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DATING ADVICElookitsmeyay/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 06:28 PM
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1) I identify with being domineering. Whenever I feel like controlling the situation in a way that would undermine my partner, I just STFU. I'd offer my opinion and then let him do whatever. Now this is NOT a way to handle something like boundaries. Been there, done that, ends up being fucked up because we see red flags our partners might be blind to. If you are uncomfortable, SPEAK the fuck up. Any man that respects you won't want you to feel bad about yourself while being with them. STFU (afte…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 06:01 PM
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Ew. Sounds like an awful partner, and I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you learn from this experience! Now you know what to look out for in your next partner, whenever you're ready for another partner, if you ever want another partner, but for now I hope you know that you need to distance yourself in order to let yourself grow and process everything. The text sounds kind of attention seeking, but sometimes it feels good to be petty. I understand that. It can give you closure. I would recom…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 05:25 AM
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To answer your question, pretty girls ARE allowed to be funny. Duh. BUT do they hone their skills as much as others do? They do not have to rely on being good at comedy (reading people, comedic timing) because everyone already gives them attention for being attractive. This means they never get truly honest feedback from men. When a young woman feeds on the positive attention she gets from men that stems from pure sexual desire, she doesn't get punished for being wrong. People don't disregard he…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 07:25 AM
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Oh that's right! I forgot about that. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 05:47 PM
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Out of curiosity, is there such thing as an Alpha widower? Can a man be satisfied with someone worse than his previous partner?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 04:43 AM
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I appreciate this! You're right. Completely right. Everything was perfect, and according to him, can be again. And even in its most perfect moments he found a way to fuck it up. Right after we got plane tickets too! Oh god I feel so dumb. But you're also right about me moving forward. I can! Nothing is stopping me! If he's sad that's on him for being stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:39 PM
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Thanks for the insight! He did say there was nothing at all emotional or mental about the encounter. It was purely physical and a blur. I think I'm trying too hard to see this from his point of view though. I should focus more on myself and how I feel. What I see in my future.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:32 PM
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Thank you for your perspective! You're right, trust is very fragile. Idk if I can trust fully again. And even if I can I'd always be bitter about what happened. He has said he'll give me all his passwords so I can look at everything, but that won't help. I don't have the time or energy to constantly snoop. And really, anything can be deleted.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:30 PM
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I appreciate the candid comment! You're absolutely right. I definitely have not invested much. Obviously I'm very glad about it! She is leaving in mid-September for unrelated reasons. I think it's not even the precedent, it's the fact this happened at all and now other things falling into place. It's tough.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:28 PM
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Maybe! And she's not admitting it either.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:24 PM
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Thanks for your experience! You're right, I'd question absolutely everything. He travels for work sometimes and I don't think I would be able to trust that. At all. His roommate will leave mid-September for unrelated reasons, but even then, I can't see myself in that place. It is suspicious. You're right. She said they didn't fuck too but I can't confirm.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:24 PM
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I appreciate the response! I think if they were both sober, that would be one thing. BUT they both could barely remember. According to them. Of course I can't confirm. Then again I'm sure you never got drunk with your roommate. You're completely right. He does. This was my first relationship and I thought he WAS mature. We would play video games together occassionally. It's not something he did often. Same with drinking. I guess I never put it together.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:20 PM
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Thanks! This makes me feel a lil better. I am still young. I have solid values and good looks. I can definitely start from scratch.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:17 PM
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Thank you! You're right. Cheating is a deal breaker. He was my first relationship and I never really thought much about the female roommate. Everyone has a roommate where I live. She is moving out for unrelated reasons in the middle of September, but even then, I don't want to go back there. Who would? You're absolutely right. He would.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/18 07:16 PM
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I went through your post history and you summed it up pretty well when you talked about how difficult it is to pick a place to eat. I agree that food is a personal experience and sharing it with someone brings you two together! But if you can't share it, it'll create a divide. My challenges come from the fact that my partner is very big on meat and has a pretty limited palette. He likes specific and familiar tastes and most of them pertain to animal products. As you can imagine, it's difficult t…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 12:01 AM
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I'm vegan! It has made dating hard and there are some challenges I face with my partner, but I wouldn't live any other way. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 12:29 AM
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I'm an introvert and when I say I need time to myself I mean I need the house to be empty so I can bum around and play video games all day. Having food available is nice too, maybe a favorite snack. Granted, I'm not a man, but I know the struggle of wanting to be alone but being forced to deal with another person always hovering. Sometimes an empty house is better than a full one, so leave for a day every week and enjoy yourself. Accept one of those invites you always reject and go alone. Have a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 10:12 PM
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It's annoying af to me. I've never been in a long term relationship, but the one man I dated for a little while was incredibly up front and open and I ADORED that about him. Whenever anyone pulls the "oh look at me and my secrets you'll never know" card I roll my eyes and make a mental point that they shouldn't be trusted. I personally think I'm incredible, even on my off days, so I never find the need to prove myself. Trust begets trust, distrust begets the same. This would 100% work on a girl …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 03:12 PM
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To each their own. I personally know many women who get annoyed when someone they want a long term relationship with refuses to disclose things. If they are personal/private matters, it's a different story since the person has to feel comfortable enough. ACTUALLY. I just realized it could be working not because of the "air of mystery," but because the women are trying to prove themselves as worthy of being trusted. Humans value the things they work for, information included.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 09:28 AM
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You are a great person. Thank you for being kind and trying to humanize instead of just thinking the worst of everyone. It's much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 06:42 PM
