 AM
2

Haha of course! I should start posting some, been getting a lot more action since last summer than in my whole collective life.
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:07 AM
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Good job man ! Nice to see a coherent story around here. The "we're not gonna have sex" thing happened to me with the other tinder girl I met 1.5 month ago(we're still in contact). Even though there was no penetration we fooled around and she finished me with blowjob. Anyways, funny shit when I read hickeys I ran to the bathroom to check myself out in the mirror because last night I fooled around with a girl i her car after talking at the beach. I hope your endeavors go well with this woman, goo…
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:57 PM
2

A loy of us learn this the hard way, yhe sooner the better. Gotta get into the idgaf mode
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:32 AM
2

Hey, not here to judge idgaf about how you do your business but is that an open relationship?
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:33 AM
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