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I like the cut of your jib.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 05:07 PM
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You are living the dream. This is what I want one day. Just me, some dogs, some books, a piano, and a garden. Friends as a luxury, not a necessity.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:41 PM
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Why 30,000? I'd be OK with just me and some incredible person. In terms of population, less is definitely more.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:35 PM
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Of course I quote statistics and you come back with "hur dur meat." Brilliant response.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:16 PM
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As long as you are educated about your choice and don't automatically bash veganism because "hur dur bacon." I just like people to know the impact they have and the problems we face. No matter how you look at it, animal products are not sustainable. Instead of glorifying them and vilifying those that choose to not purchase them, people should just look at the facts and understand their decisions and the decisions of others. A 100% cruelty-free lifestyle would be impossible unless you have the re…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:15 PM
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Right, more efficient resources are plants. You can grow them vertically and they don't need to be fed other plants. All the plants we currently grow can support a population of about 10 billion. We just feed these plants to animals. Read this:http://www.worldwatch.org/node/549
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:12 PM
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I would recommend https://www.eatthismuch.com/ for planning meals and http://veganbodybuilding.com/?page=food has some good sample bodybuilding plans. You can also google "vegan -" for vegan versions of your favorite meals, like pizza or mac n' cheese. Google "vegan high protein recipes" for more ideas. I personally use eatthismuch. I set protein to 40% and I don't have a problem reaching my goals. Most sources are seeds and nuts, beans, tofu, oats, legumes, and whole grains. You can also eat fa…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:10 PM
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Punish animals for surviving? In cases where humans have to kill other humans in order to survive, usually the killer is forgiven. It's not preachy, it's education. Most people are not aware of the facts. I've had people message me asking about the protein aspect, the environmental aspect, the morality aspect. People just don't think about this and why would they when society does not demand it? I know subsidies are responsible for cheap meat. Capitalism is not a perfect system, but I'm not delu…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:32 PM
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Ha! I'm down. Just strand us all on an island beforehand so I can have a good reason for doing so.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:28 PM
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Yeah, but we barely have enough land for factory farms. I think having a diet that relies on hunting animals in a forest is unrealistic for a majority of the population. Also the time. And the weapons (which cost money). And many people would feel uncomfortable with this.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:55 PM
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Very true. I like to go on subreddits that promote new ideas and logical thought. For whatever reason, veganism is always brought up and bashed. I always think if I just provide the facts people will reevaluate their stance, but this rarely happens. I like your attitude and you're completely right about the good advice. Thanks for not being an ass.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:46 PM
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Is there anything here that is not factual? What happens is torture. They do experience emotional pain. And then I provided an example of this.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 09:14 PM
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Actually, meat, dairy, and eggs require more land per calorie than wheat, potatoes, and rice. Here's another tidbit on sustainability and calories. It's in the food productivity section: Let’s say we have 20,000 kcal [kilocalories] of corn. Assume that we feed it to cattle (as we do with about 70 percent of the grain produced in the U.S.)…. The cow will produce about 2,000 kcal of usable energy from that 20,000 kcal of corn (assuming 10 percent efficiency; the efficiency is actually somewhat hig…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 09:12 PM
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It's now common knowledge that animals ARE sentient. Here's another source. Consider this: you are against those that torture animals themselves. But you are not against those that support industries where animals are tortured on a large scale with both emotional and physical pain. Dairy: Cows have their babies taken from them. They cry. Milked to the point they bleed and leak pus. Eggs: Chickens live in cramped conditions. Have parts of their bodies cut off without anesthesia. Meat: Again, body…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 08:42 PM
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To be fair, humans were meant to eat whatever they can get their hands on. Modern vegans support the idea that we are expending too many resources to support factory farms instead of giving them to fellow humans. As for morality, it is no secret that the conditions within these factories are horrible and go against the basic rule of ethics, which is "do not cause unnecessary pain." Rebuttal? With no illogical emotional statements please.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:59 PM
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It depends. Flawless men are intimidating and it's difficult for some women to feel at ease with someone that they see as "perfect." However, there are other women that would find a flawless man appealing and consider them a challenge. Different strokes for different folks. When I explained people looking for the perfect person, I meant perfect for them, not perfect in general. Perfection is an ideal, a figment of the imagination. I'm not too focused on attracting anyone right now. I'd much rath…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:59 AM
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My comment was a bit simplified, but obviously you shouldn't expect your perfect person/people to admire you if you have nothing to offer. Adapting to one's lifestyle is possible in certain areas, but not in others, and this differs depending on the personality of said people. For example, you can't be with someone that wants children if you don't. Ultimately, they envision their lives revolving around this shit machine, and no matter how compatible you are with them or they with you, you simply…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 10:18 PM
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This was so well written. Bravo. Everyone should be mindful of the desires of other people. Whether they want marriage, kids, a relationship, whatever is their business. Changing somebody to fit you is pathetic. The goal is to find someone that is what you want, not to find someone happy with their lives and make them miserable so you can be happy.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 09:25 PM
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Is that what you think of everyone that writes a bibliography?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:38 PM
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This is irrelevant, but you just summed up the plot of season 3 of the American Horror Story .
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:34 AM
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Maybe because she was writing about her personal experiences? It's difficult to write a first-person story using only second- or third-person pronouns.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:31 AM
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Bees used for farming honey are not necessarily the same ones that pollinate crops. "But beekeepers, particularly those who have very large-scale operations, do not always live close enough to the right food sources to support all of the bees. Some supplement their bees' natural foods with manmade nectars and purchased pollen. Others rent their bees to farmers, who use them for crop pollination."
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 12:15 AM
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